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I Am a Virtual Recluse But Love People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Both By My Upbringing, and By Location.

    I was never "the friend" and never was a social person as a youngster and now, I find that the few opportunities here are either willfully ignored or are never encountered.  I plant to get to a place where there is more diverse surroundings and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    Misery

    Dont now whats wrong with me, iwork 4 days a week feel confident going out during the day but make any excuse not to go out in the evening............Just come out of a 6 year relationship where all i did was focus on his problems and loan him money sit in his flat on my own...
    38whr 38whr 51-55 Feb 25, 2012

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    Prisoner of Ignorance

    People tell me I need to get out more. I physically can't, access for wheelchairs here sucks. Thank you to all who have suggested I "write to my local member". I am a leader of the disability community here and constant seminars and lobbying has done nothing to open...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F Oct 15, 2008

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    Virtually Speaking Or Reality Speaking?

    I'd say I have a nasty tendency of being both. I love socializing and talking until forever with friends and new people I meet. Then this overwhelming need to wave a magic wand and disappear pops in. Possibly anxiety? It's always at really weird times too. I'm laughing so hard my...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 4 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    Hi Scarlett Here

     I work as a psychic advisor and am very good at it. I can tune into people quickly and I know if they are hurting, lying etc.   The reason I am often alone at home is because I meet people who are too needy,  they want to latch onto me and ring me or come over just want...
    scarletthearts scarletthearts 51-55, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Painful Interactions With Others

    Hi, I guess I'm not the only one.  I thought.."maybe there's actually a support group for people like me".  It's as though I love people too much and when out in the world the seemingly harshness of it all stuns me.  I am actually a psychiatric nurse...
    Psigrl Psigrl 56-60 5 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    No matter how cruel, disgusting, self righteous people can seem to be in general. I find it easy to find the good and inner beauty in everybody. A lot of people may have a hard...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 1 day ago

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    I really love people. All kinds of people. I love getting to know them, what they like, what they do; I like learning what makes them special.
    Irwood Irwood 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I just need to vent right now. I really hate my mom but love her too, cause she's my mom. But I'm tired of her constantly putting me down, trying to change my life choices, getting...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I fall in "love" at random with people I pass by on the streets or in restaurants. I know I'll never talk to any of these people, and most of the time I'll forget about them and...
    mamaofmanymenaces mamaofmanymenaces 26-30, F Jun 28

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    Those kind of people really make me think twice about my life and changing it to the best if my ability. People with so much passion for life are the best people to look up to and...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Every since I was a little girl, I was super shy. If I met new people, I would be super quiet around them. But when I feel more comfortable around people and feel I can trust them...
    Littlewallflowerx Littlewallflowerx 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Kindness is wonderful. When I was a poor student years ago. I lived in a flat. In the same block there were several elderly people and I would always stop and chat if I ever saw...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I like people who have a sense of individuality. I love expression & anything awkward & imperfect, because that’s natural & that’s real.
    sillymo88 sillymo88 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I love to observe people, in the less creepiest way possible haha
    cults cults 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am so shy but I always love to meet new people. I have always been shy. I don't even really message anyone on here just becuase I'm scared of what they will think.
    Tjw241 Tjw241 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I do get weary sometimes in circumstances I'm uneasy about, but I cannot express how my friends, all my loved ones are truly cherished and thought of. All people are precious, I...
    AnnRhodes AnnRhodes 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I love positivity😘😘😘😘😘
    st777 st777 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Im bad at starting conversations yet I love making friends (:
    tm0801 tm0801 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I've been fortunate in life to meet a few Cubans. Their stories always intrigue me. I love their strength, their warmth and their happiness. Learning about Cuba's history intrigued...
    SynapticSpark SynapticSpark 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think is awesome when someone is passionate about a topic, but can argue their points eloquently and with respect to the opposing side. It makes for a lively discussion, and not...
    grinface grinface 22-25, F Jun 29

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    "We can't help everyone, but everyone can help someone." ~Ronald Reagan
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 3

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    I am shy so I probably won't reach out and message you first but please feel free to message me.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Love is like digging a hole. We all try to reach the gold, and rejection being the first shovel full into a relationship, and heartbreak being the point where you have to pick up...
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M Jul 19

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    She just said to me today "You listen to me, if you continue to be scared of people I'll disown you. Leave you penniless without help to suffer. Then you'll learn not to be afraid...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F a week ago

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    I love being a teenager, but I hate it, like... 1: I love it because you can get by with being immature, but I hate it cause so many teens are immature 2: I hate it cause you...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Agreed i love love sleeping but its wasted hrs sort of. But w do need our rest
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    My mom has always been there for me. Or so I though...I've lived with her for nigh on 12 years and I've pretty much just been forced to see, in a good way, that my mom has...
    BluePaws55 BluePaws55 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Or maybe I just don't like my bathroom... But either way, getting into the shower is such a pain in the neck.
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F Jul 17

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    It sucks so bad! Who else hate the teen years?
    ItsSwagGurl19 ItsSwagGurl19 13-15, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I'm obsessed with giving Anal.......
    switchflicker90 switchflicker90 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I am simply not beautiful.
    Kaylaana Kaylaana 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    cause im really really bored!!!!!!
    paige100 paige100 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I don't care If person is handsome/pretty, just a smile enough for me.
    Jaqiem Jaqiem 16-17 Jul 16

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    Someone tell me how they'd torture me into submission please! I really need this, ;) someone older please and thank you
    ccja ccja 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    hey im maddie if anyone needs to talk im here...(:
    1stayingstrong 1stayingstrong 16-17, F a week ago

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    I'm shy and have a hard time messaging someone at first because normally they pretend to be my friend the whole time
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    The Sweet Stranger.....This morning I was deadheading flowers in my small front yard. A man walking his dog crossed the street to stop and compliment me."I walk the dog down your...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife and I invited a stranger into our motel room.
    rcee831 rcee831 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I stay on my phone all night and wake my friends up. Mainly because theres too much on my mind to sleep.
    SteffXRocker SteffXRocker 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I smoke weed & stuff but I mean, that's not why I wanted to post under this... I wanted to just embrace the fact that I love people. I love getting to know people, I love...
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    It’s always about love. People fall in love. You fall in love. I fall in love. I have not found the real description of something that makes people fall. Something that makes...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Today I realized how much I enjoy helping people and how there are so many people out there who don't want to help people. I'm struggling with my chemistry class and I asked...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 1 day ago

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    words from grandma: Breathe in the future, breathe out the past. No matter where you are or what you’re going through, always believe that there is a light at the end of the...
    rainbowavalanche rainbowavalanche 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Hi Ok, yes, so I was queen of negative. I mean its natural when you're depressed. I have just got out of hospital, my second time, this time its only mild depression. The last...
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Okay, I have a serious topic to discuss. Why do people over sexualize cosplays? I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but most of the time cosplays aren't meant to show off a...
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 5

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    People always say I love him/her. I roll my eyes and smile and say good for you sweetie. Inside however I tell myself love is a myth an urban legend, like Bigfoot or Slenderman. I...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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