I Am a Virtual Recluse But Love People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 51 People

    Painful Interactions With Others

    Hi, I guess I'm not the only one.  I thought.."maybe there's actually a support group for people like me".  It's as though I love people too much and when out in the world the seemingly harshness of it all stuns me.  I am actually a psychiatric nurse...
    Psigrl Psigrl
    56-60
    5 Responses Jun 28, 2009

    Prisoner of Ignorance

    People tell me I need to get out more. I physically can't, access for wheelchairs here sucks. Thank you to all who have suggested I "write to my local member". I am a leader of the disability community here and constant seminars and lobbying has done nothing to open...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    Oct 15, 2008

    Hi Scarlett Here

     I work as a psychic advisor and am very good at it. I can tune into people quickly and I know if they are hurting, lying etc.   The reason I am often alone at home is because I meet people who are too needy,  they want to latch onto me and ring me or come over just want...
    scarletthearts scarletthearts
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2012

    Virtually Speaking Or Reality Speaking?

    I'd say I have a nasty tendency of being both. I love socializing and talking until forever with friends and new people I meet. Then this overwhelming need to wave a magic wand and disappear pops in. Possibly anxiety? It's always at really weird times too. I'm laughing so hard my...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki
    31-35
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    I really don't have a life anymore!

    Since I separated from my husband more than 10 years ago, I have become a virtual recluse. Let me explain.... On the day of my birth to the most beautiful parents, I grew up to be a young adult believing that my life was already mapped out for me. I took an interest in music...
    Chopinsivories Chopinsivories
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    Both By My Upbringing, and By Location.

    I was never "the friend" and never was a social person as a youngster and now, I find that the few opportunities here are either willfully ignored or are never encountered.  I plant to get to a place where there is more diverse surroundings and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2009

    Misery

    Dont now whats wrong with me, iwork 4 days a week feel confident going out during the day but make any excuse not to go out in the evening............Just come out of a 6 year relationship where all i did was focus on his problems and loan him money sit in his flat on my own...
    38whr 38whr
    51-55
    Feb 25, 2012

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    This is something so painful that only people experiencing this will truly understand ... I'm from Australia , Sydney in particular I've known this guy since 15 mind you we fell...
    Lydiaaellise Lydiaaellise
    18-21, F
    Apr 21
    EP is closing !!! My gmail/Hangouts : alwayscare2love@gmail.com I just want to talk to ppl with good intentions. Not pervs plz... ^-^
    Care2Love Care2Love
    13-15, F
    Apr 21
    I want to find people to role-playing games of curlers and perm and hair dryer
    MadaMBarbara MadaMBarbara
    36-40, F
    Apr 21
    Site what is with the nasty people on here? seriously the people who are trolls and ask for inappropriate photos are the ones that ruined ep for everyone else who uses this for...
    unbound97 unbound97
    18-21, F
    Apr 21
    what is with the nasty people on here? seriously the people who are trolls and ask for nudes are the ones that ruined ep for everyone else who uses this for general advice. I loved...
    unbound97 unbound97
    18-21, F
    Apr 21
    OPEN HEAVENS FELLOWSHIP DAILY DEVOTION YOU CAN HAVE A PURE AND PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIP 1 Corinthians 15:34 Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge...
    ganyoji ganyoji
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 21
    this is something crazy which a friend is going through, she asked me to help her but I don't know how to advice her..''i really don't know what to do now,I fell in love with and...
    Rosalindaag Rosalindaag
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    I’ve written a lot about miracles. Here’s one more. It’s the story I want to leave EP with.I sewed yesterday.It was miraculous. Just a couple of simple things...
    WindSylph WindSylph
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
    Sydney never sleeps, so whenever you go out there are always cars on the road, but at night at least it's not a car park. I love getting in my car really late, blaring the music...
    rana3434 rana3434
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 20
    My EP Story... and boy this is a long one Haha Last June, on the 19th I believe it was, I was looking for a question I had to be answered. It was like 2am during the summer and I...
    dathglas dathglas
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 20
    My EP story I have discovered this site over a year ago (December of 2014) This place has gotten a big impact on my life, this place changed alot about the way I think and my...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Apr 19
    This will be a long post but I hope you bear with because this is something that’s been eating at me for a while. I fell in love with the most amazing girl I’ve ever met. The...
    Tobey94 Tobey94
    18-21, M
    Apr 19
    So a farewell to everyone - Good bye - it's been a trip for me on EP - I still got to share my stuff on here and I'm thankful for Ep and the people here for this opportunity - as...
    Stephenrko Stephenrko
    36-40, M
    Apr 17
    Particularly on the Internet, where nobody knows me. I've been judged for advising against visual learning methods, by people who don't know I'm blind. I've been judged a spammer...
    AsYetNameless AsYetNameless
    13-15, T
    Apr 17
    I love my big belly, who else wants to trade belky pics. but only people with big huge bellys allowed
    chubbybellyboy56 chubbybellyboy56
    16-17, M
    Apr 16
    I love to receive dirty messages, but I'm also a human, and some days I don't feel like sexy chatting. BUT I didn't respond to several people's messages yesterday bc I have a life...
    LuvP LuvP
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 16
    I know some of us will keep in touch....and some of us wish to leave the virtual world altogether....but know that I will miss you..... I'm grateful for each and everyone of you...
    Mik02 Mik02
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 16
    Maybe I'm just weird like this, but my word means something so I just expect the same in return. Is that too much to ask of the world? Things happen sometimes, emergencies pop up...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Apr 16
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    WhyIsItSoHardToFindAUser WhyIsItSoHardToFindAUser
    13-15, F
    Apr 16
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    Kumiko230 Kumiko230
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 15
    Sensitive people are the most genuine and honest people you will ever meet. There is nothing they won?t tell you about themselves if they trust your kindness. However, the moment...
    beautifullybroken29 beautifullybroken29
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 14
    I always wondered.... I always stared at the stars, sometimes I wept and wondered upon the heavens for someone like you. .... A lot of the times I just hurt more than words can...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 13
    Have you seen the profile photo of this group? I actually literally did that once, just to break the common routine of shy first meetings between friends (or potential crushes...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    help me plz So when I first found out about him, I was 12 and he was 16. This was on a virtual reality site thing. He lives in a different county and doesn't know I exist and I...
    friedchickenwing friedchickenwing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 12
    When you let someone have the power of your state of mind, that’s when you realise you’re in such a dangerous space. Letting them protrude every corridor of your mind to the...
    trying2forgetyou trying2forgetyou
    22-25, F
    Apr 12
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    harleyphil harleyphil
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 12
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    Thommath Thommath
    18-21, M
    Apr 10
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    bimvim bimvim
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 10
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 10
    HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? (WRITTEN BY KIDS) YOU GOT TO FIND SOMEBODY WHO LIKES THE SAME STUFF. LIKE, IF YOU LIKE SPORTS, SHE SHOULD LIKE IT THAT YOU LIKE SPORTS, AND SHE...
    Rusham Rusham
    66-70, M
    3 Responses Apr 9
    There are somethings that annoy me so bad! I couldn't find a proper section but here it goes. I can't understand how a person goes around throwing the "L" word (love) to this girl...
    brokenALAS brokenALAS
    22-25, F
    Apr 9
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    Thesdamos Thesdamos
    16-17, M
    Apr 9
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    Mrsubhash Mrsubhash
    22-25, M
    Apr 8
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    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 7
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    Danielleirisgene Danielleirisgene
    31-35, F
    Apr 7
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    46-50, M
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    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 7
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 7
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 7
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    jocelynnM jocelynnM
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 6
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    ganyoji ganyoji
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    Apr 6
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    GentleReader GentleReader
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    1 Response Apr 6
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    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 6
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    toniyl toniyl
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    Apr 6
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    lifeseemstosuck lifeseemstosuck
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5
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    tinkerbell1988 tinkerbell1988
    26-30, F
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    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    9 Responses Apr 5
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 4
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