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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4, 2014

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    I am not now dating a widower. After 11 years I got tired of feeling like I was dating a married man ... just one with a wife in the grave. He was good to me overall. His family...
    FoolForElevenYears FoolForElevenYears 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    Hey all I want to share my experiences of dating a widower........ When I found out the man I was talking to was a widower I have to admit I was scared I wasn't strong enough and...
    Becky1711 Becky1711 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I've been dating my widower for over three years, and the late wife has been gone for nearly seven. We even moved in together because he said that he wanted to spend the rest of...
    nevereverenough nevereverenough 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I smile and I smile I pretend and I smile more I lash out. And I cry I push those I care about away. Then I pretend more And I lash out more I create more heartache for lack...
    thecowboysdaughter thecowboysdaughter 41-45 12 Responses Mar 28

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    I've never done anything like this before but I am struggling to find anyone who can relate and/or give me advice on how to cope or even just make me feel like I am not alone. Next...
    ForeverIsntLongEnough ForeverIsntLongEnough 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    A little over 10 years into my marriage, I cheated on the most wonderful women in the world. She forgave me. After years of counseling and therapy, I gained an understanding about...
    krisea krisea 51-55, M 10 hrs ago

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    I met my soul mate in college and the bond and love between us was incrediable. We both were madly in love and were inseparable. We both are middle eastern I had lots of Suitor ad...
    MelodyMoon MelodyMoon 46-50, F Mar 23

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    Resisted peer pressure, survived from sticky social situations to relationships and fall outs with family and dealing with crazy out of control hormones! Never smoked, never done...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Long story short, this guy had liked me since 2007. Eventually we started dating in 2009. In 2010 we broke up (so it was only 13 months long). I was 19-20 when this happened and he...
    monosaccharide monosaccharide 22-25 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I haven't seen this girl since I lived in Indiana back when I was 4 years old. It's now been 15 years and we have gotten back in touch with each other and are talking and enjoying...
    volsfan123 volsfan123 18-21, M Mar 23

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    Dear Experience Project readers, I am madly, truly, passionately, genuinely just deeply in love with my best friend G and have been for the past 2 years. We just recently admitted...
    Sunnysan22 Sunnysan22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I've always wanted to do this and decided to pull the trigger, well, 12 years ago. Allison is now 17 years old or will be in June. I haven't been a good letter writer. My...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    This is one of my Favorite wedding pics:) hard to believe it's been 2 years aha
    ShortAndProud ShortAndProud 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    All I remember is when every one in the house would go to sleep I slept in the basement so he would come down and crawl into bed with me and start touching me and after a few...
    Luvlikeyournotbroken Luvlikeyournotbroken 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    20 years, 3 months, and 1 day to be exact. :)
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Watched this show as a teenager and loved it. Such a heartfelt and genuine portrayal of growing up and those difficult teen years <3
    IlovePinkpanties IlovePinkpanties 41-45, F Apr 5

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    Starting at a very old age we get this idea in our head that we want to be older, because all of our role models are older. Everyone we admire on TV is older than we are and we...
    dreamingoptimist dreamingoptimist 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    its not far away to me - years just muddle up together - I hope I am as happy as I feel now maybe happier! That would be great . I want to be healthy and enjoy working out as much...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F Apr 9

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    5 years from now I want an office job
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have a recurring dream that I wake up and I am still around 4 years old (the age I was when I first had this dream)and it's the day of Easter. I walk down the hall and see my dad...
    cloudierdreamer cloudierdreamer 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I met my man 30 yrs ago. Lost touch with my friends from back then until my divorce. I started dating him 6 months after his wife died. His wife took her own life. We have been...
    2findmyfit 2findmyfit 41-45, F Mar 31

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    So lonely since wife died. Everyday is sooo long without her. She was only 34, how can I continue, life moves on but I'm stuck in time. Hasn't even been a year but if this is the...
    Widower1 Widower1 31-35 Apr 8

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    I do wonder and I think I'll be in a good place
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I am 18 now! Wooo hooo. Can share and see so much more now...lol.
    kelly1997 kelly1997 18-21, F 51 Responses Mar 24

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    R u a boy or a girl cuz imma girl
    claribel0309 claribel0309 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I'm from there! I've spent many nights passed out in my car
    drewroc drewroc 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    *picture attached* one of my resolutions for 2015 was to have so much money that its hard to pack up my wallet in my pocket because its so puffed.. Very glad to reach that goal in...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I turned 18 last June and will be 18 until the 29th of June this year.
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    She has totally changed, she bakes, cooks, and clean. She said she missed me
    ksimons1997 ksimons1997 18-21, F Mar 31

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    She has totally changed, she bakes, cooks, and clean. She said she missed me
    ksimons1997 ksimons1997 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Yep today. Happened in the back of my car oh well
    OkJohnny OkJohnny 16-17, M Apr 4

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    I be 20 next month It going to feel the same way into I hit 21 that's when the party begins.....
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    i have no one to talk to and it's real hard
    rossam rossam 61-65 5 Responses Apr 5

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    I don't know what it is about boys my age up until their late teens. Most of them are immature/jealous, and don't act their age. I don't get it? I feel older than my own age, yet I...
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    It wasn't long ago. I've been hanging out with a guy I really like and am looking for a relationship with.. We'd been hooking Up, doing other things that led up to sex for a while...
    classyandnasty classyandnasty 18-21, F Apr 6

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    4 march 1994 : ) Myanmar boy
    Thwin Thwin 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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