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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Related Experiences

    Where should I start. Oh yes.. I am a widow and I am 26 years old I lost my husband unexpectedly July 2, 2013 he was 29 years old and we have been married for 8 years. We just got...
    Littlezummy Littlezummy 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Hi, I have been a widow for one and a half years. I woke up on August 11th, 2012 to find my husband gone. He had a massive coronary. I was devastated. I stayed in the house we...
    bellaboo2 bellaboo2 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I was very suddenly widowed three years ago. It doesn't seem to get any easier, some days are better than others though.
    Andrewina Andrewina 56-60, F Apr 15

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    I am again a single mom for 5 short years we had a real family. Its been 65 days since daddy passed and it feels like yesterday. I was a single mom for 13 years before the luv of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15

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    I have decided to use this experience as a sounding board. I have 45 days widowed and have come to the understanding that I am no longer excepted into my in-laws family. They have...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I need your opinion. I met a widower online. We were chatting for quite a long time and then he decided to come and meet me (we dont live in the same country) we had an amazing...
    kotsos78 kotsos78 31-35, F Mar 31

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    Its been just over two years since i lost my wife. I have another 10 years or so to raise my three kids all by myself. Not sure how I will survive.
    marshj marshj 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    7weeks ago my soulmate passed away sleeping on our couch we had just shared the birth of our 2nd daughter only 5days earlier the luv we shared was unconditional the kind that last...
    misdaddy misdaddy 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    It's the 31st today. I suddenly realized that it's been 2 months. And it doesn't feel any easier.. What to do? When will I feel better? I'm thinking 6 months and then a year, 2...
    Tisimi Tisimi 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My husband of 25 years passed away Halloween afternoon. I am lost. I have never experienced life without him. Not that I can remember. It makes it even more difficult when you've...
    BebeChai BebeChai 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Although my husband was ill for many years, his death was still hard to face for my son and me. For us life will never be the same. My husband was a good man who's goal was to...
    Dhicks2 Dhicks2 66-70, F Apr 7

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    The nights are long and painfully too quiet . I can keep busy most of the time and distract myself from the glaring void. But some nights, especially Sundays are for some reason...
    MsRack MsRack 36-40 3 Responses Apr 14

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    lost my dear wife of 28 years last month. today would be our 28th anniversary. just completely lost.
    drudallas drudallas 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My 26th anniversary is in less then a week and my husband is having a crisis with coping with medical retirement. He has been a cop for nearly 18 years of our26 years of marriage...
    Bff4988 Bff4988 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    My mother, who was physically and mentally abusive when I was a child, hasn’t spoken to me for 16 years and has had nothing to do with her three grandsons who are now grown. They...
    writer109 writer109 51-55, F Mar 27

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    To the patients who have Lupus or other diseases, what diseases do you have? How long have you had it? Do you feel this diseases is going kill you? Got any "I almost died...
    heartbroken69 heartbroken69 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    ive been single for 3 years now im pretty well adjusted to this reality atleast i dont have to answer to anyone at the snap of finger where feeling hurt ha boowhoo you can...
    DragonflyStolen DragonflyStolen 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I posted on this site four years ago. It was a strange thing, seeing as I was only 18 and had all the social and family support one could ask for. It was strange because I was...
    maeby maeby 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I started out spraining my right ankle 10 years ago when i was 20,started walking on it too soon and developed a heel spur in my right foot,than i got one in my left foot,have...
    sharkstar sharkstar 26-30, M Apr 13

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    I am 36 years old and feeling confused! I have had no children. I live with my boyfriend who is 9 years younger than I am and neither of us is quite ready for children. I do want...
    FreshPrincess FreshPrincess 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I was with my ex-boyfriend for five years. He was a hard worker and had his own business, so he did not have a lot of time for me. Sometimes our dates would be in his office while...
    moodyhedgehog moodyhedgehog 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I have had someone stalking me for over ten years. It is mostly online but has completely ruined my life. I had to apply for jobs in person when I was job hunting. I landed a...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I always dwell on my mistakes... I wish it was 10 years ago so I can get a second chance at life, meet him again for the first time, befriend the right people, avoid hurting my...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm finding myself again! Throughout the years, from me being 15-17 I lost my personality. It was changed by what I wanted it to be and the thought of letting my ex down. I stopped...
    alicelt alicelt 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    At 13, I lost my virginity to my 16 year old step brother. I used to call it rape, but eventually I admitted to myself that I never said no. I wanted it to happen, even if I was...
    meghanmonroe meghanmonroe 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    i've been lonely for the past five years and i try to meet girls but noone seems to be in to relationships anymore because there is to much unfaithfulness. im really lonely and...
    peartreebud peartreebud 18-21, M Mar 30

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    i met this man online and he was separated from his wife. We got on well together. The more i talked to him the most i liked him. He is alot older than me. I am 45 in May and he is...
    Babe69 Babe69 41-45, F Mar 31

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    I've been single a few times in my life and during those times I was always in such a big hurry to find someone. This only lead to disappointment and very poor choices in who I...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I lost it to a close guy friend I had known for awhile. It wasn't magical or spectacular like every made it seem. It also didn't hurt like everyone said it would. He was 2 years...
    10x30 10x30 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Greetings all, I am well settled Indian guy looking for lesbian/bisexual or any one who is interested for marriage if convenience, we can take sometime to know each other well and...
    akashalva akashalva 18-21, M Apr 6

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    A year ago I found out that the reason for this is that my 'husband' is a sex addict and has been screwing hordes of other women and prostitutes. PUKE!!!! I find myself with three...
    shanm shanm 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    We met in univeristy when we were both in third year. We went through a lot, matured and expereinced a lot. We love each other lots, but he said he doesn't want a relationship. He...
    Natask Natask 26-30, F Apr 11

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    And not loving it yet... expected more fun 10 years ago ahaha ._.
    countingstarsss countingstarsss 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    An IT executive with nearly twenty years of experience, Ravi Namboori presently serves as vice president of Data Center Solutions at Unigen. Ravi Namboori combines strong team...
    ravinamboori ravinamboori 31-35, M Apr 15

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    long story short......i have spent the last 6 years with a woman who has done just about all one can do to humble a man.she has cheated on me,stolen from me,alienated me from a...
    exit2stageleft exit2stageleft 56-60, M 5 days ago

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    hi I'm 23 years old and i want a baby so bad but i had invasive form of endometriosis and i had to have a full hysterectomy so i can't have kid is anyone going on with the same...
    lilredrobin912 lilredrobin912 22-25 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Okay it's been one month or a little over. It still seems like yesterday that she was sitting right here with me. The long lonely nights make it worse. I know there was a lot of...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M Mar 25

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    I lost my husband one year ago to bladder cancer and I still miss him so terribly much. I just need someone to talk to,.
    ConLee ConLee 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Everything is still raw and numb. I just lost my 39 yr. old husband of almost 15yrs Sunday March 16th (I am 36). The business of death has me running in circles making phone calls...
    dekaL dekaL 36-40 6 Responses Mar 27

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    The worst times are the alone times. When everyone is gone when the phones not ringing when the email stop coming and the only thing that you have to look forward to is the sound...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I lost my husband last Saturday, 29th March, he was killed in a light aircraft crash. He was only 29, 30 in May. I am only 33 myself and we have a 20 month old boy. I just feel...
    piglet80 piglet80 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I miss the love of my life
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14

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    On Feb 11 my soulmate passed away only days after the birth of our 2nd baby I'm lost without him we were born two days apart the same year my world is broken
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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    I lost my husband Jan 6th, 2011. I was 29, he was 35. It was almost 5 months after the birth of our second child. It was completely sudden. Just like any other day. He had a...
    jet6707 jet6707 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    And now, a guy is too close to her, she saya that i am important, but barely talk to me :(
    thatdogg42 thatdogg42 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I am 16, and I feel like I should be settling down with my boyfriend and starting a family...not just starting to work...
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F Mar 24

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