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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    I dated a widower for about 3 years. When we met he'd finished a 4 year relationship after his LW, as well as internet dating with quite a few women and then that's how we met...
    Salmoncakes Salmoncakes 51-55 1 Response Sep 15

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    My soul mate of 22 years passed away May 16, 2014. Due to his illness, he had already left me about 5 years ago - I lost him to Alzheimer's. After spending the last 5 years or so...
    Daybreak48 Daybreak48 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    I have been putting off grieving since I had 3 knee surgeries and had to handle the care and death of my mother in law. All of sudden, I have stopped sleeping, I cry at the sight...
    zoche zoche 56-60, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 32 years old and have been looking for some sort of support. My husband took his life 2 weeks ago and I am not sure how I will ever survive. He left me with 3 children to...
    kdm629 kdm629 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    I met my W nearly two years after my divorce. In short I was divorced because my ex had substance abuse issues. My W, also lost his wife due to substance abuse issues. We had an...
    laila128 laila128 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Years ago I met a girl. A wonderful woman who brought out the best of me. have never felt more free to be me.... no judgment, no fear, no hesitation of any kind. we danced in...
    FrankWhite223 FrankWhite223 31-35 5 days ago

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    Yup. At 16 I decided I wanted to expand my sexual horizons and chose to lose my virginity to the guy I had been saying for a month. He was a poor choice; treated me terribly and...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    I'm 13 and I know what you're probably thinking. She has not idea what she's on about etc, but I do. And that is one of my biggest problems like, ever. I am way too mature for my...
    EbonyLily EbonyLily 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 28 years old. We haven't been dating for long and we meet online but I can't express the feelings I have for him. I never thought I would be...
    nigerianigbo nigerianigbo 16-17 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im 21 years old and I haven't seen my parents in three years and a half. Due to life circumstances they live in another country and I can't visit. I pretty much self deported...
    nacochava308 nacochava308 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Before I had curly telephone wire hair and everyone that time took a second look when I pass. Now I got my hair rebonded and dyed. I can't get my normal hair back now!!! Not only...
    UOLAUC UOLAUC 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    few years back.. i had a gf.. a family.. a brother who loved and a sis in law i really cared about.. a job that paid handsomely.. today i am single... my mom and dad live far...
    sunnsood sunnsood 26-30, M Sep 5

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    After nearly 25 years of marriage, my wife and I seem to be unable/unwilling to resolve our differences on my need to cross dress. It's taken a lifetime of hiding to put me in a...
    JessicaDale JessicaDale 51-55 1 Response Sep 11

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    I am 43 years old. The first time I tried suicide was with tylenol when I was 17. A whole bottle. I called a friend to say goodbye who called my step parents who found me in time...
    rkba rkba 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Hi y'all! I recently chose to separate from my husband of 25 years and so far its been an up and down roller coaster! Some days are great. I feel excited, confident in my choice...
    odaem5 odaem5 46-50, F a week ago

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    Good thing I have repellant!
    Jacques0041 Jacques0041 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    if any one here please talk to me i want care love i am all alone
    Adityalosty Adityalosty 18-21, M Sep 19

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    I lost my husband on July 16, 2013 to sudden cardiac arrest 2 days after our 15th wedding anniversary. He was 42 and we have two daughters. What was most shocking to me was after...
    Moodybleu Moodybleu 41-45 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Today the pain is so bad that I cannot move. It is just over two month since my husband died and the pain has not lessened, I cannot live without him, now I just exist, half a...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't try any harder then I am. It seems I am spinning my wheels and getting no where fast. It has to be the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. Being a single mom that is...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I miss my old days... I had black hair I looked normal. Now I have blonde hair I look pretty but it's not like that pretty ^^^ Cheerleading was my thing until blonde became a trend...
    ANNI3PI3 ANNI3PI3 16-17, F Sep 3

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    Bored out of my mind..................
    sporty03 sporty03 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm bored and doing nothing
    lemonsqeezy lemonsqeezy 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Hey guys im 13 anyone wanna talk im bored as hell
    HadiAwan HadiAwan 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 5

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    life is just b*****it, you put food through one end,it comes out through another, and if someone has extra energy ,he just f**ks around
    Trueshinobi Trueshinobi 22-25, M Sep 6

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    I'm a senior in high school, fairly popular, friendly, decent looking I guess, and respectable but theres only one girl that I like and she likes me but yet she's dating a guy she...
    tmac7318 tmac7318 16-17, M Sep 8

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    Only to find out I had kept one of my ex's panties in my closet. I was so grossed out I immediately tossed it in the trash in total disgust. I just wanna go back in time and slap...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I feel like nothin is real.
    comfortablynumb4 comfortablynumb4 16-17, F Sep 9

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    "You wouldn't be able to read this without that little voice in your head"
    WaterfallDrops WaterfallDrops 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    I want to make a POTS group that meets once a week or once a month. Who lives In Wisconsin and has POTS?
    december789 december789 16-17, F Sep 10

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    I don't even know how to explain this one.
    LowTheory LowTheory 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Yes by older girls was wrong
    yummys yummys 41-45, M Sep 15

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    Hai! I'm Erica, wanna be friends?
    AwesomeErica AwesomeErica 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 15

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    I did that to improve my English skill at the time and I published them for free on emule, torrent and various dedicated website.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 16

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    i believe that is the age when a man is more understanding, faithful and caring!
    africangall africangall 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    He tells me that "church" is too important to him and that by me not wanting to go every Sunday with him and the kids is a reason to separate? I posted this before and wanted to...
    anewme12 anewme12 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I need a young boyfriend that i can be dirty with 😉
    manny67890 manny67890 16-17, M a week ago

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    hey I want to have a boyfriend if you're interested message me
    animallover39 animallover39 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want a guy who will like me for who I am the type of guy who when he is asked who his girlfriend is will point 2 me and say that's her someone who won't cheat or lie someone who...
    jaquelynlupi123 jaquelynlupi123 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Well I'm 14 in two weeks but what ever
    internetrodo internetrodo 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This experience is so immature
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am separated for a 1 year but I want it to work but he does not want counseling now
    brown040 brown040 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok this is where it gets really dicey and uncomfortable. I'm trying to be nice. Cut the ties slowly and carefully so that I don't devastate my husband or my kids but HE'S DRIVING...
    odaem5 odaem5 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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