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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

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    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4, 2014

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    Change...Change...Change When I was a fresh widow, people would comment, "You will marry again...you're still young." It would p.i.s.s me off or set me into self-pity; judging how...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    Widowed twice, first married for 29 years. He died of Lung cancer. It has now been 4 months since husband of 21 years died of liver cancer. It is much more difficult this time...
    cook4j cook4j 70+, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    Its been three years this february. Hard to believe he is gone. We were married forty years, and what a great man. I miss him, but Im getting better. If I let myself think about...
    Shellfinder Shellfinder 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I've been dating my widower for over three years, and the late wife has been gone for nearly seven. We even moved in together because he said that he wanted to spend the rest of...
    nevereverenough nevereverenough 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I recently lost my loving husband few weeks back. 15 February 2015 after battling cancer metastesis Stage 4 . It was lately that I knew about the metastesis few days before he...
    lohans lohans 46-50 2 Responses Mar 7

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    My husband died of ischemic heart disease about 7 months ago while we were on a trip in Russia. It was a complete shock to me as he had never experienced any chest pain before. My...
    Sandrafu Sandrafu 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I've posted a few times over the last 18 months about my relationship with my deceased friend's widower. One of my closest friends--with whom I grew up and went to college, lived...
    FireFlare FireFlare 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    i need a GIRL wedgi-e master around 18 years from Belgium i'm a boy i'm 15 years old
    jinxwedgie jinxwedgie 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    My husband died suddenly almost 3 months ago. He was only 43, I miss him so much. I have a 10 & 11 year old. It still doesn't seem real even though I know it is. His heart just...
    LoLoEvie LoLoEvie 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    My husband died suddenly two months ago tonight. He was only 51 years old and so healthy, strong and vital that I still can't understand what happened. He died while he was away...
    mhammond mhammond 51-55 2 Responses Mar 7

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    My husband Dave of 15 years lost his battle with CHF and other related issues. I am lost without him and miss him so much, I still sleep on the couch where I was sleeping before he...
    Grannygoosie Grannygoosie 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I met my soul mate in college and the bond and love between us was incrediable. We both were madly in love and were inseparable. We both are middle eastern I had lots of Suitor ad...
    MelodyMoon MelodyMoon 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    I've been dealing with this for over 10 years now, most of this time I have been in a dark hole. It went as far as me losing all hope and even forgetting who I am, who I used to be...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 6

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    I'm finding grief a bit like a Demtel advertisement. You think you're done: "but wait - there's more!" And then shame is added to grief: "why can't I let go?" I feel so...
    GypsyMiss GypsyMiss 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Resisted peer pressure, survived from sticky social situations to relationships and fall outs with family and dealing with crazy out of control hormones! Never smoked, never done...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Long story short, this guy had liked me since 2007. Eventually we started dating in 2009. In 2010 we broke up (so it was only 13 months long). I was 19-20 when this happened and he...
    monosaccharide monosaccharide 22-25 a week ago

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    I haven't seen this girl since I lived in Indiana back when I was 4 years old. It's now been 15 years and we have gotten back in touch with each other and are talking and enjoying...
    volsfan123 volsfan123 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Dear Experience Project readers, I am madly, truly, passionately, genuinely just deeply in love with my best friend G and have been for the past 2 years. We just recently admitted...
    Sunnysan22 Sunnysan22 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm 27, finished a bachelors in Sustainability Science last year and that hasnt gotten me anywhere, I suffer from social anxiety, (in my 3rd week of taking a mood stabilizer...
    acrisp718 acrisp718 26-30 1 Response Feb 27

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    This is one of my Favorite wedding pics:) hard to believe it's been 2 years aha
    ShortAndProud ShortAndProud 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    All I remember is when every one in the house would go to sleep I slept in the basement so he would come down and crawl into bed with me and start touching me and after a few...
    Luvlikeyournotbroken Luvlikeyournotbroken 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    And the Great Loneliness - it seems we must go through, when life as we have known it is over, and yet we don't know who we are supposed to become. All we know is that something...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I reunited with someone I dated back in the 60!s marred in 2011 passed away 10 mo ltr my heart is broken
    paz1 paz1 56-60 Mar 9

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 55 mins ago

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    And I still haven't managed to accomplish any of the goals I set for myself in my early twenties. I am not at the skill level I should be at for people in my industry. And I've had...
    emmunster emmunster 26-30, F Feb 27

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    i kinda wanna do the whole cliche "travel while you're in your twenties" thing but you see, the way my bank account is set up...
    Alyss22 Alyss22 18-21, F Feb 27

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    Most likely this has to do with having been bullied at school, had tons of medical problems growing up (and some I've only recently confirmed, though I've always suspected), and...
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Mar 3

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    In 14...Someone message me ????
    jess2704 jess2704 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Since fourth grade. Or fifth.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 4

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    maybe im in the mid life crisis stage since im almost 40 or could it be a infatuation. for some reason I tried dating a girl recently around my age and I did not enjoy it. I have a...
    airmax78 airmax78 36-40, M Mar 5

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    I'm 13 does anyone in my range 13-16 want to talk?
    Rtre45 Rtre45 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    i was 14 he was 16 he worked at a store called leonards back in 77 i never will for get his scent of brut he was my 1st love lost contact with him now i pine for him
    desperate63 desperate63 70+, F Mar 7

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    She used to dress sexy, was exciting, we had sex a lot, and she has changed
    EdMichaels EdMichaels 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    Hello I'm new to ep just joined in fact I'm looking to make new fun female friends so if your chatty busty n fun add me n let's chat
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M Mar 7

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    I'll most likely be dead...at least with any luck i will be
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Mar 11

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    I know that I am naive because I have not experienced life as much as someone who is twice my age.. I know that I can be immature or irrational.. But, I don't appreciate when...
    converselypurple converselypurple 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    and i still cry myself to sleep wishing i was the one he wanted...
    mrbultitude mrbultitude 31-35, M Mar 14

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    welcome me back to experience project. never mind my old posts, i was young and stupid. i have more mature experiences to share ;)
    shani9 shani9 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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