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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Related Experiences

    I have been in a relationship now for a little over 10 months, I'm 25 and he is 30 he lost his wife around 2 and a half years ago suddenly although she had been sick for some time...
    momentsinoblivion momentsinoblivion 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm a 34 year old widow, my husband passed away unexpectedly on June 5, 2014, only a few months ago. We had a fairly tail relationship for 12 years. I hurt so much somedays I...
    unluckalee unluckalee 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hope that I am not self indulgent, but this loss of my dear husband, is so hard bear, impossible in fact. I am bereft, no one can help me. I visit my darling's grave every day, I...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am so cross with my husband for smoking, because it was this that killed him, he was so fit, his doctor sent him to a cardiologist in May and he was able to do the treadmill etc...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hello Everyone, I have been a widow now,since November, 2013,and I still miss my husband as much as I did,the day he died. I can't listen to live songs,watch love scenes on TV or...
    missyr1970 missyr1970 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    2 years, 5 months, 1 week, 4 days and 5 hours since I felt safe and content. I really miss being a wife and being a partner. I can't believe he is gone still some days. Like it has...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I was 36 when my husband died from a heart attack. I am now 43 and still single. I have almost finished raising the 4 kids we have together. November it will be 7 years.
    meximamaz meximamaz 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I lost so many things the night my 43 year old husband passed away suddenly. The secondary loses are to come to terms with still and it has been more then two years. I lost...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Hello,Everyone, I haven't been on here in a really long time. My husband, of 20 years,Charlie, died last November. For me it seems like only,yesterday. This is by far,the worst...
    missyr1970 missyr1970 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    And have been for 19 years.I never wanted to remarry that felt like a bit of a betrayal. I spend a lot of time keeping my children in touch with me and each other.
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M Jul 31

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    I wrote this 4 years ago when I was in a lot of pain. It had originally planned to have a copy printed for each of the children, but life kinda got in the way I guess. I want you...
    noabit noabit 51-55, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Actually have been for some years now. Lost my wife and daughter in a car accident. My wife was 38, daughter 16 and I was (still am) devastated.
    REBELYELL67 REBELYELL67 46-50, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My dear, darling husband died of lung cancer 18 days after being diagnosed. We were married for nearly 50 years we met at 19, I do not know how to live without him. I loved him so...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    4 weeks ago I was at my husband's bedside, he was unconscious and he could not wake, I sat with him all night talking to him, kissing him and holding his hand. I asked him if I...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Russia World Cup countdown has begun, people are in addition to the World Cup, or the World Cup, football packed with all of our expectations in sports. It is obvious after the...
    fifacoins123 fifacoins123 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    6 years. 6 years I have been on this site granted, I was away for a period of 3 years give or take. What has happened in those years? Well I was diagnosed with ptsd and finally got...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    This week I told my boyfriend of 6 years it was over. I can't believe I gave him 6 years of my life! Our relationship was going nowhere because he didn't want to man up and be a...
    JJP36 JJP36 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I've been suffering from acute depression for years. I've hidden my illness for a long time because I figured that It would go away as I grow older. However, that has not been the...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is a strange thing, but the following is my New years resolution. Most people make New Years Resolutions on January 1rst. The Reason I am doing it on my birthday is because, I...
    JrsPal51 JrsPal51 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I thought, but a few years ago while we were at at parents evening I caught my wife looking at our sons teacher with what I can only describe as a look of adoration. I asked her...
    busterbluedog busterbluedog 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    ...today! As the Eagle landed and a man took a small step for mankind's giant leap, I kicked and screamed my greeting to the world 45 years ago.
    shiningcosmos shiningcosmos 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Hey! I'm 13 years old and I have never had a bf before sucks but idk maybe I'm just unattractive. And btw I'm sooooo bored :P
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    On my 4th Birthday my parents gave me a .22 caliber, lever action, Winchester Rifle. The number of varmints was reduced drastically throughout Shelby County over the years that...
    Raddaddy Raddaddy 41-45, M Jul 24

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    When I graduated HS in 2000 I was a care free stoner who just floated through life on cloud 9. Just about everything I had was provided by my parents. I wouldn't have admitted it...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I have been married for 5 years but we've been together for 17. There was a significant age difference between us (she was older). Long story short, over time, I got extremely...
    vladi7 vladi7 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    And I've touched a boy about 15 years inappropriately. It was at a camp, and I slept in his tent.... I decided to slip my hand in his pants, and a lot of stuff happend. (No we did...
    amuskego amuskego 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Bethesda's much-loved Elder Scrolls series is heading into unmapped multiplayer territory. inventive Director Paul Sage is prepared to answer the queries of Guardian readers In...
    mmogooglegame mmogooglegame 22-25, M Jul 30

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    I just turned 13 years old and I don't feel comfortable with scary guys helping my mom bush cut
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I was called high maintenance once. It was years ago when wearing 3D glasses with the lenses popped out was an actual trend. (That I started at my school, thank you very much...
    xamybellex xamybellex 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Looking for Lovers who can elder than me 10-20 years <><><><><<><
    Jimmy365 Jimmy365 26-30, M Aug 1

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    I've had life changing surgeries, and have been out of the workforce for many years. I've been physically ill growing up. One should think that all of those experiences should make...
    hopefulcarebear hopefulcarebear 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    from begining i start that from my schooling to college life i suffer a lot bcoz of ocd and adhd i was top in my academic in school before 7 years but suddenly what happen in my...
    jay2820 jay2820 22-25, M Aug 5

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    Finally instead of us women being pregnant it will be the feMALE wives, the sissy maids, the new gurls who be pregnant. Liberating us women from that burden. Some feMALES...
    annemarielongueuil annemarielongueuil 41-45, F Aug 5

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    My life in a picture 😂💋 5 years strong.
    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham 18-21, F Aug 7

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
    natmariesa natmariesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    It all started when my mother abused me for 7 long years
    izzybubble000 izzybubble000 22-25, F Aug 10

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    i was bullied for quite a few years and that left me with depression at where im at now. ive self harmed to release what i was feeling and ive starved myself to fit their perfect...
    simplyyzoee simplyyzoee 13-15, F a week ago

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    My husband cheated on me 2 years ago, I tried to make things work for the kids and actually myself. I still loved him, but there is no trust. We tried and it is just not working...
    livenlife45 livenlife45 46-50, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    About a month ago I met a man through social circles who I instantly felt a connection with. After we started hanging out with a smaller group of friends I learned that his wife...
    scorpionflower1 scorpionflower1 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    One of the many things I miss is a good back scratching. I have had an itch all day I cannot reach. He instinctively would go to the exact spot. Sigh....... I always miss him...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    My Princess passed away just 10 months ago, i still feel her laying down next to me on the bed, i close my eyes and still see her beautiful smile and cute perfect eyes looking at...
    dasher73 dasher73 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My beloved passed away last June of 2013, we don't have children . He's a clinical Audiologist and I work with him as his secretary, after a good dinner that he cooked for Thanks...
    buddy1436 buddy1436 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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