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I Am a Widow of 4 Years

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    Almost 4 Years

    Hi  I was widowed almost four years ago after my husband was killed in a road accident.  The shock was unbearable and I don't quite know where the last 4 years have gone.  I have a grown up daughter and a teenage son who are both my whole life.  I've worked...
    Emmaleen Emmaleen 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    Research Into Widowhood.

    H i... am nesha and am a student at the university of bolton.   I have just read all the post on here an am very sorry for those who have lost their spouse.   I am on here on due to my university project on widowhood, and would be grateful if you could help me...
    Nesha88 Nesha88 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Beginning to Feel Better...any Day Now?

    I lost my husband to cancer 4 years ago. He had just turned 39 years old. He was the love of my life and we had an incredibly close bond, both having experienced an earlier relationship that turned sour. So when he died - besides the overwhelming sense of...
    Ulkopuolinen Ulkopuolinen 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

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    It had been 4 years and 4 months

    now since u gone but still there was a moment that my tears will rolling down when I remember u honey.. Yes I have moved on but I don't know why our moments pop up every time and make my eyes tearing again. God why torturing me like this? I don't look at his pictures...
    GladysGrace GladysGrace 31-35, F Apr 4

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    I have been in a relationship now for a little over 10 months, I'm 25 and he is 30 he lost his wife around 2 and a half years ago suddenly although she had been sick for some time...
    momentsinoblivion momentsinoblivion 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm a 34 year old widow, my husband passed away unexpectedly on June 5, 2014, only a few months ago. We had a fairly tail relationship for 12 years. I hurt so much somedays I...
    unluckalee unluckalee 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I hope that I am not self indulgent, but this loss of my dear husband, is so hard bear, impossible in fact. I am bereft, no one can help me. I visit my darling's grave every day, I...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I am so cross with my husband for smoking, because it was this that killed him, he was so fit, his doctor sent him to a cardiologist in May and he was able to do the treadmill etc...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I wrote this 4 years ago when I was in a lot of pain. It had originally planned to have a copy printed for each of the children, but life kinda got in the way I guess. I want you...
    noabit noabit 51-55, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Actually have been for some years now. Lost my wife and daughter in a car accident. My wife was 38, daughter 16 and I was (still am) devastated.
    REBELYELL67 REBELYELL67 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 14

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    My dear, darling husband died of lung cancer 18 days after being diagnosed. We were married for nearly 50 years we met at 19, I do not know how to live without him. I loved him so...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    4 weeks ago I was at my husband's bedside, he was unconscious and he could not wake, I sat with him all night talking to him, kissing him and holding his hand. I asked him if I...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I am 21 years old and I lost my husband in a freak accident, I am having trouble accepting it, I miss him so much.
    mariibella mariibella 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I must say that I have had the pleasure for the second time in my life to see a married couple celebrate 50 years of being married. That does not happen every day not even once in...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Russia World Cup countdown has begun, people are in addition to the World Cup, or the World Cup, football packed with all of our expectations in sports. It is obvious after the...
    fifacoins123 fifacoins123 22-25, F Aug 13

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    6 years. 6 years I have been on this site granted, I was away for a period of 3 years give or take. What has happened in those years? Well I was diagnosed with ptsd and finally got...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M Aug 18

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    I've been suffering from acute depression for years. I've hidden my illness for a long time because I figured that It would go away as I grow older. However, that has not been the...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    This is a strange thing, but the following is my New years resolution. Most people make New Years Resolutions on January 1rst. The Reason I am doing it on my birthday is because, I...
    JrsPal51 JrsPal51 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    The first time i came to EP i was 17, 7 Years ago :O!!! So much has happened in my life, so much has happened to me. I read some of my stories and now some appear so silly...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    My life started in 2012, I was born in 1987. Those 25 years have nothing to do with me. Part 1 I was stuck in a bad relationship. And when I say stuck I mean I wasn't allowed...
    NinaBobina NinaBobina 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I don't know how it happened........ The hours, days, months, years, and yes, decades flew by. It seemed I stayed the same while the whirl of past experiences and memories...
    lllewyd lllewyd 56-60, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I forget I'm 26 and say I'm 21 haha. I feel older. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. I am happy to be alive and I am learning more about myself...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have an issue, an issue or few. My mom thinks I hate her because I talk so horrible 2 her... it's not that I hate her bc I don't I'm just upset with a grudge... see, she was an...
    regarnylkoorb regarnylkoorb 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Looking for Lovers who can elder than me 10-20 years <><><><><<><
    Jimmy365 Jimmy365 26-30, M Aug 1

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    I've had life changing surgeries, and have been out of the workforce for many years. I've been physically ill growing up. One should think that all of those experiences should make...
    hopefulcarebear hopefulcarebear 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    from begining i start that from my schooling to college life i suffer a lot bcoz of ocd and adhd i was top in my academic in school before 7 years but suddenly what happen in my...
    jay2820 jay2820 22-25, M Aug 5

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    Finally instead of us women being pregnant it will be the feMALE wives, the sissy maids, the new gurls who be pregnant. Liberating us women from that burden. Some feMALES...
    annemarielongueuil annemarielongueuil 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My life in a picture 😂💋 5 years strong.
    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham 18-21, F Aug 7

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
    natmariesa natmariesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    It all started when my mother abused me for 7 long years
    izzybubble000 izzybubble000 26-30, F Aug 10

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    i was bullied for quite a few years and that left me with depression at where im at now. ive self harmed to release what i was feeling and ive starved myself to fit their perfect...
    simplyyzoee simplyyzoee 13-15, F Aug 12

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    My husband cheated on me 2 years ago, I tried to make things work for the kids and actually myself. I still loved him, but there is no trust. We tried and it is just not working...
    livenlife45 livenlife45 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm 27 years old and my heart is taken.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 23

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    James Blunt MCR P!ATD TW Train Nickelback AAR FOB and the list goes on. Most of the time stuck for 4-5 years before I find them. *Sighs*
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F Aug 24

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    These not those! After swinging a year into our marriage that began twelve years ago my wife called for a complete halt. Then she read about Ashley Madison and as we're were...
    ProfessorDC ProfessorDC 61-65, M 6 days ago

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    but its going down hill and i dont know if i care anymore. I like long term relationships. This is my second one. And its been about the same time for both.. but i've never really...
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I completed MBBS in 2003, after failing few times. It was hard work.Finally I qualified as a doctor. Since many years after that I have been attempting the post graduate entrance...
    tryingforMD tryingforMD 31-35 13 hrs ago

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    One of the many things I miss is a good back scratching. I have had an itch all day I cannot reach. He instinctively would go to the exact spot. Sigh....... I always miss him...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    My Princess passed away just 10 months ago, i still feel her laying down next to me on the bed, i close my eyes and still see her beautiful smile and cute perfect eyes looking at...
    dasher73 dasher73 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My beloved passed away last June of 2013, we don't have children . He's a clinical Audiologist and I work with him as his secretary, after a good dinner that he cooked for Thanks...
    buddy1436 buddy1436 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    What do I miss the most ? He was so good at always making me feel wanted. I never had to wonder if he loved me and still wanted me. He didn't even need to say it. His actions...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Today it is one month since my dear, darling husband was taken from me. I cannot live without him nor do I want to, My life ended with his, and I should be able to buy a pill so...
    dbkmb dbkmb 70+, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Every so often I dream about my husband. I have come to terms with his leaving. With my not ever being able to see him again or talk to him. To have him hold me in his arms. But...
    Helianthus52N Helianthus52N 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Sort of strange to me that my son is taller than my husband was when he died. He is so much like his dad in so many ways, when we went to a function tonight, It felt like I kept...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    Talk to me girls if you want a older friend add me
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    Why am I suddenly missing it? Is because I'm stuck in traffic, on the phone, having a pint..drinking coffee, just had sex / just ***********, watching someone else smoke, or do I...
    shouldIquestionmark shouldIquestionmark 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2