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I Am a Wife of a Man I Couldn't Live Without

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    He Has A Cute Butt.

    Let's start with the practicaliities.He's 6ft4, Im 5ft4. Who else will reach the things off the top shelf for me? Who else would change the light-bulbs when they pop?He's a country boy from Oklahoma. Who else will teach me Redneck? He's trained in several martial arts. Who else...
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes 26-30, F 22 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    The Perfect Man.

    I was lost, I was 20 years old when I first saw him. some friends and I went to a bar called Gunnerz in Iowa city. at this time of my life, I was trying to find out where I was going and who I was. this time in your life for a woman can be terrible, and it was no different for...
    trainerwthadane trainerwthadane 31-35 Jun 11, 2008

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    Takes Work.

    My husband is the most stubborn, pig headed, crazy fool. I'd like to choke his as often as I want to kiss him. He drives me crazy and sometimes I miss him when I am sitting next to him. We are crazy in love and sometimes just crazy. Others we are quiet to the point of almost...
    friedchickenmama friedchickenmama 31-35 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    My Husband Left For Good And I Filed For Divorce And Regret It.

    Hi All, I have been married for almost 2 years and 2 months to an amazing husband. Only problem is that we grew apart towards the end. My husband worked the graveyard shift and we started our marriage off with his crazy hours of 8pm-6am. We never slept in the same bed so our sex...
    mayu7478 mayu7478 31-35, F Dec 17, 2010

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    Couldn't Live Without My Man

    I am extremely happy with my husband, he is my hubby, my best friend, my soulmate, etc.  I don't see myself without him.  He is one of a million kind of guy which I am lucky having him in my life.  I cannot live without this man!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    I Don't Want Him to Go

    I'm feeling anxious, guilty, ashamed, and so unsupportive. I don't want to feel this way. I try so hard not to shoe him how scared I am. How will I survive with him gone? He hasn't even left yet but I miss him already. What dod I do?
    jlove jlove 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    You Cant Leave Me Now!!

    When I married my husband a year ago november 11, I didn't realise how much that day would come to mean to me. And not just as my anniversary. I've thought about it since Jonathan left and i feel like it was kind of an omen. Getting married on Veteran's Day and then having your...
    arnyangel76 arnyangel76 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    Snowman12345 Snowman12345 56-60, M 6 Responses Jun 28

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    whiskeyandtypewriter whiskeyandtypewriter 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    kamishiro kamishiro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    I remember the exact moment that I knew i loved him. It was when I discovered he was moving away for six years to another country I couldn't possibly visit. Must when I was about...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 15 Responses Jun 30

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    birdie39 birdie39 41-45, F 35 Responses Jul 6

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    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    freddyshirley freddyshirley 51-55, F Jun 28

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