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I Am a Woman Marrying Or Married to Another Woman

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    Just When You Thought You Knew..

    This one is a little difficult to talk about. Not that it is hard for me, it is harder for the reader to understand. I am a real person. I was born into this world in a female body, however finding out that I do indeed have a total of 3 men in side of the body,. I was...
    GILEY GILEY 56-60, T 2 Responses Nov 2, 2010

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    I enjoy being a woman who likes another women.Also the deepness and complexity are way in another level.A real pain in the *** for the bad,but worthy the good.I believe this gender...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 29

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    The push pull, or hot and cold behaviour. I just want to know if this happens to anyone else. My married man and me (I am married too) have tried hard to keep out feelings in check...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    The push pull, or hot and cold behaviour. I just want to know if this happens to anyone else. My married man and me (I am married too) have tried hard to keep out feelings in check...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    OhMyGoodness! I've been away from here for a bit tending to other things, but today definitely merits an update! A little background for those who don't know my story, it has been...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    This post is basically just to write all my feeling out and see if anyone has been through what I'm about to go through. My Marine and I are planning to get married in November...
    MilsoChristine MilsoChristine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Please if you are not having this experience or have not had it in the past keep your advice. I already know evey mean hateful words and thoughts you may have. Well; here it is, I...
    Summerayn Summerayn 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    So my man is married but we stay together and have been going on 3 years almost. I finally asked him bluntly if he was planning on being my husband soon and he said "yea". I didn't...
    arbosslady arbosslady 31-35, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    The only ppl who DON'T message me to hook-up are members of I Am The OW or I Had An Affair experiences. Sooo..the 'lying cheaters' are the only users who message for legit reasons...
    MillieJadexx MillieJadexx 36-40, F 1 Response 7 mins ago

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    Reads: "When Yui Hirasawa enters high school, she wishes to sign up for a club but won't be able to pick which just one is true for her. Luckily, the Light Audio Club is desperate...
    Peternhj Peternhj 31-35, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    All the other guys have one problem. They aren't him. And he doesn't want me. He never did. What we had was just by circumstance, something that fell into place. We spent a...
    pearl26ab pearl26ab 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I've been with my fiancé for almost four years and we're raising my three year old son together. He's the only father my son has ever known, and he's an amazing dad. The hitch in...
    HeathenPoet HeathenPoet 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I think it's really sad that I've seen alot of women get romantically involved with married men. As a single person like myself, I feel like it's not really worth it because you're...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Preparing for our wedding years ago like most brides I had this romantic view of commitment and marriage etc. I remember being excited to be marrying the love of my life, vowing...
    gagal2014 gagal2014 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Now, I would like to get married and spend the rest of my life with someone, but I would rather spend my life with someone I'll be happy with, and who'll be happy with me. What's...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    First off please excuse the grammar and puncuation. Im writing this from an outdated and slow tablet. This is my first post and I'm not sure if im telling you all this for advice...
    Whatstruggle Whatstruggle 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    callme77 callme77 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I look at being the other woman as a business deal...especially if the OW is also married and seeing another MM. Every business arrangement is different...for me and my MM, it was...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Why I respect my MM’s wife: • If he would not have married her, he would have gone to college on a baseball scholarship and I may have never met him. • Together, they...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a 24 year old woman, and I am getting married to the love of my life next weekend. I have dealt with the fact that I am bi-curious for a number of years, and the past couple...
    mrsbrown509 mrsbrown509 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Another day with my AP out of the office. Although I did get some work done, I totally missed him. We have a big event to work tomorrow and then my boss is gone all next week. I am...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I actually went carrie underwood on my MM when I found out he was seeing another woman... after falling pregnant.. I decided to not continue on with the pregnancy because I did not...
    kelyse2506 kelyse2506 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    It's 12:46 am and I am sitting here... You guessed it... Waiting. lol oh the things we do for just a little bit of time! It made me start thinking though... If your MM works...
    lifeisajourney14 lifeisajourney14 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I still post on here even though my MM and I have been an official couple for 3 months now. Hopefully, my transitional experience will help other. So my BF and I had a 5 hour...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    This is somewhat of a hilarious debate in the group “I am the other woman” For me it is another warning how powerful self deception can be and to what kind of weird and...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Right now. I'm not exactly hating my husband. Sometimes I do. I feel bad for it. He's a good man. But sometimes he's a complete jerk. The life we've lived has been the life he...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I love my wife, but there are things that she can't or won't do for me. I've take to her and nothing changes. The married woman I talk to always compliments me and makes me feel...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    I am married and I have one son... Well.. In this life they are such a blessing for me...
    YRIN YRIN 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    If you're told you only have six months to live. Immediately get married. It will make those six months seems like eternity.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Where do I start, how do I not blame myself, how did I let things get like this. We've been together for 8 years (not legally married) and have a six and seven year old. Things...
    1forever 1forever 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!! Another birthday has come and gone. And now...as I sit alone in my empty house, all those feelings and questions begin to emerge. I received my birthday...
    insouciant1 insouciant1 41-45, F 16 Responses Jul 23

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    W,ow 4 hours of intimate details about the former. So my BF, who was still married when I met him, deep dived into the breakdown of his marriage. I felt so bad for him but it...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Grrrrr, so after good news the other shoe drops.....all through our relationship, mm has always hoped his wife would come around to accepting a poly relationship. Her obstinate...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I've been wondering about this for a while now, so I'll just ask. Why in the world do women want to be together with a married man? All it does is give trouble to the woman the...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 15 Responses Aug 13

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    After almost a year of having him in my life, it is truly amazing how my feelings are changing. The beginning was so incredibly amazing. I could not believe that after being...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Ok I'm not sure how this makes me look since I have a guy that I'm involved with who has a GF.....but I had a blast from my past contact me the other night....when I met him he was...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need a bit of a distraction at the moment, so I thought I would share a little bit of my backstory. WARNING - THIS IS LONG. I thought I was fairly happily married. Been with my...
    greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am the OW and the MW. I am also a mom. I have officially been the OW since February, but there's always been an underlying linger in our friendship since 2007. For a long time...
    PrincessLG PrincessLG 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Decades ago, we dated in high school. I had been emancipated at 16 and was living on my own, finishing school, preparing for college, and working full time. His mother told him to...
    DeineSklavin DeineSklavin 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have been reading all your post but never posted till now let me tell you my story I use to date a guy 15 years ago I was his first ever girlfriend he was the love of my life...
    fluffyf fluffyf 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I am marred for ...26 years . About 5 years ago I meet man at work . And truly fell in love . I am thinking about him 24/7 . He is my real soulmate . I had " in and out...
    tipshonet tipshonet 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Uh oh... No way to live... Not passing judgement here on anyone in these situations Been there too myself, but i do know that youve got too look deep inside why you are both...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    This is lengthy....I'm sorry. Me: Married at 22 to a Christian man. Around 25, we go from best friends to him physically abusing me when drinking. Nice guy when sober. But the...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 26

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