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I Am a Woman Marrying Or Married to Another Woman

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    Just When You Thought You Knew..

    This one is a little difficult to talk about. Not that it is hard for me, it is harder for the reader to understand. I am a real person. I was born into this world in a female body, however finding out that I do indeed have a total of 3 men in side of the body,. I was...
    GILEY GILEY 56-60, T 2 Responses Nov 2, 2010

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    I’m finally out. Hi everyone. I joined this group two days ago to get support to leave forever my MM. After reading everyone’s stories, I feel compelled to write mine. I am...
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    I’m finally out. Hi everyone. I joined this group two days ago to get support to leave forever my MM. After reading everyone’s stories, I feel compelled to write mine. I am...
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    So here we go. Her story is following below in her own words. Hello there, I am here to write to you briefly about my story but also some advice to women contemplating marrying a...
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    Two weeks from now I'll be getting married again for the third time. They say third time is a charm. ( whoever they is ) I love my fiancee. I love her eight year old son. I dream...
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    It is little wonder why I am disappointed with my marriage. When I got married, and I remember this very well, the pastor promised, and even had me repeat, that besides the woman I...
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    I am in love with a married man. We have been together for almost a year. It was supposed to start out as fwb, nothing major. But we immediately developed feelings for each other...
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    I hate the person i have become. A liar, a cheater, an adulterer...i hate this. I dont want my married man anymore, even as i am in love with him, i dont want him anymore. I want...
    Amb505 Amb505 26-30, F 8 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    This post is basically just to write all my feeling out and see if anyone has been through what I'm about to go through. My Marine and I are planning to get married in November...
    MilsoChristine MilsoChristine 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I’m not the other woman. I am a man. I am not the other man either. I am married and not involved with another married woman. Interesting fact that some 950 men are currently...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    My family wants me to leave him.. They just found out that he is still in a relationship with another girl.. he's been really good to me.. He sacrificed a lot just to be with me...
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    So the best way to get over a man is to get under another yes? No it isn't unless you want to have a breakdown during sex I wouldn't recommend it
    Chelsea35 Chelsea35 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I've been with my fiancé for almost four years and we're raising my three year old son together. He's the only father my son has ever known, and he's an amazing dad. The hitch in...
    HeathenPoet HeathenPoet 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It Started simply enough. We were friends at work. Laughing, joking. I'm a guy's girl so I would sit with him and other Co workers and just shoot the breeze. Somewhere it changed...
    nmurch37 nmurch37 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I look at being the other woman as a business deal...especially if the OW is also married and seeing another MM. Every business arrangement is different...for me and my MM, it was...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why I respect my MM’s wife: • If he would not have married her, he would have gone to college on a baseball scholarship and I may have never met him. • Together, they...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok ladies...I've been reading the posts in here and to be honest...I relate so much to the broken hearted women that it hurts to read these messages. Ladies...dating a married man...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I told him about EP and he saw what I have wrote as "the other woman".. And he said, you are NOT the other woman, you are my "only" woman... I have never loved any woman in my...
    ssally123 ssally123 41-45, F 31 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    This is about my MM, but not particularly about the A itself. We work together - he came after me and pushed and pushed trying to get me to give him/us a chance while I was M. I...
    Arubagal Arubagal 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    sh3rylanne sh3rylanne 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Hello EP! This is my first post here. I have spent a lot of time reading others experiences and have found comfort in knowing that there are so many others in a similar situation...
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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Dearest My Lawyer, I've always admired many things about you. That remains. But we must stop anything between us so you can focus on the things that you intend to do. You don't...
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    Okay in theory yes I suppose I can guess why they do. However in practise I can't for the life of me, understand how a loving man could be happy doing this? Nor how a wife could be...
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    sunnyinmn sunnyinmn 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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    I ended my affair with a MM almost 2 years ago, it almost destroyed my life and I swear I would never get involved with another MM ever again for the rest of my day. Recently I...
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