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I Am a Woman of Incredible Strength

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    I Like to Think I Am...

    After spending my adolesence, (sp?) with a guy who beat me for 5 yrs while dating my mother behind my back, I finally got out of that relationship and found who I thought was the man of my dreams. I married this man and this past June I came home from work to find that he'd up...
    Flutterbies Flutterbies 26-30, F Aug 29, 2008

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    Now it’s my turn to ramble and just write it out. First thing I want to say is that for a long time I never thought an online relationship could be real, my husband had several...
    SideOrderOfCrazy SideOrderOfCrazy 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Everyone's definition of a woman is different. So what defines you? I am not a woman defined by just my words but by action. I am confident but not cocky. I am mature but I see the...
    PowerfulWomanSS PowerfulWomanSS 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I am just now discovering how I feel looking back now I realize I've always wanted to be a woman it explains why I've never really felt like one of the guys and why girls always...
    Longing2Beme Longing2Beme 18-21, T 4 hrs ago

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    Latest texts with my MM....(need to read my last post to understand) MM: Been thinking of you today. Me: Hoping they're good thoughts. I've been feeling pretty stupid all day...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I'm 30 and recently divorced. My ex was verbally, emotionally and somewhat physically abusive. At the same time, he was my best friend. We were together for 10 years and married...
    sdp11983 sdp11983 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm married and I'm the other woman for another man. I'm 25 and he is 45. I am in love with him.... What am I gonna go?!
    bekakaye4 bekakaye4 22-25, F 6 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    You trolls wish you were the OW...couldn't get a man (or woman!) if you tried, such pathetic POS!
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I'm sorry but I don't care who this might **** off or annoy. I'm already getting hate mail and we've been harassed all weekend. There are many positive's and negatives about any...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 18 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    So I am left feeling really stupid tonight... Again.... Talked to my guy at 1030 this morning... Said that he was going to pick me up and go for a drive cause it was so nice...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have watch my wife wit a woman an it was great
    autobodyman autobodyman 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Last night ended up so awesome. Thanks ladies for listening to me vent yesterday. Funny though, as soon as he got over to my place he was asking what was wrong and why I was so...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I have been hesitant to share my story, maybe because I have so many doubts about it, and maybe because it’s not like what everyone else is experiencing. I was also being...
    SideOrderOfCrazy SideOrderOfCrazy 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    My ex mm called. I had him blocked and he called my office. Ugh still full of lies. This makes me so thankful that I have my mm now. We had an incredible day and it's not quite...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I had a rare 5 hours with my MM on Monday. It was a delight. Plus, I still get to see him on Wednesday and Thursday. The weekend was difficult on us both. We couldn't hold off...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I relied on this site to deal with the loneliness yesterday. I feel like I have all of these new friends now who are supportive and nonjudgmental. Hugs to all the OW. Today I'd...
    Onceinalifetime2 Onceinalifetime2 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was trying to figure out if I should even put in my pathetic post today or not but so many of us seem to be feeling it today. It's weird but I have shared little of the downs...
    Onceinalifetime2 Onceinalifetime2 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Where to start? At the beginning, of coarse..... I was the middle child of three. I had an extremely dominant father and a kind mom who did her best to just survive emotionally...
    arnotushman arnotushman 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    After he ended it... crying on me for 12 hours.. writing me a 12 page letter and saying that he has to do this to see if his marriage is 100% over even and this is a head decision...
    em1290 em1290 22-25 8 Responses Mar 24

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    12 hours. Only 12 hours and I will get to see his face, his amazing smile, the way his eyes light up when he sees me - glittering in the sunlight. 12 hours and I will have his...
    OneSweetThing OneSweetThing 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    April 5. Detaching in Love. Detachment is a key to recovery from codependency. It strengthens our healthy relationships - the ones that we want to grow and flourish. It benefits...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 5

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    Reading everyone's stories has given me the strength to end my 2 year affair. For me the secrecy, the lies, the possibilities of him sleeping with his wife is too much for me. I...
    Talkthattalk86 Talkthattalk86 31-35, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think the strongest people are not the ones who hold everything in..but it's the people who let everything out! They are strong enough to cry it out, to deal with the pain head...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Yes, i know them very well..so many weakness and very few strengths. But i agree on what God has given. I have good body but not strong enough, i m allergic to cold and dust. I...
    esteem29 esteem29 26-30, M Mar 22

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    Some people are strong. I know some or quite a few single women. My friends. I don't have married friends. These friends don't bother. Don't bother looking. Don't bother presenting...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Lions are bomb! My newest drawing. Lions symbolizes strength and whenever you feel upset just think that inside you lives a lion that can't wait to show the world how strong it...
    sandra1212 sandra1212 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    WILLPOWER! Determination… motivation… keeping going… believing in yourself… Willpower… nothing's gonna stop me! I think these days a lot of willpower is needed to keep...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm a bisexual woman and have recently began my first relationship with a woman which is not just a one night stand. We spent time together and recently the night together...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My name is Trisha I'm going to begin by saying the life I chose has had its up's and downs, rewards, penalties, and mine not much different from many of yours. Honestly if I had...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    Nina Simone - The Other Woman. Caught up in my feelings... The other woman finds time to manicure her nails The other woman is perfect where her rival fails And she's never seen...
    Lavender25 Lavender25 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been thinking a lot today about being a woman, it seems to have consumed all my thoughts today and is all I think about, It would be so very wonderful and awesome to finally...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 6 Responses Mar 21

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    And it is not easy. The affair started 10 months ago with only 4 encounters and they have been intense enough to make think about him day and night. No one tells you how hard it...
    Gweneth Gweneth 31-35 8 Responses Apr 8

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    A Warning I've been on every side of an affair that a person can be on. I've been the scorned spouse. I've been the cheater. I've been the other woman. And I am not biased here...
    DogsOfJezebel DogsOfJezebel 26-30 6 Responses Apr 12

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    Question(s): Why are you "the other woman"? What is it like? Is it a proud title? What do you think of "the main woman"? And why are you given the title of "the other woman"- why...
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    Recently, I have found my self in the position of being, somewhat, the other woman. The man I am "with" is my first boyfriend and my first love. We had dated for 5 years before I...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I am beautiful, sensitive,nurturer and a giver. I have been brought up in a surrounding where a woman is respected. I am not a hardcore feminist but I believe women are the most...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    My girlfriend and I want to find another woman to join us when we have sex. Sometimes we watch lesbian **** together and it really turns us both on. It was my girlfriend's idea to...
    ryallstar ryallstar 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    There is something so intoxicating about being with a MM. He can say and do the same things as a single man. But knowing that he isn't mine and knowing that he is not free to...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    So I am new to this site.... Had to find a way to talk about everything I am going thru... So I am involved with a man that has been in a relationship with another woman for 13...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    We began as co-workers. He was married; I was 5-year's divorced and stable with my independence/schooling/future. Throughout my life, I've been more of a listener than a sharer...
    nowunderwatertime nowunderwatertime 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just feeling annoyed! It's always so hard when you're on that high and things come down. I got to see MM everyday for 2 weeks straight. We may not have been able to steal a kiss...
    ginaree ginaree 36-40, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    It took a lot of hard work to get to the point where I am able to look in the mirror and say I am not ugly. It took a lot of hard work to not point out all of my flaws. It took...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    How did I get back here? I think I may be a self sabotaging sadist. I don't want to be the other woman. I want to be the only woman. I know he has no relationship with her...
    L0nelyGirl L0nelyGirl 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 25

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    Beautiful woman goes in an adult shop and is immediately drawn to the v.......r section She looks at one and thinks Mmmm delicious picks another up and thinks Wow fantastic and...
    pfloyd121 pfloyd121 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 26

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Nothing like when you thought you were doing better after breaking up with ow to realize she never really cared for you and everything was a lie...hurts a lot to feel you don't...
    floaty2001 floaty2001 31-35, M 9 Responses Mar 28

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    I have dated black woman before and it was great . Lately it been impossible to meet black woman
    mruiz252 mruiz252 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am missing my guy so much tonight! I haven't seen him since Wednesday and don't get me wrong I loved my long weekend with my kids but they're with their dad tonight so now it's...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I am married to a great guy. He isn't perfect but who is. Anyways, he knows that I am more attracted to women than I am men and he knows that I have been with women in the past. I...
    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F Mar 31