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I Am a Woman of My Word

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    I Keep My Words ...

    Every word I said .. I keep it .. I have never broken any promises .. I consider words are not just words but it imply the real person in you. How reliable you are, How responsible you are, and so on... Therefore, I value my words and Im a woman of them ...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F Dec 9, 2009

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    Simple, Really

    I went through an extended phase of chronic lying as an adolescent.  All that earned me was distrust from my friends and teachers, and beatings from my father. On the other hand, when I started telling the truth I (slowly, I must admit) earned the respect of those who once...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2011

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    You Bet!

    I never say I'm going to do something, that I am unsure that I can actually deliver. This annoys my mother sometimes, for when she asks me to do a favor for her, if I am not sure if I can pull it off I won't give her a definite, "It will be done!". :-/ I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8, 2009

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    I Am A Woman Of My Word

    Short and simply put, i would not waste our time telling you something that wasn't true. I would not benefit either of us, and i have better things to do with my time.
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2012

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    Those Who Know Me Know

    Anyone who knows me knows that my word is me.
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2009

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    Sweet Promises

    I kept my word to all people who have come in and out of my life-EVERYONE! But for me what's most  important is keeping promises in relationships and again I have kept ALL my promises and more... I have done more than my share in this world.
    berrychic berrychic 31-35 2 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    I Strive For This

    My words are mine ... and i try to keep them. Learned it from another generation. It is a way of life that may be receding.     One must always remember: “Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F Mar 23, 2009

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    I Am a Woman of My Word

    I have always been very strong willed and a woman of my word, if I say I am going to do something then I am going to do something. Until it comes to losing weight.......................Then I just cant seem to do that!
    DVOC DVOC 36-40 Jul 1, 2009

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    Move Heaven And Earth

    I pride myself on keeping my word. I will to everything humanly possible to make it so. I don't give it lightly or with frivolity. I don't make vows generally speaking because it is almost like setting yourself up to fail.
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

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    I Remain True to My Word

    Even if I had no power, I was str!pped of everything down to my name, my word will remain true and unmoved. Honesty and loyalty, when I can't fulfill a promise I actually get a little annoyed and upset at myself because I feel like I've failed in some way. Call it a form of code...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F Jan 15, 2009

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    That Word Is...

    LOYAL I will never knowingly hurt, betray, lie to, cheat or scar anyone I know. I love everyone as if they were my very self. Of course, loyalty means that you will get constructively criticised sometimes, too.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    And

    You can take that to the grave.
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    The Stirs Of Longing On I.M.

     Since I made the decision a few months ago, to leave my 28-year marriage, I have experienced a torrent of emotion, unlike anything else in my entire life.  The last few weeks in particular have been nothing short of hellish as those who have received my late night emails...
    juliannaq juliannaq 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    I Earned My Values and Standards and Continue To Do So Every Day

    If I carelessly told people things that they could expect from me and things they could count on and wasn't a woman of my word, I'd really find it hard to live with myself. I often have problems that come not from an uncaring attitude, but rather from my caring too much. Unless...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2011

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    I Love Joan of Arc

    She's everything I would want & love to be. My first awareness of her, I knew she will always be my #1 role model. Even now at the age of 51. When I'm looking for strength and wisdom, I look to her.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2009

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    I had a rare 5 hours with my MM on Monday. It was a delight. Plus, I still get to see him on Wednesday and Thursday. The weekend was difficult on us both. We couldn't hold off...
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    mittengirl mittengirl 26-30, F Mar 28

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    Xf1234 Xf1234 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was trying to figure out if I should even put in my pathetic post today or not but so many of us seem to be feeling it today. It's weird but I have shared little of the downs...
    Onceinalifetime2 Onceinalifetime2 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a friend that I have chatted with everyday for months she is really the most beautiful and lovable woman but she is very stressed and emotional so at some point almost every...
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Thumbelina firmly grasped my testicles.....like a stock woman with an ill mannered elderly breeding bull.
    Vetrov Vetrov 51-55, M Mar 27

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