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I Am a Woman Scorned

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    Scorn No More!

    I was married for 35 years and a good 20 of those years were filled with emotional as well as sexual affairs on my ex-spouse's part.  The usual story; 3 daughters to raise so I kept in a relationship hoping he would grow up. Shortly before our 35 anniversary, he told me he...
    pepper57 pepper57 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Wat To Do Wat To Do

    im afraid to try cuz it never seems like anything i do is good enough no matter wat. Im stuck with the ultimatum of school or get a better job i dont kno y but i cant seem to find a job paying mor than 8 buck an hourif u read my last post than u kno a lil bit about my story want...
    bphylicia bphylicia 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Congratulations

    I thought I met my soul mate almost 2 years ago..... I should have heided the signs, but because I was so blinded by love I ignored all warnings. Never questioned the fact that I didn't meet his dsughter or his grandmother before she passed away.... I ended up breaking up with...
    mzzjones mzzjones 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Scorn No More!

    I was married for 35 years and a good 20 of those years were filled with emotional as well as sexual affairs on my ex-spouse's part.  The usual story; 3 daughters to raise so I kept in a relationship hoping he would grow up. Shortly before our 35 anniversary, he told me he...
    pepper57 pepper57 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Hell Has No Fury......

    I guess you could say the title says it all.  I am yet another woman who joins the statisic of "Surviving an affair".  My husband had an/is having an affair with the woman who was my best friend.  The woman I shared my deepest darkest secrets with. ...
    Foolishme2008 Foolishme2008 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    I Found Out After 4 Years ..... My Boyfriend Is Bi-sexual

    I found evidence of him being with men .. strangers ... I found condoms ... I found him suddenly accessing **** .. viewing dicks ... I found naked **** pics everywhere ... on his mobile ... his computer .... My research led me to find out ... yes he was a swinger ... he was...
    Sk85734 Sk85734 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    Do I Tell Her?

    My ex, who is living with someone new, just viewed me on a dating site. I don't for any reason think he's interested in me again - he just looked out of curiosity but he's definitely looking for someone.... Do I tell his new girlfriend?
    WayneMarie WayneMarie 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Emotional Affair & Him Hanging On..

    He's not "seeing" her anymore. I put a stop to that right quick. However, he's clinging to all the people who hid the whole thing and helped him hide it. I had friended one of them but found out she was creeping for the "other woman" (I use woman loosely in the terms of fat...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 4 Responses May 15, 2011

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    .tim Anderson 1282

    Women beware of this British Transport Police Officer Tim Anderson 1282    He traps women with his charming ways, he then uses them to his advantage by taking borrowing money or making them pay for items with the promise that he'll pay them back...
    hatetim hatetim 26-30 4 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Trying To Overcome My Man Emotionally Cheating On Me.

    My man of 11 yrs. was pursuing the factory ***** via texting n FB. I caught them and now they are so sorry. He is her supervisor on first and I wrk 2nd there. I see her some days n still want to kick her cutsie, manipulative butt. She even invited him to her home but he couldn't...
    howtoheal94 howtoheal94 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2013

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    Thought He Would Love Me Forever...Until A Loose Legged Woman Came Along.

    For years I took care of everything while he was gone out of town. I gave up things (job & School) so i could be home with our children. Now that our children are on their own so am I. My husband of 27years left me cause we have nothing in common. What a joke. I found the truth...
    clueless4now clueless4now 51-55 May 12, 2013

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    Love Stinks

    I Am a Woman Scorned. I have been with this man for the past 5 years. We started dating a short while after he and his ex-girlfriend supposedly broke up. Three months ago I found out that he and her is back together. I asked him about it and he denied it as they always do. I...
    trihabrown trihabrown 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Love No's Pain!

    im 22 years old and have been with this guy since i was 16 through those 6 years ive givin birth to our now 4 years old daughter and have left my home town where all my family and friends reside shortly after giving birth he gave me an STD and "mingled" countless times on various...
    bphylicia bphylicia 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    4monthsworth

    my husband and i have been married 23 years.  it's been 1 1/2 months now since i found out he was sleeping with a woman from his work.  he swears its over and he wants to make it up to me and be the man i need, but how do i give him 4 months of cheating?
    lessonsincheating101 lessonsincheating101 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    A Warning I've been on every side of an affair that a person can be on. I've been the scorned spouse. I've been the cheater. I've been the other woman. And I am not biased here...
    DogsOfJezebel DogsOfJezebel 26-30 6 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm married and I'm the other woman for another man. I'm 25 and he is 45. I am in love with him.... What am I gonna go?!
    bekakaye4 bekakaye4 22-25, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    You trolls wish you were the OW...couldn't get a man (or woman!) if you tried, such pathetic POS!
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm sorry but I don't care who this might **** off or annoy. I'm already getting hate mail and we've been harassed all weekend. There are many positive's and negatives about any...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 17 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My name is Trisha I'm going to begin by saying the life I chose has had its up's and downs, rewards, penalties, and mine not much different from many of yours. Honestly if I had...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    Nina Simone - The Other Woman. Caught up in my feelings... The other woman finds time to manicure her nails The other woman is perfect where her rival fails And she's never seen...
    Lavender25 Lavender25 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been thinking a lot today about being a woman, it seems to have consumed all my thoughts today and is all I think about, It would be so very wonderful and awesome to finally...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm a bisexual woman and have recently began my first relationship with a woman which is not just a one night stand. We spent time together and recently the night together...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Everyone's definition of a woman is different. So what defines you? I am not a woman defined by just my words but by action. I am confident but not cocky. I am mature but I see the...
    PowerfulWomanSS PowerfulWomanSS 18-21, F Mar 31

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    And it is not easy. The affair started 10 months ago with only 4 encounters and they have been intense enough to make think about him day and night. No one tells you how hard it...
    Gweneth Gweneth 31-35 8 Responses Apr 8

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    Question(s): Why are you "the other woman"? What is it like? Is it a proud title? What do you think of "the main woman"? And why are you given the title of "the other woman"- why...
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    Recently, I have found my self in the position of being, somewhat, the other woman. The man I am "with" is my first boyfriend and my first love. We had dated for 5 years before I...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Right now I appreciate allot of the comments from the other women who are supportive of other women. I am both the other woman and wife. I am out as the other woman because he got...
    christinehart christinehart 56-60, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I am beautiful, sensitive,nurturer and a giver. I have been brought up in a surrounding where a woman is respected. I am not a hardcore feminist but I believe women are the most...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    My girlfriend and I want to find another woman to join us when we have sex. Sometimes we watch lesbian **** together and it really turns us both on. It was my girlfriend's idea to...
    ryallstar ryallstar 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    There is something so intoxicating about being with a MM. He can say and do the same things as a single man. But knowing that he isn't mine and knowing that he is not free to...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    So I am new to this site.... Had to find a way to talk about everything I am going thru... So I am involved with a man that has been in a relationship with another woman for 13...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    We began as co-workers. He was married; I was 5-year's divorced and stable with my independence/schooling/future. Throughout my life, I've been more of a listener than a sharer...
    nowunderwatertime nowunderwatertime 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just feeling annoyed! It's always so hard when you're on that high and things come down. I got to see MM everyday for 2 weeks straight. We may not have been able to steal a kiss...
    ginaree ginaree 36-40, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    It took a lot of hard work to get to the point where I am able to look in the mirror and say I am not ugly. It took a lot of hard work to not point out all of my flaws. It took...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    How did I get back here? I think I may be a self sabotaging sadist. I don't want to be the other woman. I want to be the only woman. I know he has no relationship with her...
    L0nelyGirl L0nelyGirl 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 25

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    Beautiful woman goes in an adult shop and is immediately drawn to the v.......r section She looks at one and thinks Mmmm delicious picks another up and thinks Wow fantastic and...
    pfloyd121 pfloyd121 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 26

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Nothing like when you thought you were doing better after breaking up with ow to realize she never really cared for you and everything was a lie...hurts a lot to feel you don't...
    floaty2001 floaty2001 31-35, M 9 Responses Mar 28

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    I have dated black woman before and it was great . Lately it been impossible to meet black woman
    mruiz252 mruiz252 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am missing my guy so much tonight! I haven't seen him since Wednesday and don't get me wrong I loved my long weekend with my kids but they're with their dad tonight so now it's...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I am married to a great guy. He isn't perfect but who is. Anyways, he knows that I am more attracted to women than I am men and he knows that I have been with women in the past. I...
    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I was the other woman for more than 2 years. When I read the posts in “I am the other woman” experiences, I feel for all of you and it reminds how miserable I was. How the...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    It would be nice to find a woman that is as passionate about intimacy as I am. Someone that does not give a dam about who might see them or where they are. Someone that loves...
    Blazen71 Blazen71 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Physically, and probably more emotionally. I can't say I've ever been respected by a man. There're those who insult you on the street or... that's actually not the worse. The...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I would love to have a woman seduce me. Who wouldn't. I really want a woman to give me a killer hand job. Then make me lick her hand clean before kissing her.
    mabiguy mabiguy 36-40, M Apr 7

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    I just don't know where else to pour my heart out. I am in love with my best friend of 10 years. He professed his love and claimed that he's been in love for at least half of the...
    whatnow2288 whatnow2288 31-35 1 Response Apr 7

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    As I prepare for my first gender clinic appointment on Wednesday, I'm in a truly reflective mood. I know I have always wanted to be a woman but I think back to the first time I...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 4 Responses Apr 12

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    My wife is now in her early 40's and she had had two sons. She works at taking care of herself and her body looks amazing. I am a super lucky man to be married to my very best...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M Apr 12

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    I am his wife but yet I feel like I'm the other woman. It's about to be two months since I gave the hubby an ultimatum his family or this other woman. As I suspected he choose her...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am his wife but yet I feel like I'm the other woman. It's about to be two months since I gave the hubby an ultimatum his family or this other woman. As I suspected he choose her...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    So basically, i have recently reconnected with my ex and although the love and the passion is still there between, he is now involved in a new relationship with some other woman...
    CountryGirl028 CountryGirl028 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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