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I Am a Woman Scorned

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    Love Stinks

    I Am a Woman Scorned. I have been with this man for the past 5 years. We started dating a short while after he and his ex-girlfriend supposedly broke up. Three months ago I found out that he and her is back together. I asked him about it and he denied it as they always do. I...
    trihabrown trihabrown 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Congratulations

    I thought I met my soul mate almost 2 years ago..... I should have heided the signs, but because I was so blinded by love I ignored all warnings. Never questioned the fact that I didn't meet his dsughter or his grandmother before she passed away.... I ended up breaking up with...
    mzzjones mzzjones 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    .tim Anderson 1282

    Women beware of this British Transport Police Officer Tim Anderson 1282    He traps women with his charming ways, he then uses them to his advantage by taking borrowing money or making them pay for items with the promise that he'll pay them back...
    hatetim hatetim 26-30 4 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Love No's Pain!

    im 22 years old and have been with this guy since i was 16 through those 6 years ive givin birth to our now 4 years old daughter and have left my home town where all my family and friends reside shortly after giving birth he gave me an STD and "mingled" countless times on various...
    bphylicia bphylicia 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Wat To Do Wat To Do

    im afraid to try cuz it never seems like anything i do is good enough no matter wat. Im stuck with the ultimatum of school or get a better job i dont kno y but i cant seem to find a job paying mor than 8 buck an hourif u read my last post than u kno a lil bit about my story want...
    bphylicia bphylicia 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Do I Tell Her?

    My ex, who is living with someone new, just viewed me on a dating site. I don't for any reason think he's interested in me again - he just looked out of curiosity but he's definitely looking for someone.... Do I tell his new girlfriend?
    WayneMarie WayneMarie 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    Trying To Overcome My Man Emotionally Cheating On Me.

    My man of 11 yrs. was pursuing the factory ***** via texting n FB. I caught them and now they are so sorry. He is her supervisor on first and I wrk 2nd there. I see her some days n still want to kick her cutsie, manipulative butt. She even invited him to her home but he couldn't...
    howtoheal94 howtoheal94 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2013

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    4monthsworth

    my husband and i have been married 23 years.  it's been 1 1/2 months now since i found out he was sleeping with a woman from his work.  he swears its over and he wants to make it up to me and be the man i need, but how do i give him 4 months of cheating?
    lessonsincheating101 lessonsincheating101 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    Scorn No More!

    I was married for 35 years and a good 20 of those years were filled with emotional as well as sexual affairs on my ex-spouse's part.  The usual story; 3 daughters to raise so I kept in a relationship hoping he would grow up. Shortly before our 35 anniversary, he told me he...
    pepper57 pepper57 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Emotional Affair & Him Hanging On..

    He's not "seeing" her anymore. I put a stop to that right quick. However, he's clinging to all the people who hid the whole thing and helped him hide it. I had friended one of them but found out she was creeping for the "other woman" (I use woman loosely in the terms of fat...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 4 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Hell Has No Fury......

    I guess you could say the title says it all.  I am yet another woman who joins the statisic of "Surviving an affair".  My husband had an/is having an affair with the woman who was my best friend.  The woman I shared my deepest darkest secrets with. ...
    Foolishme2008 Foolishme2008 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    Scorn No More!

    I was married for 35 years and a good 20 of those years were filled with emotional as well as sexual affairs on my ex-spouse's part.  The usual story; 3 daughters to raise so I kept in a relationship hoping he would grow up. Shortly before our 35 anniversary, he told me he...
    pepper57 pepper57 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    I Found Out After 4 Years ..... My Boyfriend Is Bi-sexual

    I found evidence of him being with men .. strangers ... I found condoms ... I found him suddenly accessing **** .. viewing dicks ... I found naked **** pics everywhere ... on his mobile ... his computer .... My research led me to find out ... yes he was a swinger ... he was...
    Sk85734 Sk85734 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    How Hurt Would You Be?

    I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your Affair...
    SHAWNTWAIN SHAWNTWAIN 51-55, M Mar 29, 2010

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    Thought He Would Love Me Forever...Until A Loose Legged Woman Came Along.

    For years I took care of everything while he was gone out of town. I gave up things (job & School) so i could be home with our children. Now that our children are on their own so am I. My husband of 27years left me cause we have nothing in common. What a joke. I found the truth...
    clueless4now clueless4now 51-55 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    This is what I found, posted one year ago. Things have changed, but I believed we would be the ones to work out. "The One The Works Out Sometimes it works out. I'm a work in...
    chasinglesun chasinglesun 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I joined I am the other woman group but it's one big pity party. I believe in honesty to others and myself. The other man or woman ever wonder why you are? To cheat the cheater...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I think I am making the right decision to end this affair. He sent me an offline message about his wife trying to find a second job. They have been struggling financially. He lost...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    There are so many women on here that profess to be "the other woman", that stocks of "the woman" must be running short. I think that's why I can't find a date. Damn!!!
    brianwatson1 brianwatson1 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    They're usually kinder and chattier, they don't do something to make you dread your next appointment with them, they make you feel comfortable. I have had a few nice man doctors...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    September 18. Letting the Good Stuff Happen. "Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 16 hrs ago

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    Knights in white satin Never reaching the end Letters I've written, Never meaning to send =============================== Darling, Thanks for writing today. But I have to...
    PC09 PC09 51-55 10 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find one mature nice woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 9 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find one nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 9 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find one nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find a nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find a nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 8 hrs ago

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    I blocked and reported Honesty899, for using racial slurs and name calling. I think many of you should do the same. This is suppose to be a safe place for members to share and get...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 18 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I am gay and I am married to a woman. I have to tell her soon. I have decided that I want to have sex with men but not until I admit to her what she already knows. I feel like such...
    walkingcast1 walkingcast1 41-45, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    For the first time I felt a little jealous. He and I were in my office when a woman from another department dropped by. She is always very flirty with all guys and I know my AP...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I read a story the other day that really got me thinking. A woman was talking about her affair and how her therapist had said something along the lines of, "you don't love him. You...
    RedSheep2 RedSheep2 26-30, F 3 Responses 39 mins ago

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    According to someone much younger than myself it's someone with a head on their shoulders... A woman that can pay for herself. A woman that doesn't always need a man by her side. A...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    This is from http://zodiacsigntraits.com/aries-female-personality-traits.html The Aries Woman: Here is a woman who has it all, does it all, and wants it all. An Aries woman is a...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Ok so this post is intended to a dear friend that is a part of our EP family....They will know immediately its intended for them once they read this....and honestly I want him to...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    What kind *f woman? She rang me at work. I endured a venomous 45 minute call from the long term partner of the man I adored. She asked me what kind *f woman could do what I had...
    QueenFL QueenFL 41-45, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Lindsey's boyfriend Max had gone to work in the city of Hamilton. It was a 35 min drive to Hamilton from his place. Max lived on a acreage about 4 miles from the nearest town. At...
    BigCrow BigCrow 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I never ever expected to be the other woman. I've now been the other woman for 2.5 years.. About 8 months ago I told my MM that I couldn't do it anymore. He took is well at the...
    YourMissingPiece YourMissingPiece 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    GEN.2:18 - THE LORD GOD SAID, IT IS NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD BE ALONE; I WILL MAKE HIM AN HELP MEET FOR HIM ECCL.4:9-11 - TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE...THEY HAVE A GOOD REWARD ECCL...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 5

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    Last night was our monthly Retrouvaille support group (called CORE) for marriage meeting. Summary, for anyone new to this part of EP, we are over a year since I discovered his...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    So my story is a little different. It's a long one but please stay with me. He is married but I'm also engaged. I've been with my fiancé for 6 years now and I met my MM a little...
    AriLenni14 AriLenni14 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 9

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    Men who lack the courage to leave This is not directed at other women who seduce married men, nor women who have their own personal reasons for a limited sexual relationship with...
    QueenFL QueenFL 41-45, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can't take it anymore, I want to be a woman right now and I don't want to wait anymore. It is all I have ever wanted, I can't stop thinking about it anymore, It is all I have...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 6 Responses Aug 19

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    My MM came to my job to see me yesterday. It took so much out of me to hold up the tears. I love him so much but how can I forgive him. The trust is gone if he loves me, wants me...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Ee me through a common friend and when I slept with him I didnt know he had a girlfriend. He told me on the second night. I was stunned because I had nver been with someo e who was...
    jamieontherun jamieontherun 31-35, F Aug 19

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    Update: It’s a long one sorry….So my ExMM came here and read my last post….he had promised me he would never invade my privacy again (he has come here in the past and read...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm a plus size divorced woman and have tried all the dating sites, but just get trolls to respond. People tell me that I'm beautiful but the rejection and insults from the dating...
    Phoenixsa71 Phoenixsa71 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Looking for other woman input. I thought I had the OW but found out I'm also the other man. My other woman that I'm deeply in love with is engaged. She didn't tell me she was...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 24

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    You ask yourself why he seems sad, after the affair, and think it's because he misses being with you. That he doesn't feel love and attention from her like you gave him. Or that...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 Aug 24

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26