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I Am a Young Black Lesbian

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    I Need Some Help,Please?

    So I came out to my mom a while back and she doesn't accept me as I am( she's very religious). I just want her acceptance so bad, I'm only 16 years old but I am definitely sure I am a lesbian. I need help on how to deal with this,please
    PhotoChild PhotoChild 16-17, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I never thought that I was going to be this

    girl/woman. I grew up very interested in men. Making them feel good, being great at sex but never really enjoying it. But I knew how to get them, how to please them, how to make them fall. I knew how they operated how to please them, intrigue them and make them want me. I...
    zoraloveshard zoraloveshard 26-30, F Apr 8

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    Have You Ever...

    I have recently been slowly and quite thoroughly seduced by a lesbian who is 12 years my senior, she is in the closet and she seems nice but she really is a heart breaker, I'm ******* wide open with no where to turn. I don't know what I am going to do. Why would someone her age...
    desirejules desirejules 22-25 6 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    New to This..still Unsure

    I'm only 20 years old, so I'm fairly new to this whole "lesbian" term. I honestly dont know if I'm really a lesbian or im just bi. I've had these feelings for woman/girl since I was little. My first kiss was with a girl but I was like 7 or something so I chopped that up...
    BrittBanks88 BrittBanks88 18-21 6 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    Love Jones

    I want to tell you something, but I'm afraid of how you're going to react. I want us to be more than just friends. I know, It's weird isn't it? You drive me crazy! With your moodiness and insecurities, you flip-flop from one emotion to another. Yeah, It came as a shock to me...
    tootieness tootieness 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Lesbian and Single

    I consider myself to be a very cool person to know and love, as a friend or partner. Now this is not arrogance it is simply fact. Most people who meet me like me on sight and if they don't, they respect me. People like to hang around me, they like to say they know me. They refer...
    tootieness tootieness 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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