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I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife

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    I just wanted to tell all the ladies who's

    boyfriends / husbands are in boot camp that the next camp they have to go to mine is SOI it's much better. Like way better. They get to have their phones with them. They aren't suppose to have them during the day but my husband still finds a way to text me during the day. He...
    Camrynn19 Camrynn19 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2013

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    such a bittersweet call!

    His voice sounded so different because he's loosing it
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Apr 19

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    40 days till my wedding

    and till my soldier comes home ! I'm so excited but really nervous for the transition of living on a base and leaving my whole life in California to start a new life with my soldier in Kentucky. I'm embracing this new experience with open arms but I can't help to worry . Is...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response May 24, 2014

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    I am dreading Saturday.

    It's our anniversary and knowing him he will probably forget because he has so much other stuff on his mind and all day I'm going to have the constant reminder that he isn't here more so than most days.
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 21

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    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    I just have a couple of questions .

    .. Can anybody find a group for camp Pendleton mct on Facebook? If so let me know(: also I think I'm going to my marines mct graduation or family day, any suggestions on what I should wear??
    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I was hoping I would get a call today

    but nothing :( I miss him him so much :(
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    In 2 days I will be an Army Wife.

    This is not the life I had expected; my father was Special Forces and I always said I would NEVER marry into the Army but I am. I love my fiance, and I know this will be hard but I am excited to start a life with him. Being a soldier is his job, it's not who he is. Who he is a...
    kholb112 kholb112 22-25 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    My boyfriend asked me to marry him Sunday

    and then had to leave Monday. That's such a hard thing to deal with. So now I'm engaged at 17 and still in high school of course I'm going to get hate and rude comments from everyone but no one understands the situation.. Anyone going through the same thing ?
    Alexisco Alexisco 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Jul 30, 2014

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    2 days away from being with my husband

    and in our new home . Time has been dragging and we've gone through the worst and I'm finally able to say the hard part is over and I can finally take a sigh of relief. I can't wait till I'm in my husband arms💕
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F Jul 29, 2014

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    So since we have gotten married a lot of things

    have been moving along. My name is officially changed! We got offered a house on base and it's even better then the one we wanted because somehow we got offered a 4 bedroom house! He has gone back and moved in and started buying things and setting up our furniture. I stayed back...
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    Me and another Army wife went out on a all day

    date! Probably the best time I've had since he left!:)
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Seriously, Stop It!

    Okay, I'm on several pages on Facebook for military spouses where we can all go and have a laugh together, and to support and encourage each other while our hubby's are deployed, etc. and also on several military spouse groups on here, & I NEED to get this out. Say what you will...
    bnsjms bnsjms 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    I am going through the basic

    and ait phase right now with my husband. I am 18 and I got married before I graduated high school. My husband is in the army and he is 14h (Air Defense early enhanced warning system operator. I want to make friends with other military wives/gf's.
    jazzfest18 jazzfest18 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm praying for the best right now!

    Not just for myself and my Soldier but for every other girl out there and every other solider out there!!! Ladies, I wake up daily and remind myself I'm grateful my Soldier hasn't fallen!!! Keep strong!!!
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 17

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    Tonight has been pretty exciting with all of

    the conflict occurring. My post was not aimed at all military wives so if you were offended I apologize but I do not feel I said anything wrong. There are plenty of women out there that are grumpy in the sense of unhappy with their marriage as well as unfaithful. If you're happy...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F a week ago

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    Just got off the phone with my sailor.

    He is leaving to sea for a month. I know it is not a lot at all because we already went thru boot camp and A school and a few months when we weren't talking but I got off the phone and now I'm crying! I love this man so freaking much!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Look. If you're HAPPY with your marriage

    and you are NOT cheating on your husband then you are not considered a grumpy military wife. I NEVER SAID ALL MILITARY WIVES. NEVER ONCE DID I SAY THAT. ASK QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU START JUMPING ON PEOPLE. DO NOT ATTACK PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU WILL BE ATTACKED BACK.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    it feels good to know I'm not the only one

    going through this frustration. respect to all of you ladies, we might be feeling lonely right now but it will eventually pay off once we see our men. makes us appreciate more, that's a fact. stay up!!
    mustloveariel mustloveariel 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    This Is To All You Girls

    I'm the girl standing behind you at the grocery store eyeing the latest support our troops magnet while flipping through the pages of Cosmo. the look on her face is complacent, and her thoughts are thousands of miles away . on some military base she's only been describe to threw...
    deleted deleted 26-30 43 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    They posted on Facebook

    that we get calls tonight!!!!:D I'm so excited!!!!!! ????
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Guys can I start my countdown yet?

    ?????????? 29 more days. Should I open it and start it or wait?
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Apr 22

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    5 more days.. Then I go home.

    But still going to be away from my guy for god knows how long... Miss him like crazy :(
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F Apr 19

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    I am confident in our relationship

    but sometimes I do get scared and have moments of doubt. I honestly feel like our relationship is just sort of a countdown until we get married.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    A Military Girlfriend’s Guide To “When Does It Get Better?”

    I’ve been on this site for quite a few months now, and I keep seeing the same questions from new military girlfriends: 1. “When do I feel normal again?” 2. “Does it ever get easier?” 3. “Does it get better?” The answers to these questions are: 1. You don’t. 2. It...
    Heismyrightwingman Heismyrightwingman 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I leave for Alaska in one week!

    I am getting nervous but it still hasn't hit me yet that I only have a one way ticket and I will be living there! I cannot wait to see my husband and start out lives together. After over 2 years of long distance it still doesn't feel real that it's actually happening.
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Stupid Valentine's Day lol great a day of

    pictures with happy couples red roses and chocolate. I miss my baby :( my valentine is far away...
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Is it normal to have

    that thought in the back of your mind saying "What if he doesn't have the same feelings as he did when he left?"
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    Yes he's finally home

    and I finally have my ring and we are finally going to get married!!
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2014

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    My boyfriend hasn't brought up marriage anymore.

    But whenever we talk about the future and his next duty station after he comes home from deployment he'll say like "when we move" or "when we find out where our new station will be" I get really excited because I know he still sees me in his plans.
    piscil piscil 18-21, F Nov 16, 2014

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    Homesick.. But for my man.

    . Hmm "bae-sick" ?!
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F a week ago

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    I just purchased my plane ticket

    and in exactly 8 days 9hours and 10 minutes I'll be in Kentucky with my husband in our new home together. We've been through everything we never imagined that would happen but thank god were finally going to be together and starting the rest of our life together as man and wife...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    Went to school for 7 hours then a 8.

    5 hour day at work. ugh my feet hurt! I have another 8 hours work day tomorrow but no school!!!! I came home to a cute but short letter. He told me to watch this video!!! EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU NEED TO WATCH IT! It is perfect! https://youtu.be/26U_seo0a1g
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 23

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    17 days till my fiancé comes homes

    and 25 days till our wedding 💕 It's been 7 months since I've seen him and I'm pretty nervous about seeing I get butterflies in my stomach thinking about seeing him, is that normal or am I just weird? the time apart between us has been rough and their definitely has been ups...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    To much drama in this group.

    Lets just stop posting about it. This website isn't for drama, but for help.
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Ugh only 3 more weeks

    and two days left of school and they could not go by any slower! I'm just so ready to go and pack up my things and move in with my husband already! ( it's so weird to call him my husband now) but I'm happy and I miss him and bursting with emotions! I'm anxious, nervous, excited...
    infinitelovexo infinitelovexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I just had one of the best nights of my life

    yet on my way home I couldn't help but wishing that he was there with me. My heart aches, it's his first weekend away at MCT and I'm terrified he won't get a phone call tomorrow.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F Apr 19

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    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Hey my bf leaves for boot camp in 3 weeks

    and was wondering is there is anyone else who is going through this or for those who have gone through it if you have any tips to how you coped w it?
    SusanEst4 SusanEst4 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Got a phone call from him yesterday!

    ! I was shaking so bad. It felt so good to hear his voice again, even though it was 3 minutes. Anyway just really excited!!
    hesmyeverything98 hesmyeverything98 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    What I Want All Military Girlfriends To Realize

    We have been seperated for 6 months now as of today. And there's a 3 hour time difference between us which means its hard for us to find time for just us. And I complain a the time about not being able to talk like we used to. Well this past weekend, he spent the whole weekend...
    SubmarinersLovebird SubmarinersLovebird 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2013

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    One Solider leaves. One comes home!

    !!!:D My Uncle is coming home tonight! I am one of the happiest girls ever!!!:)
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 15

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    He always used to diffuse grapefruit oil in the

    diffuser at night when we went to bed and I didn't want to do it because I didn't want to think of him more than I do but I finally did it last night and I slept through the night perfectly for the first time in forever! It made me feel so mug better and I woke up refreshed...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 21

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    Probably the worst day of my life

    since he left!!!:'(
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Okay so apparently I overheard him.

    He said he would be getting deployed in February 2016! As long as nothing comes up soon, which I hope not! So I definitely should be with him by then. And he was also told today that he will be able to come home for thanksgiving. My spirits are lifted once again! xx
    infinitelovexo infinitelovexo 18-21, F Nov 24, 2014

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