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I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife

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    I was hoping I would get a call today

    but nothing :( I miss him him so much :(
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    A Military Girlfriend’s Guide To “When Does It Get Better?”

    I’ve been on this site for quite a few months now, and I keep seeing the same questions from new military girlfriends: 1. “When do I feel normal again?” 2. “Does it ever get easier?” 3. “Does it get better?” The answers to these questions are: 1. You don’t. 2. It...
    Heismyrightwingman Heismyrightwingman 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I just purchased my plane ticket

    and in exactly 8 days 9hours and 10 minutes I'll be in Kentucky with my husband in our new home together. We've been through everything we never imagined that would happen but thank god were finally going to be together and starting the rest of our life together as man and wife...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    The hardest thing right

    now is knowing he's upset because I won't be there for his graduation:( I keep praying it will work out and I will be allowed to go because it would make his day!
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend hasn't brought up marriage anymore.

    But whenever we talk about the future and his next duty station after he comes home from deployment he'll say like "when we move" or "when we find out where our new station will be" I get really excited because I know he still sees me in his plans.
    piscil piscil 18-21, F Nov 16, 2014

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    Seriously, Stop It!

    Okay, I'm on several pages on Facebook for military spouses where we can all go and have a laugh together, and to support and encourage each other while our hubby's are deployed, etc. and also on several military spouse groups on here, & I NEED to get this out. Say what you will...
    bnsjms bnsjms 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    Stupid Valentine's Day lol great a day of

    pictures with happy couples red roses and chocolate. I miss my baby :( my valentine is far away...
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    such a bittersweet call!

    His voice sounded so different because he's loosing it
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Apr 19

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    Hey my bf leaves for boot camp in 3 weeks

    and was wondering is there is anyone else who is going through this or for those who have gone through it if you have any tips to how you coped w it?
    SusanEst4 SusanEst4 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Just got off the phone with my sailor.

    He is leaving to sea for a month. I know it is not a lot at all because we already went thru boot camp and A school and a few months when we weren't talking but I got off the phone and now I'm crying! I love this man so freaking much!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Jul 30, 2014

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    I just have to get this out there

    because me and my battle wife have been talking about this a lot. So everyone at our school has been saying some rude things to us lately such as "You can't truly love a soldier" or "You are crazy to even try." Or the one we hear the most "It is going to end with one of you...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses Apr 29

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    My baby is back for today!

    ! I literally pushed everyone out of my way and ran out of my rehearsal when I saw missed calls from my man lol. This girl was like "what's happening?! Why are you do excited??" And I said that my boyfriend called and she looked at me like had ten heads and I said "No, you don't...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I HATE those grumpy military wives

    that are against young marriage. Like, it's okay for you to be against it but having age on your side does not make you more likely to succeed. Do NOT try to talk anyone out of it or make a big fuss of their decision. Try until you can't try anymore. We'll never know until we...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 10 Responses Apr 25

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    My boyfriend gets liberty at MCT on Sunday.

    I was wondering if it's allowed to bring presents because I have something I've been working on for him
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    woah, its been a while

    since ive been on here ! hope everyone is doing gr8 :)
    Nmxx7 Nmxx7 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    To much drama in this group.

    Lets just stop posting about it. This website isn't for drama, but for help.
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F Apr 26

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    it feels good to know I'm not the only one

    going through this frustration. respect to all of you ladies, we might be feeling lonely right now but it will eventually pay off once we see our men. makes us appreciate more, that's a fact. stay up!!
    mustloveariel mustloveariel 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    I am going through the basic

    and ait phase right now with my husband. I am 18 and I got married before I graduated high school. My husband is in the army and he is 14h (Air Defense early enhanced warning system operator. I want to make friends with other military wives/gf's.
    jazzfest18 jazzfest18 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2014

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    Well! It's official! We got married today!

    July 4, 2014. We got married in a par at a very pretty overlook with a bunch of family and friends. WAY more people showed up then expected! Then we had a wonderful cookout and my cake turned out beautiful. We ended the night with setting a Chinese sky lantern off into the sky...
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    I leave for Alaska in one week!

    I am getting nervous but it still hasn't hit me yet that I only have a one way ticket and I will be living there! I cannot wait to see my husband and start out lives together. After over 2 years of long distance it still doesn't feel real that it's actually happening.
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F Apr 26

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    Hey Ladies! Gosh it feels like I haven’t

    posted anything in forever. But that’s only because I have been trying to figure out everything. And finally I have. So I have exciting news! I am marrying my soldier and then moving to be with him in January! January 3rd to be exact on the wedding date. I am so excited! Like...
    Vianna1217 Vianna1217 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    So since we have gotten married a lot of things

    have been moving along. My name is officially changed! We got offered a house on base and it's even better then the one we wanted because somehow we got offered a 4 bedroom house! He has gone back and moved in and started buying things and setting up our furniture. I stayed back...
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I am flying out to my husband's family day

    and graduation and I am so very excited. It's just a few hours out. It has been so long without him. I know there will be harder times in the future but one day at a time, right? I am just going to enjoy every moment I can get with him.
    WynonnaMarye WynonnaMarye 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am confident in our relationship

    but sometimes I do get scared and have moments of doubt. I honestly feel like our relationship is just sort of a countdown until we get married.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    My boyfriend asked me to marry him Sunday

    and then had to leave Monday. That's such a hard thing to deal with. So now I'm engaged at 17 and still in high school of course I'm going to get hate and rude comments from everyone but no one understands the situation.. Anyone going through the same thing ?
    Alexisco Alexisco 16-17, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    Me and another Army wife went out on a all day

    date! Probably the best time I've had since he left!:)
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses Apr 28

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    No letters all week:/ Darn.

    Oh well hopefully that call comes in on Sunday!:)
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'Ll See My Boyfriend Tomorrow 😁😍😳

    Today is Wednesday which means I will be reunited w/ my boyfriend tomorrow! I'm so excited! I've waited 3 months for this. Even though he sounded different when he called me on Sunday I know it will all be worth it. The time is finally here. I'll be at Parris Island within hours...
    Camrynn19 Camrynn19 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Look. If you're HAPPY with your marriage

    and you are NOT cheating on your husband then you are not considered a grumpy military wife. I NEVER SAID ALL MILITARY WIVES. NEVER ONCE DID I SAY THAT. ASK QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU START JUMPING ON PEOPLE. DO NOT ATTACK PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU WILL BE ATTACKED BACK.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Hey everybody! My boyfriend left

    for Bootcamp on September 15 and is finally coming home in 7 days! I have literally never been so excited in my life! So to all those young girlfriends out there getting ready to go through this, it will be okay :) I thought I was going to die but in the end I'm alive and...
    MarineGirl1721 MarineGirl1721 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    In 2 days I will be an Army Wife.

    This is not the life I had expected; my father was Special Forces and I always said I would NEVER marry into the Army but I am. I love my fiance, and I know this will be hard but I am excited to start a life with him. Being a soldier is his job, it's not who he is. Who he is a...
    kholb112 kholb112 22-25 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    Homesick.. But for my man.

    . Hmm "bae-sick" ?!
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F Apr 26

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    Ugh only 3 more weeks

    and two days left of school and they could not go by any slower! I'm just so ready to go and pack up my things and move in with my husband already! ( it's so weird to call him my husband now) but I'm happy and I miss him and bursting with emotions! I'm anxious, nervous, excited...
    infinitelovexo infinitelovexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I just have a couple of questions .

    .. Can anybody find a group for camp Pendleton mct on Facebook? If so let me know(: also I think I'm going to my marines mct graduation or family day, any suggestions on what I should wear??
    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    What I Want All Military Girlfriends To Realize

    We have been seperated for 6 months now as of today. And there's a 3 hour time difference between us which means its hard for us to find time for just us. And I complain a the time about not being able to talk like we used to. Well this past weekend, he spent the whole weekend...
    SubmarinersLovebird SubmarinersLovebird 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2013

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    They posted on Facebook

    that we get calls tonight!!!!:D I'm so excited!!!!!! ????
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Is it normal to have

    that thought in the back of your mind saying "What if he doesn't have the same feelings as he did when he left?"
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    Guys can I start my countdown yet?

    ?????????? 29 more days. Should I open it and start it or wait?
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Apr 22

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    He always used to diffuse grapefruit oil in the

    diffuser at night when we went to bed and I didn't want to do it because I didn't want to think of him more than I do but I finally did it last night and I slept through the night perfectly for the first time in forever! It made me feel so mug better and I woke up refreshed...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 21

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    17 days till my fiancé comes homes

    and 25 days till our wedding 💕 It's been 7 months since I've seen him and I'm pretty nervous about seeing I get butterflies in my stomach thinking about seeing him, is that normal or am I just weird? the time apart between us has been rough and their definitely has been ups...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    Why am I so over protective of him!

    ?! It's starting to annoy me because I'm not sure what to do!:(
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just wanted to tell all the ladies who's

    boyfriends / husbands are in boot camp that the next camp they have to go to mine is SOI it's much better. Like way better. They get to have their phones with them. They aren't suppose to have them during the day but my husband still finds a way to text me during the day. He...
    Camrynn19 Camrynn19 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2013

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    Yes he's finally home

    and I finally have my ring and we are finally going to get married!!
    Trueinfinity Trueinfinity 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2014

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