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I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife

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    Less than a week for our first move to his

    first duty station...15 hours away from my home state but I am more excited than anything! I'll miss my friends of course but we are all moving and starting lives so we all have means to be able to visit one another. Of course I dislike the packing and getting ready for this...
    brenarmywf brenarmywf 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    soooo living in North Carolina is way different

    than Chicago, but I'm glad I'm finally here with my hubs ?
    j37x j37x 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I am completely new to being a military

    so I have so many questions and need some advice and I feel I have no support at all. If anyone could comment/message me I don't know exactly who to turn to
    megandb1092 megandb1092 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    My boyfriend is currently at Westpoint

    where his phone is taken up for three weeks, and I can't see him until November and only for a few days. It has been over a week now since I have seen him or talked to him. We have been dating for a year and a half. The longest we had gone without talking before was probably 12...
    Justsomegirl1519 Justsomegirl1519 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    What are the chances of my boyfriend cheating

    on me or leaving me while in the army ?
    xoalc xoalc 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    40 days till my wedding

    and till my soldier comes home ! I'm so excited but really nervous for the transition of living on a base and leaving my whole life in California to start a new life with my soldier in Kentucky. I'm embracing this new experience with open arms but I can't help to worry . Is...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response May 24, 2014

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    Homesick.. But for my man.

    . Hmm "bae-sick" ?!
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F Apr 26

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I dont get it. I really dont.

    He told me to give him space and that we should take a break but he is still contacting me every sunday givig me a one hour call asking how am i doing and that he loves me.. Why is he doing all of these?
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm praying for the best right now!

    Not just for myself and my Soldier but for every other girl out there and every other solider out there!!! Ladies, I wake up daily and remind myself I'm grateful my Soldier hasn't fallen!!! Keep strong!!!
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Apr 17

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    He called today and told me

    that they said he probably won't get 14 days of leave in September the most he will get is 9. Take out 4 days of travel (2here and 2back) That means I only get to see him for 5 days if I'm lucky
    smarchy17 smarchy17 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend is in basic now.

    We planned on getting married once he reached his permanent station, but now I'm reading that's it's better to get married in tech school because the process is faster and I will get stationed with him. I wish I knew this before. I don't know whether I should mention this in a...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Sometimes when the pain is unbearable I would

    always look back and wish I had not entered to relationship as hard to maintain as this.
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I've been in a relationship with my sailor

    for 7 months now, so I'm still new to this type of relationship. With me going to college in a few weeks it's hard trying to stay positive because so many people are not supportive of my decision of having a boyfriend in the military while I'm just entering college. Have any y...
    alyssalew alyssalew 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    How long will it take

    for my boyfriend to receive his letters in basic? He's been there since Tuesday and I've written him everyday so far
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    15 more days. I'm having dreams again,

    some good some bad but I always stay positive so I'm okay. Does anyone else dream about their soldier? I also haven't been sleeping much or well
    BritnyeAE BritnyeAE 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I have gotten so many letters in the mail these

    past 2 weeks. I love being able to respond to his letters and actually hear about his days. He offered to buy my plane ticket to see him graduate, and that honestly felt so good. Just to know that he wants to see me as much as I want to see him. He always draws these quirky...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A Military Girlfriend’s Guide To “When Does It Get Better?”

    I’ve been on this site for quite a few months now, and I keep seeing the same questions from new military girlfriends: 1. “When do I feel normal again?” 2. “Does it ever get easier?” 3. “Does it get better?” The answers to these questions are: 1. You don’t. 2. It...
    Heismyrightwingman Heismyrightwingman 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Finally got a call from him today :) Nothing

    can ruin my mood! 45 days left of basic training ugh I can do this ...
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    😔 this is hard /: it really is.

    Being a military wife is not for wimps thats for sure.
    gloangel93 gloangel93 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    My boyfriend asked me to marry him Sunday

    and then had to leave Monday. That's such a hard thing to deal with. So now I'm engaged at 17 and still in high school of course I'm going to get hate and rude comments from everyone but no one understands the situation.. Anyone going through the same thing ?
    Alexisco Alexisco 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 29

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    I'm freaking out a little bit.

    I reached out to my airman's bestfriend as someone to talk to about him. I expressed my fear that while he's gone, I'm worried he'll change the way he feels about me. All he said was that we can't expect for him to be the same. I know there will be a change in HIM but that didn...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi Ladies, My name is Nia.

    I've pretty much been in the same boat as you guys. My husband is a Navy Veteran. A little about me. Well I'm 19 and my husband is 21, I'm a full time flight attendant for American Airlines, I graduated high school in June 2013. I'm finishing up my junior year of college(online...
    VaniaAbel VaniaAbel 18-21, F Jun 12

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    Me and another Army wife went out on a all day

    date! Probably the best time I've had since he left!:)
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses Apr 28

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    This Is To All You Girls

    I'm the girl standing behind you at the grocery store eyeing the latest support our troops magnet while flipping through the pages of Cosmo. the look on her face is complacent, and her thoughts are thousands of miles away . on some military base she's only been describe to threw...
    deleted deleted 26-30 43 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    Seriously, Stop It!

    Okay, I'm on several pages on Facebook for military spouses where we can all go and have a laugh together, and to support and encourage each other while our hubby's are deployed, etc. and also on several military spouse groups on here, & I NEED to get this out. Say what you will...
    bnsjms bnsjms 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    My boyfriend will be leaving

    for basic soon. I have read a lot and one thing I have heard is don't complain to him. this is where my question comes in. as horrible as this sounds I complain and he knows me for it. I will talk about work and my dad. Complain or talk about it being good. he knows me for that...
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I HATE those grumpy military wives

    that are against young marriage. Like, it's okay for you to be against it but having age on your side does not make you more likely to succeed. Do NOT try to talk anyone out of it or make a big fuss of their decision. Try until you can't try anymore. We'll never know until we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Apr 25

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    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    My boyfriend's got 5months left in gagetown And

    I already miss him so much. I just wish school would start up again so that I could distract myself like last semester when he was gone. Instead I'm on vacation trying to relax but doing nothing puts him on my mind 24/7 imagining what we could be doing together and it makes me...
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Is it normal to have

    that thought in the back of your mind saying "What if he doesn't have the same feelings as he did when he left?"
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    Hey Ladies! Gosh it feels like I haven’t

    posted anything in forever. But that’s only because I have been trying to figure out everything. And finally I have. So I have exciting news! I am marrying my soldier and then moving to be with him in January! January 3rd to be exact on the wedding date. I am so excited! Like...
    Vianna1217 Vianna1217 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Hey everybody! My boyfriend left

    for Bootcamp on September 15 and is finally coming home in 7 days! I have literally never been so excited in my life! So to all those young girlfriends out there getting ready to go through this, it will be okay :) I thought I was going to die but in the end I'm alive and...
    MarineGirl1721 MarineGirl1721 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    lolawolf lolawolf 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    17 days till my fiancé comes homes

    and 25 days till our wedding 💕 It's been 7 months since I've seen him and I'm pretty nervous about seeing I get butterflies in my stomach thinking about seeing him, is that normal or am I just weird? the time apart between us has been rough and their definitely has been ups...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend is in his 4th week of basic

    training. Right after he left I got the idea in my head that I should start "shaping up," both as a way to support what he's doing and also give him a beautiful girlfriend to come back to. I've always had self image problems and I thought I'd be more attractive if I lost weight...
    Dhalli Dhalli 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's less than 3 weeks

    until my soldier leaves for basic and AIT for 5 months and I'm freaking out. I'm going to miss him so much and I hate that I'm not gonna be able to see him until Christmas.
    allisonbeswick allisonbeswick 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend just shipped out

    for basic this morning and I don't really know what to do. I'm new to all of this and honestly I just miss him a lot. I'm scared for him and I'm just scared in general. I'm 17, and I really just want him here.
    megem4054 megem4054 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 29

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    My boyfriend hasn't brought up marriage anymore.

    But whenever we talk about the future and his next duty station after he comes home from deployment he'll say like "when we move" or "when we find out where our new station will be" I get really excited because I know he still sees me in his plans.
    piscil piscil 18-21, F Nov 16, 2014

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    ...and there goes my Marine

    for almost a month ! I hope this month goes by faasst..
    j37x j37x 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He told me he loved me

    for the first time today, I got so emotional I started crying. It makes me so happy knowing he cares for me just as much as I care for him. I've never felt the way I do about him with anyone else. Now only 4 months until I get to see him again, and I can't wait until that day...
    Brittaaaaanny Brittaaaaanny 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 12

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    I'm officially engaged to the man I love!

    !! He caught me so off guard but it was amazing!! I'm very excited for this new part of our lives!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm scared to move across country to no one

    so I can live with him, even though I would love too. I get my Associates degree in December but I'm also scared if I go I won't continue and get my bachelors and do what I want and need to do. I really do want to move in with him so we're not so far away, only when he deploys...
    Brittaaaaanny Brittaaaaanny 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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