I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife

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    Hi guys. I've started a blog

    for military girlfriends, boyfriends, fiancées and fiancés. There's so many out there for those who are married and I didn't like that. I'm in a relationship with a U.S. Navy Sailor and would love to interact with people in my same situation, no matter the branch. Please check...
    notsomilso notsomilso
    22-25, F
    Mar 30

    Love Jo's blog! This entry- things you say to a

    military spouse/girlfriend other than "you knew what you were getting into." Encourage :) http://jomygosh.com/2016/02/things-to-say-to-a-milspouse-instead-of-you-knew-what-you-were-getting-into/
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 9

    * IMPORTANT* Since the EP is closing- Hey

    ladies the Facebook group and Instagram account is up and running. Please be patient as we navigate our way through the kinks! Facebook : https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram : EPMILSOS If there is any problems message me!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 23

    Yesterday, I became a Military Wife.

    My Soldier and I got married in court. He wanted to rush the wedding, due to him leaving tomorrow for NTC. We plan on having a ceremony later on, although, I don't think we really need one. Thursday, I drove the 1,000 miles from California to Colorado to marry him. I was...
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    I'm officially engaged to the man I love!

    !! He caught me so off guard but it was amazing!! I'm very excited for this new part of our lives!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    it feels good to know I'm not the only one

    going through this frustration. respect to all of you ladies, we might be feeling lonely right now but it will eventually pay off once we see our men. makes us appreciate more, that's a fact. stay up!!
    mustloveariel mustloveariel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2015

    Anyone have issues with other girls putting you

    down on here that are other military wives or gf ???
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 19
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    16-17, F
    Jul 30, 2014

    Girls I have a problem!

    I just told my sailor that if he goes to spend the weekend with his buddy that our relationship is over. He already told me that he is and I said that ^. So lately I've been very mean and moody because I feel ignored. He has been spending a lot of time with this friend and...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 22

    The gals here are now on Facebook !

    Join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 16

    Hello, I have a question about BAH.

    Does it only go towards a place where your man is stationed or if I live in a different state, will it cover my housing?
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9

    I'm praying for the best right now!

    Not just for myself and my Soldier but for every other girl out there and every other solider out there!!! Ladies, I wake up daily and remind myself I'm grateful my Soldier hasn't fallen!!! Keep strong!!!
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425
    16-17
    Apr 17, 2015

    To all the MILSOS who are feeling lonely

    without their SO.... It gets better. My boyfriend just got done with basic on Friday so we got to talk for the whole weekend and it was the best weekend I've had since he left. It's also unfortunate for us because he's injured so he has to go through another 9 weeks with another...
    sandrew42 sandrew42
    16-17, F
    Aug 30, 2015

    Seriously, Stop It!

    Okay, I'm on several pages on Facebook for military spouses where we can all go and have a laugh together, and to support and encourage each other while our hubby's are deployed, etc. and also on several military spouse groups on here, & I NEED to get this out. Say what you will...
    bnsjms bnsjms
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 25, 2013

    Ladies in college, I could use your help!

    So my boyfriend gets out during summer and already registered for college fall of this year. I was supposed to be here but now I deploy in June and will miss his first semester, which we weren't expecting. I want to do open when letters for his first day of school, etc. but I...
    LilToasterStrudel2 LilToasterStrudel2
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 7

    My baby is back for today!

    ! I literally pushed everyone out of my way and ran out of my rehearsal when I saw missed calls from my man lol. This girl was like "what's happening?! Why are you do excited??" And I said that my boyfriend called and she looked at me like had ten heads and I said "No, you don't...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 3, 2015

    Recent everything has been getting harder on me

    .I miss my boyfriend so much and have not seen him in 3 years .It hurts so much but all I have is pictures to remember the good times we once had. He been in japan for 99% of our relationship .To be honest I don't know how we did it and how we got throw it. This is getting more...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 12

    He wrote me a letter saying how his heart beats

    for me and how he's being going to church telling God that I am the one and only and how he wants to marry me. That made me feel so special ! I have to read that letter whenever I'm feeling down.. I miss this guy ! April 15th graduation day can't come fast enough
    PoshSpiceeee PoshSpiceeee
    18-21, F
    Feb 19
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 20

    *IMPORTANT* Military significant other support

    groups have come together on Facebook. Girlfriends, fiancés , and wives! Military significant other group! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602 Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 24

    graduation is next week

    but i am just missing him so much! eh!!):
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2015
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    Mar 8

    Hey guys! i just joined the experience project

    because my boyfriend just got deployed two days ago to the middle east for six months. I just want to be able to talk to any of you guys going through the same or similar things. and i want any of you to feel free to talk to me as well. Hopefully joining this site will be good...
    Livingit69 Livingit69
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 23

    As a girlfriend I realized I can't just be

    strong for just myself, but for both of us.
    CynthiaLove100 CynthiaLove100
    18-21, F
    Oct 22, 2015

    My husband didn't want to have a ring

    that he could possibly lose, so we got tattoos instead of wedding rings. We chose the King and Queen of Spades tattoos, on our ring fingers. The Spade, because it represents a leaf of the "cosmic" tree, Life. It also represents the seasons of fall, and winter. As well as the...
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    I am so nervous, I can't sleep.

    I'm going to surprise my fiance at his welcome home ceremony. I'm flying halfway across the country to a place I don't know. He doesn't know I'll be there and I don't know what to expect. we haven't spoken in three weeks (we aren't fighting), and his friend finds it weird he...
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 19

    I miss my babe soooooooooooooo much.

    Oh what I would do for a hug or to just lay with him. Just one of those nights :/
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    My husband is halfway through his deployment.

    He just hit his second port a few days ago and we got in an argument basically about who has the rougher end of the stick here. The deployment has been hard on the both of us, but I agree and see now that it's harder for him considering he was out at sea for 60 days not seeing...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    April 21 is fast approaching.

    This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 21
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 3

    I am lost for words, totally didn't expect this

    from my honey.... the distance isn't a problem because the communication is the key!!! I can't wait to leave to San Diego to start our lives together❤️
    aaliyah09 aaliyah09
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    My boyfriend hasn't brought up marriage anymore.

    But whenever we talk about the future and his next duty station after he comes home from deployment he'll say like "when we move" or "when we find out where our new station will be" I get really excited because I know he still sees me in his plans.
    piscil piscil
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    Since this site is closing,

    I decided to make my last post. Tomorrow I'm officially moving in with my airman. It has been a long journey away from him, but I am so relieved this wait has came to an end. This time apart has made both of us stronger, and I'm ready more than ever to start this new chapter in...
    Brittaaaaanny Brittaaaaanny
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23

    Hi Ladies, My name is Nia.

    I've pretty much been in the same boat as you guys. My husband is a Navy Veteran. A little about me. Well I'm 19 and my husband is 21, I'm a full time flight attendant for American Airlines, I graduated high school in June 2013. I'm finishing up my junior year of college(online...
    VaniaAbel VaniaAbel
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2015

    He's coming home! Don't know an exact date yet,

    but it should be soon. deployment is ending so soon. :) 10 more months and we will finally be living together.
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 23
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 7

    "So far you have survived 100% of your worst

    days. Keep going. You're doing great."
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 18

    I had to look at a picture of my boyfriend just

    to make it through the push ups I was trying to do lol
    Cwils004 Cwils004
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    This group has moved to Facebook; https://m.

    facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram; EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 7

    I got my first letterrrrrrr!

    Just seeing his handwriting made me cry! That was before I even opened the envelope! I miss him so incredibly much! More than I think he knows... I can't wait to see him again!
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 28

    Anyone in a open realtionship

    or swingers I need advice ?No rude comments please??
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 23

    https://www.facebook.

    com/groups/978517905517602/ Here's a link for our support group on Facebook totally private And our name for Instagram is "EPMILSOS"
    etrigo etrigo
    16-17, F
    Mar 23

    So many delightful Milso blogs out there.

    I found some one liners about deployments that I find true and hysterical.. "Deployment is inconveniently the most effective way to find out if you really love each other" "This to shall pass. Painfully,like a kidney stone, but it will pass" "When all else fails, hug a dog...
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 5
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23

    This Is To All You Girls

    I'm the girl standing behind you at the grocery store eyeing the latest support our troops magnet while flipping through the pages of Cosmo. the look on her face is complacent, and her thoughts are thousands of miles away . on some military base she's only been describe to threw...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    43 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    This group has moved to Facebook ,

    join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19

    Reminder : this group has moved to Facebook.

    Link below, stay in contact with everyone! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 28

    Hey Guys! So I've been with my boyfriend

    for over two years and we've been best friends since elementary school. He left for basic yesterday, and even though I was the first person he told about wanted to join the army (we were like 12) and I've been with him throughout his entire application process (which was quite a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 19
    kneecoal kneecoal
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    Hello there! Any ladies do a specific work out

    routine? I'm curious about Tabata!! I'd love to hear your input! Endorphins are our friends!!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 19
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 7

    Hi, I am new to this.

    . I am 18 years old about to start my senior year next year and a member of the Army national guard, I ship June 4th.. 2 days after my senior year ends. My Husband is 18 also Army active duty..He ships June 27th.. but he isn't in high school. I am scared about what to come and I...
    asia98lewis asia98lewis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8

    I am freaking out at this point.

    I am on the way to see my fiances welcome home ceremony. Everything is so last minute, I don't have a car to rent, idk anything about these ceremonies. I feel lost in a new side of the country. someone help!
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 19

    I am 19 and my fiance will be going to bootcamp

    in September. This is going to be a long but interesting and I hope enjoyable ride.
    alexis05 alexis05
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 12

    16 days with my love were AMAZING

    but definitely not enough. Today is the 2nd night that I will (try) to fall asleep alone :( I missed him already when I was holding his hand at the airport. I'm crying now just thinking back to it. I love my sailor beyond words.
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 8

    all I want for Christmas is to marry my solider

    and to be happy forever we both r talking about we want kids he said he wants to try when he comes home for Christmas hope I can make this wish come true.
    SierraDouglas SierraDouglas
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 12, 2015

    A Military Girlfriend’s Guide To “When Does It Get Better?”

    I’ve been on this site for quite a few months now, and I keep seeing the same questions from new military girlfriends: 1. “When do I feel normal again?” 2. “Does it ever get easier?” 3. “Does it get better?” The answers to these questions are: 1. You don’t. 2. It...
    Heismyrightwingman Heismyrightwingman
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    Stupid Valentine's Day lol great a day of

    pictures with happy couples red roses and chocolate. I miss my baby :( my valentine is far away...
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2015
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