I Am About to Have An Abortion

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    Considering Abortion? Read My Story First...

    I was 18 when I found out that I was pregnant. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw that positive come up right away. It took 4 tests to finally convince me that it was actually true & I was caring a life inside me. At that point nothing had sunk in yet & I became sort of...
    Barngirl32 Barngirl32
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    My abortion is tomorrow morning.

    I'm 21 and the father is 20. We've been friends since 4th grade and it was just a drunk one night stand. He said he would support whatever I decided to do about the pregnancy, but he also thought this was the right option. I've been torn apart. I grew up in a conservative...
    soitgoes810 soitgoes810
    22-25, F
    Dec 17, 2014


     Tomorrow, 30 april 2009, i am booked in to have a surgical abportion. I am 9 1/2 weeks pregnant. I am 40 years old, happily married with a 16 year ols and a 13 year old. I cannot see a happy ending to this situation no matter what i decide to do, my husband is also in...
    AWCaris AWCaris
    5 Responses Apr 29, 2009

    I go next Friday to have it done.

    I knew from the moment I took the test I didn't want it. The guy I was with was emotionally abusive and very short tempered with me and my two sons I already have. We've been broke up for two weeks and have known since Christmas. He wanted to keep it but couldn't handle my sons...
    andersobheather92 andersobheather92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2015

    I'm Having An Abortion

    I'm a 21-year-old university student and last week I found out I was pregnant. I immediately decided that I must have a termination, as I'm not in the right stage in my life to be a mother. The father is someone I had recently had a brief relationship with, though he supports my...
    pinikini pinikini
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Feb 27, 2009

    Having An Abortion In My 30's

    I'm in my 30's married with 2 children and have just found out I am pregnant for the 3rd time. I feel mostly disbelief, I take the pill and don't understand why it has failed me, My children are 11 and 8 and I feel my time for having babies has passed. I went to the doctor...
    strawberrytrifle strawberrytrifle
    1 Response Dec 7, 2010

    I went to my first appointment today

    and saw the sonogram of the fetus. I'm 5 weeks pregnant. And there is a 1.93cm sized blob in my uterus. It's still too early for even a heartbeat so I didn't have to listen to that. My next appointment is the day after tomorrow where I will undergo a surgical abortion. There's...
    dreamonlittledream3r dreamonlittledream3r
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    So I literally just found out I'm pregnant like

    on January 22nd, when I found out I cried.. I had mixed emotions about everything! First thing I thought is my life is over before it even started! Bc I'm 17 & it's my senior year.. I had big plans to go to university & move & blah blah.. But I can't even support myself on my...
    Somepersonhah Somepersonhah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2014

    I Thought Something Funy Was Going On

    I recently got back together with an ex boyfreind and we were at a Christan Rock Show when I jumped off an 18 wheel flatbed we were sitting on. I fractured my knee, and was immediatley brought to the hospital. It was there that I found out I was pregnant. I cried, and he sat...
    2muchsacrifice 2muchsacrifice
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 15, 2009

    Hi, is my first post.

    Sorry about the puns, english is not my native language. So im 25y, got a great career and used to live with my boyfriend until 2 months ago when we broke up. Ive just find out that im pregnant and he was not supportive at all although we both have great living conditions and...
    blackbirdsingn blackbirdsingn
    26-30, F
    Feb 25, 2015

    Tomorrow morning I have an abortion scheduled.

    As I have health anxiety, I am very nervous about this. Not only for my physical well-being as I have heard of the risks, but the fact that I am actually doing this, something I never supported until I was in the position I am in now. I am 19, just started college. My family has...
    platoari platoari
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    Just needing some advice

    or anyone to talk to. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for 2 years now. Recently my boobs had gotten really sore and I was having bad heart burn but I didn't think much about it because I figured I was just about to start. But 8 days had passed and I still...
    AllieDal85 AllieDal85
    22-25, F
    Apr 18, 2016

    Hi everyone. I just want some advice.

    I really need it right now and I have trouble talking to anyone about this. Me and my boyfriend are both in college and on athletic scholarships. Without the scholarship, I probably wouldn't attend school. My school is one of the few schools that offer my major and i love my...
    GuestUser145 GuestUser145
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    It sucks that I have to go through this.

    I have no one to help me out with this decision because once the father found out he started acting different and we decided to go our different way.
    itsskarlaa itsskarlaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 15, 2014

    Hi I'm from the Philippines ,

    and I'm pregnant for about a month or 3 , haven't got ultrasound coz I'm afraid of those media staffs and newscasters might found out and spread it to newspaper and live news reports that I'm pregnant , I'm actually one of the representative of the Philippines here (sorry for...
    timeforyoutoknowmyworth timeforyoutoknowmyworth
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2014

    Hi I'm 18 years old. I just got out of an

    abusive relationship. We dated for 2 years and I just found out I'm pregnant by this guy. This is not what I wanted. Not what I wanted at all. I was thinking about having abortion but just seeing the pain mentally and physically that people have been through scares me so much. I...
    itsskarlaa itsskarlaa
    18-21, F
    7 Responses May 13, 2014

    I'm Considering Abortion

    I just found out last week that I'm pregnant. When the two lines showed up on the test I had mixed emotions; excited, scared, disbelief and now I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend who is usually great thinks that abortion is the only option, I however do not feel the same way...
    TaylorLayne TaylorLayne
    7 Responses May 26, 2009

    Knowing I Am Going to Have An Abortion

    I am 20 years old. For about two years of my life, I was struggling to live on my own. Unfortunately I got pregnant just about three months ago. The man who I got pregnant by, was one that I did love, but he is a drug addict. For five months I was with him. I went through a lot...
    hopefulgirl1 hopefulgirl1
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Nov 30, 2008

    I Don't Know What To Expect

    I am 8 weeks pregnant and after considering all my options i have decided to have an abortion. I am not ready to have a child and neither is the father. When i have a child, if i have a child, i want to be able to give them more of a life than i have. But i am scared. I have no...
    dianneerose dianneerose
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 5, 2012

    I don't know why people are

    so quick to judge about abortion you don't know the position someone is in until it happens to you. Some people aren't ready for such a big step, some people didn't want this big step. Mistakes happen a lot. You're talking about how we are so stupid and how we have no heart... I...
    itsskarlaa itsskarlaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    or atleast unsure about what I should do.

    I am 31. I have a 10, 8 & 2 year old. my older 2 children are from a previous relationship and my youngest is with my current boyfriend...we "plan" to marry bit seems I may want it more than he seems too. anyway...he has 3 children from a previous relationship totalling 6...
    aprilamartino aprilamartino
    2 Responses May 30, 2015

    I am at an abortion clinic now.

    So far it has been fine. The doctor did an ultrasound and it said I was 3-4 weeks pregnant since the date of conception. This is good news in my view because it makes it easier for me to think of the pregnancy as a collection of cells rather than a baby. Also it means my...
    coulter183 coulter183
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2014
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