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I Am About to Seperate From Husband

In a second marriage that is about to break up ... 24 People

    Separation Because Wife Needs Time And Space To Figure Things Out

    My wife and I just started a separation. She has been unhappy since our child was 6 mos. to 1 year old and she is now 5. I have made a lot of mistakes and feel I have failed so many different ways that I may be impossible to love. I believe in my wife and I know that she is lost...
    Reed0708 Reed0708 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Enough After 8 Years

    When my husband and I met I was already a mother of a little boy.  Ten years later we have been married for 8 years, and now have a total of three children. My husband is extremely lazy and selfish.  He doesn't help around the house or with the kids.  If he is not...
    livinlifeforfirsttime livinlifeforfirsttime 31-35 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Done

    That's it. I left. I finally left. I'm so scared for what lays ahead. But I can do this!
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Feelin Blue

    I am 38 and about to leave my husband. This is my second marriage and I just cant believe it has turned out this way. He is a good man but not the person I married. Ive changed a lot too. We briefly split last year for a few months but have been in and out of counselling for over...
    chalky74 chalky74 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    I Must Be Stupid Not to Get It!

    I would love people to give me their views on my storie, because I think I am going nuts.  My husband never surprise me with gifts or make me feel special in some way like taking me out and so on.  I have spoken to him about this a million times before.  He doesn't...
    liefie liefie 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Heart Broken Over 2nd Failing Marriage ...

    I'll try to be brief ... if you've been here before you know that probably won't be the case.  I was married young at 19 the first time and was unhappy from the 2 year mark. I stayed almost 16 years.  Yeah, right .... S.T.U.P.I.D.! I gave that person the best years of...
    secondtime secondtime 36-40 2 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    Unsure Of What To Do

    A few weeks ago my husband of two years confessed that he no longer felt the same way about me. He went as far as saying he didn't know if he ever loved me. He has been distant with me ever since. Will hold my hand and kiss me on occassion but feels very forced and cold. We...
    ebconfused ebconfused 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    Heartbroken

    Well we finally had our talk. As I assumed he wan't prepared for what I had to say. So many different emotions were flying around. It was one of the worse days of my life. I hate that he is hurting and I wish I could take his pain away. InrBut the only way to stop his hurt is...
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    Why Me? Why Now?

    Well my husband went on a business trip to the UK... while he was there he wrote me all of the time to tell me that he loves me and could not wait to be home to me and our children! When he got home it was completly different! He says he has not been happy for three years yet I...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I have lost over 100 lbs, and that's great, but my body looks awful. Needs plastic surgery awful. I'm newly seperated from a long marriage and getting naked in front of a new man...
    Oldhigh96 Oldhigh96 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    beachmom86 beachmom86 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    I love chatting and learning new things- i travel a lot so if you want to have a nice conversation about anything from traveling or so on~ please write me a message
    Zineq Zineq 16-17, F Oct 31

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    My mom passed away in august and burried her in september. It has been really dificult to surpass that. I lost a few pounds and couldnt move on. I finally started to feel better...
    meli80mod meli80mod 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    My mother is a nightmare, in one way I want to blame her for everything I went through growing up. but I can still try to understand. when I was born my mom said she planned me...
    babyjane96 babyjane96 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    It started with him in the background of my dreams watching me with a look of intensity on his face. I could not communicate with him. He would not communicate with me. Our eyes...
    starkizzed21 starkizzed21 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I wonder if others have this experience. At the time I met my now husband, I had a drug problem, an abundant sexual appetite, and I drank too much. In general I was frying my brain...
    birdlover9 birdlover9 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    It was our anniversary and I planned a sexy surprise for my husband. The moment he reached home he rang the door bell, I was inside but didn't opened the door. He tried to call me...
    priyankapatel131089 priyankapatel131089 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    My husband has a had a best femal friend since before we got married. After we got married, we had problems in the first year and he went to her about it! I soon found out and not...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    My husband put anything and everything before me. He would rather talk to anyone else but me. I repeatedly tell him how I feel and he doesn't make any changes. I feel like he just...
    Tcallen Tcallen 31-35 2 hrs ago

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    Buckle up sweet heart. Here we go. (1) I'm a week a way from my birthday. (2) I'm in EP rehab - detoxing myself from poison of the world. (3) I try hard to just be with my girl...
    bowbowdown bowbowdown 26-30 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been with my husband for more than 5 years. His ex wife is the epitome of drama & so are his children. He & his ex divorced more than 12 years ago. The kids are all over the...
    fedupwithallofthem fedupwithallofthem 36-40, F Nov 11

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    I have suffered from hh since about 16 years of age(I am now 40).I have generalised sweating when I am nervous or anxious only, although I do have more generalised sweating when...
    Shez74 Shez74 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    My husband has aspergers and bipolar disorder. I have bipolar disorder and suffer abandonment issues from my childhood due to losing both my parents very young. We have a one year...
    BriMcD BriMcD 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    History always repeats itself for me. After the horrible Thanksgiving I had last year My husband has invited his dysfunctional alcoholic family again I've had enough bring yelled...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Do you ever think "why am i still with this person"?? Like all he does is nitpick about the little things i do that **** him off and all he seems to want to do is ****. Hes either...
    undoing321 undoing321 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Help please. I have come to this place where I have made an appointment with a lawyer. I'm just tired. I wanted so badly to keep our family together so that I could see my babies...
    Regrets1230 Regrets1230 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Angry, disappointed and depressed. I have only been married for a little over a year but I just can't seem to take it anymore. Our communication is a disaster and I get more...
    Supportiveone Supportiveone 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I am confused about my relationship. I split with my boyfriend of a year for 3 months and flitted between getting back togeather. I have stayed at his house every night for the...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I've been married for 3 years. Two years ago my husband quit his job to study a master's degree, at first everything was good. He was getting some money from the school and we were...
    LenaT4 LenaT4 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2

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    When my husband and I first met, it was unlike anything I've experienced. He was incredibly sweet, attentive, caring, funny and exciting. He swept me off my feet with his sense of...
    survas79 survas79 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I know it didn't come on suddenly, but my realization that it was true did. It was the moment another lie came spilling out of his mouth as freely as water through a hole. It wasn...
    PoisonedApplePrincess PoisonedApplePrincess 26-30, F Nov 7

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    I often get asked for help by people who are in need of it. I think it's my friendly face . Giving money to people direct can fuel a drug addiction. I've helped drug addicts but...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I just found out about MD.... I googled "stuck in my daydreams" hoping for answers, and I found this... reading articles on it, I was like, I fit this to a "T"... I talked to my...
    Cass1991 Cass1991 22-25 1 Response Oct 25

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    We still live in the same house, for various reasons. I love him, but he isn't happy. Every night when I go to sleep, in the next room, all I can think about is him walking through...
    vanisheDsaRah vanisheDsaRah 22-25 Nov 1

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    1. My husband is the love of my life 2. My children make me a better person 3. I am a add basket case 4. I didn't come from a good home 5. I cringed for years at hugging anyone but...
    rachelbeth6 rachelbeth6 36-40, F Nov 5

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    The last few nights have been really pretty restless and even though he was laying next to me, he's all I could think about. What he has done for me and for us, what he has done...
    Blessedlyloved Blessedlyloved 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    This experience site cracks me up. I literally laugh out loud at all the women who hate their husbands. Not because I think their situations are funny. The opposite. I can't...
    cleophoenix cleophoenix 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a 30 year old mother of 2, ages 11 and 6. I have been with my husband for 13 years. Last month, I cheated on my husband. I found out that I'm pregnant. From baby's...
    chantaliox3 chantaliox3 26-30, F 34 Responses Oct 29

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    Not as much hate as it is general dislike and irritation. I've read many stories I can relate and it always helps me to see that I'm not the only one, so I figured I'd put mine out...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    1. I was born at my house & my grandma and brother (10 years old at the time) helped deliver me. 2. I've only had one dog in my life that was bought. The rest we got as adoptions...
    HeatherMarie14 HeatherMarie14 22-25, F Oct 27

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    WOW I don't know where to begin I started searching binge drinking and so how came across this website and started reading the post, and found myself replying to them. I guess it...
    mecova mecova 41-45 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I reconnected with a womanizing old friend a few years ago on Facebook. I needed help leaving my husband, who is verbally abusive and a functioning alcoholic. Would swear at me in...
    Winnie46 Winnie46 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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