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I Am About to Seperate From Husband

In a second marriage that is about to break up ... 25 People

    Feelin Blue

    I am 38 and about to leave my husband. This is my second marriage and I just cant believe it has turned out this way. He is a good man but not the person I married. Ive changed a lot too. We briefly split last year for a few months but have been in and out of counselling for over...
    chalky74 chalky74 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    Enough After 8 Years

    When my husband and I met I was already a mother of a little boy.  Ten years later we have been married for 8 years, and now have a total of three children. My husband is extremely lazy and selfish.  He doesn't help around the house or with the kids.  If he is not...
    livinlifeforfirsttime livinlifeforfirsttime 31-35 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Heartbroken

    Well we finally had our talk. As I assumed he wan't prepared for what I had to say. So many different emotions were flying around. It was one of the worse days of my life. I hate that he is hurting and I wish I could take his pain away. InrBut the only way to stop his hurt is...
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    Done

    That's it. I left. I finally left. I'm so scared for what lays ahead. But I can do this!
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Unsure Of What To Do

    A few weeks ago my husband of two years confessed that he no longer felt the same way about me. He went as far as saying he didn't know if he ever loved me. He has been distant with me ever since. Will hold my hand and kiss me on occassion but feels very forced and cold. We...
    ebconfused ebconfused 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    Why Me? Why Now?

    Well my husband went on a business trip to the UK... while he was there he wrote me all of the time to tell me that he loves me and could not wait to be home to me and our children! When he got home it was completly different! He says he has not been happy for three years yet I...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Heart Broken Over 2nd Failing Marriage ...

    I'll try to be brief ... if you've been here before you know that probably won't be the case.  I was married young at 19 the first time and was unhappy from the 2 year mark. I stayed almost 16 years.  Yeah, right .... S.T.U.P.I.D.! I gave that person the best years of...
    secondtime secondtime 36-40 2 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    I Must Be Stupid Not to Get It!

    I would love people to give me their views on my storie, because I think I am going nuts.  My husband never surprise me with gifts or make me feel special in some way like taking me out and so on.  I have spoken to him about this a million times before.  He doesn't...
    liefie liefie 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Separation Because Wife Needs Time And Space To Figure Things Out

    My wife and I just started a separation. She has been unhappy since our child was 6 mos. to 1 year old and she is now 5. I have made a lot of mistakes and feel I have failed so many different ways that I may be impossible to love. I believe in my wife and I know that she is lost...
    Reed0708 Reed0708 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
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    Okay, I need to get this is off my chest. My husband never tries to see things from my perspective. Every time he upsets me he never takes me seriously and here is the most...
    jrlegg jrlegg 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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