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I Am About To Separate From Husband

In a second marriage that is about to break up ... 26 People

    Feelin Blue

    I am 38 and about to leave my husband. This is my second marriage and I just cant believe it has turned out this way. He is a good man but not the person I married. Ive changed a lot too. We briefly split last year for a few months but have been in and out of counselling for over...
    chalky74 chalky74 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    Why Me? Why Now?

    Well my husband went on a business trip to the UK... while he was there he wrote me all of the time to tell me that he loves me and could not wait to be home to me and our children! When he got home it was completly different! He says he has not been happy for three years yet I...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    I Must Be Stupid Not to Get It!

    I would love people to give me their views on my storie, because I think I am going nuts.  My husband never surprise me with gifts or make me feel special in some way like taking me out and so on.  I have spoken to him about this a million times before.  He doesn't...
    liefie liefie 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 4, 2009

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    Enough After 8 Years

    When my husband and I met I was already a mother of a little boy.  Ten years later we have been married for 8 years, and now have a total of three children. My husband is extremely lazy and selfish.  He doesn't help around the house or with the kids.  If he is not...
    livinlifeforfirsttime livinlifeforfirsttime 31-35 3 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Heartbroken

    Well we finally had our talk. As I assumed he wan't prepared for what I had to say. So many different emotions were flying around. It was one of the worse days of my life. I hate that he is hurting and I wish I could take his pain away. InrBut the only way to stop his hurt is...
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    Done

    That's it. I left. I finally left. I'm so scared for what lays ahead. But I can do this!
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Separation Because Wife Needs Time And Space To Figure Things Out

    My wife and I just started a separation. She has been unhappy since our child was 6 mos. to 1 year old and she is now 5. I have made a lot of mistakes and feel I have failed so many different ways that I may be impossible to love. I believe in my wife and I know that she is lost...
    Reed0708 Reed0708 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Unsure Of What To Do

    A few weeks ago my husband of two years confessed that he no longer felt the same way about me. He went as far as saying he didn't know if he ever loved me. He has been distant with me ever since. Will hold my hand and kiss me on occassion but feels very forced and cold. We...
    ebconfused ebconfused 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Heart Broken Over 2nd Failing Marriage ...

    I'll try to be brief ... if you've been here before you know that probably won't be the case.  I was married young at 19 the first time and was unhappy from the 2 year mark. I stayed almost 16 years.  Yeah, right .... S.T.U.P.I.D.! I gave that person the best years of...
    secondtime secondtime 36-40 2 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F a week ago

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    1st let me say (as stupid as it is) that I don't want to leave my husband. I just want to talk about it and have support because I don't right now. we have been together 11 years...
    myworld930 myworld930 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    AlternateUniverse AlternateUniverse 41-45 Jan 27

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    I can't say I hate his family. But there's a few I truly dislike that I don't want to be around them. His mother and sister...Mostly his sister. She's nothing but a hot head and...
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    It has been 5 months since my husband and I separated. Let me start by saying that we married in May 2013. I learned that I was pregnant with our baby in June 2013. We are both in...
    newlyover newlyover 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We love each other dearly. There is some behavior I'm worried about though. He has always been a little on the antisocial side...
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    bjoum bjoum 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Raregolds Raregolds 51-55, F Jan 23

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