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I Am Abstinent Until Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    Getting Married At 18

    Hello Everyone! I just recently joined this website just looking for other people who are in the same situation I am in. I really just wanted to see how other people are handling wanted to get married at 18 and how there parents reacted and everything. So if any of you who got...
    unicorn28 unicorn28 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    It'S Getting Sooo Hard!

    I'm waiting until marriage but I'm so tempted to give into this earthly sin! I'm trying to please God, but gosh it's hard!
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    My Choice

    My choice of abstinence actually has little to do with my Judeo-Catholic religion, though many people find this hard to believe. Of course part of it is to please the Lord, but, there are other reasons why I remain virgin.First, I believe that it is the most romantic and pure and...
    CharredAnarchie CharredAnarchie 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2013

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    I didn't wait until marriage and I don't regret it one bit. I had a few men in my life before I found the man of my dreams. He is my everything and we have lived together for 2...
    dragthewaters4 dragthewaters4 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 13 years old .. Dating a 16 year old. All I feel is regret. I've had sex 3 times after that.. With different guys.. All I feel is regret. This...
    actuallyadri actuallyadri 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 28

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    I was lucky in a way. I had a long distance relationship for 4 years from when I was 14-17. My boyfriend called me every single day and we got to know each other "intellectually...
    BabysFlower BabysFlower 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I didn't wait until marriage because I thought that if I didn't do then I would never be loved but now I wish I could take it back and save it for someone I know that truly loves...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I was seventeen and nervous, but super excited. I did tons of research by myself and knew that I was happy making this decision with someone I loved and who genuinely loved me back...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 17

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    This is a topic that a lot of people have opinions on. I didn't wait until marriage & I'm not even planning on getting married for a long time. I was 14 when I lost my virginity. I...
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't believe in marriage so why should I wait until then to enjoy something so wonderful? The time I started being sexually active was when I was 17 and it was 'eh' until we...
    rawrgirl90 rawrgirl90 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 12

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    In my opinion there's no such thing as virginity for a man virginity is something that is simply reserved for women. My opinion is mostly based on my experience of choosing to wait...
    Authentic921 Authentic921 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 15

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    I was 20 years old and up to this point, I hadn't done anything with anyone. Part of it was lack of opportunity, part of it was the fact that I wanted to wait until I was married...
    ismalbergher ismalbergher 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    In my first marriage I did wait to have sex with my husband on our wedding night. However, when before I got married a second time I did not wait to have sex on my wedding. My...
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 26

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    Sex was so ******* good.Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 9 Responses Oct 2

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    So two nights ago, my sister was supposed to be watching my boyfriend and I while my parents were away. (I'm 16, he's 17 and they don't trust us to not have sex and get pregnant...
    areyouinaband areyouinaband 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    If was to wait until I be on walker sucking oxygen cause where I live it's not legal!
    KK11874 KK11874 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 16

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    I wouldn't Even want my first time to be my wedding night. The wedding night should be full of passion and love and hot steamy sex. It shouldn't be pain,tears and blood.
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 25

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    I'm 19. Last week, I lost my virginity. It wasn't amazing. There wasn't "sparks", it was not like the movies. He wasn't even my boyfriend, he was just a work friend (he's 21...
    Geegee14 Geegee14 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 26

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    I never planned to wait till mareiage, but i deffinately tought that i would be 20-25 when it happend because i dont know hy but i recently developed some kind of penis phobia, i...
    leleas leleas 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I want a married guy to mess around with and knows how to have fun in bed
    lovediemonds lovediemonds 18-21, M Sep 30

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    Seems like an awfully big gamble to be stuck with only one person. Unless you plan on getting married a few times lol
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 13 Responses Sep 30

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    Any women out there that want to trade naughty pics!!!!! I adore bigger women!!!!!
    flnoleskier28 flnoleskier28 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    Haha.. oops oh well.. it was fun
    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    It wasn't what I expected. I thought I'd be with the girl forever so we did "it". Looking back I don't regret it. I haven't been sexual with a girl since. I've decided I'm only...
    Heston94 Heston94 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 2

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    I was only 13 with my boyfriend who was with me for 2 years already and i just cracked under pressure when he started to feel me up , im just wondering was i to young or was it ok
    lost12unit lost12unit 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 8

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    Because I'm ****** up and don't really care who I'm with anymore, it's not like I'm feeling present anyway, I'm always lost
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    Wait for what? Hmm. What could they be talking about.
    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I was 14 when i lost mine. A friend and me used to mess around with each other. At the time we didn't know we were tribbing or scissoring or what ever you want to call it. My...
    AnnieJF AnnieJF 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 11

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    I was 13. We were going out for a little over a year. I will never forget how I felt climbing out his window when his parents got home.
    Saphic33 Saphic33 26-30, F 13 Responses Oct 12

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    I was 17 and it felt like time. I was with someone caring and special. Its not something I regret and I rather enjoyed myself.
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M Oct 12

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    I was never interested in fooling around with girls without the intention of a relationship, and only went all the way with a girl that is been friends with for a long time at 17...
    Kumaji Kumaji 22-25, M Oct 12

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    ...but he was my first, only, and we got married eventually.
    paytek paytek 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    My first time was with someone who I now know is a complete k**b. However if I hadn't I wouldn't currently know the only man who ever understood me, a true friend. I also wouldn't...
    poisonpurpledwarf poisonpurpledwarf 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    I bought my first vibrator but I'm scared to use it does it really feel that good ?
    sometimeshorny sometimeshorny 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 14

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    No did not wait. I was 18 and he was 26, we both had the same English class in college and I approached him. I wanted to have my first time with someone older and who atleast knew...
    Janasai Janasai 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Too much sex now these women are in my head for all that we did
    ringgo69 ringgo69 31-35, M Oct 14

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    A lot of people don't anymore lol
    prettyg1 prettyg1 18-21, F 21 Responses Oct 15

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    Instead I had a pregnancy scare that involved the girl being 12 weeks late and trying to kill herself....
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 15

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    I started having sex at age 13. I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept...
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    It would of be nice to waited till I got married, but i don't regret it either it was a good experience I was in my 20s
    cristyagui cristyagui 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 16

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    I was 14, my first time, curious and naive. I barely had a budding chest and was very insecure (still am), so I really sought out the attention this boy was giving me. It was...
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 17

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    I was 14. My neighbor was 13 and him and I got curious one night so at midnight we snuck out and did it in between our houses. It hurt and We ended up getting a bunch of bug bites...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was 14 when I first had sex with my boyfriend. I was super nervous but it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. I read online that it'll hurt like hell etc etc etc but...
    TheOcarinaHero TheOcarinaHero 16-17, T 3 Responses a week ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago. I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first...
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F 21 Responses 4 days ago

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    I lost my virgintiy when I was 14 to a guy with Star Wars sheets...ya I wish I waited for my current boyfriend but it is what it is
    katthebimbo katthebimbo 16-17, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    i am a 21 years old and recently break relation with my boy friend. i am not satisfied with him becouse i am verry interested in sex. why i am interested in sex?? can somebody tell...
    POO74 POO74 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I lost mine when I was eighteen to a twenty-two year old guy who happens to be my best friend's brother whom I've had the hots for. I must say it was such bittersweet experience...
    deelirious deelirious 26-30, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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