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I Am Abstinent Until Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    My Choice

    My choice of abstinence actually has little to do with my Judeo-Catholic religion, though many people find this hard to believe. Of course part of it is to please the Lord, but, there are other reasons why I remain virgin.First, I believe that it is the most romantic and pure and...
    CharredAnarchie CharredAnarchie 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Getting Married At 18

    Hello Everyone! I just recently joined this website just looking for other people who are in the same situation I am in. I really just wanted to see how other people are handling wanted to get married at 18 and how there parents reacted and everything. So if any of you who got...
    unicorn28 unicorn28 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    It'S Getting Sooo Hard!

    I'm waiting until marriage but I'm so tempted to give into this earthly sin! I'm trying to please God, but gosh it's hard!
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    What guy does want to wait until marriage? At about the age of 12 or 13 all those raging hormones take over and the only thing to satisfy them would be to get the dam thing inside...
    dyaneleigh dyaneleigh 51-55, T a week ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. But I found someone who still loves and accepts me. ❤️❤️
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 3 Responses a week ago

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    I actually wated until I was 22, and I just decided I wanted sex. I figured I wouldnt find a virgin and I didnt want to be one any longer. Looking back it was wrong to only date...
    Husker97 Husker97 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I had sex with my boyfriend after almost two years together I knew it was right because it just happened out of no where and that's the best when things happen and are unexpected I...
    Personaljournal14 Personaljournal14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I didn't wait for marriage like I wanted to. I'm old fashioned romantic but my gf and I couldn't keep our hands off each other. I lost my virginity at 20 and I felt really guilty...
    WhyDoesLifeSuck WhyDoesLifeSuck 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I waited a year and 2 months I was 16 at the time. I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't as I lay next to him. I didn't wanna back out cause I promised him this many times...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Don't all guys believe that because your plus size and you didn't wait till marriage you have low standards and will give it away to anyone or just openly freely share your sexual...
    jodi199423 jodi199423 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Well as you can tell I'm 16 turning 17. And I did not wait till marriage because I honestly feel like I love him. People are probably going to say I'm to young to be in love but I...
    jennasteele15 jennasteele15 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Didn't wait til marriage but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F a week ago

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    I did not wait. I had sex with a boy I've known for 8 months . I'm 14 . Although, we had sex a couple days after our 4 month anniversary . I feel really bad about it , considering...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ooooo how nawty.bbl a what ever, I so would have married her... Only if she was pregnant though and gay marriage was legal.
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 3 days ago

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    How could you wait for marriage
    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    There's this one part of a book I'm rereading where the girl tells her boyfriend she's a virgin and he told her he'd wait as long as she needed. My first time guy pressured and...
    naturalnobody naturalnobody 18-21, F Jul 1

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    I remained a virgin until I was 25 years old when I had my first real boyfriend. We were in his bedroom, he asked me for a kiss but since I really like him I licked his lips then...
    luvkittycat luvkittycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    We totally in love. How can anyone wait until they married. He was so hot and i crazy about him. He is a good kisser. I love to kiss him and i was very eager if he touche my b...
    bellablurr bellablurr 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    True love waits - until the parents are at church, then it's on!
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    No obviously I did not wait until I get married to get pregnant. I was 8 1/2 months pregnant when I married my husband in a huge church ceremony. I looked so beautiful and was...
    pregnantbride pregnantbride 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I lost my virginity to my now fiancé about a year ago, he was so patient in not wanting us to rush to that part of the relationship we didn't take it that far until about 4 months...
    OPbeachgirl OPbeachgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't either. I wish I had. Life would have been a lot easier I believe.
    whyisitsohard44 whyisitsohard44 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    It was the best decision I ever made. It gave me the family I always dreamed of.
    stephknowsbest stephknowsbest 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My first time was with my boyfriend when i was 17, we did it in a rest room of a known resort in our place. It was just the two of us in that area so I think thats what made us do...
    heyitsme07 heyitsme07 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store, he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 25 Responses Jul 3

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    I had lots of sex in my dreams.
    Scifiguy Scifiguy 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I was 14 the first time. It was neither pleasureable nor bad... it just was. I don't think about it too much but I am still friends with the guy to this day. Actually, we are...
    susand69 susand69 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am now almost 20 and I lost my virginity at 13. It's crazy when I think about it now because it seems so young but I was completely comfortable and felt ready. I trusted my...
    kimsaprincess kimsaprincess 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    Was raised to believe sex was holy and a big deal. I thought that when I had sex something huge would happen. I've always heard comments on how sex can make you feel emotions for...
    rosesh098 rosesh098 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I wish I waited.. I am currently watching a movie and it got me thinking. Of my past and what my life used to be. The reckless behavior and carelessness of being young and naïve...
    EvalynnWoods EvalynnWoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    What? Gotta take it out for a test drive before you buy it! ;)
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Lost it when I was 14 years old.
    Jenqui96 Jenqui96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    That's my beliefs and My choice.
    Saoussen Saoussen 18-21, F Jul 15

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I thought he was the love of my life, I have him two years of my life , and lost many friends because of him. At the end I was just left with heartbreak and with no friends . They...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    This might be me. I don't know yet...
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Any girls, 18-30, want to Message me? I'm not depressed, but i feel quote alone now
    gtomm gtomm 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I never understood why losing your virginity had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Today I wished that I waited. I wished that someone had told me to make up my mind in time. God has forgiven me and Im happy and dont have scars. I did not wait because I did not...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 22

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    These violent delights have violent ends and in their triumph die , like fire and powder...
    mReee mReee 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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