I Am Addicted to Male Attention

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 150 People

    Why Can't I Stop?

    I keep posting ads on cl just for the thrill. Once I make contact I lose interest. Its like I'm addicted to new emails
    countrygirl2413 countrygirl2413
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2013

    I Crave Male Attention Like A Drug!

    I am 29 years old and the last 15 years of my life have been like a rollercoaster. Its only now, with the help of a fantastic psychologist that I realise I am actually addicted to men, or male attention. Whoever thought that was even possible, or that theres other women out there...
    aimzTG aimzTG
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2011

    Addicted To Attention And My Marriage

    Well like some others of you on here I am addicted to male attention, actually I am addicted to any attention that I can get. When I think about it I have been like this since I was a teen...always looking for a guy to like me, even if I didnt like him I would play withhis...
    tias6 tias6
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    I think I fit this description!

    I am happily married and don't want to leave him, but I still LOVE other attention from men. I work in a tavern as a waitress, so there are a lot of bar men, blokes drinking in the bar, etc, and I love chatting and flirting with them, makes me feel so attractive and desired, I...
    Coco181225 Coco181225
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    Don't Know Why I Do It

    I don't have daddy issues. I don't have a hard life. I don't lack confidence. So I can't understand why I crave male attention as much as I do. I only became aware of it about 2 years ago. I've been working in an industry dominated by males and I love it. I flirt with them all...
    ybinteresting ybinteresting
    Feb 19, 2013

    Male Attention

    I am so relieved that there are other women going through the same as me. I have been with my boyfriend for 8years now and he is amazing and I love him so much, which makes me feel even worse for this. I just crave and need male attention all the time, I'm at my happiest when I'm...
    Suzielou17 Suzielou17
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2012

    well, I used to be after my dad died.

    but, I'm so over it now. I just wanted to that I know what it feels like....
    deleted deleted
    Aug 30, 2015

    I Crave Male Attention!

    Im 17 (almost 18). HS senior. Ive only had one boyfriend (I didnt really like him, just dated him because he liked me and was a good friend). Im abstinent, so im not necessarily craving/seeking sexual attention. i like flirting, and making out.. at this point in my life I'm not...
    Gia765432113 Gia765432113
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

    I Need Male Attention.

    I have a personal problem; I always seek male attention... ever since middle school (I am now in college,) I have always seeked a man, I enjoy having a man there to text me and call me and make me feel WANTED. the odd part is, i don't care if a girl tells me she misses me or...
    Phi123 Phi123
    27 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    I kinda feel like a horrible person right now.

    I've got these urges, a desperation almost, for affection & attention from guys. But I'm married, & the attention my husband gives me just isn't the same! It's kinda like this: he's been in a sort of self-induced coma for the past two years, & the lack of his affection...
    SaundraMae SaundraMae
    31-35, F
    Jan 22, 2015

    I Constantly Seek Male Attention To Feel Fulfilled

    I cheated on my boyfriend last night. It was only kissing, but I probably would have gone further had the guy (my co worker and friend) not stopped the situation from continuing. I feel completely terrible. My boyfriend and I have been apart for the past 9 weeks, I have been away...
    Jaimeleshommes Jaimeleshommes
    22-25, F
    Aug 7, 2012

    I need male attention constantly.

    .. Without it I am nothing. Saturday night I had a man stay over at mine for the night, as soon as he left I managed to find myself another date for that evening, then after the date finished I went and spent the night at a different mans house. I hate being alone and need...
    busybrain busybrain
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    This happens every time.

    Every single attractive man that pays even the slightest bit of attention to me, I am instantly enamored with. I think I even invent things in my head to convince myself that they are interested in me. This is probably to justify my interest. I have always had serious...
    OnceThereWasAGirl OnceThereWasAGirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    I try to fight it, but I always want a guy to

    pay attention to me. I crave attention and affection constantly. The only way I can go without is to cut myself off cold turkey. I feel like a drug addict with the way I experience withdrawals when no one pays attention to me. It makes me feel sad and pathetic, but I move...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216
    31-35, F
    Aug 29, 2015
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