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I Am Adjusting to Lots of Change

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    I find a good strong belt

    and sturdy pockets a must...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 25

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    Since I Allowed Myself To Be Myself

    I am doing a lot of adjusting over the years. I always knew I was a girl even though I seem to be a boy. So adjusting is a all day every day event in my life. I have mood swings and other stress in my life for wanting to be more eminine and girly and must work through...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2010

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    2011

    2011,What a year,Changes,Like I never imagined,Left town,Changed jobs,Earthquakes,One hell of a year,Still,I'm adjusting,Ain't been easy,What a year!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 22, 2011

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    Change Is Good Not Easy

     It's not new for me to be going through change since I have always felt if something doesn't feel/seem right then things need to change. I tend to change things too much sometimes. The past several years have been eye opening change to my health and future. I actually had...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    Double Take??????

    Well things have been crazy my whole life impulsive reckless behavior im not proud of mostly but starting 4 mnths ago i have changed alot of what I do I used drugs and other things to get by. I gave up on my marriage. Drank did nothing and ended up hitting rock bottom. I blame no...
    TANQ247 TANQ247 26-30, M May 5, 2013

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    Army Child

    I didn't know my dad for half my life when i was about 7 my mom showed me a picture of my dad i was so mad she kept that from me for so long. I always asked who my daddy was threw all the daddy and daughter days i never got to go to and everything. When she showed me it i was...
    ThesecretLife ThesecretLife 13-15, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Survived Another Year

    Survived the first year of my husband passing with many bumps and twist and that was in 2009 but since last April think this year has had more bump and twist than I care for I often say going thru a death is the roller coster ride from hell but this last year add the twister in...
    goahead goahead 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    In the Past Two Years...

    my father died my mother died i am selling my childhood home i got a terrific new job, but one that's more demanding than my previous one i finished a degree that i had been working on for 10+ years i bought a new house i am in the process of moving to a new city and state...
    aquanet aquanet 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    My Whirlwind 2013

    ive lost both of my parents this year . my daughter has broken up her realationship of 3 yrs to date someone new and its a mixed racial realationship so its making it hard with her daughter involved. and im facing my own with a divorce and a new boyfriend whom has no intrest in...
    heuerman98 heuerman98 31-35, F Nov 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    many of you may know him many of you may not have heard of him he was a stock broker in the 80s and 90s , he made millions and was the owner of Stratton Oakmont , he made lots of...
    SebUK SebUK 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    This was the worst time in my life and I was just a freshman!!! I took weeks to just think about it. I was so hurt by it all. I was surrounded by lots of negativity. Bryanna really...
    Shauntreece Shauntreece 16-17, F Apr 1

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    I was healthy and had a very active life and worked very long hours for the last 16 years until January of this year.. I fought for 10 months with my employer to keep employed...
    Louisek81 Louisek81 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    4/5 years ago I dated a guy for about a year. Started out great but by 6 months in it had turned toxic. I was young enough not to recognize his verbal/emotional abuse for what it...
    blair1987 blair1987 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Right now I'm focusing on my dream, to own my own shop and sell my art, shirts and designs shirts. Lots of fun cool stuff. One day ~
    Mleader1 Mleader1 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Time is cruel, as the owl said. As time goes on, things will change. Doesn't matter if you like it or not, it's the way life is. Change. Many like change. But some people like me...
    Kitzami Kitzami 13-15, M Mar 21

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    Hey guys... I also wanted to change my life... Especially for the better. I figured out how to do it and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 29

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    Oh, when people accuse you of "changing" as though you have done something wrong. Ask yourself why they feel the need to point it out? To help you? Or to serve themselves? Will you...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Don’t change because someone wants you to, change because you want to. If you have to change for someone then they aren’t worth it. The one that don’t want you to change...
    serachii serachii 22-25, F Apr 2

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    I decided to take some risks & do some things that I haven't done before this year. I want change in my life. I want to be a better person. I want to be successful in life. I want...
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    The time I have spent on Experience Project has been the most valuable time I have ever spent anywhere. I have written almost everyday. I have ben here since 2009 under another...
    MsOracle MsOracle 66-70, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I changed my username cause the old one was ana17 and it looks like anal7 so i changed it. So if you are my friend on here im still me i just changed my name
    Anaaaaa345 Anaaaaa345 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm trying to change my life. Yet now I'm starting to think all I did was make it worse. I knew it wouldn't be easy. But recent events have convinced me it may be a bad idea to...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Mar 30

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    I've been married for 11 months - we dated for 8 months before getting married... Dumb, I now know. Well through all this time to the point we are now, there has been over a year...
    childlessstepmom childlessstepmom 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 4

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    I have changed so much in the past year or so, I used to be so slutty and stuck up I can hardly believe I was that person, I suffered from several panic attacks from October 2012...
    jenniferjones11 jenniferjones11 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Trying to accept the things that we can change, the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference comes form Accepting Reality as it is in the current...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Apr 7

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    I came across my other (original) name today and it was strange to enunciate the letters that formed it together. I repeat it slowly in my mind and it is as if I am trying to...
    IHateMirrors IHateMirrors 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Life has turned upside down, spun around and set my path in a strange new direction... My mindset gotta change..Help...How to change to meet the new life head on.... So health...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F Apr 8

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    Should I change? My whole life I've been a wallflower except for the time I tried changing who I was to fit in in grae 9. But, I guess when people look at me they see poor...
    BelleBlowingBubbles BelleBlowingBubbles 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If you would have told me my life would be what it is today as a kid I probably would hate that guy just because... Some days I wake up and ask myself is this real? Is this...
    DiorRage DiorRage 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I hate change too, but a wise man once told me " without change there would be no butterflies" that wise man was my papa.
    hidingtheblues hidingtheblues 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I wouldn't change my past but I know I am working towards a better future. I know I will get knocked down sometimes but I will get back up and keep moving forward.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I want a drastic change immediadely,but i can't have it,sometimes you just need to calm down and leave the change come to you,go with the flow like river to the sea, you flow and...
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My girlfriend totally did not change her underwear this weekend. onFriday after work we went right home and had some wild sex. She worn panties the whole time, taking them off to...
    tellmesomething1 tellmesomething1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I want to make changes in my life. For the better! I'm tired of being stuck here and just working and coming home and repeat. I want to do something inspiring with it!! I want to...
    cameron20 cameron20 18-21, M Mar 24

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    There have been a lot if times I have tried to do the right thing and even if it doesn't always work out my intentions are good. A lot of my time over the years has been spent...
    crazynam321 crazynam321 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    Why worry about that which you can no longer change, the way I see it is if you can change it then try to accept it pointless hate accomplishes nothing. If something is in your way...
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I wish i could change my life! I wish I could close my eyes and have my beautiful thick long hair back. I wish i could change my life so i wouldn't have alopecia!!!!!! Its such a...
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Okay so for the people that play Vedic games they may know this image from imfamous the second son, but this picture is a great message for people. The white side represents good...
    laia120841 laia120841 13-15, M Apr 2

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I have been thinking about this for a while. I have a fiance. He loves the way i look and has never once told me that i needed to change.He tells me im beautiful or sexy all the...
    Skyiiler Skyiiler 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I want to find and understand my purpose in life! For years I have wondered what should I or could I be doing. I've always done hair. It's something I enjoy doing but for some...
    Ttbaby23 Ttbaby23 31-35, F Apr 7

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    Home at Last It is 08:20, sunday 22 december, and it is a good day. Despite all the trouble in my country, the political and economic uncertainty, the threat to our independence...
    yulico yulico 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    my past was a horrible road trip but I hope the future will change everything...
    SweetAlone13 SweetAlone13 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I hate change. Absolutely hate it... But coming off of a long time of being depressed, I decided I had to change my entire life or I would never have any hope... All I did was make...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Apr 10

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    I changed it from Nano_Neutel to AnnaCatherineac86.None of those are my real name, but since I'm here mainly because of my crossdressing, I changed it to my feminine side name.
    AnnaCatherineac86 AnnaCatherineac86 26-30, M Apr 11

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    After giving it much thought, I think it time. More people are getting rid of their unwanted names. It's possible I may offend or raise questions. But really, my decision is my own...
    Sistahsky Sistahsky 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I want to dye my hair, and lose weight and become a better person. I've been this same boring person for about 2 years. Let's make some new changes! Maybe I can convince my mom to...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I want to change the world, not let the world change me.
    Hope70 Hope70 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Because of laws, I cannot do what I dream to do. I cannot be free. For the next 2 1/2 years, I'm stuck. I cannot be my own person until then. I want to change my life. I want to...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sick of truth,assumptions and so called sanity.If reality is this,i would better choose lies and become insane.its inexplicable when people changes right in front of our eyes.Grown...
    Revika Revika 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Of course everything is subject to change, the universe is in constant movement and change. That's why I only worry about today and enjoy today. For I only have today to enjoy...
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 4 days ago

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    I had a great group of friends in school, we are still friends but they changed a lot. We were always the outcasts in school but I liked it that way, we were real. Now they have...