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I Am Adjusting to Lots of Change

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    Change Is Good Not Easy

     It's not new for me to be going through change since I have always felt if something doesn't feel/seem right then things need to change. I tend to change things too much sometimes. The past several years have been eye opening change to my health and future. I actually had...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    Double Take??????

    Well things have been crazy my whole life impulsive reckless behavior im not proud of mostly but starting 4 mnths ago i have changed alot of what I do I used drugs and other things to get by. I gave up on my marriage. Drank did nothing and ended up hitting rock bottom. I blame no...
    TANQ247 TANQ247 26-30, M May 5, 2013

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    Army Child

    I didn't know my dad for half my life when i was about 7 my mom showed me a picture of my dad i was so mad she kept that from me for so long. I always asked who my daddy was threw all the daddy and daughter days i never got to go to and everything. When she showed me it i was...
    ThesecretLife ThesecretLife 13-15, F Apr 15, 2012

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    In the Past Two Years...

    my father died my mother died i am selling my childhood home i got a terrific new job, but one that's more demanding than my previous one i finished a degree that i had been working on for 10+ years i bought a new house i am in the process of moving to a new city and state...
    aquanet aquanet 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Survived Another Year

    Survived the first year of my husband passing with many bumps and twist and that was in 2009 but since last April think this year has had more bump and twist than I care for I often say going thru a death is the roller coster ride from hell but this last year add the twister in...
    goahead goahead 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I find a good strong belt

    and sturdy pockets a must...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 25

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    My Whirlwind 2013

    ive lost both of my parents this year . my daughter has broken up her realationship of 3 yrs to date someone new and its a mixed racial realationship so its making it hard with her daughter involved. and im facing my own with a divorce and a new boyfriend whom has no intrest in...
    heuerman98 heuerman98 36-40, F Nov 5, 2013

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    2011

    2011,What a year,Changes,Like I never imagined,Left town,Changed jobs,Earthquakes,One hell of a year,Still,I'm adjusting,Ain't been easy,What a year!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 22, 2011

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    Since I Allowed Myself To Be Myself

    I am doing a lot of adjusting over the years. I always knew I was a girl even though I seem to be a boy. So adjusting is a all day every day event in my life. I have mood swings and other stress in my life for wanting to be more eminine and girly and must work through...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I joined this website a long while back because I was going through a very bad time, I was depressed, suicidal and lost. My life has changed now and I still feel funny. I had...
    doctorwhofan doctorwhofan 22-25, F a week ago

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    The Elder Scrolls on-line can build use of natural action skills to create co-op play fun and fascinating. Basically, players are ready to use natural action skills to mix with...
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    If you have got time and ar committed to creating the foremost Gold, the most effective thanks to try this is via crafting. Late within the game, crafted things are often among the...
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    Hi my name is Jan I am 21 and have sex with lots of guys. I work at a bar and always bring guys back to my place after work and have sex with them. I have a no condom rule. I want...
    jantheslut jantheslut 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I can't change the fact my "mother" is insane and trying to get rid of me. I can't change my past. I can't change that I was attacked and raped. I can't change that destroyed my...
    sluggo111 sluggo111 16-17, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Everything changes, every second. Embrace change and realize it happens for a reason. It won’t always be obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it. What you have...
    lovelifexox lovelifexox 41-45, F 16 hrs ago

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    I use to selfharm. I had 10 scars underneath a purple bracelet that I never take off. I have been treating my scars for 3 years, today I realized that only 8 are still visible...
    SaphiraJane SaphiraJane 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    Seems like lately a lot has been changing in my life. Friends that I thought would always be there for me are nowhere to be seen. I find myself colder, caring less about people and...
    boringlyawesome boringlyawesome 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Their are people out there that wish they could share. Their happiness with others and there is also the type of people when they aren't. They just want to make who makes them...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 15

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    This world has to change, there are so many awful things in the world, so much pain, hatred, despair, and suffering, it has to change. I think I was born to change the world, I've...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    It isn't the easiest thing to do, it's definitely a learning process. There's a lot of things i wish i could change, especially my past but...i can't and i need to accept that and...
    WistfulSigh WistfulSigh 70+, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I had one that changed my life forever...it was a bad thing that became a good thing. it was rocky, chaotic, full of misunderstandings...... It was the most impacting of all...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jul 16

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    "Cognitive distortions are at the core of what many cognitive-behavioral and other kinds of therapists try and help a person learn to change in psychotherapy. By learning to...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 36-40, F 14 hrs ago

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    I picked wushu over volleyball. It's been couple of years that I had been a varsity in volleyball and it's just two years that I practiced wushu. I'm not a volleyball varsity but a...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F Jun 28

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    When i look back on my life i see how much i have changed but the drastic change happened the day i lost my mum. Nothing can prepare you for something like that, i use to think to...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 29

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    I was forced to change my life a year ago now that the dust has settled, I want to now initiate MY OWN change in my life; I just don't know where to start! Any suggestion? Every...
    kmdickerson5 kmdickerson5 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Sometimes I look life through a filter of perfection...how things should be.A supportive family,friends and happy kids around,living a peaceful life full of feelings and deep...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I think its time to change my life for the better. And it all begins how? In my head! Change ur thinking and u will be changed!
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    You have to take chances if you think its the right thing to do. Always do what you want to do and never do what others think you should do. Rather live saying, “I can’t...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jun 25

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    I want to change myself. I want the old me back How happy I used to be.. Even after trying hard I never succeed.. My stupid mistakes have gotten even more bad now. Dad by day I am...
    AnjaliBhandari AnjaliBhandari 13-15, F Jun 28

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    A few days ago I met a new friend who shone a ray of light and showed me a path back to my humanity, and hopefully redemption. I am beginning that journey, I am talking those first...
    DarkBarbarian DarkBarbarian 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I change my username every once in a while. But I always keep one part of my username the same. As of right now, my username is ForgottenCelestria as I am always forgotten. But...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F Jun 30

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    In two short hours i will be on my way to the doctors. This is not a check up, this is a life changing choice. Once i go there is no going back. I will be getting an abortion. YES...
    imlostonhowtofeel imlostonhowtofeel 18-21, F Jul 1

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    A smile is a wonderful thing. A person stopped me today in Starbucks and said they just wanted to thank me. For what I asked somewhat surprised. Well they replied I see you here...
    bjf102 bjf102 66-70 2 Responses Jul 1

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    "Change your thoughts and you change your world." ~Norman Vincent Peale
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 3

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    But... My biggest struggle is to accept that there is anything i cannot change, if i want that change enough!
    yulico yulico 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    This can be the year that everything changed for the better. Sometimes in order to grow and for us to reach our full potential we have to let go. So learn from the past, let go of...
    Aly00cat Aly00cat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I can't change my past. But I feel like my past is changing me.. I am trying not to let my past define myself. But I feel it's hard to sometimes...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    "Don't be upset and caught up with things or people you can not change. Instead move on, let go, and concentrate on what you can change. Things that will enhance your life. You...
    intrigued4life intrigued4life 36-40, F Jul 9

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    I want to change. I'm 17 year old boy I'm a nerd I don't have a gf never have had a gf never had my first kiss either. I want to be a bad boy not a nerdy virgin, chicks don't like...
    laser1500 laser1500 16-17, T 1 Response Jul 10

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    I really need to stop posting so negative stuff soo here ya go. My dream is to become famous and make a big difference in the world I wanna change things help people, help...
    KaceyThatsMe KaceyThatsMe 13-15, F Jul 10

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    Well you know last year and the years before that I was always a good girl, but now? Now I'm not so good anymore. I'm doing everything I said I would NEVER do. I'm having sex...
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I would like to change myself.I think I have always been the too good kind.I never complained much when I was taken for granted.I would like to change that.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I am sure failed relationships do change people. Adds things like trust issues, insecurity, anxiety, and even depression. I have tried to connect with him for years and he keeps...
    Lanie42 Lanie42 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    Have changed from sweetlady002 to 00flyaway. I just felt I wanted a bit of a change, not quite a fresh start, but just an adjusment. I'm still me though! Just muddling through...
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Because my future will not be like my past. I cannot let it be like today has been, how the next days will unfortunately also be like. Because I just want to be happy. I don't...
    unknownfamiliar unknownfamiliar 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Trying to change my look a bit. Just died my hair and thinking of cutting it! Change should be good
    gisel607 gisel607 18-21, F Jul 14

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    "You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of." ~Jim Rohn...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F a week ago

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    "Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts." ~Arnold Bennett
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F a week ago