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I Am Adjusting to Lots of Change

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    Change Is Good Not Easy

     It's not new for me to be going through change since I have always felt if something doesn't feel/seem right then things need to change. I tend to change things too much sometimes. The past several years have been eye opening change to my health and future. I actually had...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    Double Take??????

    Well things have been crazy my whole life impulsive reckless behavior im not proud of mostly but starting 4 mnths ago i have changed alot of what I do I used drugs and other things to get by. I gave up on my marriage. Drank did nothing and ended up hitting rock bottom. I blame no...
    TANQ247 TANQ247 26-30, M May 5, 2013

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    Survived Another Year

    Survived the first year of my husband passing with many bumps and twist and that was in 2009 but since last April think this year has had more bump and twist than I care for I often say going thru a death is the roller coster ride from hell but this last year add the twister in...
    goahead goahead 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Since I Allowed Myself To Be Myself

    I am doing a lot of adjusting over the years. I always knew I was a girl even though I seem to be a boy. So adjusting is a all day every day event in my life. I have mood swings and other stress in my life for wanting to be more eminine and girly and must work through...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2010

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    2011

    2011,What a year,Changes,Like I never imagined,Left town,Changed jobs,Earthquakes,One hell of a year,Still,I'm adjusting,Ain't been easy,What a year!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 22, 2011

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    Army Child

    I didn't know my dad for half my life when i was about 7 my mom showed me a picture of my dad i was so mad she kept that from me for so long. I always asked who my daddy was threw all the daddy and daughter days i never got to go to and everything. When she showed me it i was...
    ThesecretLife ThesecretLife 13-15, F Apr 15, 2012

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    In the Past Two Years...

    my father died my mother died i am selling my childhood home i got a terrific new job, but one that's more demanding than my previous one i finished a degree that i had been working on for 10+ years i bought a new house i am in the process of moving to a new city and state...
    aquanet aquanet 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    My Whirlwind 2013

    ive lost both of my parents this year . my daughter has broken up her realationship of 3 yrs to date someone new and its a mixed racial realationship so its making it hard with her daughter involved. and im facing my own with a divorce and a new boyfriend whom has no intrest in...
    heuerman98 heuerman98 36-40, F Nov 5, 2013

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    I find a good strong belt

    and sturdy pockets a must...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 25, 2014

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    It is hard to accept change, to "let go" because we become attached to these things. We see them as our only source of happiness, or they give us security. Change is chaotic and...
    curiosi curiosi 51-55, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    How can you change something that isn't defined yet, such as future? Every action, even thought can change your whole life. As long as you make decisions, your future is as blank...
    arenxus arenxus 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I have a sweet tooth but nowadays I don't enjoy eating too much sweet stuffs like ice cream anymore. I used to adore cheese but now I only 'like' them. I used to love the smell of...
    shioshishio shioshishio 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    The evidence is everywhere--the global climate is changing and we have lots to do with it. Greedy jerks like the Koch brothers are committing crimes against humanity by actively...
    AboveTheTrees AboveTheTrees 46-50, F Jan 31

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    Following a lot of severely hot weather, today was cooler thank goodness, I had the chance to wear my new dress and I took the train into Perth. Got lots of nice glances from Ms...
    Lin79 Lin79 31-35, T 1 Response Feb 2

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    While this will focus on abounding of the luminary’s beforehand pieces – including around-the-clock advance heard in Kingdom Hearts, Fable of Mana, and abounding added – it...
    fifacoinsarc fifacoinsarc 26-30, F Feb 10

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    Had Lots Of Surgerys.........................
    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I changed my therapist and today had a great session just letting the frustrations out ..... So much going on in my life that I need to explore and understand what direction to...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Sooo pretty much everyone I talk to has been telling me I need to change the way I think and how I think about myself. Now usually I pull the "I was abused" or "this is how I...
    DontCallMeSunshine DontCallMeSunshine 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Yesterday was indeed a roller coaster ride. It all started when I get to have a lot of thoughts in my head in which I am not sure of; whether it is right or wrong. I get doubts...
    smilemelove smilemelove 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Im trying to make "changes" trying key word here..Yeah im being hypocritical right now cause it's 5:27 am and im here instead of sleeping but whatever..I need to write let off some...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I have changed I believe. I use to be very shy, scared all the time, afraid of everything, apologetic for everything, not very lively, and always sad. Now I lock away my feelings...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    seasons change, situations change, people change. everything changes..over time, i will stop caring and over time i will be twice as stronger than i am today. i will not roar like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Its the truth and as long as its true, I am good. My past has some major things in it I would love to change but I can't. I can, however, change my underwear and make my own food...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I know i resist change a lot..It's hard..I hope I can change,I need to.it's just f**cking hard.I start doing things that are good for me than I'll stop and revert back to doing the...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    We are what we survived. I can't put into words how each sh*t we have to endure teaches us a valuable lesson about loving ourselves a little more so that love can overflow and we'd...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    the reason i went from spankmeladies to the one i have now is because I caved into the pressure from a lot of the diffrent ladies opinions here I was blocked just because of the...
    gentlemanjoe2 gentlemanjoe2 56-60, M 18 Responses Feb 6

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    Im so sick of the way my life is i really am..im so tired of it and im also tired of waiting on someone to come and save me too usually a guy..Im so ******* tired of my life being...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Accepting something I cannot change is accepting the fact that the person I love, has done things dangerous to his well being and our relationship. I cannot stop it, I cannot...
    SecretAngel6 SecretAngel6 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    So much work to be done in fact i should probably be working out right now or doing some self help stuff or other productive stuff but hey this is a start wanting to change,really...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I do. I hate change. It takes me forever to get used to it. Like my friend, he admitted he's gay and now I don't want to be near him. I'm gay myself but I don't like not seeing him...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M a week ago

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    I believe every single book changes your life. Maybe not like noticeably or anything but like it could change your view on certain things in life or make you believe in something...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sometimes i think it would just be easyer to change who i am and be what everyone else wants me to be. its hard not being liked because people don't care for you because of the bad...
    bw32 bw32 31-35, M Feb 2

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    So I'm 22 and still in college which ****** me off so much . There so many things inside of me I wanna express but I'm afraid . I feel like a failure because when I look at myself...
    ish1234567 ish1234567 22-25, M 8 Responses Feb 4

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    I can remember as a kid my parents telling us "just change right here" we'd be at a park or pool, or some tourist attraction. Then as I got older it became fun I never cared, in...
    BiMPanties BiMPanties 51-55, M Feb 5

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    Chelsea. It's okay. My friend calls me Chelly. It's sounds funny. But I want to change it. When I used to work for the telemarketing company. I was allowed to change my first name...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 26-30, F Feb 6

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    Even at the oncoming age of 33 I am having self-realizations of things that I don't like about myself. I believe I can change. I've always declared that I welcome all challenges...
    cbcs cbcs 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    This world is so miserable. People live such repetitive lives and never really experience anything besides what is in their own little bubble. There is also so much cruelty towards...
    mgluvsoftball mgluvsoftball 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    Myself. Circumstances. I dont mind changing my ways. I am not one of those who says "If you you dont like the smell in the bakery, then then get out!". Or "Be who you are and say...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Feb 14

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    letting go of the mistakes from my past and keeping the lessons I learned. I can't change my mistakes, but I can change how I handle a situation next time.
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    If people were meant to change, they will but you can't force people to change unfortunetly. Unfortunetly those select few will always stay the same old characters they were meant...
    Frenchgal11 Frenchgal11 26-30, F Feb 18

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    I don't really get the name of this group. I think only individual change can really change the world.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not perfect. nor would I want to be. I am naive to many negative things. But I am not cynical. I am a bit overweight, but I am not starving. I work a lot, but atleast I have...
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am working very hard on not doing this. I seem to have this problem with getting stuck in the what if's. What if I did this different or what if I had said this, or what if I...
    Welllaugh Welllaugh 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Just give in, it's part of the serenity pledge. But I believe it should extend to everyone in every walk of life, Gods grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...
    NightGambit NightGambit 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I believe that an ordinary person doing ordinary things can change the world. Social Media will help us make what is ordinary in the USA be ordinary all over the world.
    socialskillstraining socialskillstraining 31-35, M Jan 28

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