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I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

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    No One To Blame

    It's just one of those things. I got involved with a wonderful man. We were taking our time, had not had sex yet, just getting to know each other and falling in love. We are both married and in sexless marriages. We both wanted affection and real emotion without having to...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Losing The Love Of My Life

    my girlfriend and i were at a farm that i've never seen before. a white man in a car pulls up in the driveway. i've never seen him before, but he has a gun. he shot towards the house, missing us, but it bounces off the house and goes through the back of my girlfriend, straight...
    garrettallan garrettallan 18-21, M Jun 30, 2013

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    My Mom

    I am afraid that my mom will die soon & I know I will not be able to handle it. Her health just keeps deteriorating. My whole life will be turned upside down & everything will change & I will be all alone. I may even be homeless or put in a mental hospital, or both because I have...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Jun 11, 2010

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    I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

    I feel that I will lose my Uncle which is 87 right now, and the worse part about it, is that he lives far away from me. I doubt that I could make it home for the funeral if something happens to him because I am working overseas as a contractor. While I was home on vacation...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 23, 2010

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    Darkness And Light

    She took a little step toward the light that was beaming at her from so far away. Darkness is all she has known for so long. Scared to move, but drawn like a moth to the bright flame she sees. It beckoned, calling itself love, calling out to her. Pulled there, almost against...
    flowersinherhair flowersinherhair 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Loss

    It scares the hell out of me. If I can I keep most people at arms length because I know if I get too close I will end up being hurt. I have irrational fears and dreams that my mum and or my dad are going to die. I know this is morbid but I can't help it. It just seems...
    monicaxox monicaxox 26-30, F Mar 26, 2010

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    A Date I Won't Forget

    .......17 April 2010   It was Masquerade Nite.  The mail still ends with kisses at the bottom for me.. I will always cherish them for as long as I live. Thank you babe... for the love and affection you gave me....  I was blessed to have your love for 3...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Someone Can Stay In Your Heaqrt Forever But Not Your Life

    my boyfriend dumped me today because i hugged a grade fourer i relised i still love him but he can not stay in my life forever and that i lived and was happy before i knew him and i just need to get on with my life and relise that i deserve someone better than him
    monkeymilburn monkeymilburn 13-15, F Oct 21, 2012

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    I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

    I am. Everytime I get close to someone I am so scared, because there's a high chance they'll stop loving me, or  run away, become distant. And then I am left alone, to pick up the broken pieces of my heart.
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    4ever Taken

    i no ive lost her already shes 18 im 14 but i love her and i will never ever forget her....
    Alwaysandforever29 Alwaysandforever29 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Melancholy As Hell

    I'm trapped in a failed marriage by my wife who refuses to let me go. How can it still be love when she'd rather force me to stay than work out how to deal with things being that far gone? Meanwhile after declaring the relationship dead I'd fallen for my best friend, who doesn't...
    TheVerticalMan TheVerticalMan 41-45, M 3 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Nope

    nope not afraid it happened so wats there really to say
    Alwaysandforever29 Alwaysandforever29 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    A friend- we met about 3 months ago.

    I liked her a lot. She's interesting and funny. But kinda needy. So we talked few times in person and we texted. She graduated on monday. Today morning I was blocked from her snapchat, Instagram and Kikk. I have absolutely NO CLUE what happened or what I did wrong. I tried to...
    Beingpositiveisgood Beingpositiveisgood 18-21, F Jun 4

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    A Hole-in-corner Life

    I am sitting here tonight at my wits end, i am so afraid of losing my boyfriend.  He has been keeping things from me and he is becoming cold even though he denies it and i cant stop being completely paranoid every-time he leaves the house of what hes doing and thinking...
    esoterika esoterika 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    Give Back What Is Not Yours

    don't know if you guys believe in palm reading... but a palm reader said that i am going to have to lose you some day.... we were never meant to be together and the hardest thing is that, i don't want that day to come.. be it now or later. it hurts me too much... i almost did...
    LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I know why I've been afraid to say it.. I'm afraid to lose him.. Even though I feel like I will never truly have his heart..
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    It's possible to be a hopeless romantic and be afraid of falling in love, trusting someone, giving them your all and receiving nothing in return. A relationship can't be 300/0.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Sep 5

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    Usually people who are afraid of falling in love are those who were left down by their boy/girlfriend. I'm this kind of persons who broke up in a relationship. I had 4 relationship...
    otoumie otoumie 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm afraid of falling in love or getting married cause of the way the relationships around me have ended
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I don't want to because I already had a horribly break up to someone I actually loved for real for the first time since I was 8 I'm 14 now but there's one probly I'm attracted to...
    drew725 drew725 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I'm not afraid it's just I've loved people who don't return the affection "love is unrequited"(act 1 scene 1 of Romeo and Juliet)
    shaun987 shaun987 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I'm dumb. No one really wants to love me. Men lie. They don't loved you they just want to **** you and use you until he's done. I believed a guy once. And he became a monster...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    I just can't risk getting rejected again and again
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    It's scary because I never wanted to be that girl that had millions and billions of boyfriends before she got married I didn't and still don't want to break others hearts or have...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Never be afraid to lose someone who doesn't feel lucky enough to have you.
    FlyShawtyyy FlyShawtyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Are you afraid to lose your lovers?
    Fatemah97 Fatemah97 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I had this amazing best friend, the kind that you see in movies that you always wish you had but never find. We found each other when we were 16, he was working at the hospital i...
    crazyinbama86 crazyinbama86 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I just need somewhere to get this out. I moved house with my family, a long way from where we were, new life started very excited. I started to live, previously I had been very...
    Frankjoon Frankjoon 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I am afraid of being in a relationship because I am easily bored. What happens when after two years and I can't even pretend to laugh at his jokes?If I stay with him...I will...
    iDontKnowYou2 iDontKnowYou2 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I know we are all complicated beings and I'm no different. However I complicate my life further by not being honest about my sexual orientation. I can admit to close friends that I...
    licwineoffurbody licwineoffurbody 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I am a loser. But I'm a loser that enjoys band, tennis, FCCLA, FFA, one act play, and many other things. I may be a loser but I'm a fun weird loser who loves all the stuff that...
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    "I know that it can be hard to believe that someone loves you if you are afraid of being yourself, or if you are not exactly sure who you are. It can be hard to believe that...
    ChelseaJN ChelseaJN 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I remember thinking about her while sitting on the sidewalk. Of course, I can never think too hard about her without breaking down, so I have to keep it at a minimum. When a close...
    EthanFisher EthanFisher 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want to meet a girl who loves me for who I am and doesn't care what anyone thinks. I want a girl who isn't scared to be herself. I want a girl to love who loves me in return...
    confusedandcomplicated5 confusedandcomplicated5 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    The World HATES my guts and most of the time it is for no reason. I am not a saint at all. Sometimes, I am too blunt but I am not a mean individual. I have no issue apologizing...
    starryxo starryxo 22-25 1 Response Sep 7

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    I was 14-15 at the time. And he was my ex. I never knew he was suicidal. Until my mom told me he shot himself in the head. He had been drinking and wrote a suicide letter. I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    'Listen' If a friend tells you their problem and you tell them don't feel bad or you just try to cheer him up it's like you're saying their feelings are wrong & to turn them...
    sum1ab sum1ab 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    I'm going in! I love it on a Sunday afternoon! Real hot water, little music. Nothing much I need for some relaxing. Ok maybe someone to wash my back. Lol
    PeterDr PeterDr 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    " I'm here. I love you. I don't care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you. There's nothing you can do to lose my love. I will protect you until you...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 8 Responses Aug 26

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    Let someone love you just the way you are - as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are. To believe that you must...
    mik02 mik02 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Going to watch "Love Actually" with the wife. The things we do for love. Love of her cuddles.
    chocolatemaster27 chocolatemaster27 26-30, M Sep 2

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    Someone loves me... <3 :-D
    ladymaverick31 ladymaverick31 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm Colin and I love my bf Trevor. We're both 14 in 9th grade. I want to share a story of extreme fear and sadness. Don't worry. It has a happy ending. However, for a while, I was...
    anotherkid anotherkid 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why is it so hard for me to lose weight? I weigh 66kg my goal is to be 53kg! I've joined the gym, tried to eat healthy and do all sorts of things, but the food is so irresistible...
    angela84 angela84 16-17 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Divorce was filed 12 hours ago. Guess the notice is coming later today by certified mail. I was checking my FB and got the dreaded "FB kick-in-the-gut" when I noticed that my own...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I really need someone to talk to ;(I feel so alone on this app I feel like no cared I feel left out on this app I have no real friends I want someone to understand what im going...
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Reading some of the "experiences" on here makes me even more happy to be me. Not settling for a relationship with some girl that is not compatible to me. There's some messed up...
    colorstone colorstone 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    I heard about EP and I thought it might help me, because nothing else has. I'm currently 16 years old living in Matthews, North Carolina. I've always been the kind of kid that put...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have social anxiety and i'm afraid of everything i do. To be honest i don't really know what to do anymore lately. Anyone with me?
    ninaaaxx ninaaaxx 13-15, F 4 Responses