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I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

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    No One To Blame

    It's just one of those things. I got involved with a wonderful man. We were taking our time, had not had sex yet, just getting to know each other and falling in love. We are both married and in sexless marriages. We both wanted affection and real emotion without having to...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    Loss

    It scares the hell out of me. If I can I keep most people at arms length because I know if I get too close I will end up being hurt. I have irrational fears and dreams that my mum and or my dad are going to die. I know this is morbid but I can't help it. It just seems...
    monicaxox monicaxox 26-30, F Mar 26, 2010

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    I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

    I am. Everytime I get close to someone I am so scared, because there's a high chance they'll stop loving me, or  run away, become distant. And then I am left alone, to pick up the broken pieces of my heart.
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    Nope

    nope not afraid it happened so wats there really to say
    Alwaysandforever29 Alwaysandforever29 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    Melancholy As Hell

    I'm trapped in a failed marriage by my wife who refuses to let me go. How can it still be love when she'd rather force me to stay than work out how to deal with things being that far gone? Meanwhile after declaring the relationship dead I'd fallen for my best friend, who doesn't...
    TheVerticalMan TheVerticalMan 41-45, M 3 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Losing The Love Of My Life

    my girlfriend and i were at a farm that i've never seen before. a white man in a car pulls up in the driveway. i've never seen him before, but he has a gun. he shot towards the house, missing us, but it bounces off the house and goes through the back of my girlfriend, straight...
    garrettallan garrettallan 18-21, M Jun 30, 2013

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    4ever Taken

    i no ive lost her already shes 18 im 14 but i love her and i will never ever forget her....
    Alwaysandforever29 Alwaysandforever29 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    I Am Afraid I Am Going To Lose Someone I Love

    I feel that I will lose my Uncle which is 87 right now, and the worse part about it, is that he lives far away from me. I doubt that I could make it home for the funeral if something happens to him because I am working overseas as a contractor. While I was home on vacation...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 23, 2010

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    A Hole-in-corner Life

    I am sitting here tonight at my wits end, i am so afraid of losing my boyfriend.  He has been keeping things from me and he is becoming cold even though he denies it and i cant stop being completely paranoid every-time he leaves the house of what hes doing and thinking...
    esoterika esoterika 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    My Mom

    I am afraid that my mom will die soon & I know I will not be able to handle it. Her health just keeps deteriorating. My whole life will be turned upside down & everything will change & I will be all alone. I may even be homeless or put in a mental hospital, or both because I have...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Jun 11, 2010

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    Someone Can Stay In Your Heaqrt Forever But Not Your Life

    my boyfriend dumped me today because i hugged a grade fourer i relised i still love him but he can not stay in my life forever and that i lived and was happy before i knew him and i just need to get on with my life and relise that i deserve someone better than him
    monkeymilburn monkeymilburn 13-15, F Oct 21, 2012

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    Darkness And Light

    She took a little step toward the light that was beaming at her from so far away. Darkness is all she has known for so long. Scared to move, but drawn like a moth to the bright flame she sees. It beckoned, calling itself love, calling out to her. Pulled there, almost against...
    flowersinherhair flowersinherhair 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Give Back What Is Not Yours

    don't know if you guys believe in palm reading... but a palm reader said that i am going to have to lose you some day.... we were never meant to be together and the hardest thing is that, i don't want that day to come.. be it now or later. it hurts me too much... i almost did...
    LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2010

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    A Date I Won't Forget

    .......17 April 2010   It was Masquerade Nite.  The mail still ends with kisses at the bottom for me.. I will always cherish them for as long as I live. Thank you babe... for the love and affection you gave me....  I was blessed to have your love for 3...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    A friend- we met about 3 months ago.

    I liked her a lot. She's interesting and funny. But kinda needy. So we talked few times in person and we texted. She graduated on monday. Today morning I was blocked from her snapchat, Instagram and Kikk. I have absolutely NO CLUE what happened or what I did wrong. I tried to...
    Beingpositiveisgood Beingpositiveisgood 18-21, F Jun 4

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    So, as I said on my past experience, I'm still heartbroken over my ex. It's been 5 months, almost 6 since we broke up and to be honest I know it's time to move on. I've met a lot...
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    Idk why everyone comes in my life when they have to leave in just few days. I made many online friends and slowly slowly they left me. I am just afraid of being in love, i am just...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I separated from my husband 3 years ago. It was a really messed up relationship and he cheated time after time. I became more and more insecure as time went on. Eventually I found...
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    Love is a scary thing, it makes you wanna do anything for that person and I already have enough people that I love and care about. I'm honestly not sure how many more I can watch...
    Favoritejohnny16 Favoritejohnny16 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I have so much i would like to write and share in this group, and maybe one day i will be able to put into words my thoughts and feelings but for now sadly words fail me.
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Lament Where, my darling, do you belong? Is it in the promising dawn of my easy expectations? Is it in the dazzling sun of my bright days? Is it in the afternoon delight of my...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Lament Where, my darling, do you belong? Is it in the promising dawn of my easy expectations? Is it in the dazzling sun of my bright days? Is it in the afternoon delight of my...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 7 Responses Jun 30

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    iloveeebeingrich iloveeebeingrich 41-45, M Jul 16

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    I met you at a bar in my hometown only six years ago. We barely knew each other but we got along like we'd known each other forever. You chased me around the bar with a pool cue...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I dont know how to start,, um when i was a child i had no worries and i was so happy with my family,,my cousins used to love me and we used to stay all day together.. We were best...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I know Love is risky. You have so much to lose, but with the right person you can be really happy. I did not knew Love was this difficult. I never figured out myself and my...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I do wanna fall in love again, but the next time I do it I've thought of some things I want to be different, and they are things I think should be reciprocal. I wish I could say I...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 29

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    Reba McEntire - Because Of You ( Kelly Clarkson ) Lyrics I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself cause my heart so much misery I will not break...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F Jul 1

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    I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did, You fell so hard I've learned the hard way To...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I'm tired of being what you want me to be Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface Don't know what you're expecting of me Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes...
    shameful10 shameful10 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    this was when I met my now boyfriend. it was just this year.. I mean I knew him before through a friend but I didnt really know him know him ya know? and I always thought he was...
    Brooketaylor Brooketaylor 18-21, F Jul 7

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    My heart loves many. Each love is different and means something different to me. I wish my heart was more reluctant to love because often it gets broken. I know well the childish...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I love my bf. He doesn't control me or take advantage of me , unlike other men. He let me do whatever I want whenever I want and he never complain any of them.. He has given me...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    7 years ago I lost my grandmother . The woman who raised me since I was born . She was all I had , she saved me from my mother and father .. I was only 12 when she died but she...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F Jul 19

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    I have always thought my mother is selfish. I am 23 years old and I am still being treated like an eighth grader who is still fighting for his independence. Most of the times, I...
    wirrywoo wirrywoo 22-25, M Jul 4

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    Pretty sure I'm about to lose someone to suicide and no matter what I say or do its not changin their mind. :/
    SpilledTea SpilledTea 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Im so scared to get close to people. My mom is a drunk and my dad abuses her. All i had was my brother. But whenever i needed him he was never there. He'd come home, see my mom...
    Slowlydying16 Slowlydying16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    July 3. Directness. So much of our communication can reflect our need to control. We say what we think others want to hear. We try to keep others from getting angry, feeling...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 3

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    Ok, so this is quite a long story. Back in late February, I met this guy on a popular chat site. He was nice, but I didn't really pay much attention to him. That is... until he...
    KohakuHime KohakuHime 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I love James Arthur's music. His love songs completely get to me. Especially his song Suicide because that's exactly how I fall in love. All in without precautions and in the end I...
    laurielala11 laurielala11 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    City for conquest has to do with a boxer who loses his love to her dancing partner. It has a real tear jerker type ending. Directing icon Elia Kazan costars in a rare acting role...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    Don't you see more stretchers than replacements this World Cup? What's going on...someone needs to score already! Netherlands...anyone...score...
    atikin atikin 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Break ups suck especially when you care about someone. Love doesn't make things work. Common goals and future amean more
    Devinsly812 Devinsly812 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Let someone love you just the way you are~ as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are.  To believe that you must...