I Am Afraid I Can't Have Children

women (and men!) who have various issues that are negatively affecting their ability to bear children 50 People


    I'm 19yrs old &have had Sex with multiple people.. unprotected. I should have been Pregnant numerous times by now but I've never even had a Pregnancy scare before. I went to the Drs. Last yr. &was informed that I have Cysts on my Ovaries..I guess it's a good thing that I won't...
    AylEX AylEX
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 18, 2012


    I'm 30 years old and have already experienced four miss. one which I had at six month pregnant.. Now recently have just been through months of fertility treatment which failed and the last one which I used my sisters eggs and that also failed... I feel hopeless....
    yvette123 yvette123
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2009

    Man That Can't Have Biological Children

    I was shattered about 8 years ago. 32 years of age, married to the love of my life for 3 yrs...... when I was told by a heartless doctor that "you can never have kids"...... I had nobody to turn to for advice and for the first 12 months I thought my life...
    happynow88 happynow88
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2009


    Should have joined the 'I can't have children' group, but refuse to as I always think there may be hope somewhere, based on those countless magazines. I am at a stage in life where I  do not miss or lament that I can't have children.  I have been...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 23, 2009

    On The Outside

    I'm 26. Everyone I know is having children. My husband's family, all his cousins and siblings decided to have children at the same time and I find myself not only being jealous but feeling more alone than ever. I don't think I can have children and my husband is fine with this...
    Roxley Roxley
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2011

    Why Me?

    That is the question that always crosses my mind.  Not a day goes by that I don't ask myself this concerning my inability to have my own kids.  I had been married for 3 years and my wife was not getting pregnant.  I had no idea that the problem would end up being me, since I...
    lightfoot44 lightfoot44
    17 Responses Jun 7, 2011

    How to Answer the Question

    Do you have kids? When are you going to? Etc, etc. I cant have biological children, and this everyday questions hurts me. How do I answer to them, without getting hurt and not hurting others as well?
    jenkate jenkate
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2009

    When I was 16 I fell pregnant

    but suffered a molar pregnancy. I'm 19 now and have always had unprotected sex but never fallen pregnant since. I'm worried because in the future when I'm ready to have kids I'm scared in case I can't. All I've ever dreamed of is having my own little family one day and it would...
    caitlinpasson caitlinpasson
    18-21, F
    Jun 8, 2014

    Afraid Ive Missed My Bessing...

    im 20. ive had 5 miscarriages since the time i was 16. the surgical procedures and other miscellaneous health issues have left me scarred not to mention that i have what the doctors tell me is a condition which can only be treated by puttin a band around my cervix... i dont know...
    DuskButterfly DuskButterfly
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    This Is Off Topic But I Need Your Help..

    I found out I was pregnant a little over a month ago.. I went to get an ultra sound at 6weeks and everything seemed normal.. well at 10weeks I went to the Hospital for Pains &Bleeding.. come to find out that the Baby stopped growing at 6weeks. I had what they call a Spontaneous...
    AylEX AylEX
    18-21, F
    Jul 17, 2012

    Ectopic Pregnancy

    I am 18 years old been with my boyfreind for 3 years i fell pregrant few months ago i was so excited, i was bleeding till 3 months they told me i had a misscarriage but i had a ectopic and had to have one my tubes taken away i only have one left. I am scared as all i ever dreamed...
    liizasmiith liizasmiith
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2011

    I Fear I Cant Have Children

    Im only Seventeen, but i have had unprotected sex with the same person for a year and a half and have not conceived. I have not been trying for a child, but my mother will not not allow me to take birth control.. i used to worry every month that i was pregnant, than after a few...
    khrystynem khrystynem
    4 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    Time Is Running Out Fast

    I really want to have at least 1 child of my own. I have had bareback sex my entire sexually active life. I got pregnant once in 2001, but miscarried due to a tubal pregnancy. According to the doctor, the only thing preventing pregnancy for me is my weight. I am doing something...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    Various Reasons

    Financially I am broke...I have to depend on relatives for money. I don't expect to make above minimum wage anytime soon. Medically I take a mood stabilizer pill and an anti-psychotic pill. My husband already has 2 now teenage kids with an ex- girlfriend of a long time ago...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2011

    I'm 24 and Have Been Going Thru Fertility Treaments...

      And so far it has not worked. My husband and I have been together for 10 years now and have been actively trying for a baby for the past four years. Last year I started the Chlomid treament for 6 months. It did make me have my period and ovulate as I should but I was...
    ToniNicole ToniNicole
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    I Was Told Today That I Must Not Get Pregnant.... Ever

    I have just been diagnosed with diabetes and high blood pressure (I am 42) and was told, categorically today, that because of the medication I am going to be put on, I must not get pregnant because it can be very dangerous. I married later in life (I was 37) and had a...
    leveret1968 leveret1968
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2010

    Can't Have A Baby :(

    I'm 20 and have had unprotected sex with two different guys for two years now. Both being from a serious relationship. And the one I'm with now. I have never fallen pregnant and always had irregular periods. Everytime I went to the docts they would always put me onto tablets...
    frannyanny frannyanny
    1 Response May 23, 2012


    can't really share.... of all the stuff i can share on here, this is too much to really go into any detail about.... but i did some stuff a few years ago out of panic and desperation, that has left scarring that could make it difficult...   ive taken the descion not to...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2009
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