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I Am Afraid I Can't Have Kids

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    My Story - Hi, My name is Maddy and I'm 17 years old. I was first diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma ( a form of blood cancer) at age 14 on valentines day 2011. I was treated...
    Poshtotti Poshtotti 18-21, F Oct 29, 2013

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    Life Passing Me By ! - Hi Everyone,Came upon these experiences and had to add my voice to it. My family and I realized early on that I will not be have kids (wont go into why). Now...
    smallworld987 smallworld987 31-35 Jul 5, 2011

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    The Life Of A 16 Year Old - I am 16 years old and I have been trying to concieve with my boyfriend that i have been with for 3 years  for a very long time now. I been raped so...
    MrsCarter42511 MrsCarter42511 16-17 Jun 10, 2012

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    I'M Scared. - Since I was eight. I have had a series of psychological disorders. Anxiety, depression, ocd, eating disorders whatever. Last year when I was thirteen and I know I...
    BarbieBrooke BarbieBrooke 13-15, T 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    My Dreams Were Crushed... - my dreams of being an amazing mother, and giving my children everything that I didn't have, and be the joy in someone's life, was crushed about four...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Babies - I new from the time i hit 15 i wanted to be a mom when i got older. i started to babysit when i was about 11 till i was about 16 i have always had that motherly instinct...
    missrunyon09 missrunyon09 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    What The H*ll Is Wrong With Me - I feel so angry and hurt inside, I am 28 and have had 3 miscarrages that I know of. It makes me so mad because there are incapeable people all...
    Christen28 Christen28 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Im Scared.... - im 18 and a virgin, and my periods have always been irregular, but never like this.... 2012 i only have had 2 periods, 1.5 to 2 weeks apart in march and early april...
    alexc36 alexc36 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    I've been married 9 years, and have no children, but want them. The holidays are really hard for me, seeing all the kids and the joy they get, and give with Christmas. It leaves me...
    if1478 if1478 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Our Family Medical History - I'm not infertile, but family medical history makes me not want to curse my kids with the problems. Diabetes runs in my family: my mom, three...
    caitiebug1119 caitiebug1119 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    A Painful Reminder,tried Anyways For Yrs And No Luck - i have tried for years with my husband with nothing but few days late ,sadness. i have been sick ever since i was a child...
    lilredhead24 lilredhead24 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2010

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    At My Prime... - Let me start off by saying, I never wanted to have children until I was 30 and I had my life stable. Well me and my husband have been married since we were 19, we...
    illicitdolphin illicitdolphin 31-35, F Aug 7, 2013

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    I Can't Have Children - I'm only 17 and I found out that I cant have children. Although i'm not sure about wanting them right now I have Always wanted children and I love children...
    axbcz axbcz 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    "why Me" - I'm 23 years old, at age 16 my mother made a doctors appointment because I hadn't started my period yet. Sitting in the waiting room everything was so quiet...
    TT73187 TT73187 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2011

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    A Life Long Fear and the Unknown... - Since I was a little girl, I always knew that I wanted children.. I continued to play with dolls long after girls my age thought it was cool...
    weeblegrrl weeblegrrl 21-25, F 6 Responses Jan 8, 2008

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    I'm So Depressed - I am 38, with no children, I, more than anything need children. I have been really depressed the last mth or so. I truly don't care if I live or die. I...
    sadeara sadeara 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    The Last And Most Painful Story About This... - I have had endometriosis  [ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endometriosis ] for over 16 years now and only 3 full sexual partners...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    I'm Scared I Can't Have Baby's. - I've been trying for a long time and haven't got pregnant yet! Me and my boyfriend really want a baby and it's just not happening, I have...
    Kkay903 Kkay903 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    I Have More Love To Share - Me and my husband have been trying to conceive for nearly a year now and so far nothing. Every month I am brokenhearted to see a negative pregnancy test...
    HisHobbes HisHobbes 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2012

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    I'm Afraid Children Are Not In Our Future - Hello my name is Aly I'm 30 years old and I have been married for 10 years. I and my husband have been trying for children for 21/2...
    AlyAnonymous AlyAnonymous 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    I Pretend That It's Ok - I've been trying to get pregnant for 16 years.  We can't afford much more than Clomid treatments so we tried that years ago to no avail.  I...
    LaughingSun LaughingSun 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2010

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    My Story - Hi, My name is Maddy and I'm 17 years old. I was first diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma ( a form of blood cancer) at age 14 on valentines day 2011. I was treated...
    Poshtotti Poshtotti 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Im Worried, Help... - Im afraid that i cant have children, as i have been having unprotected sex dilibretly to get pregnant for months, Im a mature and ready for this with my long...
    Hopelessx Hopelessx 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2009

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    Dont Give Up Ladies! - Due to health issues I was told (and believed) that i would not be able to have children. Iwas so upset by this that i became obsessed with trying to have...
    miraclemommy miraclemommy 18-21 3 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    Never Will I Be A Mother - Let me start buy saying I'm 24 the love of my life is 28 we started dating when I was 16 were grown up now and have been trying to have a baby but we...
    neverwillI neverwillI 26-30 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    My Loss, I Wish I Died - When I read your stories it reminded me of mine.. I wish to share as I am running out of options my life , well what ever you wish to call this is eating...
    belgianpain belgianpain 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    Its Sad - I was told five years ago that I cannot have kids. So I worked with my doctor took the meds the steroids everything and to no avail. I've been getting pretty depressed...
    wonderingkenadian wonderingkenadian 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Just Venting - I have been married for 4 years, and we have been trying, but I can't get pregnant.  I have had one miscarriage.  I have a lot of medical problems, and I'm afraid...
    RubyInTheSkyWithCheetos RubyInTheSkyWithCheetos 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2011

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    I Hope God Bless Me - Im 19 n me n my first love have been having unprotected sex for all most a year ...im scared I can't have kids it will kill me inside if I can't ..at first I...
    letmebirth letmebirth 18-21 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Someone To Love - Hi, I'm 22 and my temper is sooooo bad...but I have a sweet spot in my heart and soul for babies. I really think by having a baby my whole outlook on life will...
    brownieT brownieT 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2012

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    Too Sick - I am 31 years old. I suffer from multiple chronic pain/central nervous system disorders...my Husband had a vasectomy 12 years ago, but is willing to reverse it. I don't...
    bruiseviolet bruiseviolet 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2010

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    Its Too Late - I can't find anyone suitable... i have server health problems ... with my back and hip and heart and blood issues... I dont see me marrying ... its too late... I...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 10, 2011

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    Why Can't I Have Kids? - My name is Elizabeth and im 17 years old and I can't ha ve kids and I don't know why but I want kids in the future and come to find out from my doctor that...
    baby102 baby102 16-17, F Jun 22, 2010

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    I Wish I Could Have Kids - I am 20 me and my boy friend have been together since we were 16, we broke up for a year and he impregnated this other girl. Before he had his baby we...
    Misskayjay Misskayjay 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    10 Years Of Hell - I was told 10 years ago that I had Cervical Cancer and that it had spread to my Lymph nodes and eventually had to have a Hysterectomy at the age of 28 years. I...
    tonks2112 tonks2112 36-40, F Jun 14, 2010

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    Scared - well am 26 years old and i been married 2 years and  we been trying to have a baby for like 5 years now and  we cant seem too what am ii doing wrong why cant i have a...
    sd4life sd4life 26-30 Sep 27, 2011

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    Cancer, Weight And Family - Im afraid I cant have children. I have been trying with my husband for over two years now and have not even had a late period. When I was a child of...
    cazivywright cazivywright 22-25, F Aug 2, 2011

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    Will I Ever Have A Baby? - Ima 26year old Ive always wanted to have just one baby. Ive been ta two doctors they asured me that I could,but it hasnt happened its all I think about.I...
    childlessme childlessme 26-30, F Mar 21, 2010

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    I know this is an old post but the comments are just so familiar to me I have to add mine. I am turning 23 in a few months....have been sexually active for almost 4 years and have...
    crazyqueenslander crazyqueenslander 22-25 Dec 27, 2013

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    I Should Be Happy, But I'm Secretly Jealous - I hate to admit this, but I have to vent somewhere... First of all, I am afraid that I won't be able to get pregnant...for different...
    thinkingmythoughts thinkingmythoughts 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    I Think I'd Be a Great Mom If I Get the Chance. - my name is Lj, i'm 28 years old and i am completely afraid that i will never have a  child.i just got engaged in december...
    nicencheeki3 nicencheeki3 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    I guess I can't have them because, I'm really not very attractive, and I often wonder who would be attracted to me. I have all kinds of preferences, and every once in a while, I...
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    I want her but can't have her.
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    He is everything to me... But I can't have him cause he is taken. It is the worst feeling ever especially when he is flirting back with you.
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    As times passes by and you get fed up with feeling un love it just fade.... It will take time but... You become a better person in the end... Regret for the one u can't have....
    emikei emikei 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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