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I Am Afraid I Have Intimacy Issues

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 22, 2013

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    I Can't Kiss My Husband

    I am so frustrated, sad, confused, etc....  I'm having huge issues with intimacy and can't nail down why.  I recently discovered that I am okay with having sex with my husband but not with foreplay.  I don't want to do all of the kissing and heavy petting. ...
    BCoonce BCoonce 33, F 7 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I am so afraid for people to get close to me,

    physically, emotionally, sexually, because I expect them to hurt me, it means that I keep a barrier around me, and that keeps people away...And yet I long to be 'normal' and be able to have that closeness so that I don't have to be afraid to be alone
    Wi5huponastar Wi5huponastar 26-30, F Mar 6, 2014

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    Always Afraid...

    Whenever my boyfriend and I kiss...and I mean KISS, not some little lip action, but full-out tongue-twisting, groping, sprawled on the bed kiss...I get this panicky feeling deep inside my chest, constricting my breath, making me want to push him away and curl up into a ball...
    LiquidFire89 LiquidFire89 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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    Hard to Use the "L" Word

    It's hard for me to tell others I LOVE them! Even friends and family. And especially my hubby. Why is this? I DON'T KNOW?? My parents were certainly not adverse to saying and showing Love to us kids growing up! My grandparents never let us leave their homes without a hug, kiss...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 17 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Lost Now

     i am pretty sure I have intimacy issues, i want to avoid sex at all costs, and it scares me to death that i will be pressured for sex, and if i do have sex i will be direspected and disgarded afterwarsd,its happened before, and i also have experienced a sexual assult and...
    sweetstacey sweetstacey 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Please Help Me!!!!

    I am engaged to a woman whom I love very much.  She has issues of her own, but has come a long way and has worked very hard to survive and overcome.  The problem is that she says that I don't make her feel like a woman.  She tells me that she loves me with all...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 16 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    Difficulty W/intimacy, Isolation & expression

    I have come to learn about myself in the past few weeks that I have a real problem with intimacy and expressing the intimate feeling I have inside.  I instead tend to run and hide, and unfortunately isolate myself for the person I should be expressing these feelings to. ...
    needadvice001 needadvice001 26-30 6 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    I Know I Do

    I can't get close to anyone. I can't let them touch me, and it makes me uncomfortable if they stare too long. I don't like to be flirted with, I don't know how to respond. I dislike being touched, even when it's someone I know. I don't like to be looked at, and the very idea of...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2013

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    Brainfreeze

    Sometimes people say they get brainfreeze eating icecream. I never get it in the head though, but in the back between my shoulderblades. It is kinda painfull, but it is not like I wanna touch the place while it hurt... It's like that when I see someone, another person. All the...
    Barlong Barlong 22-25, F Jan 8, 2012

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    Araid Of Being Loved

    i have never been in a proper relationship that has lasted over a month... whenever things start to look good or are going well, i find a reason to end the relationship, and the guys i choose are never really people i feel strongly for anyway so i feel no remorse when i end it. I...
    JibaJaba JibaJaba 18-21, F Jul 3, 2011

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    Issues With Other Peoples Intimacy Rules...

    Reasons why I have not been the one (and dumped): People don't share their hearts. They close off. Some treat me like a villain. They only love the idea of being in love. I am not their parent. I know trust is hard to give, but I am not planning on dying tomorrow. We have...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 Jan 30, 2013

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    I'm So Lonely And Yearn For Connection, But Am So Afraid

    I'm 22 years old. I'm attractive, smart (when it comes to school), and friendly. All my life I have dealt with failure, rejection, bullying, and disappointment. I think because of that, i am very insecure with myself. I have never had a boyfriend before, although I've dated a...
    Gymgirl89 Gymgirl89 22-25 8 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    I dont like cuddling,

    kissing, hugging in public.. It feels embarassing to me
    feebiechichi feebiechichi 31-35, F Feb 26, 2014

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    I fear and crave intimacy simultaneously.

    So many times break my own heart by letting fear win out. I may lose someone very special to me if I continue with this problem for one moment longer. All my life, I have this pattern of getting involved in lukewarm relationships where I don't have many feelings for the other...
    NamelessNomad NamelessNomad 22-25, F Jan 4

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    Will She Push Me Away?

    Maybe it's just me but the thought of being pushed away while being intimate with a woman...scares me.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    ck1964 ck1964 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    It's hard for me to trust other women it really is.Most women and girls ive met havent been the nicest to me,so i usually trust men more easily.The only girl i trust to a certain...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I AM AFRAID TO SHARE IT WITH EP.....I SHARED IT WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD AND THEY CALLED ME CRAZY, EVIL, SATAN, A FALSE PROPHET........I NO LONGER TRUST ANYBODY WITH MY AWESOME AND...
    LadySweetness LadySweetness 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    I am sitting in a rest room at one corner and looking at group of people who are laughing and enjoying. I could join them but i cant. I have seen horrible past about people. I am...
    esteem29 esteem29 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues that come from the fact that I was molested when I was 13 by a very close friend, Im not gonna go into a ton of detail there because i...
    Sulka19 Sulka19 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I do have some anger issues but they aren't as bad as my partners, I can control mine whether as she has trouble, she's trying to control them as hard as she can for our baby that...
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    Just realized that I do tend to have an attitude. I've always known I had it but I wasn't mature enough to understand how it affects my relationships. I'm beyond stubborn. If it's...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Ever since I was little my family has told me that I'm too big and I need to lose weight , it's all I've ever been told , that I'm too big and I look horrible. Today I went...
    abby816 abby816 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I have serious trust issues all because of one boy. Its crazy how one person can leave a big impact on your life
    amberloves16 amberloves16 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    01. I've been cheated on in the past more than once, and I took him back every time. My trust issues are because of myself.. Because I took him back. 10 years later and he's...
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    but who doesnt? you can be my nrw daddy n we can settle our issues right now... ;) xoxo
    jennyisaslut jennyisaslut 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Sometimes I make it worse by trying to rely on people who have shown themselves to be untrustworthy. So, it becomes a circle that feeds on itself. Meet the untrustable, believe...
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    I believe we all have some sort of trust issues, mine tend to be severe. Sometimes I let my guard down, but it always hurts. But on some level it's better to feel the pain than...
    AnarchyOfAthena AnarchyOfAthena 16-17, F Jan 18

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    I only have self esteem issues when it comes to my job. I don't always feel like I'm right for this job. Maybe it's just the way some people treat me in regards to my job. Trust...
    ttbridge ttbridge 36-40, F Jan 19

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    I have major trust issues. Unfortunately, most people don't understand and that causes me to lose a lot of friends. Luckily, I've been working to overcome this. Maybe one day I can...
    Leofflaed Leofflaed 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm really upset right now. I have had major trust issues before in my relationships until I found my now fiancé. I just had a baby and of course my hormones were all over the...
    deadmeadowaltz deadmeadowaltz 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have huge trust issues with 99.999999999999999999% of all males regardless of age using the internet and specifically those using this EP website. I am very careful what I say...
    mominlingerie mominlingerie 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had a horrible friend through junior high and high school, i opened up and told a lot about myself...my dreams .. my desires..my future...my fantasies. ..everything...little did...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I do... and I don't... Like, I think my problem is that I trust people TO much. I put my complete trust into some people, tell them everything, and put faith into them, just for...
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    I've trusted to many people and yet I have gotten hurt. I have isolated myself from society. I thought I could trust one girl and she proved me wrong. I feel as if I can be...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    My parents split before I was born and I am now trying to track down my father. It is so exhausting. I have managed to find some names on what little info I have to go on. I...
    niteowl84 niteowl84 26-30, F Jan 8

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    We have been fighting for a long time now. I think about 8 years ago. About when my mom got sick
    Jayroame Jayroame 18-21, M Jan 9

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    I live in a place where usual things are not allowed, for example having a bf, let alone chatting with men on the phone. I am a virgin coz obviously not married. So I live in my...
    Sajanova Sajanova 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Every time I feel I may be getting closer to someone, I feel like a warning goes off in my head, and I suddenly wish I had never shared any information about myself. I start to...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Beautiful man. Everyone seems to want you, even other men. You say you're mine but are you really? I won't let myself get too close to you. I want to... But I've been let down so...
    aanicole aanicole 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I have only 2 people in my family. My mom and my brother. My mom has attempted suicide and is severely depressed, she also has cancer. And my brother has attempted suicide twice...
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