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I Am Afraid I Will Never Find Someone to Really Love Me

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    I am afraid I won't find someone

    because I really hate myself. I have always hated myself and I know others can't love me if I can't. If they ever knew me really they would all leave me.
    LolaLecter LolaLecter 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    I'm afraid that will never find someone

    that clicks with me... Someone who can understand my train of thought. Someone that wants to take the time to know me and raise me up so I can do the same for them. Someone that won't shut me out and push me away as much as I do. Someone that will find his way into my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    No line will love me lol.

    I'm not worth it. My body will never be appealing. I'm slim with no curves or butt. Not cute enough to make up for my lack of sex appeal. The type of guy I like deserves better than me.
    Youngmare Youngmare 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    I've a people and outside phobia.

    I've tried being with people but then I feel weird and avoid them. I feel trapped and lonely. I want to let someone love me but I just don't know how to get over this.
    lovemeiris lovemeiris 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    Should I Just Give Up?

    I am generally an optimistic guy, but as I enter yet another year alone I am on the verge of giving up hope of ever finding someone to share my life with. I don't know what the problem with me is, I am at a minimum an average looking guy, I make a decent wage, treat people...
    UniquebutnotAlone UniquebutnotAlone 26-30, M 18 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    becuase i dont know .

    but that is just the way I feel . and if anyone else feels this way , comment and like this because I could really use someone to talk to . I also feel very lonley .
    omghappy omghappy 13-15 2 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    “There are two basic motivating forces: fear

    and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot...
    QuinnMalcom QuinnMalcom 31-35, M 2 Responses May 25, 2014

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    In todays world' most guys u find is

    either selfish or just wants to use u.(NOT SAYING ALL GUYS ARE) but every time I go see my friends they are either talking about their new boyfriend or how they know someone who loves them. I don't know if someone likes me or loves me besides family. At one point I really wanted...
    butterfly014 butterfly014 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    It's really hard to find genuine love these

    days. People always want something. And this of course dosen't just include romantic love. This includes friendship and family love as well.
    ThisIsMyFightSong ThisIsMyFightSong 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I have a feeling that I am going to be alone

    forever. i am afraid that no one will ever need me or want me or truly love me. ive not had the greatest luck in the love department at all.
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2015

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    Lm10forever Lm10forever 18-21, M Dec 21, 2015

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    This is how I have felt

    for the past four years and seems like I can never meet someone that works out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 27, 2015

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    No one will ever love me.

    I know that now. I just wish it wasn't true
    KidNova45 KidNova45 18-21, M 4 Responses May 12, 2015

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    I am one of those people

    who believes there's not a women out there for me and I have a hard time with it I just want to feel something real with a woman were she's exited to wake up in the morning and see what I am up too
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2015

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    Everyone I meet that is a guy

    and I date usually just dates me to get over someone or just thinks I'm hot... I know I'm still young but even teenagers need to feel like they are loved not just by family or friends.
    laultman78 laultman78 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    Every time I see couples I just get mad

    and Annoyed with it . They just so perfect and in love . I can't stand them . It's like a itchy bug in my skin
    Jamila826 Jamila826 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I found someone who I love more then anything.

    ....and things are wonderful....I'm just afraid someday he's going to wake-up and realise I'm not what he wants and break my heart.
    huntersveil248 huntersveil248 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    I have never dated in my life.

    .. because I fell for the wrong guys...but now I really doubt if there is that person waiting for me...feeling the same as I am... guess I am a sinister...so nobody ever fell for me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    Sometimes I just can't help

    but feel that I'll never be good enough for anyone to really love me the way I am. My Mom's words reinforcing this thought really doesn't help things much either.
    chocochoc01 chocochoc01 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2015

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    im failing it keeps happening.

    it always been like this. this is why i cant be happy. the moment i have it in my hands theres like a mere concenquences. and i already have accepted, no matter how good enough i am theres always someone better than me. and now i understand that im not made for successful...
    Junie621 Junie621 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    Outside the snow is falling Quietly,

    not a sound There is starlight and moonlight... Magic all around. What a perfect time to tell you How wonderful you are I have become enchanted... If only from afar. I've never seen an angel But, I feel it could be you... You seem so angelic In everything you do. An angel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    I know I'm still young,

    and I have time, but I'm lonely. My love life is full of bad luck and too many breaks in my fragile heart. It's a long and complicated story, but the short of it is this: I've never had a boyfriend, let alone a first kiss. I feel like that's a bad sign, considering my age (even...
    hopelesslylonelyromantic hopelesslylonelyromantic 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    annah1 annah1 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Whenever I think about love,

    it's so hard for me to think that it could happen for me. That I don't really see it happening for me. I try to be hopeful but it's so hard when you're constantly surrounded by others who so easily find it and have it in their grasp. I don't know, it's just whenever I think...
    emelon12 emelon12 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    i want love but i am afraid i am afraid to

    fall in love with wrong person i am afraid that i might never be loved like the way i desire i am afraid i will never hear i love you from such person who actually means it i am afraid that i will never have someone to hold hands with and talk about stars i am afraid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2015

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    I'm 18 now and am still single.

    ..I didn't found any girl who can love me...I'm so lonely.. :(
    Lm10forever Lm10forever 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Today on my way out the door to work,

    I saw my dog looking at me in the window. His big Chihuahua eyes just glaring at me speaking a sadness to my heart. I started to kiss the air in his direction. I thought to myself, "Yea, I really need to find someone soon. This is getting a little pathetic."
    brady120378 brady120378 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    Since my breakup i don't feel like i will find

    any one else just like him careing, loveing, funny, and hot WHY ME???? x
    DivaDuvall DivaDuvall 16-17, T 10 Responses Nov 27, 2015

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    Nothing Worthy Of Love

    I have been 'single' for over a year now and I finally allowed myself to truly open up and care about someone. I told him of my childhood, details I have not even told my therapist, I shared my desires, my dreams, my secrets. I allowed him to see me, to know me.....very few get...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 66 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    I had someone to say

    that they love me but actions speak louder than words so of course I don't believe them.. I have always been to kind to give my heart to someone and I never was able to get the same in return. I am starting to believe that there is not someone out there for everyone.
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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    Nobody can treat you like your worth something.

    You might be married but in reality he thinking of someone else. I'm may be wrong but every guy or girl got that one person they like besides their partner.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

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    Mostly because I hide

    who I truly am, because people would reject me if they knew the real me
    MedusasDaughter MedusasDaughter 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2015

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    Yeah...

    How can I explain this? I just...I feel like there's nothing especially special about me, or anything that will keep someone around. I feel like any guy who expresses interest in me will do it purely to get into my pants, and for no reason other than that. And then, once they get...
    livingalie1 livingalie1 22-25, F 28 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Two people. Everything.

    Anything. One heart. One soul. One.
    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    dating women older than you,visit site:www.cougarloving.com
    cougarloving cougarloving 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    Spent the last 6 years with someone

    who I didn't love. The sad part is that because it didn't work out I was hopeless of ever finding someone I could genuinely fall in love with. Well I did. I fell in love with someone and I fell hard. Guess who's scrapping their knees trying to get back up? Welcome karma. I feel...
    Shey12 Shey12 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    I'm Such An Idiot

    I got married when I was 23 years old, to a man who has never once in our time together told me he loves me.  I'm sitting here 20 years later trying to figure out why.  We have 2 great kids that I wouldn't trade the world for.  If I hadn't married this man, they...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 39 Responses Mar 9, 2008

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    I have never loved anyone.

    I get turned on mostly by people that I see on TV and I even fall for more than their looks but I never feel anything towards those around me. I am alone most of the time especially at night and I long for someone to hold me but when they even bring it up I'm like ew
    iamkesho iamkesho 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Going to sleep alone

    and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to think it will never happen again. I don't know what's wrong with me. No one is interested in me:( my biggest fear is I'll...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    Nobody Wants Me

    My love is not good enough. Any girl I have had a crush on. Any girl that's I've liked. Anyone I've loved .. or even wanted to love .. has made that perfectly clear. Nobody wants me. Nobody wants to touch me. Nobody .. my love isn't wanted. I'm not wanted. Oh of course, I've...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 104 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    glyth glyth 26-30, T 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    It seems like there are too many people to

    filter in the world. With billions of people, doesn't it feel like you could be happier with someone else? But finding *that one person* feels like a goal not just out of reach, but a goal that's impossible. How can anybody truly love everything about somebody else? Me? I'm a...
    DobbyLover DobbyLover 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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