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I Am Afraid I Will Never Find Someone to Really Love Me

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    I am afraid, there will be no one ever to love

    me. All I find around me are people who abuse my kindness. People who use me. It was like that ever since I remember and that's why I am afraid that I will be alone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Nobody Wants Me

    My love is not good enough. Any girl I have had a crush on. Any girl that's I've liked. Anyone I've loved .. or even wanted to love .. has made that perfectly clear. Nobody wants me. Nobody wants to touch me. Nobody .. my love isn't wanted. I'm not wanted. Oh of course, I've...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 87 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    nievesmari nievesmari 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    I'm 19 I've never had anyone take an interest

    in me where I come from it's all about looks just once I want a girl to actually say she has feelings for me and mean and not just toy with my emotions and for someone to actually show the signs of being interested in me I know I'm only 19 but It should have happened at least...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 13

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    I look in society and see

    so many people happy and it makes me jealous and hurt. I don't think that I'll never find that person that will be interested in me like I'm interested in them. Every time I find some guy I'm interested in, it just never pans out. Like now, I've been I guess you can see...
    brady120378 brady120378 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I'm beginning to see the choices I have made

    throughout my life come full circle. I tried desperately to outrun them, and now, only later am I about to reap the consequences of my actions. Those of you who actively follow what I write, know that I made the impulsive decision to have an abortion at a young age. This was...
    breannajust breannajust 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    every time i date a girl i like it starts off

    well for the first few 2-4 months, then it just starts to snowball as soon as one argument starts leading to break up 😰 i know that at my age i shouldnt really be worried about this kind of stuff but its really hard when you see someone that you think will be perfect and in...
    irvinspider54 irvinspider54 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I have always heard people saying

    that have faith that you will find someone else but here I am always having faith in my self but I haven't found no one ;( and I feel like I am not pretty enough.
    Clobusan123 Clobusan123 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Two people. Everything.

    Anything. One heart. One soul. One.
    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    Just stretched my septum piercing!

    Come check out the video & my YouTube channel! www.YouTube.com/1996Ashley
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F Oct 13

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    Should I Just Give Up?

    I am generally an optimistic guy, but as I enter yet another year alone I am on the verge of giving up hope of ever finding someone to share my life with. I don't know what the problem with me is, I am at a minimum an average looking guy, I make a decent wage, treat people...
    UniquebutnotAlone UniquebutnotAlone 26-30, M 18 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    Spent the last 6 years with someone

    who I didn't love. The sad part is that because it didn't work out I was hopeless of ever finding someone I could genuinely fall in love with. Well I did. I fell in love with someone and I fell hard. Guess who's scrapping their knees trying to get back up? Welcome karma. I feel...
    Shey12 Shey12 18-21, F 33 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't expect I will.

    I find that kind of sad as that was really the one thing I wanted most out of life for a long time, but I'm not really afraid of it anymore. I can be happy with who I am even if I am an acquired taste. lol Life is good. :D
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I am 20 and i know im young,

    but i feel like a hopeless romantic. Ive only been in love once and we were together 5yrs. I want to meet someone and fall in love for the last time but im not sure if i will. Been having nothing but bad luck with guys so doesnt seem like ill ever find my twin flame if i even...
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Sometimes It Takes Longer...

    or that is what I am telling myself. After 8 years of marriage, my husband and I parted ways, knowing that the future was uncertain but being lonely by myself was better than being alone in a twosome. Now I am 33, in strange city, far from family and with few acquaintances let...
    Dea9 Dea9 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Today on my way out the door to work,

    I saw my dog looking at me in the window. His big Chihuahua eyes just glaring at me speaking a sadness to my heart. I started to kiss the air in his direction. I thought to myself, "Yea, I really need to find someone soon. This is getting a little pathetic."
    brady120378 brady120378 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 29

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    I feel this way everyday.

    It makes me sad when I see everyone around me so happy and in love. I am 23 and have never had a serious boyfriend. Never been loved romantically, or been in love. I am not awful person; quite the opposite, actually. I think I am a genuinely good person, but I am painfully shy...
    livingmemory livingmemory 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 17

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    “There are two basic motivating forces: fear

    and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot...
    QuinnMalcom QuinnMalcom 31-35, M 1 Response May 25

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    Feel so alone for a decent looking guy.

    I guess I don't have the right personality for relationships
    Lilwayne1993 Lilwayne1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    At thirty-three, I've been without a date

    for roughly sixteen years. At this point now I think I jut need to accept my reality that I will be alone. That thought tears at my soul, but for whatever reason I've been alone for so many years. Maybe it's my personality (I am very introverted) or looks. Even if I did find...
    Corbous Corbous 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 8

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    Its not an actual fear,

    because I know that I am loved by Whom it matters most; however, I do not expect it anymore and cannot see it truly happening. I can imagine, perhaps, someday, being with someone that respects our human limitations in both, loving and believing in being loved, with a mutual...
    OhNoMoJoe OhNoMoJoe 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I think it's one of those moments

    where you see everyone around you finding someone and you're here alone. I'm always wondering if someday i'll find someone who'll love me. I guess i'm not the kind of girl guys wants to be with.
    Dreamsooz Dreamsooz 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I thought I had a soulmate

    but he abandoned me. No explanation, nothing. Now I'm afraid to talk to guys on my own in fear of rejection. And I already had that fear going on for me.
    LookItsKinz LookItsKinz 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 15

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    Varmintgetter68 Varmintgetter68 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 12

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    I just don't think that there's anyone truly

    out there made especially for me and I think it's because I just haven't met him yet. But people may say that I'm too young but I know what love is. And love isn't always with your soulmate. It can also be with your friends , your family and yourself.
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Where do I begin...? Well I guess I can start

    that I pretty much didn't have any experiences on romance relationships when I was in school, most of the time it would be in the "friendzone" section, which totally sucks, only had one real relationship and it didn't worked out well. I've also been in the online dating and I...
    AuGamer84 AuGamer84 26-30, M Oct 11

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everyone I meet that is a guy

    and I date usually just dates me to get over someone or just thinks I'm hot... I know I'm still young but even teenagers need to feel like they are loved not just by family or friends.
    laultman78 laultman78 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Whenever I think about love,

    it's so hard for me to think that it could happen for me. That I don't really see it happening for me. I try to be hopeful but it's so hard when you're constantly surrounded by others who so easily find it and have it in their grasp. I don't know, it's just whenever I think...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm single right now,

    I know the right person is for me Out there but why is she/he taking to long, I'm in love too but as you know I can't approach her and tell her that I like you and I love you... I know and we'll I guess she is interested in me too, but I'm afraid to be lonely for the rest of my...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    xxcy xxcy 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    ILavIt ILavIt 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm afraid that will never find someone

    that clicks with me... Someone who can understand my train of thought. Someone that wants to take the time to know me and raise me up so I can do the same for them. Someone that won't shut me out and push me away as much as I do. Someone that will find his way into my...
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Yeah...

    How can I explain this? I just...I feel like there's nothing especially special about me, or anything that will keep someone around. I feel like any guy who expresses interest in me will do it purely to get into my pants, and for no reason other than that. And then, once they get...
    livingalie1 livingalie1 22-25, F 27 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Going to sleep alone

    and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to think it will never happen again. I don't know what's wrong with me. No one is interested in me:( my biggest fear is I'll...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Too many lies have been told to me,

    I have huge trust issues
    FrankietheCat FrankietheCat 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everyone tells me that I will find

    that right girl soon. They told me that soon forever ago ._.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Not me personally, but I know this girl

    who was approaching 40 and she could never find the right guy who could really love her. She spent countless amount of hours on the internet searching for the right guy on dating sites, she was a virgin at the time, and because of her religious beliefs she could only marry a guy...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    i just haven't had any luck with men.

    idk why. i just feel like I will end up alone when i'm older...
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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    Iv lost so much hope in ever finding love.

    That Iv lost myself completely in the storm that's raging inside me. This storm is making me transgress borders I never dared to cross before. Iv lost identity. Iv lost all hope.
    Myrose3 Myrose3 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 12

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    Just Another Girl With Something To Say

    When everyone around you seems to be in relationships it's hard not to think ...what's wrong with me? What do these people have that I don't? At the risk of sounding like just another single girl complaining about how no one loves her, It's challenging to realise that you might...
    nadiney nadiney 18-21, F 15 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    In those past 5 years .

    .. I traveled, I asked friends, I even tried the internet, the results were always the same "What I look for couldn't be found". My demands and standards are high, which if I have seen anything wrong in them then I would have changed them, but they are fine so I am living by them...
    Alip900 Alip900 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Nothing Worthy Of Love

    I have been 'single' for over a year now and I finally allowed myself to truly open up and care about someone. I told him of my childhood, details I have not even told my therapist, I shared my desires, my dreams, my secrets. I allowed him to see me, to know me.....very few get...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 67 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    so this morning my husband goes to the gym

    as usual....at 7am he calls me by mistake and I hear a woman's voice. I couldn't tell what was really being said and I was so mad I really only remember him saying one of his phrases so I rush round to this woman's house who he has been known to have "conversations" with whilst...
    newstart1315 newstart1315 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm Such An Idiot

    I got married when I was 23 years old, to a man who has never once in our time together told me he loves me.  I'm sitting here 20 years later trying to figure out why.  We have 2 great kids that I wouldn't trade the world for.  If I hadn't married this man, they...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 39 Responses Mar 9, 2008

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    I met this guy more than a year ago.

    He is a photographer. I was a cosplayer at that event. When we met, he asked to take my picture and I said 'yes'. Little did I know that I'm meeting the man of my life. At first, I have my doubts. Like 'What was I doing?', 'Is this the right thing?', 'Will I regret this?'. But...
    kerencc11 kerencc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    You know I really worry I'll never find someone

    ...my someone is gone I though I had found the one you know .... I mean I lost her and I couldn't even see her on her last moments I tried but I didn't know I was going to see her but she was gone I took to long ..we battled cancer together both had it twice but only one made...
    Ale93 Ale93 18-21, M 5 Responses May 3

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    Ive never be loved and im

    so afraid not to be loved.
    Diana00xoxo Diana00xoxo 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 11

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I am afraid. It's never really bothered me

    before, until now. I've completed University, I have graduated, I am currently in need of a job/career. I suddenly regret pushing those guys away, the ones who asked to take me out but I never paid them any attention. I am a Christian too, and nowadays...well lets admit it, the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    annah1 annah1 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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