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I Am Afraid I Will Never Find Someone to Really Love Me

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    No line will love me lol.

    I'm not worth it. My body will never be appealing. I'm slim with no curves or butt. Not cute enough to make up for my lack of sex appeal. The type of guy I like deserves better than me.
    Youngmare Youngmare 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    I'm hard working, successful,

    educated, kind hearted, good looking and very level-headed, but I'm unfortunately HIV+ and straight. I wish there were more understanding people in this world but that just isn't the case. I'm 31 years old and half my life has passed me by and I'm still alone. I can't stand...
    csFlorida csFlorida 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2015

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    Mostly because I hide

    who I truly am, because people would reject me if they knew the real me
    MedusasDaughter MedusasDaughter 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2015

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    glyth glyth 26-30, T 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    Spent the last 6 years with someone

    who I didn't love. The sad part is that because it didn't work out I was hopeless of ever finding someone I could genuinely fall in love with. Well I did. I fell in love with someone and I fell hard. Guess who's scrapping their knees trying to get back up? Welcome karma. I feel...
    Shey12 Shey12 18-21, F 29 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    Everyone tells me that I will find

    that right girl soon. They told me that soon forever ago ._.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I just feel like I'm never going to be pretty

    or good enough. I'm almost 21, and I've never even come close to getting a boyfriend. It's just getting ridiculous now. Most 14-year-olds have more romantic experience than I do... Not saying that their boyfriends/girlfriends are that great, but still. They have some kind of...
    BellaItalia68 BellaItalia68 22-25, F 44 Responses Sep 16, 2015

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    Should I Just Give Up?

    I am generally an optimistic guy, but as I enter yet another year alone I am on the verge of giving up hope of ever finding someone to share my life with. I don't know what the problem with me is, I am at a minimum an average looking guy, I make a decent wage, treat people...
    UniquebutnotAlone UniquebutnotAlone 26-30, M 18 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    annah1 annah1 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I found someone who I love more then anything.

    ....and things are wonderful....I'm just afraid someday he's going to wake-up and realise I'm not what he wants and break my heart.
    huntersveil248 huntersveil248 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    Nothing Worthy Of Love

    I have been 'single' for over a year now and I finally allowed myself to truly open up and care about someone. I told him of my childhood, details I have not even told my therapist, I shared my desires, my dreams, my secrets. I allowed him to see me, to know me.....very few get...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 66 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    I'm Such An Idiot

    I got married when I was 23 years old, to a man who has never once in our time together told me he loves me.  I'm sitting here 20 years later trying to figure out why.  We have 2 great kids that I wouldn't trade the world for.  If I hadn't married this man, they...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 39 Responses Mar 9, 2008

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    i give up on dating no one will ever want me

    or love me i have been hurt to many times
    jamesb2243 jamesb2243 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2015

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    i want love but i am afraid i am afraid to

    fall in love with wrong person i am afraid that i might never be loved like the way i desire i am afraid i will never hear i love you from such person who actually means it i am afraid that i will never have someone to hold hands with and talk about stars i am afraid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2015

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    I have a feeling that I am going to be alone

    forever. i am afraid that no one will ever need me or want me or truly love me. ive not had the greatest luck in the love department at all.
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2015

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 1, 2015

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    Nobody Wants Me

    My love is not good enough. Any girl I have had a crush on. Any girl that's I've liked. Anyone I've loved .. or even wanted to love .. has made that perfectly clear. Nobody wants me. Nobody wants to touch me. Nobody .. my love isn't wanted. I'm not wanted. Oh of course, I've...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 104 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    I am afraid I won't find someone

    because I really hate myself. I have always hated myself and I know others can't love me if I can't. If they ever knew me really they would all leave me.
    LolaLecter LolaLecter 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    I know I'm still young,

    and I have time, but I'm lonely. My love life is full of bad luck and too many breaks in my fragile heart. It's a long and complicated story, but the short of it is this: I've never had a boyfriend, let alone a first kiss. I feel like that's a bad sign, considering my age (even...
    hopelesslylonelyromantic hopelesslylonelyromantic 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    Since my breakup i don't feel like i will find

    any one else just like him careing, loveing, funny, and hot WHY ME???? x
    DivaDuvall DivaDuvall 16-17, T 11 Responses Nov 27, 2015

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    she maybe the face I can't forget a trace of

    pleasure or regret maybe my treasure or the price I have to pay.... the girl I fall in love... just got a boyfriend... I've told her my feelings. long before. she always dodge the topic.. maybe the distance between us make her think twice.. or I wasn't handsome enough.. or i...
    Marioww Marioww 22-25, M Dec 1, 2015

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    This is how I have felt

    for the past four years and seems like I can never meet someone that works out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 27, 2015

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    Outside the snow is falling Quietly,

    not a sound There is starlight and moonlight... Magic all around. What a perfect time to tell you How wonderful you are I have become enchanted... If only from afar. I've never seen an angel But, I feel it could be you... You seem so angelic In everything you do. An angel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    Today on my way out the door to work,

    I saw my dog looking at me in the window. His big Chihuahua eyes just glaring at me speaking a sadness to my heart. I started to kiss the air in his direction. I thought to myself, "Yea, I really need to find someone soon. This is getting a little pathetic."
    brady120378 brady120378 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11 26-30, F Oct 10, 2015

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    It seems like there are too many people to

    filter in the world. With billions of people, doesn't it feel like you could be happier with someone else? But finding *that one person* feels like a goal not just out of reach, but a goal that's impossible. How can anybody truly love everything about somebody else? Me? I'm a...
    DobbyLover DobbyLover 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm afraid that will never find someone

    that clicks with me... Someone who can understand my train of thought. Someone that wants to take the time to know me and raise me up so I can do the same for them. Someone that won't shut me out and push me away as much as I do. Someone that will find his way into my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    That real wholehearted kind of love.

    The kind where you are best friends. Respected at all times, even when arguing. I have never had that kind of love before. It was always conditional. Was given as long as expectations were met and taken away if they weren't. I question it's existence, could it be real...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

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    Sometimes I just can't help

    but feel that I'll never be good enough for anyone to really love me the way I am. My Mom's words reinforcing this thought really doesn't help things much either.
    chocochoc01 chocochoc01 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2015

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    “There are two basic motivating forces: fear

    and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot...
    QuinnMalcom QuinnMalcom 31-35, M 2 Responses May 25, 2014

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    becuase i dont know .

    but that is just the way I feel . and if anyone else feels this way , comment and like this because I could really use someone to talk to . I also feel very lonley .
    omghappy omghappy 13-15 2 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    im failing it keeps happening.

    it always been like this. this is why i cant be happy. the moment i have it in my hands theres like a mere concenquences. and i already have accepted, no matter how good enough i am theres always someone better than me. and now i understand that im not made for successful...
    Junie621 Junie621 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    Going to sleep alone

    and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to think it will never happen again. I don't know what's wrong with me. No one is interested in me:( my biggest fear is I'll...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    I have never dated in my life.

    .. because I fell for the wrong guys...but now I really doubt if there is that person waiting for me...feeling the same as I am... guess I am a sinister...so nobody ever fell for me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    natalieccaa natalieccaa 26-30, F Jan 5

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    I've a people and outside phobia.

    I've tried being with people but then I feel weird and avoid them. I feel trapped and lonely. I want to let someone love me but I just don't know how to get over this.
    lovemeiris lovemeiris 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    Every time I see couples I just get mad

    and Annoyed with it . They just so perfect and in love . I can't stand them . It's like a itchy bug in my skin
    Jamila826 Jamila826 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Lm10forever Lm10forever 18-21, M Dec 21, 2015

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    I have never loved anyone.

    I get turned on mostly by people that I see on TV and I even fall for more than their looks but I never feel anything towards those around me. I am alone most of the time especially at night and I long for someone to hold me but when they even bring it up I'm like ew
    iamkesho iamkesho 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    It's really hard to find genuine love these

    days. People always want something. And this of course dosen't just include romantic love. This includes friendship and family love as well.
    ThisIsMyFightSong ThisIsMyFightSong 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I had someone to say

    that they love me but actions speak louder than words so of course I don't believe them.. I have always been to kind to give my heart to someone and I never was able to get the same in return. I am starting to believe that there is not someone out there for everyone.
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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    dating women older than you,visit site:www.cougarloving.com
    cougarloving cougarloving 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    In todays world' most guys u find is

    either selfish or just wants to use u.(NOT SAYING ALL GUYS ARE) but every time I go see my friends they are either talking about their new boyfriend or how they know someone who loves them. I don't know if someone likes me or loves me besides family. At one point I really wanted...
    butterfly014 butterfly014 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Not me personally, but I know this girl

    who was approaching 40 and she could never find the right guy who could really love her. She spent countless amount of hours on the internet searching for the right guy on dating sites, she was a virgin at the time, and because of her religious beliefs she could only marry a guy...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2014

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