I Am Afraid I Will Never Find Someone to Really Love Me

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    I'm afraid I will never find someone

    who I can call my true love
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 4

    I have a strange version of this.

    I'm a pretty good looking guy, but I don't attract the kind of women that want me for more than my looks. I get lots of attention from shallow, flirty chicks that expect sex on the first date and to be mere "friends with benefits" thereafter. I can't stand the emotional vacuum...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    That real wholehearted kind of love.

    The kind where you are best friends. Respected at all times, even when arguing. I have never had that kind of love before. It was always conditional. Was given as long as expectations were met and taken away if they weren't. I question it's existence, could it be real...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2015

    Sometimes I just can't help

    but feel that I'll never be good enough for anyone to really love me the way I am. My Mom's words reinforcing this thought really doesn't help things much either.
    chocochoc01 chocochoc01
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015
    annah1 annah1
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    I have a feeling that I am going to be alone

    forever. i am afraid that no one will ever need me or want me or truly love me. ive not had the greatest luck in the love department at all.
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    I guess I really can't belong to this group too

    much longer. I met a guy on here, who I won't mention his name because he likes privacy as much as I do. But he's the best person that I've ever met in my life. He's so sweet, kind, funny, smart and adorable. He makes me the happiest that I've been in a long time, if ever. I go...
    brady120378 brady120378
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    I am one of those people

    who believes there's not a women out there for me and I have a hard time with it I just want to feel something real with a woman were she's exited to wake up in the morning and see what I am up too
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    I'm Such An Idiot

    I got married when I was 23 years old, to a man who has never once in our time together told me he loves me.  I'm sitting here 20 years later trying to figure out why.  We have 2 great kids that I wouldn't trade the world for.  If I hadn't married this man, they...
    goddessone goddessone
    41-45, F
    39 Responses Mar 9, 2008

    No one will ever love me.

    I know that now. I just wish it wasn't true
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 12, 2015

    I'm 18 now and am still single.

    ..I didn't found any girl who can love me...I'm so lonely.. :(
    Lm10forever Lm10forever
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 25

    “There are two basic motivating forces: fear

    and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot...
    QuinnMalcom QuinnMalcom
    31-35, M
    2 Responses May 25, 2014

    I've a people and outside phobia.

    I've tried being with people but then I feel weird and avoid them. I feel trapped and lonely. I want to let someone love me but I just don't know how to get over this.
    lovemeiris lovemeiris
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

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    cougarloving cougarloving
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 16
    LifeVirusx10 LifeVirusx10
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 1

    Should I Just Give Up?

    I am generally an optimistic guy, but as I enter yet another year alone I am on the verge of giving up hope of ever finding someone to share my life with. I don't know what the problem with me is, I am at a minimum an average looking guy, I make a decent wage, treat people...
    UniquebutnotAlone UniquebutnotAlone
    26-30, M
    17 Responses Dec 31, 2011

    im failing it keeps happening.

    it always been like this. this is why i cant be happy. the moment i have it in my hands theres like a mere concenquences. and i already have accepted, no matter how good enough i am theres always someone better than me. and now i understand that im not made for successful...
    Junie621 Junie621
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I used to think that I already found him,

    but then I realized.. I can not hold him forever. You aren't real but mean so much to me
    Itisthereallme Itisthereallme
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 31

    Not me personally, but I know this girl

    who was approaching 40 and she could never find the right guy who could really love her. She spent countless amount of hours on the internet searching for the right guy on dating sites, she was a virgin at the time, and because of her religious beliefs she could only marry a guy...
    sheherme83 sheherme83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    Since my breakup i don't feel like i will find

    any one else just like him careing, loveing, funny, and hot WHY ME???? x
    DivaDuvall DivaDuvall
    16-17, T
    6 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    Every time I see couples I just get mad

    and Annoyed with it . They just so perfect and in love . I can't stand them . It's like a itchy bug in my skin
    Jamila826 Jamila826
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 7

    Hey guys I'm in a huge rut at the moment

    and I feel like complete crap. I've fallen in love with a girl I met online on a depression support app. She's from the US and I'm from the UK, neither of us have the means to visit each other and to be honest, I think she's falling out of love with me. I am a 20 year old guy, I...
    DeanMart1n DeanMart1n
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Apr 21

    I just got friendzoned by a guy

    that I've been seeing a few months.. I really liked him :( He said that we're from quite different planets. I just don't really get it because I thought I finally met someone who thinks the same way as I do... I think this is all because it's so difficult for me to open up...
    Alessyy Alessyy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 12
    glyth glyth
    26-30, T
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    god Dame it .. . true love is hard to find

    and it's harder if you are like me ... ugly . fat untalented ...... my 2 brothers and my sister are all married .... my mom want me to find any girl and marry here... she dont what real love is !! .... I'm afraid to be alone forever ... alone in my house while my friends are...
    Hisham98 Hisham98
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 1

    i give up on dating no one will ever want me

    or love me i have been hurt to many times
    jamesb2243 jamesb2243
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    Everyone tells me that I will find

    that right girl soon. They told me that soon forever ago ._.
    EBestest EBestest
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    becuase i dont know .

    but that is just the way I feel . and if anyone else feels this way , comment and like this because I could really use someone to talk to . I also feel very lonley .
    omghappy omghappy
    16-17
    1 Response Dec 20, 2015

    I had someone to say

    that they love me but actions speak louder than words so of course I don't believe them.. I have always been to kind to give my heart to someone and I never was able to get the same in return. I am starting to believe that there is not someone out there for everyone.
    EternityF EternityF
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    I'm scared to fall in love,

    because I can't like really trust anybody, I feel like every guy I date just wants in NY pants. I'm gonna die alone :( #foreveralone
    emmacannon16 emmacannon16
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 17

    Spent the last 6 years with someone

    who I didn't love. The sad part is that because it didn't work out I was hopeless of ever finding someone I could genuinely fall in love with. Well I did. I fell in love with someone and I fell hard. Guess who's scrapping their knees trying to get back up? Welcome karma. I feel...
    Shey12 Shey12
    22-25, F
    27 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    i want that kind of love where

    when it ends... which it eventually will. I'm not sad but happy that I got to experience that kind of love. I long for that kind of love.... i'll be forever searching until I find it
    powerStorm powerStorm
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 1

    Going to sleep alone

    and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to think it will never happen again. I don't know what's wrong with me. No one is interested in me:( my biggest fear is I'll...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    Outside the snow is falling Quietly,

    not a sound There is starlight and moonlight... Magic all around. What a perfect time to tell you How wonderful you are I have become enchanted... If only from afar. I've never seen an angel But, I feel it could be you... You seem so angelic In everything you do. An angel...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    I'm afraid that will never find someone

    that clicks with me... Someone who can understand my train of thought. Someone that wants to take the time to know me and raise me up so I can do the same for them. Someone that won't shut me out and push me away as much as I do. Someone that will find his way into my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Dec 17, 2013

    Two people. Everything.

    Anything. One heart. One soul. One.
    ILavIt ILavIt
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Nobody Wants Me

    My love is not good enough. Any girl I have had a crush on. Any girl that's I've liked. Anyone I've loved .. or even wanted to love .. has made that perfectly clear. Nobody wants me. Nobody wants to touch me. Nobody .. my love isn't wanted. I'm not wanted. Oh of course, I've...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy
    36-40, M
    104 Responses Nov 5, 2008

    she maybe the face I can't forget a trace of

    pleasure or regret maybe my treasure or the price I have to pay.... the girl I fall in love... just got a boyfriend... I've told her my feelings. long before. she always dodge the topic.. maybe the distance between us make her think twice.. or I wasn't handsome enough.. or i...
    Marioww Marioww
    26-30, M
    Dec 1, 2015

    Everyone I meet that is a guy

    and I date usually just dates me to get over someone or just thinks I'm hot... I know I'm still young but even teenagers need to feel like they are loved not just by family or friends.
    laultman78 laultman78
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    Yeah...

    How can I explain this? I just...I feel like there's nothing especially special about me, or anything that will keep someone around. I feel like any guy who expresses interest in me will do it purely to get into my pants, and for no reason other than that. And then, once they get...
    livingalie1 livingalie1
    22-25, F
    27 Responses Dec 30, 2011
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    In todays world' most guys u find is

    either selfish or just wants to use u.(NOT SAYING ALL GUYS ARE) but every time I go see my friends they are either talking about their new boyfriend or how they know someone who loves them. I don't know if someone likes me or loves me besides family. At one point I really wanted...
    butterfly014 butterfly014
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 22

    Im afraid i'll never find anyone

    because im just different. I have some strange hobbies that people dont like and i hear it all the time (Like crossdressing, fursuiting, cosplaying etc. I'm just interested in what clothes and makeup can do to people). Im also very very shy, and scared of just about everything...
    Dutchdragon Dutchdragon
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 12

    Mostly because I hide

    who I truly am, because people would reject me if they knew the real me
    MedusasDaughter MedusasDaughter
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    i want love but i am afraid i am afraid to

    fall in love with wrong person i am afraid that i might never be loved like the way i desire i am afraid i will never hear i love you from such person who actually means it i am afraid that i will never have someone to hold hands with and talk about stars i am afraid...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 27, 2015

    Nothing Worthy Of Love

    I have been 'single' for over a year now and I finally allowed myself to truly open up and care about someone. I told him of my childhood, details I have not even told my therapist, I shared my desires, my dreams, my secrets. I allowed him to see me, to know me.....very few get...
    wickedties wickedties
    41-45, F
    63 Responses Feb 1, 2011

    i have to wait long except god no body loves me.

    ...!! and seems to me like i m the only.one.who is going to love people no one als is going to love me ever..the way i love them...
    irinangel irinangel
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    I know I'm still young,

    and I have time, but I'm lonely. My love life is full of bad luck and too many breaks in my fragile heart. It's a long and complicated story, but the short of it is this: I've never had a boyfriend, let alone a first kiss. I feel like that's a bad sign, considering my age (even...
    hopelesslylonelyromantic hopelesslylonelyromantic
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    It's really hard to find genuine love these

    days. People always want something. And this of course dosen't just include romantic love. This includes friendship and family love as well.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    I have never dated in my life.

    .. because I fell for the wrong guys...but now I really doubt if there is that person waiting for me...feeling the same as I am... guess I am a sinister...so nobody ever fell for me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Nobody can treat you like your worth something.

    You might be married but in reality he thinking of someone else. I'm may be wrong but every guy or girl got that one person they like besides their partner.
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    Whenever I think about love,

    it's so hard for me to think that it could happen for me. That I don't really see it happening for me. I try to be hopeful but it's so hard when you're constantly surrounded by others who so easily find it and have it in their grasp. I don't know, it's just whenever I think...
    emelon12 emelon12
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    Today on my way out the door to work,

    I saw my dog looking at me in the window. His big Chihuahua eyes just glaring at me speaking a sadness to my heart. I started to kiss the air in his direction. I thought to myself, "Yea, I really need to find someone soon. This is getting a little pathetic."
    brady120378 brady120378
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014
    Lm10forever Lm10forever
    18-21, M
    Dec 21, 2015

    I am afraid I won't find someone

    because I really hate myself. I have always hated myself and I know others can't love me if I can't. If they ever knew me really they would all leave me.
    LolaLecter LolaLecter
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2015
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 18

    I have never loved anyone.

    I get turned on mostly by people that I see on TV and I even fall for more than their looks but I never feel anything towards those around me. I am alone most of the time especially at night and I long for someone to hold me but when they even bring it up I'm like ew
    iamkesho iamkesho
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 4

    It seems like there are too many people to

    filter in the world. With billions of people, doesn't it feel like you could be happier with someone else? But finding *that one person* feels like a goal not just out of reach, but a goal that's impossible. How can anybody truly love everything about somebody else? Me? I'm a...
    DobbyLover DobbyLover
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Dec 21, 2015
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