for me, I can never get the cue to be affectionate with someone when I don't know how to detect how comfortable someone is with me. It usually takes another person to be affectionate with me before I can be affectionate at all. And it's all due to my fear of being affectionate...
To be honest, I dont really like affection.
It makes me feel uncomfortable.
Alot of men I have been in relationships never understood this. They were always touchy feely kinda people.
Where as I am not like that.
I dont feel the need to constantly be touched.
Or say "I Love...