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I Am Afraid of Being to Needy Sometimes

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    Terrorfied - Being needy was a punishable act in my house when I was growing up. Needing anything emotional was bad, wrong, sissy or just plain annoying for my...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    Neediness To Loss - i dont like the feeling needy at all . But am not sure when it is i am needy because i think im scared to really like a girl. Infact i think im scared to love...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2011

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    Losing It - 1 year, 7 months and six days ago she asked me to be her partner, her girlfriend. Like any new relationships we were obsessed with one another. We would be on the phone...
    Anndei Anndei 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2008

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    Im Supposed To Be Strong - I love when my girl trusts me with her problems... i don't find being needy to be a sign of weakness.. not in others anyway... i love when she trusts me...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2010

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    I Do Worry About This........ - ~ I believe it is one of the reasons that I tend not to talk as much about my problems. It's why I will do anything I have to do to make sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Fear Of Losing You For Being Too Needy - I feel like I depend on my boyfriend too much and I feel like I am too needy. He is my life right now and I have no one else really to go...
    twilighthearts11 twilighthearts11 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Fear Pushing Her Away - I am the type of person that feels no one could like me or want to be with me. When someone does show attention to me, I like to keep hearing that person...
    xdlove xdlove 41-45, M 15 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    That's the Reason Why... - I'm distant. Because i'm afraid of being needy and bother people. Most of the times the needs that i have aren't met so i go a long time hanging by a...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2009

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    Feel Too Vulnerable And Exposed To Show I'm Needy - I think I hide behind a mask of self confidence to keep from showing that deep down, I am really needy.  I guess my fear is...
    brokenangel913 brokenangel913 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Needy People Are Annoying - Lol...and I don't want to be either of those things.  I try to rely on myself as much as possible for almost everything.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    Very Frustrating - I find when I love someone I put my entire being into making them happy. Trying to please them, giving my all for them. Wanting to be near them all the time...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Please Don't Go - I don't wanna scare people away by telling them what I need. Because I need a lot, and I know I ask for a lot, but usually it's only love. I just don't want to...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2008

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