I Am Afraid Of Getting Attached

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 202 People

    it's the same things over

    and over again. say they won't hurt you, won't do this or that. get you open up and then it all leads to destruction
    gonegirl23 gonegirl23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    I'm deeply afraid of getting attached,

    I feel that once I get attached. They'll leave me right after, and I won't know what to do with myself. I feel that I should keep a guard up, just to save from being attached. And you know, saving that overwhelming sadness from crashing in. But sometimes it's just to hard to...
    dominiquekillz dominiquekillz
    16-17, F
    Aug 7, 2014

    Too many people in life leave

    or stray away or die suddenly.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2014
    Bigbootyno2 Bigbootyno2
    70+, T
    Oct 13, 2014

    It sucks. Because once you lose everything

    and get it back - losing it again is the scariest thing ever. Trying not to mess up this time around
    Sauceydoll Sauceydoll
    18-21, F
    Jan 3

    .....because I end up loosing it all

    either way sooner or later and that is the truth. For this reason I'm afraid of building relationships and to trust others ..... It's always been like that. I work hard on the relationships, go out of my way for friendships and always end up alone sooner rather than later...
    3kstazy 3kstazy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    I can't do that again.

    I don't have time for disappointment
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2014

    I'm afraid of getting attached

    because I always get that saying in my mind that says "people are in your life either temporary or permanently" & at that point it's scary for me to even catch feelings for somebody.. Too many people walked in and out my life, and walking out with everything that was shared too...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014
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