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I Am Afraid of Getting Hurt

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    A Bad Life

    Im, Justin Solis.. my story is just like your always asking for help and love.  ever since i was a kid i only wanted love and friends and a great girlfriend.. I only asked god for these things.. and i tried also to make them happen.. when i was thirteen every body picked...
    Justin9 Justin9 18-21 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    Baby, Don't Hurt Me. No More.

    Hurt? It's something you experience in life. Something that drives you insane to the point you over analyze every portion of the problem until you have at least somewhat of an understanding. I've always been afraid of being hurt. My father was not in my life as much as he could...
    uniquevintage uniquevintage 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    Am I Over Sensitive?

    I always get hurt when people are trying to say negative stuffs against me even if it's not true because I always run out of place to at least explain or falsify those things. The reason why I am very much affected is because if my family knows or even my brother or sister would...
    coldasice22 coldasice22 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    It Was A Bad Day For My Fave Team

    Just few days ago, I posted something in one of the most popular social networking sites today wherein we have a group for all the fans and supporters of a certain sports team. I am big fan of the said sports team in the country because I also love the sport itself. Aside from...
    coldasice22 coldasice22 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    A New Girl

    So I just started dating this new girl exclusively. We click and everything is great, we have awesome chemistry and lots of fun together. The only thing is I'm scared of getting hurt again. We went out on out first date the beginning of the month. Everything went well and when...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 8 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    I Keep Feeling Afraid I Get Hurt In a Relationship

    I know that i would never devote myself in a relationship, i'm way too suspicious, and pessimistic also. being like this really causes misunderstandings with others, i can be very distant, and intimate right away, people don't understand my randomness.  Sometimes, i just...
    Loveleh Loveleh 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Afraid

    I'm afraid of starting a relationship and getting hurt. I haven't had a relationship before, so I wouldn't really know what to do.
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Relationship

    I'm so happy i;m in my relationship I'm glad i took a chance and it wonderful i'm so happy i decided to do this
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Apr 16, 2009

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    So I

    took on the relationship that was comfronting me in my last story and every thing was cool,we dated for a week when i relized that he wasnt the guy for me and when i broke up with him i felt rally really bad but i mean  i couldnt date someone i wasnt really as into as i...
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Apr 6, 2009

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    I'm Terrified...

     It's not just that I'm afraid of getting hurt, but I'm afraid I'll hurt the other person. I'm afraid I won't be able to give them what they want from me.  I'm afraid of giving someone that much power over me, the power that come from knowing me so well. Knowing my...
    chezzwizz2472 chezzwizz2472 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    Bad Luck

    Everyone gets lucky good or bad, if there was no bad luck I would have no luck at all- love that quote but it's so true! Sorry back to the story now. The same goes for me and relationships, I had never been that lucky in anything but relationships I thought I could handle. In...
    Blueskies22 Blueskies22 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2013

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    I Dont Wanna Be Hurt Again

    I like him and he likes me but I'm so scared to be in a new relationship i was hurt so bad last time my heart was crush Thur ad text and i dint wanna get hurt again it scares me so bad and what  if kids in school judge me dating him what if I'm not excepted well maybe...
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Mar 25, 2009

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    Not Sure; Think You Should Trust Her

    give her the benefit of the doubt? she seems to like/love you you too people make mistakes i have made more than i can count or remember and it would be easy to dwell in the pain and unconsciousness but why? why not let it be a when? can we move on and love again.
    Segaaa Segaaa 51-55, T Sep 27, 2008

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    with NO exaggeration...everytime i like a guy...they never like me back. well hook up for a while and by the time ive developed feelings theyre over me and could care less. there...
    lookingformyself88 lookingformyself88 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    The boy I like doesn't like me (I think he doesn't like me) and it hurts and it's giving me anxiety attacks :(
    Ellendes Ellendes 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I've learned the hard way not to trust anyone but God, Jesus and my angel.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 22

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    All the time. I have a boyfriend and I'm surprised I haven't pushed him away. And I never want to. I love him so much I just hope it latest forever like he promised..
    18corbri 18corbri 16-17, F Jul 22

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    One day life will charge you for every tear and lie ! I know you will get to read this and I know you will realize that changing three year for 4 months of freedom no wort it...
    esoj80 esoj80 31-35, M Jul 23

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    I'm scared to fall in love again knowing that a guy (especially) is usually different before//after he gets the girl. I really wish for something consistent, and a long-lasting...
    ThePorcelainDoll ThePorcelainDoll 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't think I had feelings for him but I saw he wrote about another girl and I have this feeling in my stomach and heart like it's taking palpitations..
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    After being cheated on by my last 2 relationships, I can only say i have become more afraid of getting hurt. The last guy that i was with was the one that hurt me the worst. I was...
    Alejandro1992 Alejandro1992 22-25, M Jul 21

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    I’m afraid of hurting people. I always hurt someone when people get too close. The only times I can talk to people is by doing street magic or by trying to help them with their...
    l0kar l0kar 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Everything almost never works out for me . Relationships , friendships , everything . I'm always getting hurt. I know I deserve it sometimes . But I'm really tired of it . It hurts...
    emoniemm emoniemm 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like I do so much for everybody.. And they don't even notice. I always end up getting hurt in the end but that never stops me from helping them still.. Sometimes I just wish...
    bebe805 bebe805 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I can't help but fear that my feelings are entirely one-sided. It really has gotten to the point where it physically hurts to even think about him. We've been good friends for a...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Me and my bestie were doing trust exercises because he thinks that my lack in trust is keeping me from getting close to people . He said I'm so afraid that someone will hurt me...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    This really is my favorite show on TV, and I am sure that my friends are sick of me talking about it. I can't believe this group has so few members. I am really hoping to find...
    kathyrice kathyrice 41-45, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    someone even if he has authority if he's wrong i will fight for i know what is right. I'm not afraid of authorities especially if they are wrong.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    I was reading through stories on EP this afternoon, when it suddenly hit me that so many of those stories were actually about fear: fear of loneliness, fear of change, fear of...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    After trying to talk to a women I'm friendly with she told me do you have anything to say to me or are you just going to stand there awkwardly. My feelings have been hurt all day...
    andybramblefrisch andybramblefrisch 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    I've been hurt too much. People always leave me. I end up getting treated like crap. I put up walls. I crave physical and emotional contact with that one person. I hope that day...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    A little story about a heartbreak... She was in love with him. He did not love her back the same way. His presence made her fall in love with him more thinking he wanted to stay...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I would like to go out and find a guy and build a meaningful relationship. I'm just tired of being lonely and not having the affection and the closure and such that comes with a...
    ems350z ems350z 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    I am so afraid of everything: going out and having fun, making a fool of myself, talking to people, even that I'm bothering everybody that are my friends. But at the same time, I...
    AngelLux AngelLux 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I'm afraid of getting close to others or having a new best friend because my best friend died over a year ago. Not only that, I have had lots of friends who have died. Others, I...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jul 18

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    i got spanked on fourth of july in front of family us kids were setting off fireworks which was really fun then i started fighting with derrick and he was being a d*** daddy and...
    Tygersilk Tygersilk 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Sometimes I get this urge to strangle someone. I don't know why, but this urge keeps getting stronger and stronger and sometimes I find my hands clasping and reflecting like I'm...
    HiIAmHana HiIAmHana 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    hurting is only in the mind, Im in the state of my mind being hurt. Coz my exlover just told me she is afraid to forget me where in fact she alrdy have a new one. Instead of going...
    casicat casicat 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I some how can't trust a guy a lot i been hurt way to much. The last time I been hurt by a guy was 3 years ago when he left me for my aunt. Well I've been Over it for a year but I...
    AnaBanana19 AnaBanana19 18-21, F Jul 24

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    People are drawn to me, they call upon me, they often ask me for advice which I have no qualifications to give. I am very careful not to give advice, but to give factual accounts...
    Human0xymoron Human0xymoron 41-45, F 18 hrs ago

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    Every time I see him every time I see that monster I don't know what to do even if I did I wouldn't be able to move cause every time I see him I am frozen with fear hell even if I...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I separated from my husband 3 years ago. It was a really messed up relationship and he cheated time after time. I became more and more insecure as time went on. Eventually I found...
    ThatsSuze ThatsSuze 22-25 Jul 7

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    I'm not afraid of dying because I'm alive now so I should be making the most of it.. When I die it's cause it's time for me to go yeah people will be hurt but they shouldn't be it...
    maddyfenbert16 maddyfenbert16 16-17 2 Responses Jul 21

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    i think the rejection is one my biggest fears since ever. I always lived in a small town, and I still havent found any interesting guy. I actually thought that there werent anybody...
    monicafixe monicafixe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    In society, i try to fit in and pretend to like the same things everybody does. But it kills me inside not to express my own feelings and enjoy the things i like. But if i do...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Two weeks from now I'll be getting married again for the third time. They say third time is a charm. ( whoever they is ) I love my fiancee. I love her eight year old son. I dream...
    monarchman monarchman 41-45, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    The other day I had to get completely changed in a group changing room. There were a few other guys there. Being naked in front of people is no big deal to me (I'm a nudist and...
    19andNaked 19andNaked 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    It's already happened so many times before. And it feels like it's getting continually worse. Now that my dad's 3 years has been served, so many things have changed... I just don't...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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