I Am Afraid of Getting Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 301 People

    and so I push people away.

    . I have lots of things I want to say, at the same time, I don't know what to say.. I am not good with poeple and so I NEVER had any friends, like 0 friends almost my whole life. I'm fine with that. I push poeple away, don't want to get close to anyone and I do not fear...
    FallingWind FallingWind
    18-21, F
    May 12, 2015

    I Dont Wanna Be Hurt Again

    I like him and he likes me but I'm so scared to be in a new relationship i was hurt so bad last time my heart was crush Thur ad text and i dint wanna get hurt again it scares me so bad and what  if kids in school judge me dating him what if I'm not excepted well maybe...
    Lostinimage Lostinimage
    13-15, F
    Mar 25, 2009

    It Was A Bad Day For My Fave Team

    Just few days ago, I posted something in one of the most popular social networking sites today wherein we have a group for all the fans and supporters of a certain sports team. I am big fan of the said sports team in the country because I also love the sport itself. Aside from...
    coldasice22 coldasice22
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

    I'm so tired of getting hurt in relationships.

    It's like in the beginning I'm good enough to be with the person but then all of a sudden bam I'm not good enough or worthy of being with them. I don't understand what's wrong with me or what I'm doing wrong. I just want a guy to love me for me. Maybe he doesn't exist 💔
    biancal24 biancal24
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    So I

    took on the relationship that was comfronting me in my last story and every thing was cool,we dated for a week when i relized that he wasnt the guy for me and when i broke up with him i felt rally really bad but i mean  i couldnt date someone i wasnt really as into as i...
    Lostinimage Lostinimage
    13-15, F
    Apr 6, 2009

    He told me he liked me,

    but now it just seems like he's pulling away. I don't know what to do. I don't want to get hurt again.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 29, 2015

    Bad Luck

    Everyone gets lucky good or bad, if there was no bad luck I would have no luck at all- love that quote but it's so true! Sorry back to the story now. The same goes for me and relationships, I had never been that lucky in anything but relationships I thought I could handle. In...
    Blueskies22 Blueskies22
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2013

    I Keep Feeling Afraid I Get Hurt In a Relationship

    I know that i would never devote myself in a relationship, i'm way too suspicious, and pessimistic also. being like this really causes misunderstandings with others, i can be very distant, and intimate right away, people don't understand my randomness.  Sometimes, i just...
    Loveleh Loveleh
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 24, 2008

    Relationship

    I'm so happy i;m in my relationship I'm glad i took a chance and it wonderful i'm so happy i decided to do this
    Lostinimage Lostinimage
    13-15, F
    Apr 16, 2009

    Am I Over Sensitive?

    I always get hurt when people are trying to say negative stuffs against me even if it's not true because I always run out of place to at least explain or falsify those things. The reason why I am very much affected is because if my family knows or even my brother or sister would...
    coldasice22 coldasice22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

    I'm Terrified...

     It's not just that I'm afraid of getting hurt, but I'm afraid I'll hurt the other person. I'm afraid I won't be able to give them what they want from me.  I'm afraid of giving someone that much power over me, the power that come from knowing me so well. Knowing my...
    chezzwizz2472 chezzwizz2472
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2009

    It just dawned on me today

    that I've lost most if not all my niceness. I used to be very nice, possibly the nicest person you could ever meet and then today I realized I'm not nice anymore. Now that I'm thinking about things I realized I've been seeing parts of my niceness slip away. And in those...
    Punky79 Punky79
    31-35, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    A Bad Life

    Im, Justin Solis.. my story is just like your always asking for help and love.  ever since i was a kid i only wanted love and friends and a great girlfriend.. I only asked god for these things.. and i tried also to make them happen.. when i was thirteen every body picked...
    Justin9 Justin9
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 4, 2010

    I met a great guy recently

    and things are going well already. I like him a lot already but I'm afraid of getting hurt. We connect so well and he is what Ive been looking for. I don't want to be gaurded but I also don't want to get hurt. Feelings suck.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    Afraid

    I'm afraid of starting a relationship and getting hurt. I haven't had a relationship before, so I wouldn't really know what to do.
    emipurple emipurple
    18-21, F
    Oct 11, 2013

    Baby, Don't Hurt Me. No More.

    Hurt? It's something you experience in life. Something that drives you insane to the point you over analyze every portion of the problem until you have at least somewhat of an understanding. I've always been afraid of being hurt. My father was not in my life as much as he could...
    uniquevintage uniquevintage
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

    Not Sure; Think You Should Trust Her

    give her the benefit of the doubt? she seems to like/love you you too people make mistakes i have made more than i can count or remember and it would be easy to dwell in the pain and unconsciousness but why? why not let it be a when? can we move on and love again.
    Segaaa Segaaa
    51-55, T
    Sep 27, 2008

    A New Girl

    So I just started dating this new girl exclusively. We click and everything is great, we have awesome chemistry and lots of fun together. The only thing is I'm scared of getting hurt again. We went out on out first date the beginning of the month. Everything went well and when...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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