I Am Afraid of Hurting Those Who Care About Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 549 People

    I Think to a Degree Everyon...

    I think to a degree everyone is.  I think that people who take chance though find out that they don't always cause pain in those who care about them and that they shouldn't let the fear run thier lives.
    evilkittymew evilkittymew
    41-45, F
    Oct 3, 2008

    Mostly My Husband

    People tend to think of someone they love as a perfect being, at least in my experience.  I have a very realistic view of life and humanity.  I know everyone doesn't live up to their own morals and ideals all of the time.  I tend to love people that at least...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 4, 2008

    The Prodigy

    So many people I come across see something in me. It's so consistant that I'm beginning to think no one sees anything at all, but rather just wants to put their bid in just incase one of my silly pointless crusades actually goes somewhere. But that's not the point. The point of...
    TellerOfTales TellerOfTales
    22-25, M
    Jan 8, 2009

    It'd Be Bad

    I can do and say some stupid and ridiculous things sometimes, and I'm afraid one day, I will go too far with my somewhat reckless and carefree behavior and either end up dead or losing the people I love and admire, losing their respect for me.  Yeah, argue the human factor...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2010

    And Always Will

    I hide who I am because I know that it would cause pain and humiliation for those around me.  I care too much for those that I hold near and dear to my heart and have forsaken who and what I am just to keep them safe.  I have learned over the years to accept myself and...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois
    56-60
    1 Response Jul 18, 2009

    I Really Am...

    I really am afraid of hurting those who care about me. I am afraid that I might do something to hurt them, or to hurt me, and it ends up hurting them. I am so scared of hurting people who care about me, that I make it impossible for someone to get close to me, and care about me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 2, 2009

    It's Weird.

    i'm really good at this. i dont try. but when i get to a certain point in any relationship, something clicks and i do whatever possible to push them away. sometimes these things are really very hurtful. i have a few amazing friends who realized this wasnt me. it was just...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2009

    I am always afraid of hurting those

    who I care about, and those who care about me. I am always afraid that I am going to do, or say something that will hurt them, that is why I hold my tongue a lot, I don't always trust myself to do or say the right thing. The last thing I want to do, is hurt someone, especially...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2014

    A Letter To The Man I Love.

    No one ever said that life would be easy. And to be honest, it isn't. Everything in my life has been a struggle. Some people care, some people don't. And sometimes, it is the ones that you want to care the most that don't. I have had my ups and had my downs, more downs that I...
    xxbree xxbree
    18-21, F
    Dec 27, 2011

    Wont Do That

    I never thought of hurting someone who really cares about me.... i would rather hurt my self than to hurt them. I know we can't control some situations to happen sometimes but i will try my best to get things back in normal status.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv
    26-30, F
    Sep 16, 2008

    I am afraid of sharing my feelings around me.

    Maybe thats why i am ignored all the time. Maybe i am secretive or that my smile is a lie. Is just a mask. I don't wanna be a burden to anybody... They have their own problems. Why should they care mine? Ill just keep it inside me for eternal... In this world... Nobody wants to...
    Potchii Potchii
    22-25, M
    Feb 1

    Going On

    Ending isn an optionBeginning is a cherished memoryGoing is toughLeaving is tougherEven caring hurtsGetting cared for hurts even moreGetting left behind is what’s bearable
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 18, 2013

    Of Course I'm Afraid.

    Of course I'm afraid. That's actually one of my greatest fears. (LOL I think I actually wrote a poem on this once :P)
    iceshocker124 iceshocker124
    16-17
    Oct 3, 2008

    Untilted

    i hate having to be the bad guy...and when i hurt the people i care about ...I'm the bad guy! it disgusts me... im always the one doing the bad stuf to every one and so im scared to hurt the ones i care about.
    noodlehead noodlehead
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2008

    Lack of Friends

    thats why i don't have many friends... because i'm so afraid of eventually hurting them...
    musicality musicality
    18-21, F
    May 11, 2008

    A Very Real Fear That Is Realised

    In fear of hurting those I love, I often withdraw from them, leaving them confused and more hurt.  Yet in my head, I am saving them from negativety and myself.  Yet I am now realising that very much this is not the best course of action and departing from it. ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 1, 2008

    I've Had a Nasty Habit of Doing This...

    By suicide attempts, Cheating, Leaving... none of these things I am proud of.  The pain I've felt after knowing I've hurt someone who is or once was dear to me is tremendous.  I've never meant to hurt people.  Things always seem to just sort of happen.  With...
    BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer BlueWhaleMeatMcFacer
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

    I Dont Want You to Hurt...

    But I can't stop how you feel, and i can't make myself feel something I don't. Sometimes i care about people who care about me, and I unintentionally hurt them. How can I do something so wrong sometimes. It's like I forget to think straight, but at the same time it was...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2009

    Always

    Im afraid of hurtin ppl tht care bout me,ut it seems no matter wat i do they always get hurt.I dont mean to hurt them,its just they usually cant handle me after awhile.So they drop me and they get hurt,now is tht really my falt?Yes ive hurt ppl tht has cared for me,by liein to...
    demonicsangel2011 demonicsangel2011
    22-25, F
    Nov 6, 2011

    Hmm...I...well....

    Too late.
    EricS EricS
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    ...or Those I Care About.

    There are certain situations that can't be helped for emotional reasons. Not to mention the fact that the future is uncertain and there should be plenty of opportunities to do the right thing. Being young, I worry about jumping into the wrong decisions. But that's just my brain...
    SweetbriarPoet SweetbriarPoet
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 3, 2008
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