I Am Afraid Of Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 556 People


    Long for and scared at the same time; attempting to overcome this feeling and no way to know when it will occur.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 30, 2013

    I'm afraid of love cuz i don't wanna get hurt.

    .. i don't wanna lose the one i love... it hurts when you love someone so much and they just don't feel the same, they fall out of love... the most horrible feeling...they are falling out of love and you can't do anything about it... you feel helpless
    deleted deleted
    Oct 27, 2014

    Love = Weakness

    I don't mean to be "heartless" all the time. I have the sweetest personality, I am the kindest girl you could ever meet, and I care for everyone... in a way, I live to please people... so then why is it so hard for me to find love? It’s a bit difficult to evaluate your own...
    honeybeebee honeybeebee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2013


    I'm not really afraid of love, I'm afraid of the crashing out of love part. I'm afraid of the people I love judging me, and not being good enough. I've spent my whole life trying to reach the goals and standards I've set for myself. To watch some one tear that apart would break...
    Silentcleartear Silentcleartear
    13-15, F
    Mar 1, 2011

    he was someone i relied on.

    he brought me out of my shell despite my reservations. we were best friends. and then we weren't and it broke my heart. despite this, i allowed him to have me and he broke it more.
    cymbalines cymbalines
    26-30, F
    Oct 14, 2015

    Never Have Never Will.._x

    i suppose its because ive never really had that meaningful relationship. im afraid that ill never get it, but im afraid that if i did get it i'd be out of my depth.. i dont know i confuse myself sometimes.. i want someone but im afraid of what might happen between us if i did...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2007

    I can't think of a love

    that hasn't hurt me deeply. Love is synonymous with pain and disappointment as far as i know.
    williamM92 williamM92
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 23, 2014

    I love the thought off love,

    seeing other people in love but me being in love is terrifying. As soon I start liking someone, I do away or they do........
    yohann27 yohann27
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2014

    You want me in a very non-socio/-psychopathic

    way. Believe me, that will always scare me more than violence and guns.
    Akurou Akurou
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2014

    The Man I Love

    I have never loved anyone. Not because I didn't want to, or because people didn't try to love me, but simply because I never made that connection. I respect my parents and siblings, but I don't think I love them. Same goes for my friends, actually. There is a great difference...
    Quantumphysica Quantumphysica
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2013


    I'm afraid of falling in love and being completely vulnerable with someone. I'm really scared that someone could hurt me and break my heart. I have never been in love with anyone my entire life and I think it's so weird.
    Fall123 Fall123
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

    I used to love so easily,

    and I hate it. Honestly, most of the people I loved didn't deserve it. When you let someone in and trust them, chances are they don't give a crap about you. All they care about is what they feel. They keep you around until the next best thing comes around. And I don't just mean...
    SgtWalrus SgtWalrus
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 26, 2014

    Fine. I`ll Admit It.

    I still have feelings of unworthiness that follow me around like a shadow. I`ve had both sides of my family, and his family, and him, go back on their words. Turn around and two face me. Say they will then they wont. Denied me any real compassion and care when I had nothing else...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Dec 23, 2007

    I met this guy. I knew about his existance from

    before because hes the brother of one girl who i used to be close back at school. The thing is that hes extremely cute, everybody comments how hot he is and he knows it, thats why he was popular for being kind of a player. Anyways, i met him and he has been chasing me, he is a...
    Whistle15 Whistle15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2014

    I'm afraid of love because I'm afraid to get

    close to people and then I loose them... I find it hard to let people into my life because I'm afraid of relationships. I'm afraid of relationships, friend, family, or more, I feel I can't trust anyone but myself and I fear bring alone and lonely.....
    bobbymason424 bobbymason424
    18-21, M
    Feb 1, 2014

    So I Met This Girl

    So there's this girl that I've been talking to for almost a month now. I met her on a dating website, we went out for dinner the other night, and she's just as awesome as she's been since we started talking. Thing is, she says she's not looking for anything "too serious" right...
    cYdeFXt cYdeFXt
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    Afraid Of Love

    I am afraid of love and it hasn't always been this way. I wore my heart on my sleeve and when i loved i loved with every single bit of me, i gave everything ... and i took peoples words in deeply and believed them too. As time has gone on and my heart has been broken i have...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2013

    It's not that I don't want to fall in love

    and have those kinds of experiences. I am afraid of giving too much of myself to it and forgetting what has made it possible to fall in love in the first place. I'd like to keep falling in love over and over with someone. I fear the drama and betrayal and insecurity and...
    Releasinginyour Releasinginyour
    31-35, M
    Feb 8, 2015

    How Selfish A Man..

    I never thought I could be this selfish. Or even this foolish, for that matter. Maybe I should cover a bit of background here first. I'm a bisexual teenager with a pretty decent life with lots of friends and a good family. I really have nothing to complain about. My life's...
    ViewFromHeaven ViewFromHeaven
    Mar 14, 2012

    I Dont Want To Get Hurt Again...

    When my very 1st GF left me for another guy 2 years ago... I emotionally broke down. I got high off caugh syrup, I cut myself, I even tried to kill myself a few times. Met a new girl, that relationship didnt even last 6 months because of my paranioa... Im finally back on my...
    Krie Krie
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2015

    I Don't Want It...

    I don't want to idolize anyone and put them at a god-like status. I don't want to lose sleep and lose eating over anyone anymore. I don't want to feed anyone's ego like that. I don't want to give myself to one person because my friends need me. Doing all of this insane stuff is...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    11 Responses Feb 17, 2011

    I Am Afraid of Love

     Today I just a significant realization. I do not know exactly when it hit me just how much I fear it. I have even come to conclude that romantic love has the smallest of possibilty if any to exsist or at least the type of love: till death do us part type of love. Some...
    Bella10 Bella10
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2008

    Am I The Only One?

    So I find that, whenever there is a girl that i'm getting to know and we're both interested in each other, I always tend to make myself so readily available. Anything that i'm doing pretty much comes to a stop the moment that person calls me. It feels like i'm practically killing...
    cYdeFXt cYdeFXt
    26-30, M
    Jul 9, 2013

    I Found The Way Out

    yeah i was afraid till i said baby i will hurt for u , i want to feel every pain for u, and i did i do i will you cant break me in that i become a rock ill take all your pain you can have my my love and eternal amazement and thats all, my everything for your pain. im not afraid...
    verndewd verndewd
    1 Response Dec 6, 2012


    I used to want to find someone, get married, have children, and live happily ever after. I still ADORE love stories, both movies and books, but I can't fathom it in real life. I have never dated or anything as of 21 years in May. I am afraid that someone will find out all my...
    OfADifferentColor OfADifferentColor
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 23, 2013

    so i push people away.

    friends, potential boyfriends. i don't get it
    nicecreamdream nicecreamdream
    16-17, F
    Dec 12, 2015

    I'm not afraid of love,

    I don't believe in it.....you're my soul mate, the love of my life, always thankful God brought us together....all bs....all love is is chemicals firing off in your brain to make you feel euphoric when you meet and start a relationship...when that dies down...you're stuck...
    luvhimtoo luvhimtoo
    41-45, F
    Dec 29, 2015

    I'm Glad I'm Not the Only One

    wow I really thought I was the only one who was afraid of love. I am almost 21years old and every single one of my friends is married. They got married at 17, 19, & 20 years old. I have about 13 friends who all got married this young. All of them convinced that they found...
    missadventurer missadventurer
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Aug 11, 2007

    Fear of the unknown. It’s a vexing quality

    that nearly every person seems to possess. It’s a fear that has stifled the lives of all that have known it. I’m certainly no exception. Though the great unknown that has wreaked havoc through my imagination is the same unknown that poets and plebeians alike have...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2014

    people tell me I'm afraid of love

    but honestly I don't really think I am I just think it's a really big word with a hell lot of meaning and it comes with risks and it's just not my style not something I feel you know? I don't think I've ever even felt it
    sadmistak3 sadmistak3
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    This may sound silly

    but I am very afraid of the first time I will get a *******. Now this isn't because I am not confident in my size it's because I am not circumcised. I am afraid that the the girl about to go down on me might be too freaked out and that thought scares me. First post so please be...
    blackestice12 blackestice12
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    What Am I Afraid Of?

    It's funny in a not so funny way really. I've always been grateful that my life was far from clichéd, but now I'd like for nothing more. I guess the grass really is greener on the other side. Love is a foreign concept to me. Not in all ways, don't get me wrong. I would take a...
    skyye6 skyye6
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2013

    That Fear Has Multiplied

    I use to have some fear of love in the past, tho it was never as bad as I may have expressed it to be at the time. I was kind of getting over it and i met this guy who just made me feel so loved. It felt so good to just express all that love I had built up in my heart just...
    Krie Krie
    Aug 15, 2013

    Not because love is a bad thing.

    In fact it's beautiful and amazing! Yet, I'm still afraid. Afraid that when I give myself, my entire being, mind, body, heart, soul, my everything!!!..... I will be surrendering all my doubts....and my doubts are all I have. They are my protection. My shield. My walls that hold...
    Joselyn2 Joselyn2
    26-30, F
    Feb 10, 2014

    There's going to be a chance

    where you might meet someone who's going to change the sight of everything. After everything has come through, the change won't be the same. Having a heart broken is the most difficult challenge to overcome because once a person catches your eyes, the thought of getting hurt or...
    18-21, M
    May 3, 2015

    Wow ...:)

    With an explosion every thing rocked I am finished but I wonder if a splinter fell on your back yard what will I be labeled.. Black magic woman..isn’t so?who weaves spell,create magic dreams with alchemist of mystery. Creating an intoxicating feeling where you feel drown and...
    trappedwings trappedwings
    26-30, F
    Nov 14, 2013

    Have we forgotten how to love?

    Sometimes I think it's so. Lives so full, too busy for matters of the heart. Lives too full of goals, expectations. And you spend all of your life trying to fill the shoes of that airbrushed model, that Barbie doll... You forget the purpose of other people. To be loved, to love...
    undermybed undermybed
    16-17, F
    Jan 27, 2014


    Well, im kind of afraid. Im only 13 and all, but hey... im afraid of love. I tell my friends that all the time. The person i love might break my heart or something, that wouldnt be nice.So, yup thats why im afraid of love... :)
    wolfbeliever wolfbeliever
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2013


    I am afraid because if there is such a thing as love, it sure can cause a whole lotta pain.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    6 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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