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I Am Afraid of My Boyfriend

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    Love Though

    I am... But I love him soo much though.. It's complicated.. I don't like to be yelled at or when he gets mad at me.. But I still love him! He's my everything.. He's all I got! :)
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I Am Afaid of My So-called Boyfriend

    I am afraid my boyfriend may beat me to death the next time, he gets angry. He has already tried kicking in my front door, and he broke his foot in the process, but he sent me threating letters, and called several times. He has got a mean temper, and I am afaid of what he might...
    swatches swatches 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2007

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    Is This The End?

    Im 21 with a one year old baby and a 20 year old boyfriend. When i was pregnant he use to play games and once i remember wanting to sleep and i told him to move so i can sleep amd it gpt him mad because he was playi g and socked my legs. Another time after the baby was born i was...
    Moni20rhs Moni20rhs 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Transparent.

    He's the first that I can't read. He's the first that can see right through me, even when I have my mask on. I get scared when I can't hide... perhaps I'm not meant to? ... Perhaps I'm afraid it will end like it did the last time, even though he is trying to show me that he's...
    lntel lntel 18-21 1 Response Feb 6, 2012

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    Future Abuser?

    My boyfriend for a year now has a short temper. He plays football so he is kinda big and really fast. The slightest thing like me talking to my best friend who happens to be a male will set him off for the rest of the night. When he gets angry at me for not wanting to talk he...
    MissMia8 MissMia8 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    Silent

    I'm terrified to disagree with my boyfriend about fairly serious matters. When he gets mad, he raises his voice and it scares me. He's really physical so I'm always scared he's going to hit me. The guy I was with before was abusive and my current boyfriend knows that, but he...
    WastedWhiskey27 WastedWhiskey27 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    ITS BAD

    WELL I DONT NO WERE TO START SO IM JUST GOING TO START WHEN HE GOT OUT OF JAIL WELL HE BEATS ME EVER DAY HE PUT ME DOWN SO MUCH I TRYED TO KILL MYSELF ITS SO BAD THAT I CANT GO NO WERE WITHOUT HIM IM TRYING TO GET OUT AND I CANT AT NITE HE LOCK US IN THE ROOM SO I CANT GO NO WERE...
    princessdavis princessdavis 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    I Am Afraid Of My Boyfriend

    I've never "really" seen him be violent, nonetheless i am fearful of the things he could do and the way he treats me escalating. He makes me "earn" quality time and deprives me of sexual pleasure unless i do what i'm told. I've told him he was hurting me before and he only grabs...
    anniedank anniedank 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    Uwarranted Or Cautious

    I am a survivor of domestic vioence. My ex tried to kill me whe I left. He actually tried to cut my throat in the middle of downtown at lunch time while hundreds were passing by. He was supposed to be in jail for violating the restraining order. My bruises and black eye...
    evolvutghiL evolvutghiL 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Not Sure If Abused, Nowhere2 Go W Kids

    Last year i got seriously beat up...brusies in my arms and between my legs. He is off the drug he was on back then... The other day I said something he didnt like and he head butted me so hard i have been hurting a few days now. At the time he was holding me down and i did bite...
    scared2talk scared2talk 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Shy

    I was sexually abused as a child. My mom wasn't and still isn't someone I can confide in. My fiance gets mad if I decline sex. He easily raises his temper. When he's mad he's loud and he'll break thinks or punch walls. He one time punched me in the face. I feel different than...
    daisy4688 daisy4688 26-30, F Nov 20, 2013

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    i need a very strict sex master make me horry

    but i wont be showing my self only dirty rough talks please order me make me work :* order me be rough and violent waitingg:*
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2013

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    Should I Stay? But What If He Hits Me...

    My boyfriend has a short temper. He's never laid a hand on me but throws things at the wall when he gets really angry. Lately he's been irritable, starting fights over silly things like me not wanting to go get breakfast when we're on a tight budget saying that I'm trying to...
    c7gallop c7gallop 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Whats wrong with me? My boyfriend has never

    ever laid a finger on me and claims he never actually would but i constantly think he will. Strangely though I am extremely shy handed around him. In the past he has told me about him thinking about it, and i have slapped him once ( then bawled and apologized). He does get...
    nonamedchick nonamedchick 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    My boyfriend was out of town on the day of my birthday, when he got back (two weeks later) he promised he would make it up to me. So i agreed and he planned this whole night and it...
    HashtagBells HashtagBells 22-25, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriends graduating from boot camp tomorrow, I'm sooo proud of him for sticking it through it :) I really want to be there tomorrow, since it's only a 5 an half hour drive...
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a while now. He's my first 'real' boyfriend. I moved in with him about 3 months ago.. I'm finished school and thinking about joining the...
    LovelyJay5232 LovelyJay5232 16-17, F Jul 17

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    My boyfriends brother is almost 40 living with us, has no social life and is always trying to get attention. He constantly interrupts us while we are talking as if he has...
    lightbulbjane lightbulbjane 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I crave the deepest connections with others, yet I'm too afraid to let anyone in. I love to socialize, I love to make friends, and I have a boyfriend. But that true connection has...
    laurennhem laurennhem 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    boyfriend emotionally/verbally abusive. cheated again tonight. just want to be happy again but afraid of being alone
    Stoller Stoller 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I love my bf. He doesn't control me or take advantage of me , unlike other men. He let me do whatever I want whenever I want and he never complain any of them.. He has given me...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to improve my boyfriend's self-esteem. Half of his battle is he doesn't think too highly of himself. He is a very intelligent guy...
    nicolem84 nicolem84 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm turning 22 next week, and I'm yet to have my first boyfriend. I'm not sure exactly why it hasn't happened by now, although I'm beginning to develop some theories. I think that...
    mblake mblake 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    I enjoy being with my boyfriend but he is afraid I will leave again. I left bc he couldn't meet my needs he asks for me back and I have it a chance but when I tell him what I want...
    starrynights23 starrynights23 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I just want someone to be with. I want a relationship. I want to cuddle someone. I want someone who understands me. a someone who always is there for me. I want someone to love me...
    camelunicorn camelunicorn 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My boyfriend :( i'm young nd knoe one day we gonna brake up nd it hurts me alot to even think about it. It makes me wanna get pregnant just for us to stay together for ever i dont...
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I feel this way everyday. It makes me sad when I see everyone around me so happy and in love. I am 23 and have never had a serious boyfriend. Never been loved romantically, or been...
    livingmemory livingmemory 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 17

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    I'd love a guy to cuddle up with, if he lives far away, I'd love him to fly over just to see me, a guy between 14& 16.. Maybe 17- no one that constantly wants sex or dirty pictures...
    Jodiii14 Jodiii14 13-15, F Jul 18

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    My boyfriend and I met a few days before I had to leave to work abroad for 5 months. We fell right into love and have been connected and happy for the past 3 and a half months...
    firefly2610 firefly2610 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    First off, thank you for reading, and thank you for your feedback. I'm having a crisis and need your input. I was born and raised in Orange County, CA, and I always felt like I...
    roseblush roseblush 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    DAKOTA my name is Jeremy. I'm 14 gay and I was Dakotas bf. Many don't know me because I was afraid to come out of hiding. I was raped by my mom bf and have only know pain. Dakota...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I am afraid of being rejected like I'm afraid of being open about my fetish. It's a terrifying experience when I think I'm gonna be rejected to the point that I won't do certain...
    ILF777 ILF777 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Almsot a month ago, I met a guy I fell in love with. I usualy don't let my self falls in love so deep... It was like he was my dream guy. I found out he wants me too.. And we made...
    evgeniaEv evgeniaEv 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I genuinely fear that I am destined to never find love. Yeah I'm still young, I know that, but to have never even had a boyfriend and to have been let down by males on multiple...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I mean I know I'm young, I'm only 18 but I've never been on an actual date and have never had a boyfriend...I just hope my future will be different!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For some reason, I have become afraid of almost everything. I'm afraid of eye contact, and I am afraid to speak up in public. Wherever I go, I can't help but feel afraid. Whenever...
    PastaPyro567 PastaPyro567 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Everything around me is falling apart...we all live in fear...When you live In a war zone everything else looks insignificant ...I live in iraq...I have watched so many people die...
    ffdp84 ffdp84 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't know what to do. I live with my boyfriend, we've been together since February. I don't have the means to secure housing if I leave. I love my boyfriend very much, he's like...
    pandess pandess 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I feel like I have so much to lose. I keep so many memories locked away and would consider myself a pack rat of good times. I write down things that make me laugh and things that...
    Anticloud Anticloud 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm afraid of getting close to others or having a new best friend because my best friend died over a year ago. Not only that, I have had lots of friends who have died. Others, I...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jul 18

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    For various reasons: I'm afraid of child birth, I'm afraid of raising them wrong and not being able to care for them properly, and when I'm being honest with myself, sometimes I'm...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have an intense fear of rejection. I've reached the point where I don't even try to make new friends because I'm afraid if they don't like me then they'll judge me or make fun of...
    CJHall1234 CJHall1234 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Let my start off by saying that I'm a Christian and I am gay. I live with both my parents and my younger brother and I have a dog. I've been dating a guy for the past 2 months. We...
    jowaymedina jowaymedina 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I'm 16 now and I never had a boyfriend. I never kissed a boy and feel really ashamed because of that. My best friend is just the same- but just 2 days ago she told me she had a...
    sunflower321 sunflower321 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    This was the closest "experience" I could find that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm at the gym right now. I love in an extremely small town and I always come to the gym around nine with my boyfriend because we usually have it all to ourselves. Today, though...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not sure whether it's just me but I find myself really limited in what I can do and how I socially interact with people because I'm afraid of what they'll think of me and how that...
    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I just never ever been afraid from dying as it is life as no one stay alive forever, right!. I just saw a lot of funerals in my life and lost a lot in my 35 years as my life been...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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