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I Am Afraid of My Boyfriend

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    Not Sure If Abused, Nowhere2 Go W Kids

    Last year i got seriously beat up...brusies in my arms and between my legs. He is off the drug he was on back then... The other day I said something he didnt like and he head butted me so hard i have been hurting a few days now. At the time he was holding me down and i did bite...
    scared2talk scared2talk 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Is This The End?

    Im 21 with a one year old baby and a 20 year old boyfriend. When i was pregnant he use to play games and once i remember wanting to sleep and i told him to move so i can sleep amd it gpt him mad because he was playi g and socked my legs. Another time after the baby was born i was...
    Moni20rhs Moni20rhs 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Should I Stay? But What If He Hits Me...

    My boyfriend has a short temper. He's never laid a hand on me but throws things at the wall when he gets really angry. Lately he's been irritable, starting fights over silly things like me not wanting to go get breakfast when we're on a tight budget saying that I'm trying to...
    c7gallop c7gallop 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Silent

    I'm terrified to disagree with my boyfriend about fairly serious matters. When he gets mad, he raises his voice and it scares me. He's really physical so I'm always scared he's going to hit me. The guy I was with before was abusive and my current boyfriend knows that, but he...
    WastedWhiskey27 WastedWhiskey27 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    ITS BAD

    WELL I DONT NO WERE TO START SO IM JUST GOING TO START WHEN HE GOT OUT OF JAIL WELL HE BEATS ME EVER DAY HE PUT ME DOWN SO MUCH I TRYED TO KILL MYSELF ITS SO BAD THAT I CANT GO NO WERE WITHOUT HIM IM TRYING TO GET OUT AND I CANT AT NITE HE LOCK US IN THE ROOM SO I CANT GO NO WERE...
    princessdavis princessdavis 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Shy

    I was sexually abused as a child. My mom wasn't and still isn't someone I can confide in. My fiance gets mad if I decline sex. He easily raises his temper. When he's mad he's loud and he'll break thinks or punch walls. He one time punched me in the face. I feel different than...
    daisy4688 daisy4688 26-30, F Nov 20, 2013

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    I Am Afaid of My So-called Boyfriend

    I am afraid my boyfriend may beat me to death the next time, he gets angry. He has already tried kicking in my front door, and he broke his foot in the process, but he sent me threating letters, and called several times. He has got a mean temper, and I am afaid of what he might...
    swatches swatches 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2007

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    Whats wrong with me? My boyfriend has never

    ever laid a finger on me and claims he never actually would but i constantly think he will. Strangely though I am extremely shy handed around him. In the past he has told me about him thinking about it, and i have slapped him once ( then bawled and apologized). He does get...
    nonamedchick nonamedchick 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Uwarranted Or Cautious

    I am a survivor of domestic vioence. My ex tried to kill me whe I left. He actually tried to cut my throat in the middle of downtown at lunch time while hundreds were passing by. He was supposed to be in jail for violating the restraining order. My bruises and black eye...
    evolvutghiL evolvutghiL 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Future Abuser?

    My boyfriend for a year now has a short temper. He plays football so he is kinda big and really fast. The slightest thing like me talking to my best friend who happens to be a male will set him off for the rest of the night. When he gets angry at me for not wanting to talk he...
    MissMia8 MissMia8 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    I Am Afraid Of My Boyfriend

    I've never "really" seen him be violent, nonetheless i am fearful of the things he could do and the way he treats me escalating. He makes me "earn" quality time and deprives me of sexual pleasure unless i do what i'm told. I've told him he was hurting me before and he only grabs...
    anniedank anniedank 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    Transparent.

    He's the first that I can't read. He's the first that can see right through me, even when I have my mask on. I get scared when I can't hide... perhaps I'm not meant to? ... Perhaps I'm afraid it will end like it did the last time, even though he is trying to show me that he's...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Feb 6, 2012

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    i need a very strict sex master make me horry

    but i wont be showing my self only dirty rough talks please order me make me work :* order me be rough and violent waitingg:*
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2013

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    Love Though

    I am... But I love him soo much though.. It's complicated.. I don't like to be yelled at or when he gets mad at me.. But I still love him! He's my everything.. He's all I got! :)
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I came out of two very abusive and manipulated relationships. I had bad dating experiences and now I am scared for life. I honestly, do not want to DATE ever. I do get lonely at...
    Elizabethgl7302 Elizabethgl7302 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    This is my first time. Any dominant men maybe my boyfriends age. He's much older then me. You can message me. I need some tips on how to be good and what is ok for my boyfriend to...
    EllaBella2 EllaBella2 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    This past year has been a huge step for me. I went on dates for the first time in my life, and I learned how to open up and be more social. This year I had the chance to start 2...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F Sep 12

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    Umm. Looking for some advice and thoughts on this. Quicknotes: I'm a first time "prison girlfriend". There are zero doubts about me standing by my man, he's amazing and I love him...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I'm honestly scared to death right now. I am 21 years old. I have a minimum wage job that is part-time. My boyfriend is struggling with his job searches. I already took a pregnancy...
    smilesunshine011 smilesunshine011 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend. He's just too scary. He screamed and yelled at me and called me horrible names. He accused me of sleeping with all the men in my apartment...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    What I'm going through at this moment I nobody understand, me and my boyfriend is going through a hard time now, he was force to resign from work and was told that he took some...
    cielotasha cielotasha 31-35, F Sep 1

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    Because of something bad happening to me. There was a time when I trusted everyone, but now I don't trust anyone. It might be, because I have been taken advantage of by women and...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I was very afraid to speak my mind up until this morning when I was being spoke down to by my ex boyfriend. I was so scared to tell him how I really felt but now I feel better for...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F Aug 28

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    I am 20 years old and never had a real girlfriend. I am so afraid I will never find a girl and will be alone for the rest of my life and die a virgin. I do try to find a girl, in...
    Jimmi2000 Jimmi2000 18-21 1 Response Aug 31

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    I had established a perfect balance in my life after finally recovering from the depression my last relationshit (4 years) left me in. New job, getting my bachelors, happy and...
    jsaenz3 jsaenz3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm Colin and I love my bf Trevor. We're both 14 in 9th grade. I want to share a story of extreme fear and sadness. Don't worry. It has a happy ending. However, for a while, I was...
    anotherkid anotherkid 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 3 years. It's been a crazy *** ride. A lot of hurdles to overcome, between abuse on my part...
    kavlynn99 kavlynn99 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    its so weird to me to see guys. like they are aliens lol. i have never had a boyfriend and im afraid it wont happen. all bcus of how i look
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Hi there. My name is Marin and I am in a dilemma of my life. I have recently accepted to be friends with my ex, who I deeply care and love for. I wish for him to move on, but...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F Sep 6

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    So I am kind of rekindling with my ex of 6 years (well, we did try to reconnect 3 years ago but that didn't work out and then we had limited contact for the last 2 years). He lives...
    yellowtrees yellowtrees 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
    ekc5198 ekc5198 13-15 Sep 9

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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
    ekc5198 ekc5198 13-15 1 Response Sep 9

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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
    ekc5198 ekc5198 13-15 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm terrified of the future. I feel as if my boyfriend will resent me and I'll be a terrible mother. I have no idea how I'll pay for college and keep up with all the work. I love...
    noavailablenames noavailablenames 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    I am so very afraid of my boyfriend. It all started when I met him. I met him online. Yeah there is a lot of stigma against meeting people online but I had met other people and...
    naturlista10 naturlista10 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    It's become apparent to me, the only girls who tell me "you're cute" or "you'd make a great boyfriend" or anything like that. Are the girls who are taken. Obviously because they...
    Moonlight150 Moonlight150 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I don't have parents..I just have an aunt and grandma who live in a disgusting mess filled house and smoke all the time. I am 38 weeks pregnant and I have regretted it every day...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    Sometimes he can make me happy just with a simple hello. I've always been afraid of men because of what these boys did to me my whole life. But this one isn't so bad... I might see...
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F Sep 7

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    " my whole life I've been telling myself don't be afraid and it is only now that I am realizing how stupid that is. Don't be afraid is like saying don't move out of the way when...
    rachnixon rachnixon 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    In about a year I'll be turning 18. The best thing about turning 18 for me is being able to date men! I've always hated dating boys my age. Why? Because they are immature, can't...
    BLVLFreeSwim BLVLFreeSwim 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So afraid he's gonna flip **** on me because I didn't have internet for 4 days ;-; #LoveYouCody<3
    CodysBoy CodysBoy 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've been dating this guy on and off for about 2 years now. And during that time we broke up twice, first time because he moved away and I ended up having a fling with another guy...
    Sorasai Sorasai 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I heard about EP and I thought it might help me, because nothing else has. I'm currently 16 years old living in Matthews, North Carolina. I've always been the kind of kid that put...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's scary because I never wanted to be that girl that had millions and billions of boyfriends before she got married I didn't and still don't want to break others hearts or have...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am not afraid to let go. I am not afraid to cut negative people out of my life. I am not afraid to love myself because you failed to do so. But I am afraid of never feeling the...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F Aug 26

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    I am afraid of dieing without someone. I am afraid to be tortured. I am afraid of my only family member left dieing. I am afraid I will be stupid. Last but notleast I am afraid of...
    ginny1q1q ginny1q1q 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Usually people who are afraid of falling in love are those who were left down by their boy/girlfriend. I'm this kind of persons who broke up in a relationship. I had 4 relationship...
    otoumie otoumie 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Before I start this, I want to say that I know that this shouldn’t upset me as much as it does. The problem is my boyfriends’ brothers’ girlfriend (my boyfriend and his...
    faithtrustandpixiedust faithtrustandpixiedust 22-25, F Aug 27

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