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I Am Afraid of My Boyfriend

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    Whats wrong with me? My boyfriend has never

    ever laid a finger on me and claims he never actually would but i constantly think he will. Strangely though I am extremely shy handed around him. In the past he has told me about him thinking about it, and i have slapped him once ( then bawled and apologized). He does get...
    nonamedchick nonamedchick 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Should I Stay? But What If He Hits Me...

    My boyfriend has a short temper. He's never laid a hand on me but throws things at the wall when he gets really angry. Lately he's been irritable, starting fights over silly things like me not wanting to go get breakfast when we're on a tight budget saying that I'm trying to...
    c7gallop c7gallop 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Future Abuser?

    My boyfriend for a year now has a short temper. He plays football so he is kinda big and really fast. The slightest thing like me talking to my best friend who happens to be a male will set him off for the rest of the night. When he gets angry at me for not wanting to talk he...
    MissMia8 MissMia8 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    i need a very strict sex master make me horry

    but i wont be showing my self only dirty rough talks please order me make me work :* order me be rough and violent waitingg:*
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2013

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    Is This The End?

    Im 21 with a one year old baby and a 20 year old boyfriend. When i was pregnant he use to play games and once i remember wanting to sleep and i told him to move so i can sleep amd it gpt him mad because he was playi g and socked my legs. Another time after the baby was born i was...
    Moni20rhs Moni20rhs 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    I Am Afaid of My So-called Boyfriend

    I am afraid my boyfriend may beat me to death the next time, he gets angry. He has already tried kicking in my front door, and he broke his foot in the process, but he sent me threating letters, and called several times. He has got a mean temper, and I am afaid of what he might...
    swatches swatches 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2007

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    Not Sure If Abused, Nowhere2 Go W Kids

    Last year i got seriously beat up...brusies in my arms and between my legs. He is off the drug he was on back then... The other day I said something he didnt like and he head butted me so hard i have been hurting a few days now. At the time he was holding me down and i did bite...
    scared2talk scared2talk 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Transparent.

    He's the first that I can't read. He's the first that can see right through me, even when I have my mask on. I get scared when I can't hide... perhaps I'm not meant to? ... Perhaps I'm afraid it will end like it did the last time, even though he is trying to show me that he's...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Feb 6, 2012

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    Uwarranted Or Cautious

    I am a survivor of domestic vioence. My ex tried to kill me whe I left. He actually tried to cut my throat in the middle of downtown at lunch time while hundreds were passing by. He was supposed to be in jail for violating the restraining order. My bruises and black eye...
    evolvutghiL evolvutghiL 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    I Am Afraid Of My Boyfriend

    I've never "really" seen him be violent, nonetheless i am fearful of the things he could do and the way he treats me escalating. He makes me "earn" quality time and deprives me of sexual pleasure unless i do what i'm told. I've told him he was hurting me before and he only grabs...
    anniedank anniedank 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    Love Though

    I am... But I love him soo much though.. It's complicated.. I don't like to be yelled at or when he gets mad at me.. But I still love him! He's my everything.. He's all I got! :)
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Silent

    I'm terrified to disagree with my boyfriend about fairly serious matters. When he gets mad, he raises his voice and it scares me. He's really physical so I'm always scared he's going to hit me. The guy I was with before was abusive and my current boyfriend knows that, but he...
    WastedWhiskey27 WastedWhiskey27 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    ITS BAD

    WELL I DONT NO WERE TO START SO IM JUST GOING TO START WHEN HE GOT OUT OF JAIL WELL HE BEATS ME EVER DAY HE PUT ME DOWN SO MUCH I TRYED TO KILL MYSELF ITS SO BAD THAT I CANT GO NO WERE WITHOUT HIM IM TRYING TO GET OUT AND I CANT AT NITE HE LOCK US IN THE ROOM SO I CANT GO NO WERE...
    princessdavis princessdavis 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Shy

    I was sexually abused as a child. My mom wasn't and still isn't someone I can confide in. My fiance gets mad if I decline sex. He easily raises his temper. When he's mad he's loud and he'll break thinks or punch walls. He one time punched me in the face. I feel different than...
    daisy4688 daisy4688 26-30, F Nov 20, 2013

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    I am 15 and I never had one. I spent the last two years head over heels for this boy in my grade. This summer I moved to England and the boy I like has a girlfriend now. So I just...
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    Im terribly afraid of dying alone not because I can't attract women i have met lots of girls that like me but I'm too cold hearted to like them back. There was this one girl who I...
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    I am afraid of love. Love is scary :( i hope someday i will meet someone who will help me overcome that fear :/
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    Hi. I know this is really stupid and complicated, and I'm sorry for being so upset for seemingly no reason, but I sort of have a problem. It's barely a problem at all, I know--I'm...
    MysteryMe110 MysteryMe110 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 5

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    Hi, I'm jay I been a little lonely lately I don't really be lurking for boyfriends or whatever seems like I been holding so I thought I should look for one so guys snapchat me...
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    Im a gay 15 year-old and would like a boyfriend or/and have a gay experience. I do prefer blonde slim males from 13-19 years old so message me if your interested
    danfield1836 danfield1836 13-15, M 13 hrs ago

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    I am a gay 16 to year old guy looking for a boyfriend. Please message me if interested.
    JNye8798 JNye8798 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    I hate that I argue a lot with my boyfriend when were chatting, but when were together everything is great and then we never argue. But then the problem is, we chat a lot, so when...
    liana10 liana10 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend just left to Texas for BMT... He called me once to tell me he sent me a picture of the mailing address... But it was so quick I didn't get to speak... Or tell him I...
    Yumalaii Yumalaii 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend. I have lost interest and found someone better. I don't want to cheat, so I had to break up with him. I did love seeing him everyday, but it's...
    BrieezyMusselwhite BrieezyMusselwhite 13-15, F 58 mins ago

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I want my first boyfriend to be my last boyfriend and I want him to be my first husband and last husband. He doesn't have to be perfect. All I ask is that he loves me and that he's...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend. He's just too scary. He screamed and yelled at me and called me horrible names. He accused me of sleeping with all the men in my apartment...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been hurt several times, once in particular that actually hurt me badly, and now I had a dream about my boyfriend being on a app talking to other girls, I don't know if this...
    naydinexx3 naydinexx3 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Because of something bad happening to me. There was a time when I trusted everyone, but now I don't trust anyone. It might be, because I have been taken advantage of by women and...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I was very afraid to speak my mind up until this morning when I was being spoke down to by my ex boyfriend. I was so scared to tell him how I really felt but now I feel better for...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I am 20 years old and never had a real girlfriend. I am so afraid I will never find a girl and will be alone for the rest of my life and die a virgin. I do try to find a girl, in...
    Jimmi2000 Jimmi2000 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I had established a perfect balance in my life after finally recovering from the depression my last relationshit (4 years) left me in. New job, getting my bachelors, happy and...
    jsaenz3 jsaenz3 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So, I'm 15, gay and single. I've had boyfriends before, but they were like long distance relationships so I don't really count it. Don't be afraid to message me.
    RaysNightmare RaysNightmare 13-15, M Aug 2

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    I am gay and I would like to have a boyfriend. my name is criss. don't be afraid to talk or ask me a question
    Hello1284 Hello1284 13-15 4 Responses Aug 15

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    My ex abused me physically, mentally, and sexually. He would grab my arms so hard he left bruises, and there was one day I remember he tried to crush my head into the seat of his...
    kaikins kaikins 18-21 1 Response Aug 19

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    I just need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 3 years. It's been a crazy *** ride. A lot of hurdles to overcome, between abuse on my part...
    kavlynn99 kavlynn99 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    its so weird to me to see guys. like they are aliens lol. i have never had a boyfriend and im afraid it wont happen. all bcus of how i look
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have a problem where when I drink too much sometimes I get aggressive. I've done it to my parents and an ex before but nothing like I do to my current love. In the year we've...
    laurendimitra laurendimitra 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
    natmariesa natmariesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I got rejected by my own (ex now ) boyfriend , infront of his friends he denyed us dating and introduced me as his friend
    rastaakitty18 rastaakitty18 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    It's become apparent to me, the only girls who tell me "you're cute" or "you'd make a great boyfriend" or anything like that. Are the girls who are taken. Obviously because they...
    Moonlight150 Moonlight150 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't have parents..I just have an aunt and grandma who live in a disgusting mess filled house and smoke all the time. I am 38 weeks pregnant and I have regretted it every day...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not afraid to let go. I am not afraid to cut negative people out of my life. I am not afraid to love myself because you failed to do so. But I am afraid of never feeling the...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I am afraid of dieing without someone. I am afraid to be tortured. I am afraid of my only family member left dieing. I am afraid I will be stupid. Last but notleast I am afraid of...
    ginny1q1q ginny1q1q 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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