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I Am Afraid of My Boyfriend

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    Not Sure If Abused, Nowhere2 Go W Kids

    Last year i got seriously beat up...brusies in my arms and between my legs. He is off the drug he was on back then... The other day I said something he didnt like and he head butted me so hard i have been hurting a few days now. At the time he was holding me down and i did bite...
    scared2talk scared2talk 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Silent

    I'm terrified to disagree with my boyfriend about fairly serious matters. When he gets mad, he raises his voice and it scares me. He's really physical so I'm always scared he's going to hit me. The guy I was with before was abusive and my current boyfriend knows that, but he...
    WastedWhiskey27 WastedWhiskey27 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Uwarranted Or Cautious

    I am a survivor of domestic vioence. My ex tried to kill me whe I left. He actually tried to cut my throat in the middle of downtown at lunch time while hundreds were passing by. He was supposed to be in jail for violating the restraining order. My bruises and black eye...
    evolvutghiL evolvutghiL 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Love Though

    I am... But I love him soo much though.. It's complicated.. I don't like to be yelled at or when he gets mad at me.. But I still love him! He's my everything.. He's all I got! :)
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I Am Afaid of My So-called Boyfriend

    I am afraid my boyfriend may beat me to death the next time, he gets angry. He has already tried kicking in my front door, and he broke his foot in the process, but he sent me threating letters, and called several times. He has got a mean temper, and I am afaid of what he might...
    swatches swatches 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2007

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    ITS BAD

    WELL I DONT NO WERE TO START SO IM JUST GOING TO START WHEN HE GOT OUT OF JAIL WELL HE BEATS ME EVER DAY HE PUT ME DOWN SO MUCH I TRYED TO KILL MYSELF ITS SO BAD THAT I CANT GO NO WERE WITHOUT HIM IM TRYING TO GET OUT AND I CANT AT NITE HE LOCK US IN THE ROOM SO I CANT GO NO WERE...
    princessdavis princessdavis 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Is This The End?

    Im 21 with a one year old baby and a 20 year old boyfriend. When i was pregnant he use to play games and once i remember wanting to sleep and i told him to move so i can sleep amd it gpt him mad because he was playi g and socked my legs. Another time after the baby was born i was...
    Moni20rhs Moni20rhs 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Future Abuser?

    My boyfriend for a year now has a short temper. He plays football so he is kinda big and really fast. The slightest thing like me talking to my best friend who happens to be a male will set him off for the rest of the night. When he gets angry at me for not wanting to talk he...
    MissMia8 MissMia8 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    Transparent.

    He's the first that I can't read. He's the first that can see right through me, even when I have my mask on. I get scared when I can't hide... perhaps I'm not meant to? ... Perhaps I'm afraid it will end like it did the last time, even though he is trying to show me that he's...
    lntel lntel 18-21 1 Response Feb 6, 2012

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    Should I Stay? But What If He Hits Me...

    My boyfriend has a short temper. He's never laid a hand on me but throws things at the wall when he gets really angry. Lately he's been irritable, starting fights over silly things like me not wanting to go get breakfast when we're on a tight budget saying that I'm trying to...
    c7gallop c7gallop 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Whats wrong with me? My boyfriend has never

    ever laid a finger on me and claims he never actually would but i constantly think he will. Strangely though I am extremely shy handed around him. In the past he has told me about him thinking about it, and i have slapped him once ( then bawled and apologized). He does get...
    nonamedchick nonamedchick 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    i need a very strict sex master make me horry

    but i wont be showing my self only dirty rough talks please order me make me work :* order me be rough and violent waitingg:*
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2013

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    Shy

    I was sexually abused as a child. My mom wasn't and still isn't someone I can confide in. My fiance gets mad if I decline sex. He easily raises his temper. When he's mad he's loud and he'll break thinks or punch walls. He one time punched me in the face. I feel different than...
    daisy4688 daisy4688 26-30, F Nov 20, 2013

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    I Am Afraid Of My Boyfriend

    I've never "really" seen him be violent, nonetheless i am fearful of the things he could do and the way he treats me escalating. He makes me "earn" quality time and deprives me of sexual pleasure unless i do what i'm told. I've told him he was hurting me before and he only grabs...
    anniedank anniedank 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    Im afraid of rejection because i know its going to hurt my pride. I like this guy so much. Ive been honest with him. But later on i noticed when we talked it was boring. There...
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    I haven't been in love with someone in years. I'm afraid that if I love someone, then I will get hurt again. I know that it's life, people love & get hurt, but I just want to...
    DreamofKatt DreamofKatt 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I've never let myself get to a stage that I can be rejected because I'm afraid of how I will feel afterwards. I'm also too polite to reject someone
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    My boyfriends mom died about a week ago. We live together and thI go have been stressful since her passing. I didn't know her very well but I feel like her spirit is irritated at...
    KaitlynnW KaitlynnW 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hi. I know this is really stupid and complicated, and I'm sorry for being so upset for seemingly no reason, but I sort of have a problem. It's barely a problem at all, I know--I'm...
    MysteryMe110 MysteryMe110 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 5

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    So I dated him for 3 months I only dated him cause I had just gotten out of a long relationship and the guy I broke up with didn't want anything to do with me didn't even talk to...
    kaylaDem kaylaDem 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost 2 1/2 years.. He is 18 years younger than me and I was skeptical at first! He came in where I work and told me he saw me...
    kimmie1972 kimmie1972 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years, And the first time I laid my eyes in him in gym class I knew he was the one. It was definitely love at first sight...
    kis96 kis96 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Not all of his family. Just one particular member. -.- Sadly, this member means the most to him. His uncle is a sociopath, I'm not just saying that. He was told by a medical...
    XxSweetxSuffocationxX XxSweetxSuffocationxX 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I want my first boyfriend to be my last boyfriend and I want him to be my first husband and last husband. He doesn't have to be perfect. All I ask is that he loves me and that he's...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I've been hurt several times, once in particular that actually hurt me badly, and now I had a dream about my boyfriend being on a app talking to other girls, I don't know if this...
    naydinexx3 naydinexx3 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    So, I'm 15, gay and single. I've had boyfriends before, but they were like long distance relationships so I don't really count it. Don't be afraid to message me.
    RaysNightmare RaysNightmare 13-15, M Aug 2

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    I am gay and I would like to have a boyfriend. my name is criss. don't be afraid to talk or ask me a question
    Hello1284 Hello1284 13-15 4 Responses a week ago

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    My ex abused me physically, mentally, and sexually. He would grab my arms so hard he left bruises, and there was one day I remember he tried to crush my head into the seat of his...
    kaikins kaikins 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Almsot a month ago, I met a guy I fell in love with. I usualy don't let my self falls in love so deep... It was like he was my dream guy. I found out he wants me too.. And we made...
    evgeniaEv evgeniaEv 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I genuinely fear that I am destined to never find love. Yeah I'm still young, I know that, but to have never even had a boyfriend and to have been let down by males on multiple...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I mean I know I'm young, I'm only 18 but I've never been on an actual date and have never had a boyfriend...I just hope my future will be different!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I have a problem where when I drink too much sometimes I get aggressive. I've done it to my parents and an ex before but nothing like I do to my current love. In the year we've...
    laurendimitra laurendimitra 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
    natmariesa natmariesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I got rejected by my own (ex now ) boyfriend , infront of his friends he denyed us dating and introduced me as his friend
    rastaakitty18 rastaakitty18 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am afraid of being rejected like I'm afraid of being open about my fetish. It's a terrifying experience when I think I'm gonna be rejected to the point that I won't do certain...
    ILF777 ILF777 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    For some reason, I have become afraid of almost everything. I'm afraid of eye contact, and I am afraid to speak up in public. Wherever I go, I can't help but feel afraid. Whenever...
    PastaPyro567 PastaPyro567 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Everything around me is falling apart...we all live in fear...When you live In a war zone everything else looks insignificant ...I live in iraq...I have watched so many people die...
    ffdp84 ffdp84 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Hi guys in need of some advice about my boyfriend and the relationship he has with his sister. Myself and my boyfriend have been together for just under 3 months, although have...
    angrykid123 angrykid123 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I have an intense fear of rejection. I've reached the point where I don't even try to make new friends because I'm afraid if they don't like me then they'll judge me or make fun of...
    CJHall1234 CJHall1234 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm afraid of falling in love. Nothing can ever end well when two people are in love. I'm afraid my heart will be broken,shattered. I want to live life because it's so short.sh...
    itsgemma01 itsgemma01 13-15, F Aug 8

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      I want a boyfriend, I can go to and wrap my arms around him. I want a boyfriend I can go to and seek comfort to. I want a boyfriend I can go to and lay my head on his...
    ooohhhjerry ooohhhjerry 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    All the "friends" I have are locked up in a mind set that was set before them by their parents, religion, television, and sex appeal. They wouldn't dare hit their parents if they...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Alright! I have a boyfriend and we got engaged unofficially last week. But.. the problem I've faced is.. I have a friend who falls in love with me. He knows I have a boyfriend. I...
    BenzitaMckinley BenzitaMckinley 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    So, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. His brother who is 25 and his girlfriend how is 30 have been together a little longer. She is UN-BEARABLE! She's from a "new money...
    Zexy129 Zexy129 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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