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I Am Afraid of My Ex

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    Because He Might Kill Me - That is why I am afraid of MY ex. I met this guy during my first year in community college and fell hard for him, even though he was 12 years older...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    My Ex - It was about six years ago. Really, I got off pretty easy compared to what a lot of women go through. I know he hit me some, but I was never injured. I don't even really...
    emilytx92 emilytx92 18-21, F Mar 14, 2013

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    Debate Club - All my friends are his friends and I can never have anything. He's so popular and in a lot of clubs but one he wasn't in was the one I really wanted. I joined it. My...
    whispywind whispywind 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Crazy Meets Psychotic - The relationship was my own fault -- I moved to a small town without a strong support network, let down any good judgement and allowed my vulnerabilities...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 25, 2010

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    He Scares The Hell Out Of Me - When I was 14 I dated a guy who seemed to be really nice. After a few weeks he became obsessive. He would call me 15-20 times a day wanting to know...
    k12291987h k12291987h 22-25, F Oct 26, 2011

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    What Do I Do?? - I can never seem to find a good man ever since I lost my first husband.  To start my story I got married young, and had two children. I was so happy for so long...
    lostgirl1978 lostgirl1978 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    I Just Wanna Go On W/ My Life! - Okay so, I left this guy a year ago now, it took me five YEARS to leave but I finally was able to do it. Ive run and lived on the street,, gone to...
    Jesuswalkswitme Jesuswalkswitme 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    3 Years Later, And I Still Have Nightmares - He never raised a hand to me. Never physically hurt me. If anything he was as honest as a psychopath can get I guess. I still...
    Zaxzia Zaxzia 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    Scared - I think it runs on fear. The whole thing. His whole modus operandi is getting what he wants through making people fearful of him. As I type this, I am afraid. I made a...
    Jan 14, 2013

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    Lovers to Strangers - There was a point in my life where i'd do anything for a woman i had completely fallen in love with. But then things got sour;feelings of doubt and worry came...
    jackofspades jackofspades 22-25, M Jul 13, 2009

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    Just Left And Scared... - Two days ago I left the apartment that I shared with my partner without telling him my plans, I had told him a few months previously that I no longer...
    Homeworker Homeworker 22-25 2 Responses May 3, 2012

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    Mostly I'm Afraid of Myself With Him -   I'm afraid that if he comes back here, apologizes & says he's changed.... I'll take him back. I'm afraid that he's planning this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    I'm not just afraid of a guy rejecting me, although I am. I am also afraid of my friends and family rejecting me and I feel like they already are. I am always afraid to arrange...
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    I'm afraid of losing my father , not least because he is family, but also because I did not want to lose it all , I love my dad , but I love my mom too, both are the best we have...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I've been pushing away. I do like some guys, but when they actually take on the urge to ask me out. I get scared, afraid. So i reject them on the spot regardless if i hurt them or...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I do adore people who are not afraid to share their true feelings and emotions about things. I have always been someone who has always had a hard time sharing my thoughts and...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I am afraid to talk to people. I am afraid that this is the wrong place to talk about the real me. Most of all, I am afraid to sleep. I spend all of my time in the room...
    mm60907 mm60907 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Know Thyself.me was just scrolling through the experiences here and accidentally joined in. Did try to leave the group with the hope to read the message - "We are sorry for You...
    mejj mejj 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    I am afraid that I'll end up alone. I have loved and been loved. But sometimes love just isn't enough. Not when you push that person away... When you push them away so much that...
    maraselene maraselene 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    BRAVO! Nothing worst than someone conforming to peer pressure and being like "sisters" by copying and being exactly like their friends - imitating the same behavior and do what...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am afraid of the dark. Although I'm not exactly sure why, I have two theories. The first is because of the things that have happened to me in the dark. Things I'd rather not say...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am always afraid of hurting those who I care about, and those who care about me. I am always afraid that I am going to do, or say something that will hurt them, that is why I...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I've been so afraid of messing up my life, I've forgotten that it is okay to do exactly that in life. I've been putting unnecessary pressure on myself. Judging myself too harshly...
    anom33 anom33 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    i am so terrified to have kids. my husband really wants us to make kids now. and my mom and his mom are pressing on me. i'm 30 years old. i am supposed to want children like any...
    pro0ject pro0ject 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    They say you have to love yourself and being alone with yourself before you can truly appreciate life and love other people. I have been stuck in an unhappy relationship for two...
    narwhal92 narwhal92 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I get intense feelings that turn into anxiety/panic attacks every time I think about dying. And it's over the silliest of things, I could be looking down at my hands and just...
    boyda12 boyda12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have had my heart broken more like shattered. I spent eight years of my life loving someone unconditionally...all to find out he didn't love me back. I gave him my heart and he...
    Angela1989 Angela1989 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    It's been almost an hour since I received the news of my grandma about her health. My family and I have known few months ago her health has gotten worst and the doctor said she has...
    raldy raldy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I am very much afraid of ending up like my parents. Now don't get me wrong, I had the most amazing mother in the world, and I'd give my last drop of blood to have her back, but she...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A woman who is afraid of driving – the men would chuckle amongst themselves, and other women would tsk-tsk for me living up to the stereotypes (Don't you just hate that? Getting...
    EmmaLong EmmaLong 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I am afraid of becoming an alcoholic. Its a main reason why I try not to drink so much. When I lost my daughter, I did not handle it the best way. Instead of turning to my friends...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I think death should be embraced. I don't think it's death people are afraid of, I think it's the circumstances; humans hate pain. I'm actually hungry for the knowledge to know...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 21

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    Okay, my mother and I have amazing relationship. We kid a lot and we have lots of fun. However, on thursday she got the stomach flu and I'm afraid of getting near her. She asked me...
    otr73 otr73 22-25, M Mar 22

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    I feel like when I go to sleep I won't wake up, but half the time that is what I want. I am just afraid it will actually happen.
    reneeswims reneeswims 13-15, F Mar 24

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    First. I get swelling lymph nodes behind my left ear. And at first they're a bit soft but then it gets harden over times and so one of the doctor i went to thought it was my bone...
    rizafinley rizafinley 16-17, F Mar 25

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    90% of the time, I am afraid of people. I do not allow myself to get close to a lot of people, because I am always worried about getting hurt by people. I have learned over the...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I am DEATHLY afraid of Roller Coasters! I can't even look at one without panicking. I have only ridden one, once in my life that I can remember, I was young, and was at Hershey...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    For most of my life, at least as far as I can remember, I've suffered from horrifying night-terrors. I have PTSD resulting from childhood trauma and nightmares are a side-effect of...
    thisangelslife thisangelslife 31-35, M Mar 28

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    I feel like people will judge me harshly. That they might think that I am boring. I am also afraid of them leaving me and not being my friend anymore. That really makes me sad.
    butterflyhearts17 butterflyhearts17 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Sometimes I have the feeling that my entire life has already been planned for me, as though I woke up from some dream and I'm living a life that someone had already created. I ask...
    Kyle200 Kyle200 22-25, M Mar 29

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    I always think love happens more often when you least expect it…Love is a powerful emotion…and it is great to be in love! But so many of us spend our lives with walls built...
    19Mariya77 19Mariya77 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Look, everybody says it's easy and such, and yet.. I'm quite afraid. I have never had surgery or any complicated thing about my health, so I'm just scared. Well, it's called...
    00Wieme00 00Wieme00 16-17, F Mar 31

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