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I Am Afraid Of Never Being Truly Loved

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    I Am So Damn Stupid! I So Hate Myself!!!! - my friend arranged a date for me a couple of days ago, i have clearly mentioned to her that i am not really looking for fun, and if i am...
    chrissySerimoh chrissySerimoh 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    Is It Irrational? - I know everyone finds their one true love, but what if I never find mine? What if I never find the man who can love me and want to spend his life with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Last Time - On the first day of English class she drew my attention. A little later in the quarter we were in some groups together and we started talking. Eventually we started...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 21, 2007

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    I'm Not Good Enough To Be Loved. - Who would love me? I'm insecure, jealous at times, I over think and over analyze everything, and I care too much about people who could give two...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Will You Ever Love Me the Way I Want You To? - Sometimes I wonder if my girlfriend does love me. Sometimes it feels like she doesn't. But I can never know how she really feels, I...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    Im Tired - Guess I'm looking for a way to vent I wish I could be where I would like to be. Happy. I'm stressed I love my family but feel like I hate my mother. I hate my father for...
    mividatusuerte mividatusuerte 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    Always Crushing, Never The Crush - I was thinking about it today and realize that I always have a crush on a guy. I never had a guy crush on me. All the guys I crush on I always...
    truthfulness truthfulness 22-25, F May 2, 2013

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    Not For A Million Years... - Never would I have ever thought of myself in this situation. It's crazy. I'm so afraid of anyone seeing me. for some reason scares the hell out of me...
    MorbidMyst MorbidMyst 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I Am Afraid .... - of never knowing the truest feeling love has for my heart, let alone my mind. the creation of self-doubting certainly questions every single possible emotion l...
    cyclemania cyclemania 51-55, M Mar 16, 2013

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    I Think About It a Lot.. - I hope my fear is not my destiny.  
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2008

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    Loveless In California - I have never really felt loved by anyone. i have been married 3 times and never really felt loved in any of the marriages.   I havent ever really...
    hard1 hard1 66-70, M 7 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    I had love, nearly 3 years of it with a girl I called my soulmate, but she broke up with me this Christmas, and I'm dreading that ill never have that feeling again
    Chris220292 Chris220292 22-25, M Feb 12

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    Different Types, All Bland - To start off, I'd like to say that my life is missing a puzzle piece, if you will, that begins my story. I'm adopted. And that makes me wonder...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 17, 2012

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    Emotional Shut Down - i feel creeped when a guy shows interest on me! love equal pain!!! now i reject any man who likes me as a way to protect my heart from being hurt again I...
    Germine Germine 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    Can't Happen To Me - i've seen it happen to almost everyone else...but not me. in 30 years, i've never found anything close to love. men have treated me horribly or have been very...
    cassandra88 cassandra88 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2012

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    Venting And Hurting For Love - I don't know if its because I' am emotional right now or lonely, but I' am ready for love. Where is my prince charming. I afraid of being alone the...
    truthfulness truthfulness 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    I Wonder If I Lost All The Love I Ever Had - i wonder if that will ever happen in my life again, not haven much family , not really haven friends, WHY? i was happy with my own...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    You Can Never Know.. - I mean it's impossible to know what the future brings, so there is the possibility that nobody ever truly loves me. But, on the other hand, chances are at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Love Me, Love You. - Since my ex broke up with me about a year ago, I've been affraid of never finding true love again. We were together for about 3 years and I loved him so much...
    MillieTheMonster MillieTheMonster 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    I Believe She Truely Love Me - When I was very young but strongly believe my girlfiend and I were truely in love, but she was taken away from me by Cancer. Then again I fell in...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2011

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    It Is a Fear - I have a huge fear of never really being Loved. It is something that I have feared for a long time. I guess it isebcause I never have been Loved for me. And I always...
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    All We Need Is Love - When I was younger, I didn't believe in love at all. I feel the world we live in is too selfish. The last couple of years I realized love does exist. There...
    TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    So Afraid I'll Never Experience It. - I have never had a boyfriend (except for one boy in the 10th grade. He turned out to be gay, and he only dated me to convince people that he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I Don't Love Myself Enough - I don't, and this has to stop. I am not going to live my life like a victim any longer.  This is why I won't ever be truly loved, because I don't...
    someday2012 someday2012 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    Why?? - Why does every guy I get with hurt me? Do I have a sign that says HURT ME PLEASE!! I don’t think I do but it seems to be that way. I hate that. Why can’t they just...
    DarkAngel0309 DarkAngel0309 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Women Love To Hear Lies That's Why We Never Learn. - Women never learn they just keep on making the same mistakes over and over again but each time in nicer ways.
    iambless08 iambless08 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    What Am I Doing? - This weekend I was talking with my boyfriend about marriage. He said that he would never marry me. I asked him what we were doing together he said he didn't know...
    UpTownGirl UpTownGirl 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    Uncharacteristic - It's hard for me to admit. I like to see myself as an independent type who needs no one else, but the truth is that I year for somebody to love me, even if it's...
    AttackedByMonsters AttackedByMonsters 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    It Seems Impossible - it is impossible to imagine, i have felt joy and elation but to feel truly loved i think will never happen. it just seem appropriate to my life sometimes i...
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 1 Response May 2, 2008

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    My Own Doing... - I am too loving for most, who are afraid to love. I want to be "in love" with those who can't join me in the feeling. A wise man once sang "...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2008

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    I'm kind of scared of love because I may never find it
    UltimateGamer11 UltimateGamer11 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm Scared And Confused.. - I'm confused. Extremely confused. Just the situation and my feelings are confusing I started to get to know this guy who's actually my brother's friend...
    Soulartgirl Soulartgirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I Just Don't Know - Ive made a ton of mistakes and I've had my heartbroken. I can see problems in others relationships and I'll know the solutions too. But when it comes to my...
    Awt33356 Awt33356 16-17, M Sep 30, 2012

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    Love: Come Out Come Out Where Ever You Are - i seem to be on this path of falling for men that are not really into me and have no real interest in me. its hard for me to meet...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2010

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    An Epiphany- How God Works And What Could'Ve Been. - So I just had an epiphany. Have you ever really took the time to sit and evaluate your life? Took the time to look at where you...
    sweetiepoo sweetiepoo 22-25, F Feb 11, 2013

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    Help Me God! - I think my mother's boyfriend has a gun... I fear greatly, that my Mother's boyfriend has a gun. Now, I fear even greater that the Indian National woman who killed...
    HoneyFromTheSkySolAngel HoneyFromTheSkySolAngel 26-30, F Oct 22, 2013

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    ................................. - Its a true and honset fear i have like im scared to death to trust guys in general i have some good male friends that are slowly reminding me...
    Tawny26 Tawny26 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    No One Likes Me - Ok so people like me but one is my friend like 1st grade and the ether one is just a retarder just date me or txt me at 7036226935
    Sexy1012 Sexy1012 13-15, F May 2, 2013

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    To Mr Man.. - You are the sun in my rain The center of my pain You make me happy like in adverts And desolate as the deserts Being with you is like Riding on a rollercoaster At...
    Sephira7 Sephira7 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Why Can't She Just Love Me? - Why can't she see how much I love her and need her? I've asked that question in my head a million times over our 21 years of marriage. Why can't she...
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 5 Responses May 1, 2012

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    The Walls I Have Built Around Myself - I've been divorced for 10 years, I've dated off and on in the past 10 years. And I'm not sure if I have just not met "the one" or I had my...
    BKind2me BKind2me 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2010

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    Do I Not Feel Anything Anymore? - I had my heart broken once.. And when I think about it, I don't know how to feel about it. The story is long and it keeps playing in my head like...
    scarletoak scarletoak 22-25 Oct 29, 2012

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    I Am Afraid Of Never Being Truly Loved ...How Do Let Someone IN?!!! - It was so beautiful today .It was so warm and the wind was blowing softly and the the air was so fresh .I was...
    AsAlwaysAlone AsAlwaysAlone 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    I don't know why, but I've always had this problem. I mean, whenever there's someone I really like, and they say they love me back, there's always a voice in the back of my head...
    BeautifulNightmarex BeautifulNightmarex 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I'm Not Sure I'm Afraid, But I Am Disappointed, Because I Don't Think I Will Be Truly Loved. - I feel this way about romantic relationships, but also in pretty much all my...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    Or Rather, Afraid Of Letting Myself Be Truly Loved - I just came to the realization: I am truly loved. And I don't think I'm afraid of never being truly loved.. I'm afraid of...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    This Ranks As One Of My Greatest Fears - I have been with men in the past few years but I have never had a solid, stable, long term relationship with anyone. Sometimes, it worries...
    Fall123 Fall123 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2012

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    I Am So Hurt - I feel cheap. I feel like a *****. Here I am wearing your boxers and your t-shirt...and there you are saying you don't know if you love me anymore. I feel so...
    beautifuleyes13 beautifuleyes13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I Am Afraid of Never Being Tru... - I am afraid of never being truly loved because I've experienced being cheated on... That feeling hurts, but I know I'm strong enough to face...
    cloudiastrife cloudiastrife 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2007

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    Never Gonna Happen - I´m at work, I look out the window and see a couple, walking across the street. They just got married, they look so happy.. Will I ever have that? I dont see...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    I Liked Someone - I just needed to get this out! :) I liked a guy for years now... I wonder if he knows I went to his primary school, im in high school now. I never told anyone i...
    Viviensan Viviensan 13-15, F Oct 29, 2012

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    More Afraid Everyday - I'm nineteen years old, I've never experienced any kind of love. Emotionally, Physically have never been loved. And everyday I get closer to death and I just...
    SithLady SithLady 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2008