Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am Afraid of Rejection

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47,791 People

    Cause it really hurts.

    And I know deep inside I have a deeper meaning why
    Althea12 Althea12 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was madly in love with someone

    for 2 years and all they ever did was reject & lie to me and like a fool I kept going back because I was in love....I stayed and I got hurt by them more and more until finally enough was enough. That was my first heartbreak and I never want to experience that again but sometimes...
    jadacharlene jadacharlene 13-15, F Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's not that I'm "afraid of rejection"

    [anymore]. It's more like I dread the thought of the idea. When I do feel rejected, that's when I get stuck in my head with my thoughts. A very dangerous thing because my own voice in my head is not always the nicest thing. Rejection always hurts the most when it's people or...
    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ayumipamyurin ayumipamyurin 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never posted anything on a blog

    or forum because I've feared it wasn't good enough or was pointless. I've spent night after night online for years and read from many others but this is my first. It feels good to have a voice finally.
    DragonSkittles DragonSkittles 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    flyguy3326 flyguy3326 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    like, too much! it has come to a point

    where i don't even want to start anything, and by anything i mean anything, i don't even want to have a new cat or something because sometimes i feel like they're rejecting me too! c-c-crazy~ all living things will just going to reject me in the end, and although i know it well...
    yayforKay yayforKay 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When I was younger, I was always rejected,

    every man, every girl. many men used me, many females treated me like a worthless piece of trash. Every day I would go to school fearing what would happen next, would my heart break more? Would someone else hate me? Look at me like a misfit. But then I met the man of my dreams...
    jamiedoe94 jamiedoe94 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This! This is my biggest fear of all

    when it comes to my social anxiety. I can't take being rejected. It kills me inside. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough. :( It makes me too afraid to form new relationships with people. In the back of my mind I'm always thinking about how they're going to reject me any...
    asariblue asariblue 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its a bery bad feeling

    and i have faced that quite at times . Hbu?
    Ashley99906 Ashley99906 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm scared that my friends will leave me

    and that i'll be left alone.
    shelbysinx326 shelbysinx326 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am sick of rejections,

    it makes me feel like I am NOT good enough for anyone!!!!! I do not want to be UNEMPLOYED or SINGLE forever!!!!!!!! Damn it!!!!!!
    WantingToSettleDown WantingToSettleDown 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Some people reject me.

    ..y?because i am gay?
    georgeKim georgeKim 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I know my husband loves me,

    but I want him to be proud of me. It hurts so bad when he's upset at me. I feel like I've let him down.
    Rclife Rclife 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I chanced upon this site (app) today

    and am so excited. I am in desperate need to find a group of friends to interact with ... and also a companion maybe. But where do I start ? I am not into club scene and I have become very lazy and unmotivated. I just Lee hoping that someone will drop down from sky,
    melancholia1970 melancholia1970 41-45, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am afraid you will shut me down,

    push me away tell me "I Love You Baby" only to leave again the next day..... I am lonely.....wanting you to Love me like we used to for so many years, and hours as moons would fade into the nights and the sun would shine bright we Loved every day and night, held each...
    Andielee Andielee 31-35, F 11 Responses Feb 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yesterday I finally built the courage to

    message the cute guy I used to have in a class on Facebook. I wasn't even expecting him to reply & it ended with us planning a road trip to California in the next couple of weeks, and he also asked me if I wanted to go shooting with him sometime (I had posted a status about how...
    rangek rangek 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I been rejected by many boys in my life.

    They would always said 'I think you as friend only, 'Maybe next time', 'I don't love you'... So I promise myself not to confess to any now. When I'm was in school I received many love letters from other boy but the one I want to receive from, never shown.
    MinnieJung MinnieJung 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Either I didn't specify

    or she didn't get the message either way she hit me with the friend thing ?????? but I guess even if I did specify more she still would have done it but oh well ?????? Now I guess I can move on
    Chaco1 Chaco1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i am always friendly

    and nice to people and it hurts me when they are not nice back
    teechme teechme 70+, F 5 Responses Sep 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Rejection can hurt in a way nothing else can,

    and recovery from it is nearly as bad.
    cdchrystal cdchrystal 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every morning my heart puts on a mask to hide

    what's real. Because we've learned that it feels better to fear in loneliness then to be rejected again for our openness.
    KariAlex KariAlex 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Jacob, 18 years old

    and have a pathological fear of rejection. From about the age of 9, my parents - especially my mum - would compare me to other kids in my class. She thought, and was right about the fact that I was smarter than most of the kids my age. I just didn't put any effort in because...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 8 Responses Oct 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    heroineX heroineX 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I miss him so much even

    though he was a jerk to me. I want to text him hi but I feel like he wouldn't respond back... Should I just go ahead?
    LexiK88 LexiK88 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Today, I went to see my therapist

    for the first time. She walked up to me and I looked up and saw she had dwarfism. She seated me down, and after a few questions, she asked me "You're too scared to talk to people? Why?". It was at that moment I realised how stupid I had been to think the problem I had with my...
    Rainex Rainex 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know what it is with me,

    i have a massive amount of self doubt in my self. It bundles down to many things, shyness, confidence, not a lot of practise, my standards are to high? And end in all, i can not suffer the thought of being rejected. henceforth i have never had a girlfriend. Nor know how to get...
    slskerman199 slskerman199 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Due to painful relationships i've had,

    I have developed a fear of rejection. I have always had a higher self control of my feelings. But the fear to get rejected has turned me into quite a antisocial person. I don't even let an idea of beautiful develop in my head when I see a girl because I feel like I am not worth...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This is a silly thing to fear.

    I'm 39 years old, a veteran of two wars, and all sorts of other things that ought to make me fearless. Still, I'm afraid of rejection. It isn't rejection itself that hurts the worst. If someone doesn't like me, I tend not to take it personally. I'm not perfect, not even close...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate it when people tell me know without a

    reason it makes you feel a bit unwanted x
    courtney10155 courtney10155 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Anytime I message someone online

    and they never answer a piece of me dies and I question who I am as a whole. Js
    isuckatthisstuff isuckatthisstuff 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have always been rejected by girls,

    i could never get the chance to taste this aspect of life and now i am 26, boom
    ipulkit ipulkit 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate my life. This is my only outlet.

    I have no one to talk to. I don't have any friends and I am ostracized. The problem is, I don't know what I did to deserve this. I am always kind and friendly to people. I never talk bad about anyone because it's wrong and not who I am. I make myself as approachable as possible...
    Om3awaken Om3awaken 16-17, F 11 Responses Sep 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I haven't had a girlfriend

    since I was in the 7th grade and I only went out with her for 2 weeks and we never talked anyway. I feel like im almost afraid of women that im attracted to who are also interested in me. In hs there was a girl who I was obsessed with and I know she liked , me too because she...
    green555f green555f 22-25, M 14 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm terrified of being deemed 'unworthy' i'm

    reasonably attractive and friendly so on the surface I attract guys' attention. But i'm picky, not purposefully , rarely do I feel that chemistry with a guy, only when I do, its never reciprocated. They're special to me but I'm not to them. It hurts me everytime. It puts me off...
    marsbarzzz91 marsbarzzz91 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lol I don't know where to start.

    I don't start relationships for this reason. I just don't like the feeling of being unwanted. I've been rejected before, but the craziest part is that it's usually by people who wanted me in the beginning. It seems like as soon as people think they have me they disappear from my...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I CAN NOT deal with rejection people.

    My fiancee just moved out last month..didn't even see it coming. He moved 2 hours away & has barely talked to me...for the most part he totally ignores me....my texts, phone calls, e-mails. He KNOWS how much I hate being ignored...the whole rejection thing, but he's doing it...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    We're all scared of being rejected.

    Of that one person who we hold so close to our hearts will turn around and walk away. That's the moment where we feel so hopeless. We can chase after them...grab them and make them stay with us. But in the long run does that ever really work? Here's the truth....you can't make...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm scared of being rejected of

    who I am because of my past and flaws :(
    Alexxxx96 Alexxxx96 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My friend never believes me

    when I tell him the amount of times a girl has told me they don't date fat guys. He thinks I'm just trying to make an excuse for not talking to women at the mall, or wherever else we hang out, so he laughs at me, calling me a wuss. He has a girlfriend, and he gets so much...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Oct 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    tumty tumty 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Rejection ... It crushes you

    or gets you excited. I get crushed by being rejected, but then I get excited. I don't like rejection for one reason only. It gives me Permission to not Give A ****. Rejection is negative but truthful. You honestly have to ask, why am I being rejected to understand fully. For...
    wastedglory wastedglory 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just stretched my septum piercing!

    Come check out the video & my YouTube channel! www.YouTube.com/1996Ashley
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want somebody to love me the same way I

    imagine myself loving them. Is it really that difficult to find!
    N1C07A5 N1C07A5 22-25, M 7 Responses Oct 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hi. I know this is really stupid

    and complicated, and I'm sorry for being so upset for seemingly no reason, but I sort of have a problem. It's barely a problem at all, I know--I'm just blowing it way out of proportion--but I can't help but at least ASK for some support. Okay, first off, I'm a fifteen-year-old...
    MysteryMe110 MysteryMe110 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lately I have been thinking about telling this

    girl how I really feel about her but I'm afraid what she will say when I do. If she says yes OK and if no OK but its what happens after that because we are really good friends and I'm afraid if I say something it may ruin our friendship because last time I did that I literally...
    Chaco1 Chaco1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Jaielll Jaielll 18-21, F 14 Responses Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate when people don't

    even bother to try and know me. They just stay in their exclusive cliques and categorize not just me, but anyone as someone "not worthy" to talk to. I tend to be shy meeting new people because of experiences and expectations like this. ****** me off because I'm not quiet when I...
    Sapphirebee27 Sapphirebee27 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ever since I was a little girl I have not been

    afraid of darkness, monsters, or burglars, but social rejection. It started in the sixth grade. My family made a big move and I faced the challenge of a new school. The first day I went to school, I wore a bright pink turtle neck and teal capris with butterflies on them. As I...
    RubyAnaBelle RubyAnaBelle 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When i'm rejected I feel disliked

    and unwanted. However, when I've rejected people it was honestly in their best interest because I wouldn't appreciate them, i would be constantly looking over my shoulder for someone better which is really messed up. I'm just going to automatically think that being rejected is...
    Emeraldteo Emeraldteo 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My biggest thought on being rejected is "you

    are all beautiful and unique, if the person you like doesn't like you back or says no it's their loss not yours. They don't know what they're missing out on" so the next time you get rejected just know that that person lost an awesome gal/guy
    AllisonLuvsMusic AllisonLuvsMusic 16-17, F 1 Response 16 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel