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I Am Afraid People Hate Me

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    I Know That People Hate Me

    when i go anywhere people will always move away from me or just ignore me its always been the same since i was young so now expect to hated and detesded where ever i go you get used to it
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    The Old Memories That Can't Let Go

    From the 1st grade, I felt insecure, for some reason my classmates bullied me and I had no guts to say something to them, to protect me. I started to hate them, I felt the injustice. WHY? WHY? WHY that happened to me... I felt angry and tired of the same everyday routine which...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F Jan 3, 2012

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    Your Too Loud

    I hear that soooo much, I am sick of it! Yes, I have a loud voice...GET OVER IT!
    CaseyGwynn CaseyGwynn 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Oh Well, I Hate Most of Them Too

    No, in reality, I don't hate people.  In fact, I'd do anything for anyone.  However, what I DO hate is when people are rude or obnoxious or snobbish--that I cannot stand.  In my eyes, all people are basically the same, and that's what originally motivates me to...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2008

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    Oh, Definitely

    First of all the icon for this group is so sad. I want to hug that poor little girl & tickle her til she laughs. Goodness.   Second, I'm definitely scared people hate me. I always think they think I'm weird, dumb or unintelligent and most certainly unfunny. It scares...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    I am constantly seeking everyone's approval.

    Always trying to look the right way, weigh the right number. Trying to be this person that everyone wants me too be. I hate it when I dissapoint someone, it physically hurts.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Hate Me

    I am not at all afraid people hating me.  It is life, not everyone will be my fan. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 17, 2011

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    Nah! I love it when people hate me!

    Because they'll do anything the possibly can to ruin my life, when it's already ruined! XD
    BodiesOfTheUnknown BodiesOfTheUnknown 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    The Part of Me....

    Ever since I was a child, I was hated... not wanting to be. I wanted to be loved, just like everyone else was. I had bullies all the time and zero friends. People often told me to "GO AWAY!" and threw rocks at me... And this is when I developed Social Anxiety. My first...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2009

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    It Was Raining And Everything ...

    My little sister has had her license for about a year, I just got mine this summer. We're supposed to share her car, an old '93 Saab hand-me-down from our older brother (more rust than car). So she takes me out to learn to drive a manual. I break the car. I'm not talking stall it...
    4Daereen 4Daereen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2010

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    i am a 23 yr old women who has TMAU, i feel like my life is over & it just began. i always am alone in fear of what people will say or smell if i get around them. my relationship has been put to the test in everyway you can think of & i feel so alone at times. My family always...
    newty1989 newty1989 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2012

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    Insecurities

    I had a friend at varsity who wouldnt walk past large groups of people cause she was convinced everyone was talking about her. Maybe that is a bit extreme but I can kinda understand it. I am constantly worrying about what other people think of me and usually I put a negative spin...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2008

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    To Loud and to Scaried...

    For my whole life. I hated the feeling of being alone and unwanted.... And part of my life i have been really loud and really as you can say 'annoying' I sometimes go home, after crying on the bus atleast ten minutes because someone kept on picking on me just because they dont...
    xXvampschildXx xXvampschildXx 16-18, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    I Am Now A Perfectionist.

    Ever since I was a child, people would always exclude me from things. Like at school I would be part of the popular group of friends but on the weekends I was always home. I was always afraid people were talking about me because my personality is louder and I am talkative...
    llamanation llamanation 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2010

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    ...

    I'm just paranoid I guess, but I always think people are talking about me, looking at me, judging me, and ultimately hating me. I always feel like I say or do the wrong things, even on EP. Its getting better now, but I went through a brief period of thinking all but a few on EP...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    Trapped

    I always think people just tolerate me, nothing more. I hate starting conversations, even with friends, because I am absolutely terrified they are just putting up with me and wishing I would go away. Even with my best friends, I feel like I am bothering them when I want to talk...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    It's Kind of Ridiculous

    I've always been afraid that people hate me. I overreact to so many little things. I've always thought if people didn't talk to me, that they have to hate me. Or if they talked to me before but don't now, oh, they have to hate me. It's even started bothering me on the Internet...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Too Much To Say

    Sorry for mistakes in this text! Can anyone tell me why is it so hard to be say what you think. In conversation It's so hard for me to say even a word. In the past, I could normally take part in any conversation and didn't give it too much thought. Well. I noticed this: I'm...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    uhhidk uhhidk 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Gawd :/ I seriously thought I was the ONLY one

    who felt this way. I am ALWAYS thinking that people secretly hate me. Even my friends. I always worry that they are just being friends with me, to make things easier. I guess I am just a bit paranoid about myself I guess. I just always feel like I am being judged, and hated for...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 27

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    Always Scared

    I know where it stems from.  I pigeon holed myself ages ago, and my assumption has been that if I was not liked at school then it will apply in adulthood. That's not the case though, people like me but I have this invisible barrier up that only a few people seem to get...
    Oregano Oregano 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2008

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    Tmau

    Im scared everytme i get close to friends and they found out i have tmau (fish odor syndrome), some would insult me or would use i against me when we argue..so I would always please them or I would just agree with them all the time to avoid arguments.. i've been bullied during my...
    tmausufferer tmausufferer 26-30 3 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    I Don'T Understand...

    I try to be that girl. That girl who is kind, laughs all the time, and makes jokes. I 'smile' hoping that it's all okay. Sometimes I wonder, you never know what people actually think about you. I'm ugly. I know that. But what else? It can be a petrifying thought. Do they hate me...
    soccer33 soccer33 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I am a huge people pleaser.

    If I don't please someone or I disappoint, I fall into a deep depression. I am terrified of doing the wrong thing.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I Have This Fear Specially In Ep

    Because of the cultural difference. I'm very interested in other cultures, it's a legit interest, and I usually ask people to explain something to me, and they tend to be sometimes aggressive. I don't know if I don't express myself well, but I try to be as nice as I can...
    AnnLee AnnLee 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    HELP!?

    My boyfriend just broke up with me over a text msg. in 2 words.We had been dating for 2 and a half months. He was 18 and I am 14, he isn't a good guy he has brought beer to school after he stole it and he has cheated on all his gf but me...but I can't help but feel...
    hopingforlove hopingforlove 13-15 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    Don't Want to Think About It

    But I try not to focus on such a negative. It's like celery. Who wants to think about how celery has negetive calories? Nobody, especially not me. I just move right on to the chocolate and forget it. Well, try to, It sometimes creeps up at me and takes a bite, but I battle my way...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Feb 1, 2008

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    I Feel So Lonely

    I feel kind of weird writing this, but at the age of 25 I feel as if I have only two people in my life - my partner and my friend K. Everyone else seems to hate me, or, and this is almost worse, just be indifferent to me. I don't know what it is but I just seem to upset people...
    Velvet25 Velvet25 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Work

    I started working in a hair salon recently that I had worked in a few years before. A girl that was working there immediately saw me as a threat, she is  a white girl that would be called a WIGGER, not even by me, but by society. I have always tried to be nice and at least...
    heatherly1 heatherly1 46-50 2 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    I'm Afraid To Be Hated

    This is my biggest fear. I'm not afraid of dying, be killed, kill, swim, spiders, to fly or anything else, but I'm afraid to be hated. And I do whatever the other people want to see or say what they want to hear so I won't be hated. I never realized this (until this night) but it...
    BlueDogAr BlueDogAr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    So, today I started being a sociopath. I did not set out to start being one; I accepted that I was one last night, and it just kicked in immediately. I did not need to think...
    sosheyo sosheyo 41-45, F Aug 19

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    It's just so you know why do they hate them
    Midnightthetimberwolf Midnightthetimberwolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    LETS NOT FORGET TO MENTION THE RIDICULOUS HIGH COST OF LIVING IN FL COMPARED TO THE REST OF THE SOUTHERN STATES; NOR SHOULD WE AVOID THE FACT THAT'S HARD TO FIND A PLACE TO LIVE...
    AmericanTravlr AmericanTravlr 41-45 1 Response Aug 3

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    The atrocity of certain acts make of -hating- a provisional solution. But, hating, is just a relief to a superficial symptom of a serious chronic disease.
    tomnes tomnes 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    So, I heard that the Seniors at our school are mad at the Freshmen for cheering louder for the Juniors. Let me explain, the Seniors and the Freshmen have this sort of "Big Sis...
    Jdalgara14344 Jdalgara14344 13-15, F Aug 8

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    Life is something to be shared, to be shared with the ones you care about the most. Your peers and colleges, friends and family, they all love and respect you. They have your back...
    Mojo51 Mojo51 16-17, M Aug 16

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    :L Me and my step brother have had a very complicated relationship (romantic/s*x*al) in the past, but it stopped (please look at my other posts for further details on that)Anyway a...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    To be honest I find it superfluous aussies or anybody branding themselves as such behind keyboards attack those who complain or state they hate Australia. A lot of people hate...
    Woqr Woqr 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    People hate me except for the ones who get to know me I'm pretty fuccking grossed out by bitter people on here before you abuse hate many grow up some first. I don't care what...
    KINGofclowns KINGofclowns 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    in my opinion, life is a complex subject that many don't understand. A happy life is what you choose to be, and how you choose to be it. A lot of u hate your life for whatever...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M Jul 29

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    I don't understand how can people hate other ppl...
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Growing up an only child my pets were my best friends as no one wanted to be my friend. Ive never been let down by animals. People always let me down. I always get used by people...
    thebestjess thebestjess 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm the oldest of the 4 children and as you can tell its never good. Many people claim that the oldest child is always the favourite and has respect. Well no , its not true , the...
    alice2456 alice2456 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm the oldest of the 4 children and as you can tell its never good. Many people claim that the oldest child is always the favourite and has respect. Well no , its not true , the...
    alice2456 alice2456 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am curious, why do you people hate fat people?
    jdoe1234567 jdoe1234567 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    As I prepare to type this, I realize that most of this story results from me being an analytical, clingy Teenage girl. Yet, It's a relevant problem to me and I want to get it off...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    Favor ? Help? Are they both the same? Most would say No but for some it may feel like asking for help is asking for favors. But there's a difference if we see it differently...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    That's how I cope up with stress. People hate that I disappear and run away from my problems. That's not the case however. I just isolate myself to gather myself together and think...
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    Before I start, please know I try to do all I can to be a great mom to my SD. I am involved with her school/ activities, homework, I take her places, make her meals, buy her...
    MargeSimpson31 MargeSimpson31 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    Im not really sure how I’m supposed to start one of these vents, but here I go. I hate myself. I hate and loathe every cell in my body, but even more than that I hate how I look...
    bluestripes421 bluestripes421 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I hate the fact that I'm turning into what I hate. I hated pervs and I became one, I hate cheaters yet I became one, I hated mean people yet I became one, and I hate people who...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M