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I Am Afraid People Hate Me

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    I Have This Fear Specially In Ep

    Because of the cultural difference. I'm very interested in other cultures, it's a legit interest, and I usually ask people to explain something to me, and they tend to be sometimes aggressive. I don't know if I don't express myself well, but I try to be as nice as I can...
    AnnLee AnnLee 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    It's Kind of Ridiculous

    I've always been afraid that people hate me. I overreact to so many little things. I've always thought if people didn't talk to me, that they have to hate me. Or if they talked to me before but don't now, oh, they have to hate me. It's even started bothering me on the Internet...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    people always think me of a weirdo,

    they faking friends with me. they'll smile kindly and call my name but at the same time they'll make such an annoyed face behind me. my best friend and i didn't really talk much but we hang out a lot. i'm scared she'll hate me eventually.
    tika14 tika14 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    It Was Raining And Everything ...

    My little sister has had her license for about a year, I just got mine this summer. We're supposed to share her car, an old '93 Saab hand-me-down from our older brother (more rust than car). So she takes me out to learn to drive a manual. I break the car. I'm not talking stall it...
    4Daereen 4Daereen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2010

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    The Part of Me....

    Ever since I was a child, I was hated... not wanting to be. I wanted to be loved, just like everyone else was. I had bullies all the time and zero friends. People often told me to "GO AWAY!" and threw rocks at me... And this is when I developed Social Anxiety. My first...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2009

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    Work

    I started working in a hair salon recently that I had worked in a few years before. A girl that was working there immediately saw me as a threat, she is  a white girl that would be called a WIGGER, not even by me, but by society. I have always tried to be nice and at least...
    heatherly1 heatherly1 46-50 2 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    uhhidk uhhidk 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2014

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    Oh Well, I Hate Most of Them Too

    No, in reality, I don't hate people.  In fact, I'd do anything for anyone.  However, what I DO hate is when people are rude or obnoxious or snobbish--that I cannot stand.  In my eyes, all people are basically the same, and that's what originally motivates me to...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2008

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    I Feel So Lonely

    I feel kind of weird writing this, but at the age of 25 I feel as if I have only two people in my life - my partner and my friend K. Everyone else seems to hate me, or, and this is almost worse, just be indifferent to me. I don't know what it is but I just seem to upset people...
    Velvet25 Velvet25 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Hate Me

    I am not at all afraid people hating me.  It is life, not everyone will be my fan. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 17, 2011

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    HELP!?

    My boyfriend just broke up with me over a text msg. in 2 words.We had been dating for 2 and a half months. He was 18 and I am 14, he isn't a good guy he has brought beer to school after he stole it and he has cheated on all his gf but me...but I can't help but feel...
    hopingforlove hopingforlove 13-15 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    Well this isn't just to make people feel sorry

    for me , I really have to say this to someone( I don't have any) . Generally people , even if I haven't met them before hates me. It's not that I'm mean and evil, I'm just a quite guy and a shy one. Most of my teachers and my colleagues kinda show some distaste if they see me. I...
    prophet558 prophet558 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 12, 2014

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    Your Too Loud

    I hear that soooo much, I am sick of it! Yes, I have a loud voice...GET OVER IT!
    CaseyGwynn CaseyGwynn 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    To Loud and to Scaried...

    For my whole life. I hated the feeling of being alone and unwanted.... And part of my life i have been really loud and really as you can say 'annoying' I sometimes go home, after crying on the bus atleast ten minutes because someone kept on picking on me just because they dont...
    xXvampschildXx xXvampschildXx 16-18, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    Gawd :/ I seriously thought I was the ONLY one

    who felt this way. I am ALWAYS thinking that people secretly hate me. Even my friends. I always worry that they are just being friends with me, to make things easier. I guess I am just a bit paranoid about myself I guess. I just always feel like I am being judged, and hated for...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 27, 2014

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    I Don'T Understand...

    I try to be that girl. That girl who is kind, laughs all the time, and makes jokes. I 'smile' hoping that it's all okay. Sometimes I wonder, you never know what people actually think about you. I'm ugly. I know that. But what else? It can be a petrifying thought. Do they hate me...
    soccer33 soccer33 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Insecurities

    I had a friend at varsity who wouldnt walk past large groups of people cause she was convinced everyone was talking about her. Maybe that is a bit extreme but I can kinda understand it. I am constantly worrying about what other people think of me and usually I put a negative spin...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2008

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    Trapped

    I always think people just tolerate me, nothing more. I hate starting conversations, even with friends, because I am absolutely terrified they are just putting up with me and wishing I would go away. Even with my best friends, I feel like I am bothering them when I want to talk...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    I Know That People Hate Me

    when i go anywhere people will always move away from me or just ignore me its always been the same since i was young so now expect to hated and detesded where ever i go you get used to it
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I'm Afraid To Be Hated

    This is my biggest fear. I'm not afraid of dying, be killed, kill, swim, spiders, to fly or anything else, but I'm afraid to be hated. And I do whatever the other people want to see or say what they want to hear so I won't be hated. I never realized this (until this night) but it...
    BlueDogAr BlueDogAr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Always Scared

    I know where it stems from.  I pigeon holed myself ages ago, and my assumption has been that if I was not liked at school then it will apply in adulthood. That's not the case though, people like me but I have this invisible barrier up that only a few people seem to get...
    Oregano Oregano 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2008

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    ...

    I'm just paranoid I guess, but I always think people are talking about me, looking at me, judging me, and ultimately hating me. I always feel like I say or do the wrong things, even on EP. Its getting better now, but I went through a brief period of thinking all but a few on EP...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    I Am Now A Perfectionist.

    Ever since I was a child, people would always exclude me from things. Like at school I would be part of the popular group of friends but on the weekends I was always home. I was always afraid people were talking about me because my personality is louder and I am talkative...
    llamanation llamanation 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2010

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    Don't Want to Think About It

    But I try not to focus on such a negative. It's like celery. Who wants to think about how celery has negetive calories? Nobody, especially not me. I just move right on to the chocolate and forget it. Well, try to, It sometimes creeps up at me and takes a bite, but I battle my way...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Feb 1, 2008

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    i am a 23 yr old women who has TMAU, i feel like my life is over & it just began. i always am alone in fear of what people will say or smell if i get around them. my relationship has been put to the test in everyway you can think of & i feel so alone at times. My family always...
    newty1989 newty1989 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Tmau

    Im scared everytme i get close to friends and they found out i have tmau (fish odor syndrome), some would insult me or would use i against me when we argue..so I would always please them or I would just agree with them all the time to avoid arguments.. i've been bullied during my...
    tmausufferer tmausufferer 26-30 3 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Nah! I love it when people hate me!

    Because they'll do anything the possibly can to ruin my life, when it's already ruined! XD
    BodiesOfTheUnknown BodiesOfTheUnknown 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1, 2014

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    Too Much To Say

    Sorry for mistakes in this text! Can anyone tell me why is it so hard to be say what you think. In conversation It's so hard for me to say even a word. In the past, I could normally take part in any conversation and didn't give it too much thought. Well. I noticed this: I'm...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    The Old Memories That Can't Let Go

    From the 1st grade, I felt insecure, for some reason my classmates bullied me and I had no guts to say something to them, to protect me. I started to hate them, I felt the injustice. WHY? WHY? WHY that happened to me... I felt angry and tired of the same everyday routine which...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F Jan 3, 2012

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    Oh, Definitely

    First of all the icon for this group is so sad. I want to hug that poor little girl & tickle her til she laughs. Goodness.   Second, I'm definitely scared people hate me. I always think they think I'm weird, dumb or unintelligent and most certainly unfunny. It scares...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    i respect what he did and what the jews did. if u knew the whole story you wouldnt hate him as bad. i dont think he should have killed innocent people who werent jews though. but i...
    mysteriousnite mysteriousnite 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Us mere mortals do not know him to pass judgement. We only see what the media feeds us. So..what we are really hating on is a 'persona' not a person. Some people hate the poor...
    CIDcoitus CIDcoitus 31-35, F Feb 8

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    I'm straight with some gay friends. It's just ridiculous when people hate another based on their sexuality
    Madisonian Madisonian 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    hi everyone I'm Jasmine I'm 18 years old, and I get too attached to people who I find a connection with, I've always been this way since I was young and I couldn't understand it...
    jnyell jnyell 18-21, F 12 mins ago

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    I love my job, I enjoy working with people so much. However my boss is very disrespectful. He is great with the the business side of things. If you go to him with any concern he...
    Alli6372 Alli6372 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    How do i ever get confidence in myself I really hate I'm struggling with this all my life and it stops me from doing anything :( also I really hate it I'm gay and chubby ugh I used...
    quattrodsg88 quattrodsg88 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    You call me gross because I ain't afraid of the dirt?, you say I'm a Hick because of the way I dress and hunt? Haha shut up yuppie, go run home and clean those Jordan's you stepped...
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Can you just go away. Stop manipulating others and making them hate one another. You could even manipulate good friends to start fighting within themselves. I must say you have...
    mishable mishable 18-21, F 43 mins ago

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    do people speak out in public like they do here?
    limitles limitles 18-21, M 10 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Okay I hear some of you laughing already, so I will hit you with some science and a video just to pause that giggle. The elite in society adopt it, the highest leaders from...
    Soroe Soroe 36-40, M 9 hrs ago

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    im more then a people pleaser im a push over. ill do anything to make people happy, i always take the blame for everything, i do whatever people say so they dont get upset. ugh, i...
    andylovesyou23 andylovesyou23 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    A LESSON TO ALL THE DUMMIES IN THIS GROUP! > I'm assuming the majority of people in this group are racist ignorant low lives and the rest of you people in this group obviously are...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F Feb 13

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    I just dont know wats the matter with me. I have failed, I just cant cry in front of anyone. Due to which people think that i m rude, emotionless person, but tats not true i tried...
    AAFSHA AAFSHA 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    It has been snowing often and raining that on unable to go out and mingle with other people . Sometimes when I am home my thoughts gets to me and I just stick in my mind and there...
    Jennyank Jennyank 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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