I Am Afraid People Hate Me

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    It Was Raining And Everything ...

    My little sister has had her license for about a year, I just got mine this summer. We're supposed to share her car, an old '93 Saab hand-me-down from our older brother (more rust than car). So she takes me out to learn to drive a manual. I break the car. I'm not talking stall it...
    4Daereen 4Daereen
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2010


    I'm just paranoid I guess, but I always think people are talking about me, looking at me, judging me, and ultimately hating me. I always feel like I say or do the wrong things, even on EP. Its getting better now, but I went through a brief period of thinking all but a few on EP...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 2, 2008


    i am a 23 yr old women who has TMAU, i feel like my life is over & it just began. i always am alone in fear of what people will say or smell if i get around them. my relationship has been put to the test in everyway you can think of & i feel so alone at times. My family always...
    newty1989 newty1989
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2012


    My boyfriend just broke up with me over a text msg. in 2 words.We had been dating for 2 and a half months. He was 18 and I am 14, he isn't a good guy he has brought beer to school after he stole it and he has cheated on all his gf but me...but I can't help but feel...
    hopingforlove hopingforlove
    1 Response Feb 10, 2009

    Oh Well, I Hate Most of Them Too

    No, in reality, I don't hate people.  In fact, I'd do anything for anyone.  However, what I DO hate is when people are rude or obnoxious or snobbish--that I cannot stand.  In my eyes, all people are basically the same, and that's what originally motivates me to...
    trixi trixi
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2008
    uhhidk uhhidk
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2014

    I Have This Fear Specially In Ep

    Because of the cultural difference. I'm very interested in other cultures, it's a legit interest, and I usually ask people to explain something to me, and they tend to be sometimes aggressive. I don't know if I don't express myself well, but I try to be as nice as I can...
    AnnLee AnnLee
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2007

    Gawd :/ I seriously thought I was the ONLY one

    who felt this way. I am ALWAYS thinking that people secretly hate me. Even my friends. I always worry that they are just being friends with me, to make things easier. I guess I am just a bit paranoid about myself I guess. I just always feel like I am being judged, and hated for...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel
    26-30, F
    Mar 27, 2014


    I had a friend at varsity who wouldnt walk past large groups of people cause she was convinced everyone was talking about her. Maybe that is a bit extreme but I can kinda understand it. I am constantly worrying about what other people think of me and usually I put a negative spin...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2008

    Too Much To Say

    Sorry for mistakes in this text! Can anyone tell me why is it so hard to be say what you think. In conversation It's so hard for me to say even a word. In the past, I could normally take part in any conversation and didn't give it too much thought. Well. I noticed this: I'm...
    grandchild grandchild
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2012


    Im scared everytme i get close to friends and they found out i have tmau (fish odor syndrome), some would insult me or would use i against me when we argue..so I would always please them or I would just agree with them all the time to avoid arguments.. i've been bullied during my...
    tmausufferer tmausufferer
    4 Responses Jul 28, 2011

    It's Kind of Ridiculous

    I've always been afraid that people hate me. I overreact to so many little things. I've always thought if people didn't talk to me, that they have to hate me. Or if they talked to me before but don't now, oh, they have to hate me. It's even started bothering me on the Internet...
    earth2bella earth2bella
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2007


    I always think people just tolerate me, nothing more. I hate starting conversations, even with friends, because I am absolutely terrified they are just putting up with me and wishing I would go away. Even with my best friends, I feel like I am bothering them when I want to talk...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Apr 30, 2008

    people always think me of a weirdo,

    they faking friends with me. they'll smile kindly and call my name but at the same time they'll make such an annoyed face behind me. my best friend and i didn't really talk much but we hang out a lot. i'm scared she'll hate me eventually.
    tika14 tika14
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    Hate Me

    I am not at all afraid people hating me.  It is life, not everyone will be my fan. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    Jan 17, 2011

    To Loud and to Scaried...

    For my whole life. I hated the feeling of being alone and unwanted.... And part of my life i have been really loud and really as you can say 'annoying' I sometimes go home, after crying on the bus atleast ten minutes because someone kept on picking on me just because they dont...
    xXvampschildXx xXvampschildXx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2007

    The Part of Me....

    Ever since I was a child, I was hated... not wanting to be. I wanted to be loved, just like everyone else was. I had bullies all the time and zero friends. People often told me to "GO AWAY!" and threw rocks at me... And this is when I developed Social Anxiety. My first...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 19, 2009

    Well this isn't just to make people feel sorry

    for me , I really have to say this to someone( I don't have any) . Generally people , even if I haven't met them before hates me. It's not that I'm mean and evil, I'm just a quite guy and a shy one. Most of my teachers and my colleagues kinda show some distaste if they see me. I...
    prophet558 prophet558
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    Nah! I love it when people hate me!

    Because they'll do anything the possibly can to ruin my life, when it's already ruined! XD
    BodiesOfTheUnknown BodiesOfTheUnknown
    18-21, F
    May 1, 2014

    I Don'T Understand...

    I try to be that girl. That girl who is kind, laughs all the time, and makes jokes. I 'smile' hoping that it's all okay. Sometimes I wonder, you never know what people actually think about you. I'm ugly. I know that. But what else? It can be a petrifying thought. Do they hate me...
    soccer33 soccer33
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    The Old Memories That Can't Let Go

    From the 1st grade, I felt insecure, for some reason my classmates bullied me and I had no guts to say something to them, to protect me. I started to hate them, I felt the injustice. WHY? WHY? WHY that happened to me... I felt angry and tired of the same everyday routine which...
    grandchild grandchild
    18-21, F
    Jan 3, 2012

    I Feel So Lonely

    I feel kind of weird writing this, but at the age of 25 I feel as if I have only two people in my life - my partner and my friend K. Everyone else seems to hate me, or, and this is almost worse, just be indifferent to me. I don't know what it is but I just seem to upset people...
    Velvet25 Velvet25
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2008


    I started working in a hair salon recently that I had worked in a few years before. A girl that was working there immediately saw me as a threat, she is  a white girl that would be called a WIGGER, not even by me, but by society. I have always tried to be nice and at least...
    heatherly1 heatherly1
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2010

    I Am Now A Perfectionist.

    Ever since I was a child, people would always exclude me from things. Like at school I would be part of the popular group of friends but on the weekends I was always home. I was always afraid people were talking about me because my personality is louder and I am talkative...
    llamanation llamanation
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2010

    I Know That People Hate Me

    when i go anywhere people will always move away from me or just ignore me its always been the same since i was young so now expect to hated and detesded where ever i go you get used to it
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    Don't Want to Think About It

    But I try not to focus on such a negative. It's like celery. Who wants to think about how celery has negetive calories? Nobody, especially not me. I just move right on to the chocolate and forget it. Well, try to, It sometimes creeps up at me and takes a bite, but I battle my way...
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Feb 1, 2008

    I'm Afraid To Be Hated

    This is my biggest fear. I'm not afraid of dying, be killed, kill, swim, spiders, to fly or anything else, but I'm afraid to be hated. And I do whatever the other people want to see or say what they want to hear so I won't be hated. I never realized this (until this night) but it...
    BlueDogAr BlueDogAr
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2013

    Always Scared

    I know where it stems from.  I pigeon holed myself ages ago, and my assumption has been that if I was not liked at school then it will apply in adulthood. That's not the case though, people like me but I have this invisible barrier up that only a few people seem to get...
    Oregano Oregano
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2008

    Oh, Definitely

    First of all the icon for this group is so sad. I want to hug that poor little girl & tickle her til she laughs. Goodness.   Second, I'm definitely scared people hate me. I always think they think I'm weird, dumb or unintelligent and most certainly unfunny. It scares...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 2, 2008

    Your Too Loud

    I hear that soooo much, I am sick of it! Yes, I have a loud voice...GET OVER IT!
    CaseyGwynn CaseyGwynn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2007
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