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I Am Afraid People Hate Me

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    I Have This Fear Specially In Ep - Because of the cultural difference. I'm very interested in other cultures, it's a legit interest, and I usually ask people to explain...
    AnnLee AnnLee 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    Hate Me - I am not at all afraid people hating me.  It is life, not everyone will be my fan. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 17, 2011

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    Oh Well, I Hate Most of Them Too - No, in reality, I don't hate people.  In fact, I'd do anything for anyone.  However, what I DO hate is when people are rude or...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2008

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    Reality - This is a very real and prominent fear of mine. I honestly believe everyone hates me, despite repeated assurances that this is not the case. I've never really analyzed...
    Mello Mello 26-30, F 15 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    The Old Memories That Can't Let Go - From the 1st grade, I felt insecure, for some reason my classmates bullied me and I had no guts to say something to them, to protect me. I...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F Jan 3, 2012

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    Work - I started working in a hair salon recently that I had worked in a few years before. A girl that was working there immediately saw me as a threat, she is  a white girl...
    heatherly1 heatherly1 46-50 2 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    Too Much To Say - Sorry for mistakes in this text! Can anyone tell me why is it so hard to be say what you think. In conversation It's so hard for me to say even a word. In the...
    grandchild grandchild 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    I'm Afraid To Be Hated - This is my biggest fear. I'm not afraid of dying, be killed, kill, swim, spiders, to fly or anything else, but I'm afraid to be hated. And I do whatever...
    BlueDogAr BlueDogAr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    To Loud and to Scaried... - For my whole life. I hated the feeling of being alone and unwanted.... And part of my life i have been really loud and really as you can say 'annoying...
    xXvampschildXx xXvampschildXx 16-18, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    I Know That People Hate Me - when i go anywhere people will always move away from me or just ignore me its always been the same since i was young so now expect to hated and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    ); - i am a 23 yr old women who has TMAU, i feel like my life is over & it just began. i always am alone in fear of what people will say or smell if i get around them. my...
    newty1989 newty1989 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2012

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    I Feel So Lonely - I feel kind of weird writing this, but at the age of 25 I feel as if I have only two people in my life - my partner and my friend K. Everyone else seems to hate...
    Velvet25 Velvet25 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Gawd :/ I seriously thought I was the ONLY one who felt this way. I am ALWAYS thinking that people secretly hate me. Even my friends. I always worry that they are just being...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Always Scared - I know where it stems from.  I pigeon holed myself ages ago, and my assumption has been that if I was not liked at school then it will apply in adulthood...
    Oregano Oregano 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2008

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    Your Too Loud - I hear that soooo much, I am sick of it! Yes, I have a loud voice...GET OVER IT!
    CaseyGwynn CaseyGwynn 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    ... - I'm just paranoid I guess, but I always think people are talking about me, looking at me, judging me, and ultimately hating me. I always feel like I say or do the wrong...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    Oh, Definitely - First of all the icon for this group is so sad. I want to hug that poor little girl & tickle her til she laughs. Goodness.   Second, I'm definitely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    It's Kind of Ridiculous - I've always been afraid that people hate me. I overreact to so many little things. I've always thought if people didn't talk to me, that they have to hate...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Trapped - I always think people just tolerate me, nothing more. I hate starting conversations, even with friends, because I am absolutely terrified they are just putting up with me...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 30, 2008

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    I Don'T Understand... - I try to be that girl. That girl who is kind, laughs all the time, and makes jokes. I 'smile' hoping that it's all okay. Sometimes I wonder, you never know...
    soccer33 soccer33 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    It Was Raining And Everything ... - My little sister has had her license for about a year, I just got mine this summer. We're supposed to share her car, an old '93 Saab hand-me...
    4Daereen 4Daereen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2010

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    The Part of Me.... - Ever since I was a child, I was hated... not wanting to be. I wanted to be loved, just like everyone else was. I had bullies all the time and zero friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2009

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    Don't Want to Think About It - But I try not to focus on such a negative. It's like celery. Who wants to think about how celery has negetive calories? Nobody, especially not me. I...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Feb 1, 2008

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    I am constantly seeking everyone's approval. Always trying to look the right way, weigh the right number. Trying to be this person that everyone wants me too be. I hate it when I...
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I am a huge people pleaser. If I don't please someone or I disappoint, I fall into a deep depression. I am terrified of doing the wrong thing.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F Jan 19

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    Ugh.. why am i such a *****...
    uhhidk uhhidk 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Tmau - Im scared everytme i get close to friends and they found out i have tmau (fish odor syndrome), some would insult me or would use i against me when we argue..so I would...
    tmausufferer tmausufferer 26-30 3 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Insecurities - I had a friend at varsity who wouldnt walk past large groups of people cause she was convinced everyone was talking about her. Maybe that is a bit extreme but I can...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2008

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    Well........I honestly must say, I'm a freak! And people hate me cuz of many things, like I'm REALLY messed up! And usually people agree with my opinion.......
    BloodlessVein BloodlessVein 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i guess you could say i'm "emo" but i only like the style, i mean yeah i dress different and look different but i'm human too, why all the hate? like seriously grow up
    jeff0the0killer0 jeff0the0killer0 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Here are a couple: The Lone Ranger (2013) (I had fun with it. Sure, it wasn't perfect, but I didn't expect it to be) The Happening (2008) (In my defense, I was expecting the...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 27

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    Going into a publi restroom always causes me some axiety. I don't always look like a girl from a first glance. I can't take my time in te bathroom. I am afraid people are looking...
    sokrsofa sokrsofa 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    See what I really hate is the people or stupid things that make people hate themselves let me just say this to anyone who's going through a hard time... Do not listen to people who...
    TheFlamingPhoenix TheFlamingPhoenix 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I've been under depression for under 3years now. and I'm 13 this year. I never knew who i was, right from the start. I find myself an outcast which people hate/dislike. My grades...
    Vinxitus Vinxitus 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was bullied throughout my school life. People used to call me ugly, say I stank and when people had to sit next to me they moved to the side like I had a disease. People hated to...
    Cazz1993 Cazz1993 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    What the **** is wrong with me why do people hate me so much even my twin sister hates me why am I so unlikeable
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    Why do people hate me because I'm a twin? I can sense in the back of every person I meet's (off line) head that they secretly are jealous. I do not assume things when I say that...
    LPr0cker LPr0cker 16-17, F Mar 21

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    Still can't believe how cold some people are.. No matter what you give.. It still wouldn't be enough.. But I'm a big girl. I'll survive.
    cloerichardsom cloerichardsom 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I told you guys that I hated myself. Now I am in a messy circumstance and I felt everything was falling apart. I might not finish my degree on time when the financial stance is not...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 24

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Can someone please take their time to read this? Its long, 8 pages but it explains a lot about the situation I am currently in. I think a lot of people could relate to this if they...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. That's always the situation for me. It also seems like I have crushes on chicks...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    This post maybe a nonsense... -_- so there's a girl in my class who I hate very much, call her Lucy. She's such an attention-seeker and a crybaby who gets scared of every little...
    Tiffany98702 Tiffany98702 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3

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    I hate it. It has ruined my life in the past and it continues to do so even though I'm on medication for it now. I need to increase my dosage or something, because the tablets I'm...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I was a small child i had this horrible mean teacher she was really old had wrinkles and white hair and she didn't really know how to put make up on it all Started when I first...
    moonshine25 moonshine25 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    19 Reasons Why I Hate You: 1. You always talk but never listen. It's always about you. You don't care about anything I tell you. When I talk, you either interrupt, roll your eyes...
    tarara0414 tarara0414 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My fake name is kobochibi. I'm female, 26 y.o from Indonesia.I'm from a broken home family. One month after my mother passed away (2006), I ran from home because my father re...
    kobochibi kobochibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 7