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I Am Afraid That I'll End Up Alone

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    I Want That Which My Mind Doesn't Let Me Have

    Love, friends, happiness. The 3 things that I really want, and something I don't actually have. There are many issues with the way my brain functions which result in self seclusion due to my own irrational fears and poor self image. Ever since the 1st grade all I have ever...
    KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I have finally begun to not be

    so shy, yet it seems people reject me and I go back to my corner of loneliness. I will do (almost) anything to please someone. Just please do not leave me alone.
    cflemming cflemming 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    I'm not talking so much on a relationship level,

    but on a friendship level. I'm just alone. And I'm afraid of even trying to make friends. I think I'm just meant to be by myself. Does anyone else feel this way? Like they've tried so many times and so many ways but it's just not working? I'm trying to get over it and just learn...
    WhyDidTheyChooseMe WhyDidTheyChooseMe 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I'm not very good with relationship.

    Well, I haven't really been in a full on relationship. I'm just so shy, I fear this will be a problem for me.
    NegativePulse NegativePulse 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I've Noticed Eyes Glazing Over

    I find someone that I like and it seems like they like me and we start EPing each other daily and all of a sudden they're gone. What did I do wrong? Why does she run away screaming? Is it because I sometimes drool?
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 14 Responses Oct 21, 2010

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    I'm not afraid of being alone i already know i

    am and i just have to accept it. No matter how hard and and painful it is.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    It's not that people don't like me.

    I love making people happy and many people think theyre in love with me but I can never positively share those feelings. Maybe I'm A-Sexual
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Need Some Hope

    I'm waiting for that right person to come along. To really want me. Most of my friends have been in multiple relationships. I don't know how long God plans for my life to be. So I really want to meet that person soon. Edit: I have had a change of thought. This story is not really...
    idreamdaily idreamdaily 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    So 10,000 people are afraid.

    I'm not sure I should really enlighten my thought process, but what the heck, I've been doing it enough lately. Last week (or was it week before, can't keep track of it now) my ex-girlfriend informed me it was over by announcing her engagement on Facebook - to another guy. Of...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M Aug 12

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    I am not very pretty.

    I am overweight for my height. I wear glasses. I have scars on my legs from being so clumsy. I usually speak too fast and have to repeat myself to be understood. I have anxiety issues and get easily stressed out and the list goes on. I just don't see anything very desirable...
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I spent so long telling myself

    that being alone would be okay because there wouldn't be anyone to hurt me anymore. But, I've come to realize that the loneliness would hurt me.
    jennamarie210 jennamarie210 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Sometimes I am so lonely

    and so scared of being alone it feels like I can't breathe. It feels like I watch everyone else being together and happy but I'm stuck on the other side of the fence and its too high for me to climb but there is nothing I can do about it.
    elphaba2309 elphaba2309 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Quick Realization

    I have this feeling that I'll end up alone. I want to have a family of my own, you know, with a loving husband and adorable kids. I'm kind of afraid I won't find a guy who'll be the love of my life, but I don't want to go looking for it. Everybody my age seems to be starting...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Sometimes it is so much easier just to be happy

    by myself. And sometimes I'm so afraid to try I'd rather find love in only me. My friends even joke about me becoming the "crazy cat lady" still alone with millions of knick knacks and my many many cats. Sometimes I'm ok with that. "Sometimes" being the key word.
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    It seems inevitable. No one likes me in

    that way. I know I'm only sixteen but by the time I'm an adult, I'll be too depressed to do anything about it. Without love in my life, I just feel empty. I already lost my last shred of self esteem long ago, so this is doing terrible things to me. And I don't give hatred to...
    Treeckoninja Treeckoninja 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Or that I'll end up in a one way relationship

    because the other person feels sorry for me or they're just using me. I just want someone to feel the way i do about them and have no confusions or doubts about it.
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I don't want a perfect man.

    I just a man I can act silly with, make lasting memories with, a man who is good to me, and a man who wants me more than anything else. Is that an unrealistic dream?
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I just turned 45 a few weeks ago.

    ..had a fiancee....until a couple of weeks before that...then he bailed. I thought that I wouldn't have to deal with being alone again. After my divorce, didn't think I could love anyone again like that...then I found my ex-fiancee. Thought it was all good. Apparently not...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Me Too

    i am afraid to love again, and i am also afraid i'll end up solo, once i fall in love with someone and i end up disappointed, my heart broken in side, but i survive and pick them up pieces by pieces and rebuild again.my Love is like a sprained ankle...it hurts, but i keep walking...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    I am afraid of being alone

    and actually I've already accepted it's going to happen. I suffer from social anxiety. I have trouble meeting friends because I am such a reserved person, I'm afraid of making a fool of myself. And when I do make friends, I can't manage to keep them because I have trouble...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    We Are Afraid Because We Suffer From The Disney Syndrome..here's My Insight

    For all of you out there please excuse my poor english, since is not my first language.. but I want to share my theory of why I think we woman are seriously damaged.. is not our fault really!!I remember not so long ago when people used to say that dating was easy.. maybe back in...
    vanessaMon vanessaMon 26-30 4 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    I always feel unwanted.

    .& like no one wants me
    alyssab11 alyssab11 16-17, F Aug 19

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    i think most teenagers

    and many young adults feel like they'll end up alone forever. Its so bad that i literally cant imagine anyone being with me, i get compliments and stuff but thats about it. Nobodys ever tried to prove their love for me, and it sucks. Oh well #LonelyForever
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 7 Responses Feb 8

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    I know I will based on things

    that have happened and made me a shy, social anxious person that fights depression. Who the **** would want to have to deal with that
    Kman4You Kman4You 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My standards a little high

    but I think they're reasonable and not at all shallow. But I'm just not a flirty type of girl and I get too worked up about it. Plus, there's a lot of guys I see that don't look good for me.
    WhyDidTheyChooseMe WhyDidTheyChooseMe 13-15, F Jun 21

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    I Hope I'm Not Right

    I have always had this feeling for most of my life and it scares me sometimes because I don't want to be alone. don't get me wrong I can cope with it but it's not my ideal if you know what I mean.I want to feel as if I belong and whatever happens in life there is somebody there...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    i think im deafly afraid of being alone i cant

    tell which is worse my fear of being alone or homeless.I just know id be scared.The world is a dangerous place for a woman if you have no one there for you you may become the victim of a crime.men can walk on the street at night its dangerous but not as much compared to a woman...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    appleapple09 appleapple09 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I Don't Want To.

    I am probably going to end up alone for one reason or another... I don't know. I just don't think that anyone would want to stay with me as I am not that great of a person. I really don't want to end up alone but relationships are so hard to maintain. They require time, trust...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    I feel like I'm in the world alone

    and that god didn't place my soulmate here.. Because I'm here to better other ppl .... Like am a walking lesson learned. :(
    neversettle24 neversettle24 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I wish i could find a nice caring funny guy

    that wants to take care of my emotional needs. I just want someone who understands me and doesnt judge me.
    lostlonelyandunsocial lostlonelyandunsocial 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I know that I won't really end up completely

    alone, ill still have my family and close friends but even then a person can feel super lonely, especially when you know that even though you're close with your family most of the time it feels as if you're not really heard, I want to close with, I want to be someone that won't...
    Anotherrose96 Anotherrose96 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Seeing as most of my relationships have ended

    in me being cheated on, lied to, used, or just generally walked all over. Nd how i get accused of being the one cheating, (guess its true what they say, those cheating usually accuse others of doing the same)
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    Always Alone

    I wrote this about 5 yrs ago and used a pen and paper so you'll have to understand that those two lines are a little obsolite but here goes. Let me know if you like it and write a poem that I can read. Mahalo.As long as I can remember      I was always aloneA world filled...
    Mehameha Mehameha 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I didn't even have a date to senior prom.

    I still went and was one of the "single girls" in our limo. Never been on a date. Never held hands with a guy. Or kissed. Once, at a frat party, I let a guy lick my neck while we were dancing. I knew he wanted to kiss me but I didn't want my first to be with some horny...
    michellekay michellekay 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I have had several serious relationships.

    They have all seemed to end pretty badly. The only thing these guys have in common is me. Maybe I am the one with the problem, not them
    amyh217 amyh217 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 1 Response Jun 29

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    cuz i don't have feelings!

    ! i can't feel love and i can't even cry but i cry when i'm extremely hurt by someone!! i'm just afraid that i'll always be single... even if i would marry a girl, i would never feel love!!
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 28

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    Everyone that I know of in my family has been

    divorced. & I'm terrified that I'll end up alone & nobody will remember me or care when I die. Is that a stupid fear?
    spookyclair spookyclair 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I lost him again </3

    why does this have to keep happening to me :,(
    babycakes1970 babycakes1970 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    Well I'm not sure right now

    if I'm Afraid of being alone or just not wanting to lose my wife. Ugh, life can be tough sometimes.
    heartbroke73 heartbroke73 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    Now More Than Ever

    When I was young I wondered if I'd end up alone and it was a bit scary. But ever scarier now is looking at growing old, and after 29 years of marriage what life would be like if something ever happened to my wife. That kind of loneliness is much scarier.
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 10 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Dissolved Dreams

    As a child, I was the architect of my own future. I would daydream at any given moment, in any given circumstance, of my future. So meticulous in the elements of life I would put in, or leave out, of the ideal future for someone like me. I grew up in the traditional American unit...
    wanderlusted wanderlusted 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    It's become apparent to me,

    the only girls who tell me "you're cute" or "you'd make a great boyfriend" or anything like that. Are the girls who are taken. Obviously because they know I won't get the wrong idea and think they are flirting. But I've come to accept the fact that I may be single forever and...
    Moonlight150 Moonlight150 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    How do i stop being afraid?

    I am afraid that I'll end up alone because... I have never been in a romantic relationship; there was one I got infatuated with but since I kept on pushing him away, he eventually backed down. I see family members who are leading a single life (the other got married in the end...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    I think the same thing everyday

    when i get up in the morning i tell to myself that at the end i will end up alone.Because i dont have any sisters or brothers im alone to my parents and upon that i dont have much friends and i really dont wont to end up alone because the whole life i was alone searching for...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jul 20

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    I just want my mate to find me.

    Have him to understand me. Someone to stay up with at night, since I never sleep. Someone who makes me forget the world I live in. I've meet a great deal of people but they always find a way to make me feel detached from them. I'm ready to settle down and be all for my mate...
    JastonieRyder JastonieRyder 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    A Story About Love

    From the mouth of the dragon. So many times in the past few years,my soul has cried out to be loved,and been answered by vile and unjust people who didn’t love me but somehow loathed me for my very existence. For some of you out there this is a subject that you never...
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    I feel inadequate for people

    that could have been friends or closer. My social anxiety then crushes any chance that they may be so. I fear that I'll end up being very lonely, very bitter and ultimately unmotivated to do anything. It's very hard to escape this sort of feeling.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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