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I Am Afraid That I'll End Up Alone

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    I know I've done some terrible things in the past saying I want to die and being sad...I bet you felt terrible and helpless...I know what I've done and now I'm regretting it and it...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M Mar 20

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    I have always been put into the "nerd" category in high school and still feel that way in college. I have never had a girlfriend and I fear that this will never change because when...
    CAdaPro CAdaPro 18-21, M Mar 20

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    Need Some Hope - I'm waiting for that right person to come along. To really want me. Most of my friends have been in multiple relationships. I don't know how long God plans for my...
    idreamdaily idreamdaily 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I'm gay. I got my first boyfriend last summer and I thought it would be great. I hadn't had my first kiss then and neither had he and I wanted to kiss him so badly. Except he kept...
    kennethclayden kennethclayden 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Im Afraid To Be Alone - im afraid to be by myself & dont like being ignored & it happens alot even if i dont have anyone to talk to & i'll still be a loner 4 ever in life,heart...
    RodrigoGalindo730 RodrigoGalindo730 16-17, M Nov 30, 2013

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    Horrible Luck With Love - It just seems like every time I meet someone I finally feel chemistry or potential with, they end up being unavailable in some way. They're either...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Dissolved Dreams - As a child, I was the architect of my own future. I would daydream at any given moment, in any given circumstance, of my future. So meticulous in the elements of...
    wanderlusted wanderlusted 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I am afraid that I'll end up alone. I have loved and been loved. But sometimes love just isn't enough. Not when you push that person away... When you push them away so much that...
    maraselene maraselene 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm afraid I'll be alone because I mess up any opportunities I've managed to get. Being shy and not very attractive didn't help me in school. I never had a date until I was 21 and...
    itssmee itssmee 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    20 Year Age Difference - My husband is 20 years older than me and my greatest fear is that I will end up a lonely old woman. I am 30 years old and my husband is 50 but he looks 65...
    Jesusfoundme Jesusfoundme 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    Me Too - i am afraid to love again, and i am also afraid i'll end up solo, once i fall in love with someone and i end up disappointed, my heart broken in side, but i survive and...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    I am sick and tired of people telling me that I will find someone when I can't even talk to girls confidently. My biggest fear is that I will never find my true love.
    samaeldracon samaeldracon 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Im very afraid that i wont find anyone to be in a relationship with . The guys i want I cant have and thats my problem im really picky when it comes to men. Im working on that...
    Lollybolly Lollybolly 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 12

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    Due to the limited pool of selection. I don't have high standards, but I do have some standards such as drinking, smoking, partying. None of those things I do or are interested in...
    blackxrosexyuuki blackxrosexyuuki 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Now More Than Ever - When I was young I wondered if I'd end up alone and it was a bit scary. But ever scarier now is looking at growing old, and after 29 years of marriage what...
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 10 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Always Alone - I wrote this about 5 yrs ago and used a pen and paper so you'll have to understand that those two lines are a little obsolite but here goes. Let me know if you like...
    Mehameha Mehameha 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I Hope I'm Not Right - I have always had this feeling for most of my life and it scares me sometimes because I don't want to be alone. don't get me wrong I can cope with it but it...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 6 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    it's just the fact that since my first girlfriend died I've been struggling to find some else and I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world girls in my city are not fans of...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Well... I Shouldn't Worry, Really. -  I am really afraid that I'll end up alone. I mean, I've been in relationships, but it seems like all that my partners wanted was sex. Or...
    Tiana Tiana 16-17 12 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    I didn't even have a date to senior prom. I still went and was one of the "single girls" in our limo. Never been on a date. Never held hands with a guy. Or kissed. Once, at a...
    michellekay michellekay 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I have visions of me being the neighbourhood witch. You know, the house you were afraid to walk by as a kid because you thought a witch lived there. There was one in my...
    OhTrixieBelle OhTrixieBelle 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    It comes across in my mind that in the future that I'll end up alone. I don't feel like I'm not going to be with anybody.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    I experience panic whenever I get off of work and go home alone.
    ak1930 ak1930 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am 33 and am pretty sure that I will end up alone. I have no friends outside of my family who actually try to talk to me. I have not had a boyfriend in 3 years. I have not been...
    FaeKid FaeKid 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Want That Which My Mind Doesn't Let Me Have - Love, friends, happiness. The 3 things that I really want, and something I don't actually have. There are many issues with the way...
    KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    I have never had bf or kissed or anything I feeling I am going be alone. 😢😥
    Laa96 Laa96 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    I shall never be alone as God is always there watching over me. I shall not live alone as God is there with me and I shall not die alone as God is there helping me. Friends can...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I've Noticed Eyes Glazing Over - I find someone that I like and it seems like they like me and we start EPing each other daily and all of a sudden they're gone. What did I do...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 14 Responses Oct 21, 2010

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    I'm scared my gf is going to leave me and idk what to do. She just read this and didn't say anything but glare at me. What do I do? Please help
    hottymania hottymania 16-17 2 Responses Apr 3

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    How do i stop being afraid? - I am afraid that I'll end up alone because... I have never been in a romantic relationship; there was one I got infatuated with but since I kept on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Quick Realization - I have this feeling that I'll end up alone. I want to have a family of my own, you know, with a loving husband and adorable kids. I'm kind of afraid I won't...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Spiral - I'm not alone, just lonely. I'm not unloved, I just haven't been fallen for. It's not just a fear, I feel it's reality. As much as I try believe there's someone out there...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 9 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Terrified... - It is my greatest fear... instead I cling desperately to a life that does not fulfill me... that leaves me forever empty and aching...
    hippiechick333 hippiechick333 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    There is little to no hope that i'll find anybody to love me in life. At least that's how i feel. I see myself as a disgusting creature that nobody can love. I'm always everybody's...
    KIRa53 KIRa53 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I don't expect anyone to ever join with someone like me forever, and the thought if romantic affairs makes me shudder, especially because of my phobia of touching other people. I...
    pianobookme pianobookme 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I am afraid of being alone and actually I've already accepted it's going to happen. I suffer from social anxiety. I have trouble meeting friends because I am such a reserved person...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I am afraid that I'll end up alone. That I will be one of those people, that are eventually living alone, and I disappear, and than weeks later they find my dead body rotting away...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I have finally begun to not be so shy, yet it seems people reject me and I go back to my corner of loneliness. I will do (almost) anything to please someone. Just please do not...
    cflemming cflemming 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    We Are Afraid Because We Suffer From The Disney Syndrome..here's My Insight - For all of you out there please excuse my poor english, since is not my first language.. but I want to...
    vanessaMon vanessaMon 26-30 4 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    I hate being alone and I have nobody to fall back on when someone leaves me and I can't be alone without getting all upset. Me and being alone just does not go, it cannot be that...
    methaddict69xo methaddict69xo 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    I Don't Want To. - I am probably going to end up alone for one reason or another... I don't know. I just don't think that anyone would want to stay with me as I am not that great...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    I have always felt alone because I have never had a girlfriend and I'm just to shy to ask my crush and I cry my self to sleep thinking I'll never find someone.
    nseagle1210 nseagle1210 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Searching For the Prince Charming, I´m Too Picky... - i turn to my self with my feelings. maybe because i had a hard time as a child. and this moment i am so stressed, that i can...
    Limppu Limppu 19-21, F 6 Responses Jan 7, 2008

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    A Story About Love - From the mouth of the dragon. So many times in the past few years,my soul has cried out to be loved,and been answered by vile and unjust people who didn...
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    I'm no longer afraid. I'm sad. Because I now know that I will end up alone. I push people away. I don't let them in. I'm scared to get hurt so push them away and I alienate those...
    Munchycaterpillar Munchycaterpillar 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Or am I, this changes...right now, alone is pretty good...I'm not a fan of cleaning after another adult!!!
    ElleBreena ElleBreena 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Yep, basically my life story. I try to improve myself to the best of my abilities just so I can feel like it will make a difference. Haven't met that girl that can make me happy...
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I don't fit in anywhere, but here I felt accepted. In real life I'm the type that judges myself a lot and all because I can't accept the person I am. So as a result I crave for...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    My boyfriend and I have some big decisions to make. I'm afraid that we're going to break up. He's the only one that comes close to understanding me. What if he leaves me?
    halicat halicat 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    It's always been a fear of mine. When I was really young I worried that I'd end up alone because I was awkward and unattractive. I guess the fear stuck with me. It doesn't scare...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I am somewhat afraid I will end up alone because I know that when I get bored in relationships I get bored and there is usually no going back...until I've alone for a few months...
    windynight54321 windynight54321 31-35, M