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I Am Afraid to Comment

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    Lately I have been afraid to comment. Either half the time my comments don't even get acknoldege or the other half of the comments get picked apart and people are just so ungratful for the comments. I'm so sick of it, so lately I have been not commenting. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18, 2012

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    Is It Fear?

    I suppose it is, although I'm not entirely sure what there is to be afraid of. I try to comment on stories I read, but some posts are so personal, and so full of emotions of hurt, and stress, and sorrow, that the last thing I want to do is butt in, or say something (however well...
    Opalgem Opalgem 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    Comment

    I'm not afraid to comment at all.  I'm done commenting, reading, etc. Soon, I'll also be done writting.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 10, 2011

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    I Mess Everything Up

    I never mean to hurt or offend anyone, but what ever I do is wrong. Whenever a friend is unhappy I feel guilty, whether it's my fault or not. And I never know if it's my fault! This is why I stopped talking to my friends in real life, it was so much to handle for me.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 22 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Most of the Time.........

       I remember when I first came to EP, I was a commenting fool. lol. I'd read every story in every group I joined & try to leave something. What I found was that a lot of times I was completely ignored, or worse had some of my hide torn to bits because I didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Commenting Stories

    When it comes to commenting stories, I dont how to start or what to say most of the time. P.S, Sorry it's really short
    eh6557 eh6557 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    People Can Be So Sensitive

      Some stories you just don't feel right commenting on because they seem so personal & private. Others you don't know if they'll take it the wrong way. I can spend 30 minutes on a story trying to figure out how to word things in such a way that the author will either...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    Leave Me Alone, Please Dont Leave Me

    i dont want to love you but i do, i dont want to kiss you but i do it . i dont want to be happy with you , but i am, i dont want to give you any thing ,but i give you every thing, i dont want to have your son, but i did, i didnt want to love your daughter, but she has my heart...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Dec 26, 2011

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    im always afraid that people arent gonna like me and i cant make friends easy cuz i stay really quiet and they think im stuck up which im totally not.
    niallsbaby niallsbaby 13-15, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm not afraid to die, but I'm only staying for Her.
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    You may mess up, but you are not a mess up. You may make a mistake, but you are not a mistake. You may screw up, but you are not a screw up. You may fail, but you...
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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 14

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 14

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F Dec 14

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    I'm sorry for the lengthy post... I just watched Geography Club and it got me regretting how long it took me to come out, and then explore as to why that was.... One of the things...
    jbar291 jbar291 18-21, M Dec 12

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    I don´t heart every comment my posts may get just because...I do it when I agree and only if they are not impolite or aggressive...I usually delete them or reply appropiately...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    I bottle everything up. I'm not very talkative. I'm not how I used to be. I don't tell secrets to many people. I don't like but I do like getting close to people. I like to read...
    ForeverANomad ForeverANomad 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    By love I don't mean guys or anything...and I don't mean losing people to death. But I am afraid of losing my friends and family, that they will stop caring about me or I will do...
    prznaroosak prznaroosak 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    I am afraid of relationships. I think I always have been. I can't remember a time when I was able to give myself to someone without second thought or with uninhibited trust. I'm...
    shanequea shanequea 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    So I've been an only child for my whole life, and I've been happy. Change is the only thing I have ever really feared. But. . .today my mother told told me she's pregnant, and...
    PadfootPandora PadfootPandora 16-17, F Dec 19

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    We know deep down that life is short, and that death will happen to all of us eventually, and yet we are infinitely surprised when it happens to someone we know. LIVE your life...
    raquel80 raquel80 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 10

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    not sure if I'm afraid anymore...I'm just used to it right now, I've been rejected by every girl I ever liked or cared about (possibly loved), people says "have confidence"...well...
    Muramasa Muramasa 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I live in St. Louis Missouri and we have the gate way arch which u can go up in. I went with my friends because they wanted to go and when we where up at the top I was fine as long...
    mwiltshire mwiltshire 22-25, F a week ago

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    ...but I am. I have not just fallen. It's more like the whole damn cliff just gave way beneath me. Emotional walls that no one else has come close to breaching have absolutely...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm not ashamed to say that I have this problem. Ever since I was raped, I've been afraid. I'm almost 16 now, and it still lingers. I was never afraid of being alone, or being...
    Anonymousgirl152 Anonymousgirl152 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This may be a slight tangent to the norm, but I am afraid of rejection, just not what one might normally consider when they think of this topic. I am deathly afraid of being...
    anna0593 anna0593 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I absolutely love seeing new comments on my pictures. If you would like yo see them and leave a comment or two please let me know.
    dusman02 dusman02 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    If anyone is reading this, do you think you can comment on my experiences please? I don't really get many comments and it would be nice if I can actually get a few. You don't have...
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    I've always been sort of jealous of people who weren't afraid to be who they were. I've gone through life being afraid of other people's opinions, so I sort of have this thing...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 28

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    OK, "afraid" is probably the wrong word choice. I'm not afraid I'll be single for the rest of my life, I'm quite certain of it. As much as I'd love to find that perfect woman to...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 2

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    I'm not afraid of dying at all, but I'm always afraid of losing loved ones or pets.
    Annaelaine Annaelaine 13-15, F Dec 7

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    I'm afraid I'll get pressured to live a life I don't desire when I can be doing something else. I'm also afraid I'll regret not being forced into a lifestyle. It's complicated.
    T055 T055 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    My old best friend just left me, I thought we were okay but apparently not. I just recently met someone that is so very a like me but still different. I'm afraid to lose him, I...
    LoneFox29 LoneFox29 16-17, F Dec 16

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    I have always been the shy girl. The wired girl. Iv always loved playing sports was never really into makeup. I would much rather play soccer or football than go shopping. I was...
    Ampk Ampk 18-21, F Dec 18

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    I really feel for you. I know what it's like. I spent a large portion of my life having this irrational fear. I was afraid to go to bed at night. I was afraid to go to sleep. I...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 6 days ago

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    *Apologize in advance for being mopey during the holidays* Happened again. Met someone. Went out a few times. It's going great. Up until she fills me in on her "situation...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm not afraid to tell my family I'm bisexual. I'm only afraid to tell my mom and her side of the family. My dad and his side of the family will be okay with it and will always...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    comment on my pics if you'd like ;) edit: i took the pics off private.
    princesslexi09 princesslexi09 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 8

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    After struggling with and escaping my mother's abuse for three months, I've finally grown comfortable with letting my siblings know what goes on in my life. But today I was...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    As time goes by and I remain single, I definitely become afraid some days that I will be single forever. Ugh!
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 30

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    Darling, you understand me in a way no one ever had or probably will again. I've never met anyone like you. We live in a hole, but because you're there it's not so bad. But I'm...
    Brimmless Brimmless 16-17, F Nov 30

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    I am only afraid of angry older men. My mom's ex-boyfriend was verbally abusive and would hit things around him as he yelled. He only got physically abusive once with my mother...
    snowolf13 snowolf13 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1

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    Failure is hard. I am so afraid that i will fail because of some of the people of my family and my real mom that put me down and was so hash to me and her mom as well. However I...
    jessconn81 jessconn81 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Every time I find someone I like I push them away because I'm afraid of getting hurt. I don't want to be hurt again so I'm hurting others. I just want to get better and be able to...
    meganleslie meganleslie 13-15, F Dec 1

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    I have been overweight my entire life! I have tried diet after diet with no success. I have been put down by a lot of people for my size and I would let it bother me. It has...
    unluckyme86 unluckyme86 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    Lol I'm not afraid but I know I am gonna die alone haha
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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