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I Am Afraid to Comment

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    Is It Fear?

    I suppose it is, although I'm not entirely sure what there is to be afraid of. I try to comment on stories I read, but some posts are so personal, and so full of emotions of hurt, and stress, and sorrow, that the last thing I want to do is butt in, or say something (however well...
    Opalgem Opalgem 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    I Mess Everything Up

    I never mean to hurt or offend anyone, but what ever I do is wrong. Whenever a friend is unhappy I feel guilty, whether it's my fault or not. And I never know if it's my fault! This is why I stopped talking to my friends in real life, it was so much to handle for me.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 22 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Comment

    I'm not afraid to comment at all.  I'm done commenting, reading, etc. Soon, I'll also be done writting.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 10, 2011

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    Leave Me Alone, Please Dont Leave Me

    i dont want to love you but i do, i dont want to kiss you but i do it . i dont want to be happy with you , but i am, i dont want to give you any thing ,but i give you every thing, i dont want to have your son, but i did, i didnt want to love your daughter, but she has my heart...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Dec 26, 2011

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    Lately...

    Lately I have been afraid to comment. Either half the time my comments don't even get acknoldege or the other half of the comments get picked apart and people are just so ungratful for the comments. I'm so sick of it, so lately I have been not commenting. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18, 2012

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    Commenting Stories

    When it comes to commenting stories, I dont how to start or what to say most of the time. P.S, Sorry it's really short
    eh6557 eh6557 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    People Can Be So Sensitive

      Some stories you just don't feel right commenting on because they seem so personal & private. Others you don't know if they'll take it the wrong way. I can spend 30 minutes on a story trying to figure out how to word things in such a way that the author will either...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    Most of the Time.........

       I remember when I first came to EP, I was a commenting fool. lol. I'd read every story in every group I joined & try to leave something. What I found was that a lot of times I was completely ignored, or worse had some of my hide torn to bits because I didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    This is what happens when I like someone here...actually vented all my anger on him and then he happens to be attractive IMO and he doesn't find me attractive totally killed my...
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    I am for the most part a self-confident person. It is one of my attributes, that my friends comment on the most. Where I am most apt to have the fear of rejection is with someone...
    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    I was totally into this guy and I fell for him really quick. I thought he really liked me but apparently not. He kissed me and stuff and made comments pointing towards OUR future...
    lovealwayz lovealwayz 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 22

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    " my whole life I've been telling myself don't be afraid and it is only now that I am realizing how stupid that is. Don't be afraid is like saying don't move out of the way when...
    rachnixon rachnixon 26-30, F Sep 14

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    i am aware that everyone has a life outside of EP, and problems of their own that they are dealing with. so i really appreciate when anyone takes time out of their day to leave me...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Usually people who are afraid of falling in love are those who were left down by their boy/girlfriend. I'm this kind of persons who broke up in a relationship. I had 4 relationship...
    otoumie otoumie 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I don't think people are afraid of falling in love, i think that people are afraid to meet someone who they already have met last year or the last time they broke up with. And the...
    Manuala Manuala 18-21, F Sep 23

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    Once i get my hopes togheter it falls apart , i'm afraid to love people i'm afraid to get my hopes togheter again , i'm afraid that i will expect to much
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Sep 7

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    i am afraid of rejection thats why i put up with everything you say ... just so i wouldn't end up alone ... no matter how unfair and stupid your demands are i put up with them...
    curiousmoi curiousmoi 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    Not afraid but i don't love anyone. I just love myself, i spend my all time with myself cause i don't like to have any friends, i solve my problems by myself, talk to myself, i do...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Sep 23

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    Currently I have a job making $70k a year but it's only temporary and when it's over I don't know how I'll pay my bills....I worry so much about how I'll make ends meet. I don't...
    Lmp3 Lmp3 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm afraid that if I ever got together with my crush, people would try to split us up. I'm afraid of ill-willed people spreading rumors and lies about us. I'm afraid of losing the...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I like it when people comment on my pics. Gunna upload a new pic in a minute. Comments on my pics make me want to upload more.
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 10

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    I will comment when i feel like commenting. So don't ask me, or try to force me.
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Just out of curiously that is why I have to create this group. I know I had comments on selective members' stories. If I do read a story if I can't think have a comment. I would...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have a date on Saturday. The guy's cute and nice and whatever I guess, but I am so afraid. He's pretty muscular because of basic training and I don't know why but when guys are...
    sarcasm4427 sarcasm4427 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I'm simple not afraid of dying and I haven't been sense 7 years old. I know some of you are going say that bull **** but it the truth. I learn at very young age to accept death and...
    Custos1 Custos1 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I have a friend who is truly not afraid to be herself. She's blunt with her interests and doesn't care what others think. The first time she met my sister openly told her she was...
    blueamber blueamber 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Growing up, many strange things used to happen around me. I'm not sure when I began to notice this.. thing that was following me around. At first it was sounds, shadows, and...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I'm afraid to tell him how I feel about him, Mr. Boston. I am falling in love with him. I know he will be gone soon...never to return with my heart. I know I shouldn't have...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 16

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    I'm not afraid to make decisions but I'm afraid if I make that decision people will judge me on that decision I made
    sillyrose1994 sillyrose1994 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    nothing has changed since all of this begun...every effort i make to return to god only makes things worse...i have prayed, tried to stand on faith, cried[still do] begged and...
    brokenhope4ever brokenhope4ever 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    I so want to admire myself for being brave and not hiding myself so I don't get hurt but I can't because I'm afraid. I don't try to be someone I'm not...I'm not a phony. That would...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 Sep 21

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    I am very much afraid of this girl I really like saying no, I like her A LOT, I really want to be with her but I am afraid, I have told her how i feel about her, help?
    JeremyRamm JeremyRamm 26-30, M 4 Responses Sep 22

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    I had the biggest crush on my friend since 8th-11th grade and I told him how I felt but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship, I was fine with that but then I started asking...
    LostCause LostCause 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I don't think I'm afraid of it, I think I'm afraid of what will happen whilst I'm there. I think it's just the initial fear of trying something new and not knowing exactly what it...
    ChloeMiller ChloeMiller 13-15, F a week ago

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    Facing a clock on how much time I have left, I'm not afraid to go...I am afraid of not having someone to hold my hand while I pass, but as it grows nearer, I've even started to...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am afraid of being turned down, but I think I am more afraid of being hurt. The few times I've asked a girl out, I felt like I was standing way out on a swaying branch. I mean...
    Hellcat43 Hellcat43 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am scared of death but mostly it scares me to think where my soul will go. I mean I believe in God and pray to him but I don't go to Church because I work on the weekends so I'm...
    Moonstripe1993 Moonstripe1993 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    http://www.mtv.com/news/1926484/male-birth-control/ Sometimes the comments section is the best part of the article. APPARENTLY WE ARE SURROUNDED BY SOME REALLY STUPID PEOPLE...
    heybro heybro 56-60, M Sep 11

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    Some jerk here on Experience Project sent me a message yesterday on one of my emotional stories insulting me & calling me names. I deleted his stupid comment & blocked him. I...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M Sep 16

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    This honestly irritates me to no end. What is the point in commenting just to start an argument? Why go out of your way to belittle another person or undermine other people's...
    EscapeMee EscapeMee 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Add me and comment ;) 18+
    sweety7268 sweety7268 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 22

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    If I judge a comment to be inappropriate on one of my stories I will delete it.
    rorytheawesomeboy rorytheawesomeboy 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    IM DONE. TRIED TO GET AS MANY NEW ONES AS I COULD FIT. RAN OUT OF SPACE. GO CHECK EM OUT AND LEAVE A COMMENT IF YOU SEE ANYTHING YOU LIKE
    MaxSinner MaxSinner 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    Haven't done this in a while, please comment on my photos. Is there anything else you'd like to see?
    Cindycharm Cindycharm 36-40, T 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It was a bad essay because I didn't have a topic. But even though the comments are supposed to make you better, it still hurts you to read them for some reason. Like you feel...
    hummingbird88 hummingbird88 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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