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I Am Afraid to Comment

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    Is It Fear?

    I suppose it is, although I'm not entirely sure what there is to be afraid of. I try to comment on stories I read, but some posts are so personal, and so full of emotions of hurt, and stress, and sorrow, that the last thing I want to do is butt in, or say something (however well...
    Opalgem Opalgem 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    Lately...

    Lately I have been afraid to comment. Either half the time my comments don't even get acknoldege or the other half of the comments get picked apart and people are just so ungratful for the comments. I'm so sick of it, so lately I have been not commenting. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18, 2012

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    People Can Be So Sensitive

      Some stories you just don't feel right commenting on because they seem so personal & private. Others you don't know if they'll take it the wrong way. I can spend 30 minutes on a story trying to figure out how to word things in such a way that the author will either...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    Commenting Stories

    When it comes to commenting stories, I dont how to start or what to say most of the time. P.S, Sorry it's really short
    eh6557 eh6557 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Most of the Time.........

       I remember when I first came to EP, I was a commenting fool. lol. I'd read every story in every group I joined & try to leave something. What I found was that a lot of times I was completely ignored, or worse had some of my hide torn to bits because I didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Leave Me Alone, Please Dont Leave Me

    i dont want to love you but i do, i dont want to kiss you but i do it . i dont want to be happy with you , but i am, i dont want to give you any thing ,but i give you every thing, i dont want to have your son, but i did, i didnt want to love your daughter, but she has my heart...
    cutie2christy cutie2christy 36-40, F Dec 26, 2011

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    I Mess Everything Up

    I never mean to hurt or offend anyone, but what ever I do is wrong. Whenever a friend is unhappy I feel guilty, whether it's my fault or not. And I never know if it's my fault! This is why I stopped talking to my friends in real life, it was so much to handle for me.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 22 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Comment

    I'm not afraid to comment at all.  I'm done commenting, reading, etc. Soon, I'll also be done writting.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 10, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 25

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    its either your comment is stupid and you make me laugh or you're a nice person in my opinion.
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    heybro heybro 56-60, M Sep 11

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    I've never let myself get to a stage that I can be rejected because I'm afraid of how I will feel afterwards. I'm also too polite to reject someone
    Chemly Chemly 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 22