I Am Afraid to Commit

for people who find it hand to just say, yes. We're full of I dont knows and maybes. We skip around subjects. We're afraid to commit. 29 People

    I have come to the conclusion

    that I am afraid to commit to a relationship, like I wont be able to give whatever the other person is expecting of me. Or that I wont be good enough, or I wont be what they're expecting. I realize that I've basically given up on myself, which is pretty crappy. And I'm trying to...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2014

    I'm afraid I'm going to put in

    so much, just to feel the bitter disappointment...
    Kaychani7 Kaychani7
    22-25, F
    Dec 8, 2013

    I Notorious For Pushing People Away

    There was one person who I felt ready to commit to, I was ready to give up everyone else and any chance to be with someone in the future to be with him. After five years, that fell apart after he cheated and I lost all trust and respect for him. Recently, I found myself crazy...
    writingablog writingablog
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2012

    Its weird because commitment is something

    that I really want. I want to find that someone and then eventually move in with them, get married, have kids. The whole package. I'm just afraid that if I commit myself to soon into something then I'm just going to get hurt. Does anyone else think like that?
    wonderland63893 wonderland63893
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2015


    I want to get married, but am afraid to repeat the mistake of my mother. My mother had married when she was 18. A year later I was born, not long after my father had left the family. He came back when I was 5 years old. I remember it was a shock for me, I though that another man...
    Larisa838 Larisa838
    31-35, F
    Jun 6, 2013
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