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I Am Afraid to Let My Boyfriend Go Off to the Army

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 28 People

    Damned If I Do And Damned If I Dont

    I started liking someone I "met" online. He told me he's joining the navy and i freaked out. My mother told me to cut contact, and i was so low i listened to her for a week thinking maybe she is right. Well a week later i felt better, stronger, thought id be able to either handle...
    Girlintrouble1194 Girlintrouble1194 18-21, F May 9, 2013

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    Nick <3

     i can't remember a time when nick wasn't in my life, and i really i don't want to remember, hes in the army and soon to go to training, it kills me everytime he goes, so how am i going to deal when he leaves. I am so proud of him for what he is doing hes an amazing lad for...
    elliebug elliebug 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2010

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    My Story

    My name is Amanda and i love my boyfriend and me and him have been dating for 7 months now. he has told me he wants to join the army and i am supportive of whatever he wants to do but i am just afraid of how i am going to deal with him being gone when he does join and goes to...
    aaa18256 aaa18256 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23, 2008

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    In A Struggle

    Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and he decided that he wanted to join the service(army) and i listened to his reasoning and his decision sounded kinda final. And i am 100% supportive but how do i deal with him being gone. And the one question i continue to...
    Jan 30, 2013

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    Im Afraid

    im elizabeth and ive been with my boyfriend jesse for 3 weeks now.he told me that he was joining the army one we started going out. Im afraid that when he leaves we wont be able to contact eachother. And if somehing happened to me he would have no way of finding out.
    lizz16 lizz16 16-17, F May 12, 2012

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    Military Worries

    My boyfriend of nearly a year has decided he wants to go into the army. He has been accepted into a military defence college of which I will not see him for months on end. I'm scared of the day he starts(which will be soon) as he is a massive support to me and I usually see him...
    musicmilitary musicmilitary 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2013

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    Counting the Days!

    Parish and I have been together for a year and a half... he is going into the army basic training in the next few months (we're not sure of the date yet). And i am SO nervous! I cant be away from him for 2 days, i dont know how well im going to take it. But i love him! and with...
    hehasmyheart23 hehasmyheart23 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2008

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    I Don't Want Him Too.

    I'm scared my boyfriend will go to the armed forces. He says he wants too and he just turned 18. We have been together for 1 year and a little over 3 months. We have talked about it but.. He doesn't understand..
    Rock9762 Rock9762 13-15, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Army Boyfriend

     me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now, a few months ago he got the sack from his job and his dad is forcing him into the army which he as always wanted to do secretly since he was younger and he thinks it will be an amazing experince for him and i dont wanna...
    teddy4pudding teddy4pudding 16-17 1 Response Nov 3, 2008

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    Elizabeth's Story

    Hi I am Elizabeth I am 16 years old me and my boyfriend Gunnar have been together for 12 months now he is thinking about going into the army i just don't really know how to deal with not seeing him for a long amount of time and also worrying about him all of the time i support...
    ElizabethMichelle ElizabethMichelle 16-17 Jan 28, 2012

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    Last night I was cooking dinner for me and my boyfriend. Well I was also cleaning a couple dishes. Then my boyfriend walked up behind me and he tried to pull down my pj pants. Well...
    Katelyn02 Katelyn02 22-25, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    ServingGirlUK ServingGirlUK 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend, whom I haven't seen in 9 months, was suppose to come see me for my birthday. His flight was cancelled and work never lets him take time off. We only were suppose to...
    Jene1994 Jene1994 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    tummytum tummytum 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    One thing I've learned is that army girlfriends understand something no one else does. We know what it is to love someone truly for their person. We don't have a ring or his last...
    tplum15 tplum15 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I volunteer I'm a shelter for battered women and children. last Wednesday evening a mother came in very badly beaten and with what turned out to be a broken arm. She had a 9 year...
    g4it g4it 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend's ex just can't seem to let go. He has told her it's over, there's no getting back together. He told her he's moved on. He finally had to change his phone number to...
    SpellboundSoul SpellboundSoul 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I keep my heart closed off to people usually. They can always have a part of me, but rarely do they get all of me. I've been shown too many times that it's easy for people just to...
    kk1874 kk1874 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    When he comes home: The earth will stand still. We will become one again; it will be earth-shattering. Soul-tearing. Intoxicating. I will be drunker off his love than I have ever...
    SnowbearBoobear SnowbearBoobear 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm trying to play it cool, and my friend told me to too. I could easily tell you how I feel over facebook msgr just as easily, because we've been that way for the past few months...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel like a crazy spaz that drives my boyfriend nuts but it's all in love.
    karrilynn karrilynn 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    He just so awful to her treats her like **** and leaves her crying all the time. I'd love to talk to him and tell him exactly what I think but it's not possible (they're long...
    hopelessdreamer83 hopelessdreamer83 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    100 reasons why I love my boyfriend! These are 100 reasons why I love you, you mean everything to me and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to have you baby, I want to...
    aimeethompson233344 aimeethompson233344 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Except I already have. The best friends I managed to keep throughout high school and some college...they are all gone. Of course, I blame no one but myself. I had a best friend in...
    DremeJolie DremeJolie 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I need some advice or if anyone has gone through this. Recently my boyfriend has just got back from being deployed and is currently home right now. I met him at the airport last...
    eguerrette eguerrette 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I seem to always be preoccupied with her and all these feelings I have for her. Yes I am married, for almost fifty years now but this goes beyond that. Yes I am alot older but age...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 28

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    So yesterday I had an 8am class. I set my alarm for 6:45am the previous night, but then decided when it went off that I wasn't going and just turned it off and went back to sleep...
    Sagazo96 Sagazo96 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I am 34, never had a boyfriend, and I am afraid I'm going to be single forever. If by 34 I have never had a boyfriend, there must be something wrong with me. Guys just don't like...
    AMIAROM AMIAROM 31-35, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    Another day, another person soon to leave my life. As I am sure you have experienced, people come and go into ones life. I struggle with letting people in, close to my heart...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I'm SURE I'm getting a return. But I'm disabled on a pension forever. It's hard to live in Canada on 8500 a year. Especially when rent costs pretty much 8500 a year for a small one...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now. However, we've been in a long distance relationship for about 5-6 months now. He's my first boyfriend, and maybe my last...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months now and we each have a child both are boys his son is 5 and my son is 6. They get along for the most part they bicker here...
    RoseyL RoseyL 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Well he was just my boyfriend for a quick fleeting week and it's the first time that I've ever pulled the plug on a relationship.... I usually just sabotage and expect them to get...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    true. I mean I'm 21 now and the only person basically I'm friends with is my boyfriend literally don't **** with other people.
    L0nerSt0ner L0nerSt0ner 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I am an idiot. I've been in a pretty stable ongoing relationship for a year and six months but recently the splendor and overal enjoyment of being with my partner has declined...
    IAmWhoIAmWhoAmI IAmWhoIAmWhoAmI 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Dear Friends, Yes, i am funny. I made you laugh. I smile. I can be stupid and an idiot. I can be loyal, kind and patient. I am the least person you can think of that can get angry...
    sabrinabryn sabrinabryn 13-15, F Jan 23

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    When someone expects you to be someone you're not. - Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    In todays world' most guys u find is either selfish or just wants to use u.(NOT SAYING ALL GUYS ARE) but every time I go see my friends they are either talking about their new...
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