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I Am Against All Forms Of Abuse

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    Any and all it's NOT ok,

    it messes up the mind, scars the soul. I have PTSD depression and some other things, I've tried to o d Mostly cause of the abuse... Why is the world so cold? I've been trying to find the light or happyness
    1Freeyourself1 1Freeyourself1 18-21, M Dec 29, 2013

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    I need to say this for all of us.

    I take full responsibility for what I am about to say. I realize MANY will strongly disagree w/me. I am a Christian. Have been one for 44 years. Some of us Christian give Christianity a bad name by what and how we say what we are saying. How we live/behave. I have noticed...
    RhodeIslandLady RhodeIslandLady 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My Mother-in-laws Turn

    Today my mother-in-law visited us. Everything stated off well. Then I left the room to use the bathroom and have a smoke. When I came back they were begining an argument. The argument consisted of how she was abused as a child by her father. How her father was never...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Jul 29, 2012

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    Stop female mutilation it's a disgrace

    and any one carrying out these acts should be mutilated permanently as child abuse
    howardcoleman howardcoleman 66-70, M Mar 20

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    People Or Animals Who Would Stand For Such A Thing.

    Emotional, mental, or physical who would really approve of it? I got bullied but was lucky to be as strong as I am. I have a strong will and brute strength. I would defend myself from many. I wasn't even seen as a women sometimes. I don't really care anymore. It's funny when I...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    There Are All Forms

    There are all forms of abuse; physical, emotional, mental, and variations thereof. The abuse that bothers me the most is that mental, emotional variation called passive aggressiveness.  I think it bothers me so much because it's not only hurtful it's also frustrating.  I would...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Aug 2, 2012

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    Where do I start I lived in a very violent

    household for around 16 years. Daily there would be put downs/fights physical and emotional. And it was hidden away. My mother suffered a great deal and I'd divert a lot of it onto myself. I realised I dislike violence I have had a difficult time getting on my own two feet as...
    Zzzzzzzzrrr Zzzzzzzzrrr 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 20

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    I Ruin Photos

    So the other day I asked my wife to take a photo of my son and me. The immediate response I got was "NO!". "You'll ruin the picture like you ruin everything". This made me think as I found myself uploading photos to snapfish to share with everyone that the last picture of my...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M May 31, 2012

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    You always Hear about a guy rapeing a girl

    or a guy hiting a girl, but people think that is fine when it's vice versa, I hate it abuse is bad no matter what gender.
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    Take A Stand

    I was a victim of abuse so from a woman's perspective I know what it's like. I work with children who daily live in fear of someone hurting them. I've witnessed the effects first hand, on animals that were neglected and abused. No abuse is excusable...we need to give a voice...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 29, 2012

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    The Elderly

    This is one form of abuse not often spoken of but my friends it happens a lot! I worked as a CNA for a few years and i could tell some hair raising tales. Ive seen a daughter slap her mother,because mama didnt want to eat. ive seen paitents ignored because they need or want extra...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Aug 18, 2012

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    And Her Mother Is Now In The Thick Of It

    So we are suppose to go on vacation next week. A week solid of a person that does nothing but argue. Imagine my excitment. After last weeks argument she decided she wasn't going, now she is. She got the place for a fathers day gift for her dad. When she invited her parents...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    This IS real life. Get it in your head. Unless you're in some kind of role play, what you do/say to someone on line is real. Bullying is wrong in all forms. It's so easy to bully...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 2

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    If I see you, I will report you. I will shame the living bejesus out of you. I don't care if you're male, female, trans or just got out of your spaceship on the planet earth, if...
    extraneous1 extraneous1 51-55, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Right now I'm like sobbing my eyes out as I write this. My dad and I don't get along too well. All he does is complain, yell at me, threaten to hit/abuse me ALL THE TIME. (Even In...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I haven`t yet worked out where to place this yet, but it will probably be under "I love my wife", or a site somewhere on these lines. I actually placed it in "I love", but then I...
    0utlander 0utlander 56-60, M Aug 12

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    Anyone knowing my own personal experiences won't be supprised that I'm against it, but what is "it" exactly? Child abuse. It's not always sexual, not even physical... it's taking...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    In my first "experience" I told you that you and I are different. This experience will just be peeling back one of the layers so you can see in more detail. I was diagnosed with...
    AshTheShade AshTheShade 31-35, M Aug 10

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    This is again when I was young, around 8-10yrs, may be..... My cousin was staying in my grandpa's place and was working somewhere. He should've been in his early 20s. Whenever I...
    tickoo2 tickoo2 36-40, M 16 hrs ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post links but I wanted to give out my bandcamp page here. If you have read my other experiences on this site you can understand where I am coming...
    UsernameEntered UsernameEntered 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    Those who abuse women are not men. They're scum. Amongst the lowest forms of filth.
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Well today after getting out of the ward I was on for a day, I am still extremely confused about what is classed as abuse and if it happened to me, didn't help that yesterday the...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I had been talking to my wife about breast forms, well she went online to Janet'sCloset.com and found some 42d and ordered them and also some Hollister adheavise. When they...
    pmgurl pmgurl 51-55 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My best friend was abused as a child and from the stories he told me, I am still really distraught over what his Dad did to him. It was physical and emotional abuse. People always...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    On your apartment patio in Italy, Darkness surrounds us. The bottle of wine bleeds it's last drop into your open mouth. I feel it's weight. I see your face through a haze. Your...
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Yes, I'm definitely against it, especially when it comes to **********. I mean, humans having sex with animals? How sick, pathetic, degrading and gross. I believe people should be...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    2 things: 1) Most of those who make abuse and violence to children have been threated that way too. 2) Most children will see the limits imposed by adults as abuse, when it is not...
    Sjachaurix Sjachaurix 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Anyone who abuses a child, in ANY way, whether physically, sexually or mentally. Does not deserve to have a child let alone be allowed near them at any time. everytime i hear...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I've experienced the most exalting sensual, intimate moments exploring and worshipping the female body. Not any female body. But one that I've been drawn to by sheer chemistry. A...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm one of those people that think that child abusers and animal abusers should have what they've done to their victims upon themselves 7x over.
    mcatH2O mcatH2O 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I knew a girl in college who had had 15 terminations. Her bf wouldn't allow her to use any form of contraception. But she was happy to go through the procedure to satisfy him. I...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I was abused by my ex fiancé. We had been friends for years. He had a a lot of issues then went through a life changing event that I supported him through. He went sober. No...
    KnightingaleAM KnightingaleAM 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    At the time it was horrific - but now the dark chapter s are in the past, I can move on as a more powerful and wise person - and able to connect more closely to others. When...
    LiveTruthfully LiveTruthfully 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I had recently gotten out of a three year relationship when I met my current husband. He was an old friend, well liked by a lot of people. I thought I knew him. We wound up...
    breakingout2014 breakingout2014 26-30, F Aug 14

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    And DO wear them. I enjoy wearing bras, I find them both comforting and exciting, and naturally want something to fill the cups. When I was younger, socks were all I had to work...
    LockedDarius LockedDarius 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 20

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    I really am. As someone who has been abused her whole life i know how damaging it can be and feel
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 12 Responses Aug 6

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    I am in the minority view perhaps advocating the returning of capital punishment for crimes and the guillotine. There are just so few crimes it should be reserved for, murder being...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    If you are going to have a child just to abuse him or her, then you should not be having children. Children are human beings. So treat them like human beings. Having a child is...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    i hate any type of domestic violence against women, be it physical, sexual, or psychological, my heart goes out to women in these terrible situations, women's shelters are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 7

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    Had the toughest nursing shift last night. In my entire life, that was the very first time someone insulted and scornfully treated me with so much disrespect like I'm a piece of...
    J2911 J2911 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    My secondary school English teacher. He was one of the youngest teachers on the board of this school. What was worse, it was one of the oldest schools in Poland. I think every...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M Aug 15

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    I do not understand the ignorance of people when it comes to an infants genitals. Why is it okay to remove 20,000 nerve endings, 300ft of blood vessels, and 16+ functions from a...
    EvansMommy33014 EvansMommy33014 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Religious crap gets rammed down the throats of millions of innocent kids the world over, from all religions. It is the worst kind of mental child abuse and many of them turn into...
    uknudy uknudy 66-70, M 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Has anyone else heard someone say "it's ok to hit a woman if she's a hoe"? That ****** me off, You can't just use violence against someone just because they have immoral habits. I...
    danamillion danamillion 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I want nothing more than to forget it... Sometimes I have nightmares of what happened in my childhood on the outside everything seemed perfect most people looked at my household...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    Survivor means I lived to tell the story. I will tell the story even though the ones who hurt me made me sure that no-one would ever believe me. I will tell the story even though...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 1 Response Aug 21

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