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I Am Against All Forms Of Abuse

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    Any and all it's NOT ok,

    it messes up the mind, scars the soul. I have PTSD depression and some other things, I've tried to o d Mostly cause of the abuse... Why is the world so cold? I've been trying to find the light or happyness
    1Freeyourself1 1Freeyourself1 18-21, M Dec 29, 2013

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    Where do I start I lived in a very violent

    household for around 16 years. Daily there would be put downs/fights physical and emotional. And it was hidden away. My mother suffered a great deal and I'd divert a lot of it onto myself. I realised I dislike violence I have had a difficult time getting on my own two feet as...
    Zzzzzzzzrrr Zzzzzzzzrrr 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 20

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    I Ruin Photos

    So the other day I asked my wife to take a photo of my son and me. The immediate response I got was "NO!". "You'll ruin the picture like you ruin everything". This made me think as I found myself uploading photos to snapfish to share with everyone that the last picture of my...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M May 31, 2012

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    People Or Animals Who Would Stand For Such A Thing.

    Emotional, mental, or physical who would really approve of it? I got bullied but was lucky to be as strong as I am. I have a strong will and brute strength. I would defend myself from many. I wasn't even seen as a women sometimes. I don't really care anymore. It's funny when I...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    And Her Mother Is Now In The Thick Of It

    So we are suppose to go on vacation next week. A week solid of a person that does nothing but argue. Imagine my excitment. After last weeks argument she decided she wasn't going, now she is. She got the place for a fathers day gift for her dad. When she invited her parents...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    There Are All Forms

    There are all forms of abuse; physical, emotional, mental, and variations thereof. The abuse that bothers me the most is that mental, emotional variation called passive aggressiveness.  I think it bothers me so much because it's not only hurtful it's also frustrating.  I would...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Aug 2, 2012

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    Take A Stand

    I was a victim of abuse so from a woman's perspective I know what it's like. I work with children who daily live in fear of someone hurting them. I've witnessed the effects first hand, on animals that were neglected and abused. No abuse is excusable...we need to give a voice...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 29, 2012

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    Stop female mutilation it's a disgrace

    and any one carrying out these acts should be mutilated permanently as child abuse
    howardcoleman howardcoleman 66-70, M Mar 20

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    I need to say this for all of us.

    I take full responsibility for what I am about to say. I realize MANY will strongly disagree w/me. I am a Christian. Have been one for 44 years. Some of us Christian give Christianity a bad name by what and how we say what we are saying. How we live/behave. I have noticed...
    RhodeIslandLady RhodeIslandLady 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My Mother-in-laws Turn

    Today my mother-in-law visited us. Everything stated off well. Then I left the room to use the bathroom and have a smoke. When I came back they were begining an argument. The argument consisted of how she was abused as a child by her father. How her father was never...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Jul 29, 2012

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    The Elderly

    This is one form of abuse not often spoken of but my friends it happens a lot! I worked as a CNA for a few years and i could tell some hair raising tales. Ive seen a daughter slap her mother,because mama didnt want to eat. ive seen paitents ignored because they need or want extra...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Aug 18, 2012

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    I am one in a small but growing minority of people who have an allergy to peanuts. I'm sure it's around 5-6% of the population who have this allergy to all forms of nut. In growing...
    TheBrooklynKid TheBrooklynKid 46-50, M Jun 23

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    I am not only against gay marriage, but against all kinds of civil marriage. I think only religious marriage should exist. What happens to kids then? When a couple has a child...
    gio36 gio36 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm really scared to tell my boyfriend about all the abuse I went through as kid. I am also scared to tell him about how my mom try's to control me all the time.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I was abused by my mother... For so long while growing up while I was younger hit me for what seem for no reason! If I didn't do as she asked quickly as she wanted she'd hit or...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F Jul 7

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    today is July 23rd 2014. The last time I seen my son was in the winter of 2009. Here is my story... I was 21 years old and about to give birth in a months time. My son's father and...
    Kristin727 Kristin727 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    I was his child, his lineage,his dreams and hopes.Every day I look at myself I see him.Thats why my sister hates me.She destroyed everything good. When she was sick and didn't do...
    CharmH CharmH 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    Once u was abused, i tell u honestly- u will never get over it. Never. You can do a therapy , it will help you to bring all the repressed hurt out but it wouldnt make the abuse...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Boy everyone here is really taking a stand. Ooooh you are against child abuse! So edgy! How can you stand to be so daring?? Does this even need to be said? Does anyone like child...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I believe that a child just as every other human being is entitled to their own opinion that was not set on them by their religious parents or guardians. By telling someone (child...
    trysten778 trysten778 13-15, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    All dressed up and no one to use me, so it's out with the gel and a nice fat candle and up it goes oh what pleasure but not the same as the real thing
    Johnina Johnina 66-70, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I asked her to send me my gifts back. She said "yes" but that she needed my address for that (she'd never bothered coming to my place, I always had to go hers). She didn't send the...
    Apoil Apoil 36-40, M 12 hrs ago

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    And all I'm asking for is to get my dignity back, get some apologies. I've begged for some. I never had them. She must have enjoyed humiliating me more instead.
    Apoil Apoil 36-40, M 12 hrs ago

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    I remember once a "funny" anecdot. I'm French. She's half English half French which means she can speak "some" French. Anyway... Once again, she'd found a new way of humiliating me...
    Apoil Apoil 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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    Here I shall explain why I am not religious even though I like the people and the other stuff.... So when I was a kid I believed in god and all and then I got epilepsy from a...
    thehippy69 thehippy69 18-21 5 hrs ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    While I was growing up I was abused daily by my oldest brother. He would beat me repeatedly. He blacked my eye on more than one occasion. There was nothing I could do about it. My...
    nephthysbaby nephthysbaby 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Hurt or abuse/molest a child in any way.... Rape another person.... Kill someone...... Lose your life!
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I want to leave my boyfriend of three years so badly but I don't know how. Our relationship is agressive and self destructing. When it's good it's great. But when we fight I am...
    elephant70 elephant70 18-21, F Jun 28

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    I'm trying to get a conviction against a man who sexually abused me.
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Everybody should hate child abuse of any kind and it should not even exist.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Every kid should be happy with their lives and no one should abuse a child in anyway. If it's verbal or physical, I don't want kids to suffer what people like me did.
    Alyzza123 Alyzza123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I have a lot of respect for people who look past calling abusers "demons and evil" and try to figure out WHY they did it. This way we can over time prevent this from ever...
    Glass64bit Glass64bit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    It's a terrible terrible thing to deprive a child, the purest form of a human being of happiness. Eventhough I don't like kids I would never imagine why ANYONE would want to cause...
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    A few days ago searching Amazon found a pair of silicone forms for a great price. They arrived last night but we had visitors over. This morning gave them a try on all I can say...
    cdgirdled cdgirdled 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It really hurts being parted from my daughter. But I wouldn’t trade those feelings for the world. Yes, no one likes divorce. The problems between my ex are our own, and not my...
    Sparrowhawk1161 Sparrowhawk1161 51-55, M Jun 29

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    I was emotionally abused by my mother all of my life. The abuse started as i was 9 and continued till last year. As i lived with my parents in my mother country i was hurt every...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    So there I was over 30 with there beautiful children. I had been being abused by the man I married for apx ten years. I had gotten a job not a great job but I made some money and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8

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    So here is my story all my life I seeked attention I wanted to be the cemter of attention : talking loud .acting dramaticly .fighting with teacher to make them noticing me born in...
    aryela aryela 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I am stronger because of all I've been through... I was 16 when everything happened. It all seemed to snowball honestly. I had been home sick with the flu. I was staying at my...
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    People who are mental , physical, sexual abuse survivors try to ignore the pain and they say they got over abuse. Nobody can get over every kind of abuse. I met all the liers...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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    I don't know whats worse; the physical or emotional abuse.. Physical signs of abuse go away, well most of mine did; a couple scars and such here and there but nothing a little...
    softballgirl3 softballgirl3 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    If i see someone abusing their child in any way, especially physically, i always feel; the urge to find a belt and just whack them with it, seeing how they like it when they're the...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    This could be triggering to anyone with experiences of sexual or domestic abuse. My life has not been easy. In 2012, I discovered that I was sexually abused as a child. I have no...
    LucellaLuna LucellaLuna 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm only 14. I've had depression, technically, since I was about 8 or 9 (when I realized just how big of an a**hole my dad was), but it's only been a problem for about a year or so...
    LaurenHarris LaurenHarris 13-15, F 3 Responses