I Am Against All Forms Of Abuse

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3,361 People

    Education is the best way to end abuse.

    sandmoon sandmoon
    41-45, F
    Sep 18, 2014

    I don't understand how some one can hurt people

    for no reason. What kind of sick thoughts go through your heads? Do you feel guilty, or try to justify what you did?
    CreativeKitty CreativeKitty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    Mental abuse may not leave a bruise

    but it's still abuse. And it changes people. My children will never have to worry about that from my husband or I, like both of us did from our fathers.
    Casaundra612 Casaundra612
    26-30, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    I don't normally call people out

    but Karldodge is probably the most abusive person on the entirety of EP. People have opinions and political criticism is all in the game but there should be no place on this website for threats an personal abuse. Now when he calls me an English socialist f*** or whatever, I won...
    Burnley123 Burnley123
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 2, 2016

    I hate when I tell someone

    that I'm abused and have depression and an anxiety and mental illnesses and that I self harm and they pretend to care for a couple of days and then after that they jut don't give a **** and don't care anymore and decide that I'm faking my serious situation. Who would do that...
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    There was a time when I had no idea what abuse

    is. I experienced a form of abuse as bullying in my teen years. I thought it was a nightmare. It changed me at the core. But I still had no idea what abuse really is. I went through cycles of hate and anger, followed by utter emotionlessness which scars me to this very day. And...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    Whether it's verbal or physical,

    on a human or an animal, abuse is abuse. And anyone who could abuse a being should have their *** royally kicked by several people.
    IfYoure555Im666 IfYoure555Im666
    22-25, M
    May 28, 2015

    Where do I start I lived in a very violent

    household for around 16 years. Daily there would be put downs/fights physical and emotional. And it was hidden away. My mother suffered a great deal and I'd divert a lot of it onto myself. I realised I dislike violence I have had a difficult time getting on my own two feet as...
    Zzzzzzzzrrr Zzzzzzzzrrr
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    And Her Mother Is Now In The Thick Of It

    So we are suppose to go on vacation next week. A week solid of a person that does nothing but argue. Imagine my excitment. After last weeks argument she decided she wasn't going, now she is. She got the place for a fathers day gift for her dad. When she invited her parents...
    j21043 j21043
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 4, 2012

    So I ran away a couple of days ago,

    and they made me come back (they= police and family). They said they were gonna change and so far that's bullshit. I am leaving when I turn 17 whether they like it or not, they cannot make me stay. I am done with my mother telling me that I am a mean and ugly ***** . She says...
    nomnommings nomnommings
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2015

    There Are All Forms

    There are all forms of abuse; physical, emotional, mental, and variations thereof. The abuse that bothers me the most is that mental, emotional variation called passive aggressiveness.  I think it bothers me so much because it's not only hurtful it's also frustrating.  I would...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    Aug 2, 2012

    This week is fall break

    for me. Most kids love breaks from school but I hate them. It usually means my parents can hit me and leave really bad marks because no one will see them. I always get spanked and hit a lot more too since I'm not allowed to leave the house. I just feel like my dad is going to...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    I need to say this for all of us.

    I take full responsibility for what I am about to say. I realize MANY will strongly disagree w/me. I am a Christian. Have been one for 44 years. Some of us Christian give Christianity a bad name by what and how we say what we are saying. How we live/behave. I have noticed...
    RhodeIslandLady RhodeIslandLady
    61-65, F
    4 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I love how at every job I've ever worked,

    they have these long, detailed policies posted about how discrimination/harassment/etc based on race, gender, etc won't be tolerated. Okay, great - I'm glad that that particular subset of bullying isn't allowed. But what about people who harass you because they're abusive jerks...
    SilverSearching SilverSearching
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

    Domestic Abuse: https://m.

    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    16-17, M
    Jan 17, 2016

    Okay, so I just read a long,

    detailed thingie about Scientology, it's history, it's tenants, and how the organization operates. I'm now officially convinced that Scientology is the worst kind of criminal cult. The creator of Scientology originally tried to sell his whole philosophy to the psychology...
    SilverSearching SilverSearching
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    A friend of mine that has a mentally

    and emotionally abusive boyfriend. He physically pushes her around too. In addition to this she's 9 months pregnant with their child. I really worry about and fear for her safety. What can I say to her? Any thoughts?
    Mfudgie Mfudgie
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    My story is up on my profile under "I am me,

    I am you, I am them". This one is for something I witnessed and decided to stop, there are several incidences like this, but this was the latest, and one that I am not proud of at all, but I will share it anyway. This happened last May, it was just getting nice, and I remember...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

    Did you know ************ is under the

    definition of self-abuse? Look it up! self-abuse - dictionary.com (3rd definition) - crazy right? Puts a whole new perspective on why people may be doing this, widely accepted and also taboo to talk about, subject.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    You always Hear about a guy rapeing a girl

    or a guy hiting a girl, but people think that is fine when it's vice versa, I hate it abuse is bad no matter what gender.
    dominick6 dominick6
    18-21, M
    Aug 25, 2014

    Any and all it's NOT ok,

    it messes up the mind, scars the soul. I have PTSD depression and some other things, I've tried to o d Mostly cause of the abuse... Why is the world so cold? I've been trying to find the light or happyness
    1Freeyourself1 1Freeyourself1
    18-21, M
    Dec 29, 2013

    It's true! It is... I AM against ALL forms of

    Abuse, and even when the person being abused is also the one who is being abusive. There is nothing wrong with pain, feelings of shame, guilt or even self doubt. However, when any natural human emotion is brought upon someone in a manner that is less than just it suddenly...
    zacqknight zacqknight
    36-40, M
    Jan 12, 2016

    The girl you just called fat.

    .. She's on diet pills... The girl you just called ugly...she spends hours putting makeup on hoping people will like her.. The boy you just tripped... He is abused enough at home... See the man with the ugly scars ... He fought for his country.. The 14 year old girl ..with a...
    chain55 chain55
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015

    Live your life to the best of your human

    capability. Open your mind up to new ideas and share them with the world. Value the ones who always think about you and want you to follow your dreams Eliminate all negative people from your environment and life and keep your head up.
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend
    31-35, M
    Sep 17, 2014

    The best way to bring ugliness to the surface

    is to create a group or social context in which that ugliness is celebrated. Just because you have a group of people around you that say it's okay doesn't make it okay.
    SilverSearching SilverSearching
    31-35, M
    Jan 25, 2016

    What about Verbal Abuse?

    What constitutes Verbal Abuse? Can it be stopped? Is it valid? I have my opinions on these questions, what are yours?
    Aleksandar262 Aleksandar262
    26-30, T
    Mar 17, 2015

    To all the people who stay in bad situations

    for their kid's sake: The thing about kids is that they learn a lot more by what you do then by what you say - if they see you sitting in unhappiness and not doing anything about it, then they'll grow up and do the same thing. If they see you getting abused and just taking it...
    SilverSearching SilverSearching
    31-35, M
    Sep 8, 2015

    People Or Animals Who Would Stand For Such A Thing.

    Emotional, mental, or physical who would really approve of it? I got bullied but was lucky to be as strong as I am. I have a strong will and brute strength. I would defend myself from many. I wasn't even seen as a women sometimes. I don't really care anymore. It's funny when I...
    Tara277 Tara277
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

    Take A Stand

    I was a victim of abuse so from a woman's perspective I know what it's like. I work with children who daily live in fear of someone hurting them. I've witnessed the effects first hand, on animals that were neglected and abused. No abuse is excusable...we need to give a voice...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 29, 2012

    Any form of abuse can break a persons will to

    live. Sexual, Mental, Physical, Emotional, Financial (yes there is financial when don't allow someone to have money), and Verbal. Physical abuse hurts like hell, but the bruises go away, Emotional the feelings go away, Sexual the dirty can be washed away, BUT Verbal the words go...
    youngnoldsoul youngnoldsoul
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    The Elderly

    This is one form of abuse not often spoken of but my friends it happens a lot! I worked as a CNA for a few years and i could tell some hair raising tales. Ive seen a daughter slap her mother,because mama didnt want to eat. ive seen paitents ignored because they need or want extra...
    The1960texan The1960texan
    51-55, M
    Aug 18, 2012

    I haven't posted on here in a long time.

    But every other time I posted on here I got a lot of support so id like to give you guys an update. Not much has changed at home. I still get hit and spanked several times everyday. Other than that, I'm pretty much limited to my room. My parents don't really want to eat dinner...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 8, 2016

    Stop female mutilation it's a disgrace

    and any one carrying out these acts should be mutilated permanently as child abuse
    howardcoleman howardcoleman
    70+, M
    Mar 20, 2014
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