I Am Against Having Children Before Marriage

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    No Reason

    the protection is way easyer to get then when i was in schoolm but we did not have to worry as neaither one of us could have children and we knew up front but we still loved each other
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Oct 11, 2011

    No Marriage

    I don't believe in marriage. It's not necessary for having a family. It's not like people live in pre-industrial agrarian dark ages anymore.
    Vyjena Vyjena
    46-50, T
    Dec 13, 2011

    Children B4 Marriage

    I and others in the family or extended family, we were all taught not to have children before marriage.  (I don't have children).  If someone did, people would talk and talk (criticize) about that person and never hear the end of it.  Back then, I believed in it cause this...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2011

    I don't mean any judgement pn anyone by saying

    this - but I do believe that marriage is the best possible environment to raise children. Beyond that I also consider it very sinful to have sex outside of marriage anyway, regardless of having an intention to conceive a child or not.
    RogerLeahRoger RogerLeahRoger
    16-17, F
    Mar 23

    Why I Am Against It

    For a few important reasons: It promotes poverty, based on observation...maybe because of the single income thing It is a sign that someone was irresponsible, or immature, or deceitful, or not very smart; and that they decided that would be a great way to start off someone else...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jul 19, 2009

    Before

    For me i am i don't mean this to anyone else. I just wouldn't want to take care of a kid alone and what not.
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    Apr 5, 2010
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