I Am Against Rape

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    No means no. Her attire doesn't change the

    definition of a word. Idc if she is n*ked running through a sprinkler of l*be if she says no you back off!!
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    Feb 21

    It's a horrible crime.

    All rapists must be prosecuted at the fullest extent of the law.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    My mother in law raped my brother in law

    when he was little! He was a mess on drugs and alcohol and finally committed suicide. I believe my husband was molested or raped too but has pushed the memories down! My brother in law told his father, and sister but they did not tell the mother until I confronted them after his...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Feb 21

    Nobody Deserve To Be Raped 💯I Just Wanna Cry

    Looking At The Stories On Here
    ThereseT ThereseT
    13-15, F
    Feb 9

    Reasons why I never reported it: 1.

    The fear that nobody would believe me. 2. I went to the house voluntarily(not knowing what would happen), drinking. Was told that I couldn't report it because I would be blamed for it. 3. Was told that it was best that I didn't report it. 4. I was afraid of being judged and...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Feb 2

    It happened to me 3 times.

    Twice as a teenager. And once at age 24. It wasn't my fault. I didn't ask for it. Whether you believe it or not, it happened. One experience was worse than the others. I think because I got pregnant. I didn't talk about being raped for years. I was haunted by it. I experienced...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 14

    Saying that raping a sex worker "is not really

    rape" is like saying that shoplifting a shop is not really stealing because they were gonna sell them anyway. Or like saying that beating a kickboxer is not really violence because that's what they do anyway. Sex workers are humans. Even if you are opposed to prostitution, good...
    ScissorhandsFingeredMe ScissorhandsFingeredMe
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    Well I'm kinda really upset right now

    because like last Thursday I went to the nurses office and she told me that she notice that around that time I was coming down there everyday that week and she start like guessing if someone was bullying me stuff then since I really like her I told her that one of the boys raped...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    http://m.smh.com.au/national/supporters-of-antiwoman-group-return-of-kings-to-meet-in-sydney-20160201-gmikrh.html EVERYONE STAY SAFE THIS SATURDAY men called the returnofkings have made a plot to rape women all over the world and every state in Australia please spread awareness...
    Darkprincess24 Darkprincess24
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 3
    BioticCactus2 BioticCactus2
    13-15, T
    3 Responses Apr 9

    I was drugged and raped at a frat.

    Come to find out that my ex boyfriend gave permission to his frat brothers to rape me.
    kd126 kd126
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 16

    The only way to know

    for sure that someone was not raped is you would have to be there. How could anyone accuse a victim of lying, if they were not there? There is simply no proof they can give, that a person wasn't raped. Just because you don't find a person's story, believable it doesn't mean it...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 14

    The simple fact that rape happens is ******.

    The ways in which it happens is even more ******. And it goes so much further than "she shouldn't have dressed like that". Any instance that can (not that I'm saying it's acceptable) reasonably be said is (not that I'm saying it's any less awful) the bottom of the pile. The...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 13

    He was friend that I knew him

    since kindergarten that I trusted and he didn't protect me when his 2 other friends raped me instead he just watched and join them and the I also know the 2 other guys college prep dudes there parents are like rich and probably get the best lawyers if I decide to tell on them...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    21 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    I believe that if a man wants a women he should

    be able to have her... We are here to serve men and should all accept that...
    babygirl4u99 babygirl4u99
    22-25, F
    16 Responses Apr 10

    An person in this Agnostic group on Facebook

    asked us if we think child rapists should get the death penalty. I say child rapists should be put down immediately. But some people have said that child rapists were probably raped as a child. I don't understand how that is an excuse to rape a child. You were raped, so you...
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jan 11

    I've never been raped thankfully.

    I feel for those who have. My mums been raped by a few different people. Before I was born this guy attempted to rape and murder my mum. The first thing my mums mum asked when she told her about what happened was what were you wearing? My mum took it to court. One of the...
    xcheyennexsmithx xcheyennexsmithx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 13

    "There is nothing so dark

    that we cannot put it on paper, question it, and set ourselves free." -Byron Katie
    LoveIsWithinYou LoveIsWithinYou
    26-30, M
    Apr 6

    ITS STRAIGHT WRONG!!!

    !! And it's against Gods word!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 9

    I was 5 or 4 years old walking down the street

    with my mother. She was taking me to the barber for i was severly in need for a haircut. We crossed the street only to hear the desperate sobbing of a woman leaning against a car while i guy was attempting to rape her. She looked at me straight in the eye through it, sobbing. I...
    SerenForYou SerenForYou
    18-21
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    It's been hard 5 weeks

    for me since my rape happened I found out I was pregnant with my rapist"s baby so my life can't get any worse and on top of that everyone is thinking I'm making up for attention and I'm not or its my fault because "what is a girl my age doing at a frat party?" Or I deserved It...
    thatgirltay09 thatgirltay09
    13-15, F
    9 Responses Mar 6

    Honestly who isn't? And

    why wouldn't you be, it's flat out sick.
    dinosandlions dinosandlions
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Feb 2

    I strongly condemn rape.

    The women of this society believe that rape is caused by the victims. I just don't understand how people can blame the victim when the real culprit was just acting on his desires. Nowadays rape cases are increasing alarmingly and people are blaming everything on the dresses of...
    rebelliousgal rebelliousgal
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    I've seen a few people on here sharing their

    story on how they were raped, some of the comments calling them out for lying about it really got to me. If they're not lying, comments like that are only going to make them feel worse, keep it to yourself ffs. Rant over.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 14

    This is an important read (link below): "Is it

    Rape if you say yes? 5 types of sexual coersion explained." http://www.bustle.com/articles/67926-is-it-rape-if-you-say-yes-5-types-of-sexual-coercion-explained
    LoveIsWithinYou LoveIsWithinYou
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 22

    I'm pro rape?, who would ever say

    that ?. Rape is and has always been used in warfare. Can anyone enlighten me why ?
    DutchTom DutchTom
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Feb 2

    Your not alone I'm a rape victim,

    I was rape when I was eight years old by a 20 year old man. I thought throughout the my life that the trauma this person put me through I wouldn't made it to be a 21yr old young adult today. I graduated from high school even tho school was tough and I'm now I'm bout to start...
    Ambreciam21 Ambreciam21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 5

    I was watching LMN and it was about a teen girl

    who was at a high school party. She drank too much and was raped. Most of the people in town didn't believe her. They said she wanted it or it's her fault for drinking too much. The guy who did it was arrested but only after one of his team mates turned in the recording of what...
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 11

    I was raped last Friday night it all started

    when me and my twin sister wanted to go to the beach that is like 3 blocks away and was dark out and we were begging my mom because the reason we wanted to go because sometimes you can see baby sea turtles and my mom didn't want us to go out because we are too young so my...
    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies
    13-15, F
    7 Responses Feb 9

    "But they were wearing ____!

    " "They didn't say no!" "We were both drunk and/or high!" "We're dating/married, I can do it with them whenever I want!" "They were asking for it!" EDIT: Also, "They were HOT!!! I'm driven by my eyes (and hormones) and I simply couldn't help myself!" Thanks...
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack
    16-17, F
    10 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Yes I was raped. No you fu**king *** (here on

    ep) I did NOT enjoy it! What the **** is wrong w you?!?!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Oct 11, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 20

    If a boy tell someone

    that he was raped, they laugh and call him a girl.. Thats what happened with me every time i told someone.. My dad hit me when i was young so i never got a real dad. But then i started at school and there was this one guy that worked there, not sure what he did but he was...
    MU55 MU55
    18-21, M
    28 Responses Oct 11, 2015
    MonarchBritIX MonarchBritIX
    22-25, M
    Feb 26

    So here's an update I decided to NOT going to

    the police about my gang rape I decided it will be best to forget about it and get therapy instead.when I wrote the story no one believed me or thought I made it up for attention or that deserved it because I have been drinking and that why I did I go to a fraternity party so if...
    thatgirltay09 thatgirltay09
    13-15, F
    27 Responses Feb 2
    ScissorhandsFingeredMe ScissorhandsFingeredMe
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 6

    So I deleted my experience coz of peoples

    comments and now i feel even worse about it that people think I'm just attention seeking and a liar. At the time i was scared and didn't know what to do he was very abusive towards me he always has been but nobody else had seen that side come out in him until it happened and i...
    trentwitherspoon trentwitherspoon
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Mar 6

    Rape is like having a cup of tea.

    If she/he says she doesn't want a cup of tea then accept that she/he doesn't want a cup of tea even if she/he really felt like a cup of tea earlier perhaps the moment has passed now. If he/she wanted loads of tea earlier in the week that doesn't mean that she/he wants you to...
    bettyboo1965 bettyboo1965
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    Honestly I hate that people

    who have higher power get away with almost anything..because when I was younger about 14 years old at my church myself and 8 other girls underage of 18 had to go to these parties and where we were a little bit forced to have sex atleast 3 guys at theses parties I was lucky...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Mar 13

    Ok I was raped and ppl r like r u ok

    and I say yes reason y I'm not going nuts is because u either choose to be a victim the rest of your life or be a girl who strong powerful and get threw the hard times
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    Well I've been really depressed

    and sad lately because what happens last Wednesday I remember I was walking home from softball practice about 5-5:30 and I live in a bad neighborhood and there were 5 black guys sitting on a step and they said "hey white girl" and I just ignore them and continue to walk and 2...
    ashleyyhanson ashleyyhanson
    22-25, F
    19 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    Do you know how gross it feels to be pregnant

    with your rapist baby? And out all four who raped me I don't know who is the father? I honestly feel so disgusting about this and I honestly don't know what to do I'm 14 how am I going to take care of a baby my parents can't barely take care of me..
    thatgirltay09 thatgirltay09
    13-15, F
    31 Responses Feb 13

    Word of warning women

    and men. A guy on here, he calls himself "dickisup". He's a known *********. The police are currently looking for him too. Just a warning for you all. If he tries to contact you, block him and stay away. Stay safe people. Take care all
    HannahElizabethLouise HannahElizabethLouise
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    Idk If this counts as rape

    because I've been confused by the whole thing well my daughter who is almost a year now her father was my dads best friend that was older man that was married and who I kinda dated for a year it started when I was 13 and my dads friend asked for my number at a party so I gave it...
    mynameisjoy mynameisjoy
    13-15, F
    29 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    To all the twisted f@cks

    who think rape is ok I am so angry right now here I am a 15 year old girl who studies psychology at school and there on the news 20 minutes ago there was a thing about non-native American men able to rape Native American women and physically abuse them, there is a loop hole...
    rougewolf55555 rougewolf55555
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Apr 7, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    If you get shot by a mugger,

    it's your fault for not wearing a bullet proof vest, and walking around in clothes that give off the impression that you might actually be worth robbing. (Infallible logic.)
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    Actually, the fact that this group exists at

    all bothers me. Shouldn't we all be against rape? It's a heinous act performed by cowards and sick people. I'm not even talking about rape fantasies (I try not to judge, but this bothers me), but about actual rape. That being said, I'm leaving the group because I believe it's...
    guavachick guavachick
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 3

    I feel terrible that a rape criminal was

    allowed to walk free. A criminals age never matters. The extent of his crimes is what matters. He should be given maximum punishment as he was the cruellest of them all. Its not only the Delhi rape murder case. There are many cases in which the criminals walk free because of...
    rebelliousgal rebelliousgal
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    I hate to say this but we need to borrow some

    laws from the Middle East. rapists should be beheaded if found guilty of it. they dont deserve to walk this earth
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Feb 13
    jackk225 jackk225
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    What is it? Do these victim blaming people,

    are taking sides of the rapist? I can't believe that there are people like this. They are just as guilty as the rapists. They are just as sick. All is should've, would've, could've, bull is ridiculous. Stop putting the victims at fault. We didn't asked to be raped. No matter...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 1

    If I was for it, it wouldn't be rape.

    Now click "me too" or you're a rapist.
    adianoeta adianoeta
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    If s/he doesn't consent

    or s/he can't consent. It's wrong. It's a crime. We need to do our best to stop rape everywhere because 1is2many.
    EHarber18 EHarber18
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 13

    As a victim of rape, I am highly against it.

    The problem I have the most, is people taking the rapists side, by saying the victim asked for it. Nobody asked to be raped. I sure as hell didn't ask for it. When a woman is raped, they are stealing the victim's innocence. Not only that, but the victim have to live with that...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    16 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    I guess there's a lot of people on here

    that support the violation of women huh? I posted an experience on here a few days ago and a guy commented and asked to s*x chat. I told even for a troll he's a piece of s*it and he liked the comment, and so did this guy that likes a bunch of groups about women being subservient...
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Jun 29, 2015
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