I Am Alone and Have No Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 485 People

    I used to have friends

    when I was a child and I use to be able to be close to people, trust them, talk to them, spend time with them, not be defensive or guarded. in my 20s I can's seem to trust anyone, or want to, or care to. I'm a very social person, so much so that I use to be the one to connect...
    jennylovevsyou jennylovevsyou
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2014

    I hate that I moved,

    but I love the freedom it gave me.
    IntoxicatedFairy IntoxicatedFairy
    22-25, F
    Jul 9, 2015
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 24, 2014

    A year have passed and i started my 3rd

    semester in university but i am still alone . I always heard about how lovely university life can be but i realized mine sucks. At my first semester it actually start off lonely but then after a month i met 2 friends and we were like best buddies we eat play and do almost...
    fatdude123 fatdude123
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    Everything seriously sucks.

    I know that makes me sound like a rebellious teenager lol but it's true ..I can't go on, my nerves literally have me sick to my stomach! My Family is very abusive and I can't get away. I am a recovering alcoholic and drug addict, and all that is going on is too much for me...
    Chrissy1985 Chrissy1985
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2014
    PleasureOverMatter PleasureOverMatter
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 4, 2015

    I'm so tired of being

    so lonely.I'm always alone and it's so frustrating! I have literally NO social life,I try hard to be friends with people but to no avail :( I never go out and just sit indoors most of the time.I'm so jealous of all the people who have lots of friends and go out all the time;why...
    MeAndMySelf98 MeAndMySelf98
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    Mr. Lonely

    Where to begin?  I am 41, single, and have very few friends.  When I was 7, my father stopped working and stayed at home to raise me.  He instilled fear of everything and everyone in me, I wasn't allowed to go out with friends (what if they steal something, you'll...
    spfitz2001 spfitz2001
    3 Responses Mar 22, 2009

    "I need an easy friend I do.

    .. with an ear to lend I do... think you fit this shoe I do... won't you have a clue" Dear loneliness... Please be my friend!
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    Inferiority Complex?

    As far back as I can remember, I have always felt like a 'misfit'.  My 1st (and last) birthday party I was invited to was in grade 1.  I can only remember feeling such a strain in talking with the other children.  In my bottle cap glasses worn to compensate for...
    notcomfwithppl notcomfwithppl
    6 Responses Apr 10, 2009

    Sometimes Loneliness is compensation of some

    unnoticed smiles or happiness that we have to pay for life.
    zainshah1 zainshah1
    26-30, M
    Jun 22, 2015

    I Am All Alone In the World

    I am alone and have no friends. It has always been that way for as long as I can remember. I don't have anyone to talk to and anyone I talk to has to understand and know ASL and not many people do. I have to admit I don't open up to people because I've been burned too many times...
    Sexyshannon Sexyshannon
    9 Responses Feb 28, 2009

    I have exactly one week

    and four days before my Senior Year starts and have absolutely no one to enjoy it with. I'm going into yet another school year without friends to talk to and hangout with at lunch. I thought I had finally made friends last year but now they don't want anything to do with me...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 24, 2014

    I'm the kid in the back of the classroom

    but I'm scared of what people think of me I'm a geek I have braces and glasses and I'm really tech savvy and I read a lot so I'm wondering is this ok? Should I feel alone? What can I do to release my energy when I get angry? Please help me. :(
    aliecat01 aliecat01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    And whenever i do have friends I unknowingly

    push them away by getting clingy and excited. I try so hard not to but its like i cant help it.
    XxToxicKissesxX XxToxicKissesxX
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    once again for like the third time this month me

    and one of my friends fell out and now aren't friends anymore... She told me I can talk to her when I'm feeling down and once I tell her she says we all do..like its nothing... why even tell me I can talk to u?
    xjerseygrl4lyfex xjerseygrl4lyfex
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    My supposed to be best friend turned her back

    on me twice. Once after high school and now. She had a controlling bf who told her not to associate with me. I kept trying to get in contact with her for years. Then one day out of the bleu she texts me and I forgave her and we were friends again. I had a controlling...
    DeeDoubleYoux DeeDoubleYoux
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Ive had friends in the past.

    I had lots of friends and its not that im socialy aqward or just dont want to its that, people just avoid me like a virus. All ive ever done is tried to make people laugh and smile since i get a lot of joy out of that but even though i listned and helped no matter what they...
    pandasize pandasize
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    I just wish all my pain

    and sadness would go away. I just wish I had someone that understood me. I just wish I had someone who would be there for me and support me through everything. I just wish someone would stick by my side and never leave me. I just wish I had a friend. But basically the truth is...
    Ki123 Ki123
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    Nothing new in my life.

    Very limited amount of fun. Completely bored and not a damn thing interesting to do. Secluded from any other humans other than my parents with no friends locally to ever talk to or spend time with, Is when I don't see any meaning in my life and become negative in thoughts...
    JoshaGibs JoshaGibs
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 26, 2015

    That's how I feel... Yet conveniently

    when old friends need me I'm there for them yet when I need someone I'm alone.... I know those are not real friends but I have a big heart. I always try to do the right thing even if I don't care for the person. Just wish as much as I give others I got that same back. Real...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    This was my own mistake.

    Having mostly girls for friends. They just all eventually got boyfriends and moved on. Not their fault. That's just life. Still sucks though.
    JokersKaos JokersKaos
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 28, 2014

    So freakin bored with life.

    I am tired of the same old thing. Everyday is a struggle and I have no other to talk to.
    Lynnxxoxx Lynnxxoxx
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    ... The only "friend" I've got is the air.

    . The thing that keeps me alive... But another than that.. It's just this room, me, my phone and I. :/
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    So here goes a long story.

    I'm a 20 year old guy (about to turn 21 in December). I have always gone through life being incredibly self-consious and lacking in confidence/self-esteem (as I used to get bullied about my weight as a child) so made few friends as I never participated in sports/games which the...
    Shah190 Shah190
    Jul 29, 2015

    Am I A Child Trapped In A Man'S Body Or Just Childish ?!

    I am 27 balding guy.. i have a government job.. friendless and sad all the time.. well! you got the picture. Sure my life sucks.. I rarely speak, no family, no friends, a haunting past, a dark future.. but nothing bothers me as two things: 1-Never been in a relationship (It...
    GetsugaTenshoo GetsugaTenshoo
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2013


    I am a 25 years old, i have 3 sisters, my parents live at the same house but they never talk to each other, since i was born to this world i didnt see them talking. they actually hate each other , but because we are christians they cant get divorce, so they decided to live in the...
    ALeSHA1988 ALeSHA1988
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    Like It Says, I'm Alone and Have No Friends

    I've always been very, very shy except with people I knew.  It could sometimes be a problem, but as a kid I had friends so I never understood what a problem it could be.  In Junior High and High School I widened my circle of friends, but looking back I realize I met new...
    UndergroundMan UndergroundMan
    36-40, M
    10 Responses Sep 24, 2008

    I Stopped Contacting My Friends And Then

    They never contacted me so here I am. I used to contact people and arrange dinners etc but one day I thought maybe I'm bothering people so I will wait for them to contact me. I don't know why I never seem to find a friendship with give and take. I don't want to have to...
    iamherenow13 iamherenow13
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2013

    Your NOT alone REMEMBER IT!

    1LilLefty 1LilLefty
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    I have no REAL friends,

    I in the popular clique at school but none of those ******* are actually gonna be there for me if some bad happens, I have one friend who is not a *****.
    EsmeIsAwesome EsmeIsAwesome
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    I want a guy/girl best friend someone whos weird

    and funny and understand my situations! Someone who just acts dumb with me is that hard to ask for 😩
    itsstephybitxh itsstephybitxh
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 26, 2015

    Love Someone Dont End Up Like Me..

    Wel when i was a kid i came up rough.....i never had a birthday ive watch my brothers have there birthday party and gifts and i was so happy for thiem but when my birthday came around i got nothing....they use to say to me ah man its the first of the month i'll get you something...
    sizzla13 sizzla13
    Nov 6, 2013

    Helppppppp!!!!! Anybody want to talk about some

    pretty deep stuff?? I'm a great listener as well!!! Looking to make some friends that I don't know from "real life"..ANYBODY OUT THERE?!?! YOU WOULD BE LITERALLY SAVING MY LIFE!!!!!!!!! <3
    Chrissy1985 Chrissy1985
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    I'm friendly, but get

    so anxious around people. I need to make some sort of change of my perspective....not care what other people think because it's been an anvil around my neck all my life.
    boobaloo22 boobaloo22
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    I have to school full of people

    who hate me. It's horrible I have no friends so I have to sit on my own during lessons. At lunch I have a room just for me to sit in because I have nowhere to go, I'm too scared of people to make friends. My days are getting a lot more stressful an lonely
    Destroya182 Destroya182
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2015

    I'm a whole completely different person

    when im at school, I don't talk to anyone i don't raise my hand to answer questions, im too shy to talk, im trying so hard i feel so disappointed, I talk and practice with myself in the mirror everyday trying to help but i just can't, i used to have many friends in middle...
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    It Is My Choice To Be Alone

    I am alone, no friends, no family...quite frankly I am much happier this way.  Why does one need to maintain any relationship when the relationship is toxic, abusive, and cruel and exists only to maintain a facade?  Do I offend your sense of social sensibilities by...
    angelserra angelserra
    5 Responses Jun 12, 2010

    I always been awkward.

    . i have social anxiety. Was the kid int he background who people asked, do you talk? and all that ._. made me feel ******. If anyone wants to talk here pm me XD im a cool dude.. i think
    Lambertt Lambertt
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    this is me and has been me

    for a long time. I have had only one best friend in my life and she left me. ever since i have been alone. the lonliness is suffocating. its like I'm stranded in the middle of an ocean and the waves are threatening to pull me under. i just want one person to be there for me...
    Jazzed1345 Jazzed1345
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    Iam Lonesome Forlorn And ****** Depressed

    I'm an Introvert person, i just don't usually fit into this world, If i'd try to fit in it then i'd be fooling around in a frivolous manner.so what should i do, Every morning i'd wake up and i feel sorry and i pity on myself on being ME, i study in a college.There are no friends...
    sadstranger sadstranger
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 18, 2011

    I Am A Sad Freak.

    I hate my life i am a freak.I am a 20 year old man still at home.No girlfriend no life.No friends i am the one to get drunk at my cousins party.I am disabled and i got no job.So i don't blain people if thay don't want to be friends with me.But i wish to have friends.I hate geting...
    2012blueboy 2012blueboy
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Jun 19, 2012

    Its Not A Story

    I am completely alone. I dont talk at all because when i do nobody listens to me. im not a pretty girl and i just hurt myself be it throwing up or cutting myself not where anybody can see it of course. not that anybody would care or notice. i just need someone to actually be...
    notimportant45 notimportant45
    1 Response Mar 4, 2012

    I haven't hung out with someone my age

    since I was 13. I've always been an introvert with few friends, but the past five years I have just been totally isolated with the closest thing I have to a friend is the six year old girl I care for
    LoneDreamer11 LoneDreamer11
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015

    I have one friend, she's

    so busy with her own life ... Which I'm so so so happy for her. I'm 21, a homeowner, pets, bills, a family business job with my family... I never meet people and I'm so shy and awkward.... I'm not a typical 21 yr old... I feel so stuck and alone
    Countrygirl3632 Countrygirl3632
    3 Responses May 18, 2015
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