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I Am Alone In My Relationship

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    I am in a long term relationship with someone I

    absolutely adore, she lives away to go to college, though I just feel so lonely and unfulfilled as a result, i don't know how long It is going to take until we are permanently together again (min 3 years) and I don't know what I should do or how I should go about it, I just can...
    crigs crigs 18-21, M Jan 13

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