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I Am Alone, No One Needs Me And Im Not Important

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    Thats Me.

    Jesus i know exactly what this is like.  To go through everyday knowing that like the day before it is absolutly meaningless.  It doesn't seem to matter what i do or how hard i try my life is insignificant.  Alive/dead it doesn't seem to matter i would make the same impact on...
    WhyBother22 WhyBother22 22-25, M 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    I often feel like this my life just drags on.

    No one to talk to no friends just loneliness and boredom.
    TheSameOne TheSameOne 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    No One Cares About Me

    I feel I'm invisible to everyone. I feel lonely. I don't have many friends (I have some best friends, but they are far far away from me right now), I don't make a good relation with my big family (I mean not so close), I feel like there's no guy like me. One day my little brother...
    xxlittleswanxx xxlittleswanxx 22-25 3 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Fading

    I do not know how to stop this sinking feeling. i do not have any friends, i know ppl say that- but i truly don't. i go to school i work, come home and repeat.. i recently attempted to reach out to what i believed was an old friend.. i was wrong. i just need to know that someone...
    breathlesslybreaking breathlesslybreaking 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Am alone alys I dnt knw y.

    .....??? Why am I alone...????? I hate ma life...... No one love me..... 😞😞😞😞
    rishalii rishalii 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    On The Contrary!

    I'm not alone! There's people everywhere! I am too needed! My pets have to get fed by someone! I am important! Someone has to babysit my nephews!
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F Jan 23, 2011

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    Bullied...

    i am 13 and get bullied at school. at one point of time,i was so deprressed...i thought of slitting my wrists in the bathtub...luckily i just cried and chickened out. after that i was scared. i still am. no one understands why i dont just smile automatically or why i like wearing...
    ironmanlover818 ironmanlover818 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I'm alone most days in this house.

    I don't have many friends because they moved away after we graduated. I am stuck here doing the same things everyday, like a robot. But unlike a robot I have feelings. Oh won't you care?
    DiamondNikki12 DiamondNikki12 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 9 Responses Jun 30

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    Nothing To Offer.

    I have people in my life that I need, my mother, my father, my best friend, my brother, my grandmother. If they were to be gone I would be crushed. They mean the world to me. I would be lost without them But. If I were to die, nothing would change. They would just move on. Like...
    BlackTattooedEverything BlackTattooedEverything 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    My Wish

    All i wish for is to be hugged,kissed,loved,embraced in person.I feel alone and even hated.
    SamTraveler16 SamTraveler16 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Sometimes I Dont' Mind It, Other Times I Do.

    There are days where I don't mind being unimportant.  It saves me the trouble of being responsible for anything and anyone other than myself.  Selfish of me, I know, but its for the good of the other person.  I'm not that smart, I'm fat, ugly and I have a low...
    cassrowen cassrowen 26-30 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    aokigahara29 aokigahara29 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    Alone In A Pond Of People

    I'm not very popular in school, I just have a small group of friends. Recently it's been more and more clear that the group is dividing into two, they've all making there clicks with each other, and i'm just the chick in the middle, neither great friends with one side or the...
    Randomlytrue Randomlytrue 18-21 Jun 6, 2013

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    I Do...

    ...feel alone, unimportant and that no one needs me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 13, 2010

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    Cause if he did he wouldn't have moved to

    another state.....no word or nothing
    missy5414 missy5414 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Just A Feeling...

    There is no worse feeling in the world, than feeling like, no one needs you or wants you, or has any use for you anymore. That is a True sign of depression, and its one that I have been trying to put off for sometime, its one that I keep trying to throw away those kind of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 29, 2010

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    Recently, my friends

    and I made some new friends. This kind of helps, but I don't know. My friends don't seem to like this one friend we made and it makes me sad. If they end up fighting, I don't want to have to choose between them. I don't want to keep losing friends. The four of us went out on...
    xXStitchedxPoetXx xXStitchedxPoetXx 18-21, F May 4

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    I'm not really alone.

    I have my kids, but I am alone as far as any kind of intimate relationships. It's probably due to the fact I am worthless and unimportant. I believe we are all here for a reason. We all have a purpose. Not sure what my purpose is and when my time is over although I have been...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Physically I LOVE to be alone

    but emotionally I HATE IT and it confuses me. I push people away from me but I do it because I want them to beg for my existent because I don't feel real sometimes. When I'm alone it's just like omg who am I why am I here my life is a waste and sometimes when I around people I...
    TheSocialite TheSocialite 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Whats The Use

    The name of the group pretty much says it all. Really seems like if I were to commit suicide no one would even notice. I cant say that I have any real friends that give any sort of damn about me. I reach out but everyone seems so engrossed in their social lives, social lives that...
    offwithhishead offwithhishead 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2012

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    My Story...

    I dont now if this is the right group to post this in i guess its close enough. I dont really know if im lonely or if im unimportant. The reason is that my life currently feels like its on life support. I have the feeling that i merely exist in biological form but key components...
    wiked wiked 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 24, 2012

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    Weirdo.

    Why does everyone look at me like im a freak? Im human like you right? What makes them so special? But still. Its bothers me. When they look at me i feel more insecure than i am. I feel that only some people understand me. And the others i guess judge. I know I'm not "perfect...
    photogirl22 photogirl22 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    There will be a time in life

    where you just have to accept it. I believe it's that time for me. I'm nearly 26 years old and while I'm always around people, I am alone. They don't talk to me other than to talk about their problems or tell me what to do and I'm tired of it. I read this post yesterday about...
    Shinook26 Shinook26 26-30, M Jul 28

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    Lonely

    The Dead go on living Lets do some living Now that we've died. I know that I'll die Now that I've tried, But as a spirit Ill finally be free. Unable to communicate The others leave me be. I'm a sullen shell Without a personality My spirit doesn't dwell. For within this skin...
    AlleyFreakingKat AlleyFreakingKat 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    Utterly Forgettable...

       This is going to sound really stupid, but...I feel like this small example is just one of the tiny examples that are part of a much bigger picture. Like, Facebook. I was thinking about it the other day, and when I was a teenager, I thought facebook was all super cool and...
    WanderingKitten313 WanderingKitten313 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    I've been sick for 5 months straight my friends

    grew apart , no guys like me, my family is getting tired of me. I'm a nobody ._.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 4 Responses May 4

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    My Momma Always Tells Me...

    That we come in this world alone, and we leave it the same way.True fuckking story, no?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 23, 2011

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    I'd like to mean something to somebody,

    but I guess we don't get all the things we want in life.
    Audrina14 Audrina14 16-17, F 3 Responses May 30

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    ?

    Everyday people mess with my head they act as though they care then turn right around as they put a knife throw my back it goes throw to my heart...... i think that sometimes i care to much about everyone.. even if i dont know you i would do my best to help you i dont see why i...
    angel557 angel557 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Tired

    I know, really I do, that this is all just a phase, that I'm over exaggerating, and that it's just my hormones. I've been feeling tired of everything, and I just don't have the will to force myself to put on a smile anymore. My mum actually tells me that if I don't smile she'll...
    FaithKuran FaithKuran 13-15 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I Made It, You Can Too !!

    I was abused as a young girl. I went through humiliation and bulling in school. I had some bad relationships and been out there with some odd people. I turned into a loner for many years and was seeking what was the meaning of being alive. I just did not fit in. But I tried very...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    I Can'T Do Anything Right

    Today at school, I spent an entire lesson being told by my teacher that I was useless and couldn't do anything right. He says that I don't try at all and that I'm just lazy and will get nowhere in life. It's all I've thought about today, and all I've wanted to do is be on my own...
    WhatsWrongWithMee WhatsWrongWithMee 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I'm human just like everyone else.

    I have the same basic needs and wants, I have hopes and dreams, thoughts and emotions. My son needs me. But it's not the same. I want to be wanted, to be needed for more than mere survival.
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I recently have become a lot closer with one of

    my guy friends. I've been with him just about every day with one of my best girl friends. She's like a sister to me. However, whenever he's around, I feel like I'm noting to either of them anymore. They just go off and do things on their own and I'm just kind of here existing on...
    rockerjrg rockerjrg 16-17, F 2 Responses May 18

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    Just Invisible

    I'm here to dump on, make you feel better, but my feelings never matter - heck, people don' t even think I'm a person let alone someone that has feelings.  just as long as you are okay I guess.... damn I hate my life.
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    Was I Meant To Be Alone?"

    Day in and day out, alone I sit Waiting for the resistant’s to lift Sing a song, to pass away the time Time of loneliness, alone again As I sit and listen, lyrics of love Deranged I am, no more songs Love isn’t true, not to me Sit by the park, I will do Only to see...
    magicianguy magicianguy 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I'm Feeling So Hopeless

    I don't know what's going on... Everything is making me feel really sad and alone... It's sad not be needed, to be worthless and useless.... I'm so, so, so unlucky... even if something good happens to me, it's for the worst. It's like the higher the flight is, the falling will be...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F Oct 27, 2013

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    I've always preferred being alone. No one to yell at me, no one to worry about. I don't really fancy large crowds much.... I feel caved in, and claustrophobic. I like being alone...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I feel so god damn alone no one understands me I don't understand me anymore I just have different personas for different situations its like my life is just one big act. I don't...
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    There's something odd about being 22. It's a year where you've reached a social maturity, having passed the legal age of 21. By now, you and your friends reach a mutual...
    RoxannaM RoxannaM 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    im forever alone.. no one will ever love me ;-;
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 16

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    People sometimes say the Holidays cause emotional turmoil in people, and right now I am feeling that is the case for me. I am feeling very stressed out over a big life change that...
    Welllaugh Welllaugh 36-40 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I enjoy company , I enjoy spending time with my family and chatting with friends , but I absolutely love being alone . I feel perfectly content spending time by myself maybe...
    ToTiJeZivot ToTiJeZivot 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    At a certain age we all begin to wonder who we really are. I remember the first time I found myself alone, lost and completely forgotten. My best friends had decided I was no...
    Helenabby Helenabby 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm so F()$@ing Alone I know plenty of people in my life. I used to think I was alone when I was surrounded by people. Now I realize, I'm so alone because, I am alone. It's a...
    Atlas0Scar Atlas0Scar 18-21, M Nov 8

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    I hike or backpack (usually the latter) every weekend of the year and also get one 5-10 day trip in. I'm alone probably 90% of the time. I just find it to be a much more...
    SaturSwing SaturSwing 41-45 Nov 14

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    I am alone. I have no friends left. I have lost my will to endure, and I suffer. My best friend died 5 years ago. The love of my life left me and feels nothing but hate for me. I...
    PacX1 PacX1 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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