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I Am Always Attracted to People With Too Much Baggage

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    Needed.

    I need to feel needed.That's why most of my attempts at long term relationships are toward vaguely to vastly damaged people. Because I can help them feel better. Because in my own delusion of self-righteousness I can fix them.But I can't. Maybe a personal incapability. Maybe...
    Hethyx Hethyx 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Are You Kidding?

    A bit of baggage is one thing, however lately I found myself in a situation that was starting to repeat itself from the last bad situation I let myself get charmed into. I can't believe my bad luck with relationships. I mean seriously now, are there any women who don't have an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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    I Can Save Him, Yes I Can!

    he has a criminal record and unable to drive, but that's okay 'cuz he hasn't a ride.  has seven kids he can't even see. a really great dad, which is appealing to me.  he is separated, but not yet divorced. I do give him credit for staying the course...
    FreakOfNature FreakOfNature 41-45 13 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I think too much and that's why I always end up hurting myself than the other person. I'm no goody two shoes but I don't know why I seem to always be occupied with thoughts...
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    I don't know why but I am too much into watching philosophical movies and feel like knowing so much about people. I have lost the sense of being "ignorant and unaware". Now it...
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    I feel like I do so much for everybody.. And they don't even notice. I always end up getting hurt in the end but that never stops me from helping them still.. Sometimes I just wish...
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    It takes me a lot to post something. Many times, I have erased after typing and gone back to reading other posts. I just feel that I am revealing myself too much and that I should...
    Brokenhurricane Brokenhurricane 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    This is when I get hurt, I am a very emotional person with a lot of feelings! I can get attached to someone very quickly! Sometimes I realise but other times i dont until i get...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Ugh. If somebody is handicapped or elderly, I can understand. It's not their fault that they can't do a lot of things for themselves anymore. There isn't much they could do...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm too quiet in person, but get the feeling I message others too much on line. I'm sorry and it would help if someone talked to me first or managed a good way to tell me I'm...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

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    there is good in all of us ,i think i simply love too much , so much in fact that it makes me feel too ******* sad
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I can't stand being in my head any longer. I need to let it all out. I need to scream. I need to socialize. but why would I do that when nobody in the world wants to listen to me...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I need way too much sleep. I can't wake up in the morning because I don't want to. Other nights I can't stop thinking long enough to sleep...
    gingerbetch gingerbetch 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I hate how im overly protective, and overly jealous. I get too attached and i end up ******* things up. I loved too much and now i know they felt like i was taking their life away...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    It kind of varies. I care about everything, and then all of a sudden you can throw anything at me and I won't react much as if it takes too much effort. I probably do care at one...
    Katami Katami 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I don't know if it too much or not. Either or I can't get enough of it :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 25

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    There is too much interesting and fun movies and series to watch
    lindahe lindahe 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I Use The Internet Too Much!!! 😑... One day without Internet... Feels like a month!!! (Kind of like a year!)
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    And it feels like life is passing me by. I aspire to change this drastically in 2-3 months. It's going to happen. It needs to happen. Life isn't all about money. If anything...
    aburns aburns 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I went into work early this morning because I never went to sleep last night. I was sick of laying there....and being busy is what I do best these days. Now I'm exhausted and...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    i dnt know why today my mind wandering too much ?
    shiva76 shiva76 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't know what to do. My eyes are hurting badly. I am crying too much. Nothing seems to help me. I want to stop crying and escape from depression. I want to live normal life. I...
    themosthated themosthated 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Way way too much. I'm constantly worried about something, or someone
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Why do i think too much? Answers.
    cheffAri cheffAri 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Nearly 1:00 in the morning. Too much going through my mind. Grieving and lonely. Tomorrow will be brighter. Tomorrow will be better. If only tomorrow would come.
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really do! I have a disability myself and so I know exactly what it's like and how hard it is in a society we live in today... I know how horrible the struggles are and the...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Everytime I see a person I start to analyze them. I look every little or big move they make, eyes, hands, how they stand, how their lips are just everything. It distracts me so...
    realandtrue realandtrue 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Like today i do t know why i have so much on my mind that i cant sleep even though i am tired i cant
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I can't help it as that is how i feel when see someone need help in anything. I get like pretty fast to help them out and dang. I find myself hurt from knowing i should stop caring...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    It's crazy. It's like I'm nocturnal but I'm not. I'll have so much stuff on my mind but I either won't be able to do anything about it or there's no one to talk to. It can be...
    TheTshirt TheTshirt 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I definitely don't add everyone who adds me. I have them collecting up to prove it. I do have a nice enough mediocre number on my friends list who I add. I am very picky in who I...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Jun 23

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    I always think what will other people think about me,,what do they say...and all. But it also ****** me off,it exhaust me,,,,i want to be free,,and don't wanna give a ****. I will...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Imagine this: you have a business trip in which you have to leave home for a month to meet and interact with another branch of your company. Now, imagine you're a closeted...
    youtubeninja youtubeninja 18-21, F a week ago

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    I just got out of 7th grade I go back to school in a couple weeks but I had this one teacher in 7th and I kinda have this problem with getting to attached to people.. I think it's...
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    Strivingforjannah Strivingforjannah 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    There is always a "What If"
    quanclopes quanclopes 16-17, M Jun 30