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I Am Always Attracted to People With Too Much Baggage

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    I Can Save Him, Yes I Can!

    he has a criminal record and unable to drive, but that's okay 'cuz he hasn't a ride.  has seven kids he can't even see. a really great dad, which is appealing to me.  he is separated, but not yet divorced. I do give him credit for staying the course...
    FreakOfNature FreakOfNature 41-45 13 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Are You Kidding?

    A bit of baggage is one thing, however lately I found myself in a situation that was starting to repeat itself from the last bad situation I let myself get charmed into. I can't believe my bad luck with relationships. I mean seriously now, are there any women who don't have an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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    Needed.

    I need to feel needed.That's why most of my attempts at long term relationships are toward vaguely to vastly damaged people. Because I can help them feel better. Because in my own delusion of self-righteousness I can fix them.But I can't. Maybe a personal incapability. Maybe...
    Hethyx Hethyx 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    When I was young I was brought up constantly being told that money was scarce and that we couldn't spare even a single dollar on "unnecessary" things. This has roots in the...
    BenignSoul BenignSoul 22-25, M Apr 21

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    I try to distract myself but then I always end up thinking too much. Full of what if's. I need to stop this I might get crazy, very close to that.
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    its time for bed. I can't sleep with too much on my mind, but tonight. he has consumed my mind and imagination. I can't wait to sleep and be in his arms. in my dreams. stromg arms...
    shyshewolf shyshewolf 70+, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I think I care too much about the people who couldn't give less than 2shits about me, and my existence and sometimes knowing that. I end up crying myself to sleep... Especially...
    QueenofIceandRoses QueenofIceandRoses 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I feel I'm to much for people because I bother them or I'm to weird or that I just say sorry a lot when I don't need too. sometimes I just wish I could talk to someone that can...
    devanking15 devanking15 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    I always find myself thinking way too much or over thinking something. For example, throughout the day, my mind wonders everywhere from funny things, to ideas, to sexual thoughts...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Yes we do! We have way too much unrealistic expectations in our relationships. We don't want the man or the woman to cheat but we afraid to experiment in bed. Women don't like...
    FelicitySmoak FelicitySmoak 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I'm hurting too much inside. I think I'm going to have a breakdown or depression because of just a small thing. I have no friends to talk to about my issues and in keeping too much...
    loveumybabyliam loveumybabyliam 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I care way too much and take everything too seriously. And nothing can take the pain away that I feel from my let downs at least nothing I've found yet.
    ReneeTay ReneeTay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'm sure you've all sat down to work on something and immediately filled your time with distractions. Hopefully, you've also had times where you sat down and truly did focus on...
    addictedtoeverything addictedtoeverything 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I online shop way too much and you don't even want to know how much it costs to upkeep my hair. I use single human hair extensions that I dye myself. I find that this is easier for...
    ElectraX ElectraX 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    Who is worse. Those who care too much. Or those who hurt the caring for profit.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I really can't help it whatsoever but I over think way too much about everything. So many thoughts.
    kennethwf kennethwf 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I just spent 2 hours writing about an erotic adult spanking memory just to have it deleted 2 seconds after it posted! EP, this is too much! If we can't share memories and...
    nipplelover43 nipplelover43 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Way too much. I think in a way that I stress myself out. Everyone is like "your a kid you shouldn't be stressed out." Me- I'm 14, and just because your a damn kid doesn't mean I...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    I think I think too much...lol
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 14

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    For those who care. My good friends i've met on ep. I'm cutting out distractions to achieve my goals. My parnets need me more now. So can't be on here too much, if not at all...
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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    First Post! Anyways, I sweat way too much and its quite embarrassing. I'm learning to cope with it better and I will post here as I learn more about what works for me.
    maddeningvalley15 maddeningvalley15 26-30, T Apr 22

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    Sometimes I genuinely think we're programmed by school and TV/music and advertising to expect too much from another PERSON. Then life happens and we hopefully wake up to being more...
    sahmmama sahmmama 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I just want a tall guy that doesn't mind if I smoke w33d or drink and lets me be me. Is that too much to ask?
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 23

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    Tired but the mind will not shut down. Maybe it was too much caffeine.. Whatever it was I can't sleep.
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    As a child, I based my ideas of how friends and romantic partners should be on how they were in books. I still haven't quite managed to shake this idea yet...but yes, I do think we...
    SlushyAseSparkles SlushyAseSparkles 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 24

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    thinking too much would create...
    xaeshar xaeshar 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am thinking way too much tonight.... I don't know what to do with myself.... :( Being depressed does not help the situation.
    Lovelybaby18 Lovelybaby18 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Pain and fear are a deadly combination. No one wants to say it, but I look like ****. I can't sleep anymore. There's just too much confusion.
    cartermurrows cartermurrows 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think too much which drives me crazy.
    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have an ability to shock people with what comes out of my mouth! I am very honest and don't seem to worry what people think about what I say! I don't intentionally hurt people at...
    Centalcoastlady Centalcoastlady 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    You changed everything, showed me things I needed that I wasn't getting from my ex emotionally. I will always love you with every bit of my heart and I can't wait to be your wife
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Seen a lot of life. Not all of it good. Helped people with all kinds of problems over the last thirty years. Either professionally or personally. Got a prob?......shoot!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I wrote a book that was published when I was 19, I traveled to 5 of the 7 continents, I speak 7 languages, I teach at a university, and spent a year as a speech writer. But some...
    SpaceKadet30 SpaceKadet30 26-30 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I can't help myself from thinking, why the human mind is so attracted to vampires.
    athena1991 athena1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    In my lifetime, I know I wasn't near perfect with the decision and choices I made. At times, I can be wrecking ball. Other times, I'm just the opposite. As I said in my previous...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    In the quest for understanding and meaning, sometimes I go too far. Oh, look at that picture, I dont look happy there (but may in the next). Oh, look, my dad has this nasty face...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Apr 25

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    I have always been a very honest caring person. I will go the extra mile for anyone to make sure that they are happy. However this is not returned I know am not suppose to expect...
    kimberlee1876 kimberlee1876 22-25, F Apr 16

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    I got really sick a few moths Ago and was in and out of the hospital, I lost ALOT of weight, but truth is, I didnt really have much extra body weight to loose. Anyways, when I...
    LostAndBrokenSoul LostAndBrokenSoul 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I always have a song stuck in my head. These couple of weeks, its been Gary Allan's Life ain't always beautiful. I had to write my life journal into a speech. It amazes me in 4...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I worry so much about my inner family circle. The past few years have been so hard on us and I am worried we won't succeed at the things we want to achieve. It weighs down on me so...
    BIGOZGOOD BIGOZGOOD 41-45 Apr 13

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