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I Am Always Attracted to People With Too Much Baggage

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    Needed.

    I need to feel needed.That's why most of my attempts at long term relationships are toward vaguely to vastly damaged people. Because I can help them feel better. Because in my own delusion of self-righteousness I can fix them.But I can't. Maybe a personal incapability. Maybe...
    Hethyx Hethyx 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I Can Save Him, Yes I Can!

    he has a criminal record and unable to drive, but that's okay 'cuz he hasn't a ride.  has seven kids he can't even see. a really great dad, which is appealing to me.  he is separated, but not yet divorced. I do give him credit for staying the course...
    FreakOfNature FreakOfNature 41-45 13 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Are You Kidding?

    A bit of baggage is one thing, however lately I found myself in a situation that was starting to repeat itself from the last bad situation I let myself get charmed into. I can't believe my bad luck with relationships. I mean seriously now, are there any women who don't have an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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