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I Am Always Attracted to People With Too Much Baggage

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    Are You Kidding?

    A bit of baggage is one thing, however lately I found myself in a situation that was starting to repeat itself from the last bad situation I let myself get charmed into. I can't believe my bad luck with relationships. I mean seriously now, are there any women who don't have an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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    Needed.

    I need to feel needed.That's why most of my attempts at long term relationships are toward vaguely to vastly damaged people. Because I can help them feel better. Because in my own delusion of self-righteousness I can fix them.But I can't. Maybe a personal incapability. Maybe...
    Hethyx Hethyx 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I Can Save Him, Yes I Can!

    he has a criminal record and unable to drive, but that's okay 'cuz he hasn't a ride.  has seven kids he can't even see. a really great dad, which is appealing to me.  he is separated, but not yet divorced. I do give him credit for staying the course...
    FreakOfNature FreakOfNature 41-45 13 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    You Can't Really Blame Someone For Caring Too Much About Money When We Live In A World That Requires You To Have It To Live
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    Just wondering... how much money will really make people happy'
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    I understand that we need money to live, but some people act ridiculous with money. Some people may have a family member that needs help and the one that is most financially able...
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    And right now, I am one of those people. lol
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I'm almost spent on my good graces. I'm over being the giver. I'm never taken care of. My kids are the only ones that deserve my all not some immature "ManBoy". I'm almost to...
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    Actually, I'd say almost everyone! Money doesn't mean much to me...I kind of like having just enough to get by, keeps a person disciplined
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    slaved away in college for 6 yrs. Got a good job with a college degree and hard work. Do you think I want to be with some girl that after college was lazy and never bettered...
    LoveRobbery LoveRobbery 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    Having money is nice and it is a means to an end, of sorts, however, Money Can't Buy Love!! Without the Emotional Intimacy or whatever a person needs personally, money is Not the...
    fnightmare fnightmare 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    Money is love. Money is life. (Forgive me of my sins Shrek!!!!)
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5

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    I've known too many people give too much away about who they are and what they think. People, rightly or wrongly, formulate easily held opinions on you when you do that. So I try...
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    i believe if people knows too much about ur life then they might take an advantage of it and we might suffer later in life for being too open to someone who are not family..
    joethangbali joethangbali 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    I still have a lot to learn and explore about EP right now, so pardon me if this particular experience isn't what the site is about. I stumbled across the internet for about an...
    Kiddinq Kiddinq 18-21, F Nov 6

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    I've never brought into the 'I don't care what people think of me', more often than not, I smell bullshit when people say it. There's nothing wrong with caring about it, just not...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I always think too much about life What's going on around me Always wonder why people do this and that
    Anne678 Anne678 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I really do think to much!! I sometimes feel that people have an ulterior motive.. I always feel like ppl dislike me.. and I always come up with the craziest reasons why they would...
    xxNicholexx xxNicholexx 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 15

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    I care way too much about everything. I always wonder what someone thinks of me and if I made them mad or what have you. I need to stop. I've been told so many times that the key...
    taylormorgan2113 taylormorgan2113 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always did share too much, just to figure out that people judge you even before you finish sharing..
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Idk about about most people, but I care too much and I so over think. I can't help it. I can see how it can be a good thing and I can see it being super bad. I've been in bed late...
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    As a 13 year old, I have worries. Obviously, this is very ordinary, everybody has worries about something or other, but my worrying is getting out of control. I worry too much...
    JoshuaRants JoshuaRants 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    That's what happens when I stay in bed too long. I have too much too dream, and that's not good because that pesky being naked in public dream always shows up. I don't like you...
    Calcetines Calcetines 36-40, M Nov 2

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    Way way too much... I have done very little in my life for me. I am at a turning point in my life, a huge step off a precipice out into nothingness in order to begin anew. It's...
    flutterbyenight flutterbyenight 36-40, F Oct 29

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    I'm pretty sure that I care too much. I get invested in people and I get disappointed. I set myself up for it.
    LifeHunter LifeHunter 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 6

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    I drank too much tonight. I needed to, I'm weak. Like being chased by a rhino. Running but not running. Not fearing the outcome but dreading it at the same time. Filling in the...
    joecell joecell 46-50, M Nov 9

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    I say too much of the wrong thing. at least in reality. people want me to be angry at them when they hurt me. but I just don't see the point of being angry at someone when all...
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 Nov 12

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    I can fall so hard for someone, even my friends but when they disappoint me it hurts. I think im a good friend but I just can't see why they don't care to call more often or why...
    BlueStar21 BlueStar21 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I keep telling myself to stop caring anymore but still, every time someone says something that might be offensive about me, or someone tells me that I've been talked and gossiped...
    The1996 The1996 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    doing so right now thinking too much about a woman i care too much for. Someone that didn't even have the decency to say goodbye rather than just leaving. I don't expect every...
    animallover412 animallover412 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I am in a support group on Facebook and I saw a post a girl made. She said "Am I the only one who fears the police now because of the stories of them killing people with mental...
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    I think way to much...I worry too much, everything is too much I need a break a little bit Where ever I go a problem has to come up I need to rest for a while:(
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    This happens too much for me, I would have never though that you could care too much for someone
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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M a week ago

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    I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel like I'm doing this because I don't want to be alone. I care for him when he's sick. I appreciate the little things he does and the big...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I gotta start eating healthy and lose weight. My implant is making me gain too much weight.
    Princessinmind Princessinmind 18-21, F Oct 26

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    My biggest weakness is i care too much about everyone....my friends my family my bf... no matter how they treat me no matter how much pain they give...i still care and i still love...
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Every morning I wake up and grab my phone and surf the internet. At school, wherever there's free wifi I will immediately take out my phone and surf the net. And after school I'm...
    tinypoop tinypoop 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I can't sleep if I'm thinking too much. In my earlier story I said that this wasn't an issue really anymore.
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    lol I smoke waaaay too much. need to cut down, but I have such an addictive personality­čśş­čś¬
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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 12

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    I say too much sometimes. I turn guys off. I really need to shut my mouth
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    My eyes notice if i talk too much. Listeners show signs. So i try comedy. Then hide or go quiet.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 12

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