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I Am Always Attracted to People With Too Much Baggage

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    Are You Kidding?

    A bit of baggage is one thing, however lately I found myself in a situation that was starting to repeat itself from the last bad situation I let myself get charmed into. I can't believe my bad luck with relationships. I mean seriously now, are there any women who don't have an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 19, 2010

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    Needed.

    I need to feel needed.That's why most of my attempts at long term relationships are toward vaguely to vastly damaged people. Because I can help them feel better. Because in my own delusion of self-righteousness I can fix them.But I can't. Maybe a personal incapability. Maybe...
    Hethyx Hethyx 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I Can Save Him, Yes I Can!

    he has a criminal record and unable to drive, but that's okay 'cuz he hasn't a ride.  has seven kids he can't even see. a really great dad, which is appealing to me.  he is separated, but not yet divorced. I do give him credit for staying the course...
    FreakOfNature FreakOfNature 41-45 13 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I have been told that I think way too much and also I feel that I care too much for those who don't care about not only themselves but anyone else....I need to learn to not carry...
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    This is my problem. Thinking too much and caring too much so I am always the one who suffer. When I have friends, especially best friend, I would love her too much that I will give...
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    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Oct 6

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    I stop myself from saying too much to new people so I don't really make many friends and people wonder why I am so quiet.
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    It's too much and it is kind on sinking my heart with it. I don't know whom to speak to because the relevant people do not tend to understand me. I have discussed with them again...
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    Sometimes i seek advices and ask for helps from my help and sometimes i ask them to do something for me, they always says they glad they could help me but sometimes they make me...
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    What do you get when you combine an unhinged and unstoppable ego with fierce compassion? Me. When I was 16, a teacher sat me down after school to have a word with me. I was being...
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    I tear my heart open and then I sew myself shut. And my weakness is that I care too much, that's how I always get hurts.
    eyumscloset eyumscloset 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    random15yearoldguy random15yearoldguy 13-15, M Sep 27

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    I care too much about others i go out my way for people and most don't even appreciate it.
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    I think I trust too much actually. I use to, if I just met you, give you my complete trust. Until you broke it, you had it. A lot of people break things when they didn't have to...
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    I been hurt way too much . People like to take my kindness and step on me ! And I let it!!
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    Acceptance and encouragement by my family and close friends. Most of them don't approve of my relationship. Or they don't like the actions I took to get into it. Or they don't...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    More than I should and I know it. It is not healthy and wish I would stop. I need to start exercising more in order to relieve some of it, but still haven't gotten around to it. I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Oct 2

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    ALCLASSOF2014 ALCLASSOF2014 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    Yeah, it's exactly that simple: I eat too much! I can't explain why, it's just the way I do it...
    dr3513 dr3513 26-30, M Oct 8

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    I don't trust too much cause I get burned every time
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    But it's such a great escape. If the dreams could only stop too as it reminds me too much about reality.
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    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Is it too much to ask your bff to delete your ex from all her social media & chat apps (WA, FB, IG, etc)?
    youbrokeme youbrokeme 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Everybody caring and curing and planet hopping not life erasing. Why is that too much????
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    jlkreul jlkreul 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want someone to hold me in the darkness of solitude. Someone to bribe fate in my happiness. Someone who stiches thier existance to the traps of my insides. Is it way too much to...
    eyumscloset eyumscloset 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I spend way too much time thinking about negative irrelevant subjects and it ruins my whole day
    clamthatjams clamthatjams 22-25, F 1 day ago

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