I Am Always Shocked When Someone Says They Find Me Attractive

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    Not really, I'm more shocked

    if they don't find me attractive... Grow some self confidence- it's good for you lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    I don't think I'm attractive.

    What do you guys think?
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    So many people on here have said I am!

    !! I'm still in shock because I don't think I am :0
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 9, 2016

    Yeah I don't know why

    but when I get compliments or get told I look attractive I'm just like what? Who me?? And just giggle and blush like a little girl Hahah. I'm not saying I'm not confident in myself, I think I'm just normal :) but yeah I find it strange lol :P
    PandaLovee PandaLovee
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    I've been told by many people

    that I'm pretty, but people also pick out a lot of my flaws. I guess because society is so judgmental I find it hard to believe when someone says I'm pretty..
    avagrace03 avagrace03
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2014

    Im not an ugly girl but I'm no Beyoncé either.

    I have a weird body type with broad shoulders, mommy tummy and an *** that only a roach would be jealous of. So I can never fathom why people would find me attractive but I've learned to just say thank you and take it for what it is ::)
    Boobah03 Boobah03
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    i dont think im attractive at all.

    .. can you pls see my profile photo and answer?
    Dem52 Dem52
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn
    16-17, M
    11 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I always feel upset when people compliment me

    because I feel like they don't genuinely mean it. Like they're saying it just to make me feel better about myself. Seeing as I found myself disgusting, I guess that's where it comes from.
    BabygirlMonie BabygirlMonie
    16-17, F
    Mar 14, 2016

    it's not that I think I'm unattractive I just

    don't have the features that my society considers attractive so when someone considers me attractive it's a big suprise to me
    powerStorm powerStorm
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    My one friend was talking over phone with my

    other friend and I was there listening. Its been a long time since she has seen me so she asked her how do I look now. My friend answered, "who? Moon? she still looks like a dumbass and funny". A guy of my neighborhood told me that I'm beautiful and quite attractive because of...
    earthsmoon13 earthsmoon13
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2015
    jbea46 jbea46
    51-55, F
    11 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    I mean seriously, what kind of girl likes a

    short, nerdy black guy? Just saying.
    myokujiraiya10 myokujiraiya10
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    No kidding! It's one thing

    when someone stares at me and I can get hints that they like me, but when she has the courage to tell me, that's something pretty awesome.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    Others: "I like you, want to do something

    sometime" Me: *looks over shoulder*. *checks surroundings* Me: who are you talking to?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    I grew up pretty rough

    and im anti social and when someone tells me im pretty or they like me its a feeling im not use to
    ooprincess27oo ooprincess27oo
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    I don't really consider myself to be attractive.

    So when someone comes up to me and tells me I'm a beautiful young lady or have wonderful eyes, or great hair, I don't really believe them. I think they're just trying to be nice.
    HaliCali HaliCali
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    I never believe them.

    I consider myself an average Jane/Betty. So, when I'm told that I'm attractive, I just nod politely. I feel that they're saying it to be nice (lying) or they want/need something from me. Crazy, I know.
    thesilentchef thesilentchef
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    People tell me I'm attractive

    and even sexy. I'm thinking they lost they mind and gone crazy, because I definitely don't see it.
    lisamarie829 lisamarie829
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2016

    I know this is conceited,

    but this doesn't shock me anymore. I know Im pretty and have a unique face and crazy awesome body. I use it to my advantage all the time. My friends constantly get on me about being ego centric but then when a hot guy comes around they're like,"Go for it!!!!" I can stare at...
    YouKnowWho15 YouKnowWho15
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    i know, for a fact, i was hideous 6 months ago.

    I did a complete 180 over the summer though. I lost 60 pounds and i actually dress to impress now. im still getting used to it.
    megakarp megakarp
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    same. I literally have to look in the mirror

    and be like "what were they looking at again?" lol
    BABA4801 BABA4801
    16-17, F
    Dec 20, 2015

    It really takes me aback

    when someone says I'm attractive because I spent a majority of my school life being victim to taunts about my looks and my weight. I guess when you hear something enough times you start to believe it but I'm working on trying to internalise the compliments rather than the echo...
    thisisjuno thisisjuno
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    Today me and a bunch of friends were talking,

    and i said i had to go to the mall to get new clothes so i could start looking good, and one of the guys said " Well i think you're really hot!" and the other boys nodded. That surprised me! I've been happy ever since:P It's just so nice to hear for a change:)
    MsLouise MsLouise
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    I was always insecure about the fact

    that I'm a red head/ginger I was too embarrassed of my freckles. As I grew up my hair's colour changed form that weird orange colour to red, which I'm now in love with
    PleaseDontHurtMeAgain PleaseDontHurtMeAgain
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Usually I wear just mascara

    but today I was feeling frisky so I did my makeup for the first time today! All by myself I'm so proud! I was at the store with really dark lipstick on and I got called cute in a non sarcastic way which is shocking to me So much effort was put into my face I really respect...
    RachelDare RachelDare
    16-17
    7 Responses Dec 19, 2015
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 30, 2015

    Me when someone says I'm attractive "Is this

    some kind of sick joke?" "Who put you to say this?" "Am I getting punkd?"
    lunazteca lunazteca
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 19, 2015

    I'm always surprised at first then I suspect

    they want something from me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    Only reasons someone would call another

    attractive is either to get in your pants or say it to make the ugly person feel better
    DeadlyArsenic DeadlyArsenic
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    If you're attractive

    and you talk to me first, chances are, I'm very confused.
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    I just wonder sometime.

    . I never though i am pretty or something..almost people around me said i am cute,nice and attractive..I am just shockef because i though i am not that good..Honestly i give thanks for that..
    myselfhere myselfhere
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    Not that it happens often.

    There were 6 guys so far who told me they found me attractive. In 4 cases it was unwelcome and I felt somehow endangered. I don't mind being complimented, but love confessions and display of jealousy are something else. I'd rather be ignored completely than have to face...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 20, 2016

    Excuse me?! You mean meeeh?

    Meeh? Hahahaha noway lol -giggles like 5 year old- Hahaha I don't know how to handle compliments :0
    Kittyxfreak Kittyxfreak
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2014
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    Apr 16, 2016

    "Hey, are you a boy or a girl?

    " I will end you :3
    ItsMarcoYay ItsMarcoYay
    18-21, T
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    I don't consider myself to be one of the most

    atractive persone around but i am not the ugliest around.. Two months ago me and my family moved from a village to a citie but i haven't change my school yet..so every morning i have to walk to the bus stop and after school i take the bus back to the citie and walk from the bus...
    jrcervin jrcervin
    18-21, M
    Feb 23, 2016

    This guy at my college

    that I used to have a little bit of a crush on recently told me that he thought I was "extremely attractive." I spent the next hour or so thinking about it nonstop, wondering about HOW he could POSSIBLY think that about me. Me, attractive? Never. My self-esteem is almost...
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    if i had to rate myself from one to ten.

    .. i would rate me with 5 ... but i had like many girlfriends... i think it was because of me personality.. can ya see my photo guys and rate me?
    Dem52 Dem52
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015
    lookket lookket
    22-25, F
    29 Responses Aug 17, 2015
    silentsyd silentsyd
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Aug 1, 2014
    genevievecostello genevievecostello
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I seriously am lmfao ,

    I don't believe them tho . I act like I accept it just to not be rude to them
    LovelyGorilla LovelyGorilla
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    I know I shouldn't. There are people with major

    medical physical flaws. Mine are trivial but I feel so huge and gross sometimes. When someone thinks I'm cute I wonder what their motive is.
    bossvixen bossvixen
    31-35, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    Because as a kid i was ugly .

    And boys were like really mean lol . But it's the ugly little girls who grow to be the beautiful confident ones .
    Yovanna Yovanna
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Like, if someone says "You're pretty,

    or beautiful, or sexy" I'm either surprised or I just think they're being nice. I never believe it. I just don't think I'm attractive whatsoever.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    I'm the type of person

    that will probably never ever believe that someone would actually like me so I'll just completely avoid people.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Aug 20, 2014

    The only girl I have ever heard call me cute in

    person and that actually wanted to date me turned out to be a complete psychopath.
    Mitchellross Mitchellross
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 20, 2015

    A lot of people have been asking me what I look

    like, so here it is. I honestly don't see how I could even be considered remotely good-looking.
    SimplyAtheist SimplyAtheist
    22-25, M
    10 Responses May 9, 2014

    rarest bull ever xD 9/10 times I know it's a

    half assed lie (not that I've gotten to 10 yet either)
    Mike3569 Mike3569
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    I have always been self-conscious

    and had a low self-esteem like most other people that can relate to this. At school I was just sitting at my desk doing my work then a girl sitting next to me said she liked my shirt and before I even replied I may have shockingly stared at her for a second before she said...
    MyMindHurts01 MyMindHurts01
    16-17
    Mar 28, 2015

    This happened yesterday.

    I was talking with some coworkers, some are at least half my age, and we were talking about life before and after marriage, etc, and I said, when I was young and fresh, I was actually not bad looking! The guys rolled their eyes and the girls did the "whut?" face and they all...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 9, 2016
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