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I Am Always Surprised When I See the Face Behind the Avatar

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    It is not that I have a low self-esteem because I am a very strong independent woman; however the fact of the matter is that I do not adhere to the ideals of beauty that our...
    Rltdancer Rltdancer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I am always surprised with the double character of people. Those people who act nice in front of us and back bites with other people. I mean what they get by doing that. They take...
    Simplegirlstory Simplegirlstory 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    So when I'm home alone or taking a walk in the dark outside, I'm always afraid of being kidnapped or raped for some reason, and people who are aware of it happening to men too, don...
    thedaydreamer1020 thedaydreamer1020 26-30, F Jul 22

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    My sister in law has a best friend that added me on Facebook and we have been playing a game on there so we chat all the time. She knows my older brother and she knew who I was...
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    when they say "your beautiful" or "damn you cute". I just kind of laugh to myself and say thank you. I dont know it's just when I look into the mirror I just see a girl what I see...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    β€œLife is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can apologize when you should and let go of what you can’t change. Love deeply and forgive...
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M Jul 2

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    I get so worried about this. The few times I've been left alone in my life, I felt so freaked out and unprepared, it's not even okay. How am I going to be an adult if I can't even...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Jul 22

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    It can be really hard. I know the good is there. I live with someone who is immensely flawed and hateful, but he does have his good points. One of my favorite memories is of when I...
    SabrinaB27 SabrinaB27 18-21, F Jul 2

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    No one is ugly but there are times when people compliment me on my looks or e.t.c and I get flattered on the inside. I feel like I look normal but I never really pay attention to...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Call me an attention seeker but i love it when people compliment me
    alexiadahl alexiadahl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    It's always hard to believe compliments when society is always tearing you down. Slowly I'm starting to open up and realize that what someone else considers unattractive can be...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    This is actually a very deep issue for me. I can't seem to accept compliments. I once went through a time where I was getting bullied, they picked out all my flaws and insecurities...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    And since i posted my picture men dont stop comenting of how cute i am, i get so nervous that i blocked them without thinking. I dont like it when people starts conversations just...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 17 Responses Jul 16

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    I guess after a childhood of feeling "different" and being the only kid in a wheelchair that i knew, i started to get extremely low self esteem to the point of even being suicidal...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jul 16

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    I just don't see it and apparently not many others do either. So when I hear someone say they find me attractive I find it hard to believe. Sometimes it just feels insincere and...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F Jul 17

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    I have always been rejected so when someone finds me attractive it's like a culture shock
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I do not think that anyone is ugly. however, if there is a person that exists I think it is me! hahaha! I am ok with it.:p I really do not care about looks. :P I get shy all the...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I have never believed it when someone says I am beautiful or attractive. I have been battling depression for as long as I can remember and I just have extremely low self confidence...
    Kaylamarie9413 Kaylamarie9413 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Idk why but when people say it to me I just feel like they're joking with me or they're just tryna be nice
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I've been told by many people that I'm pretty, but people also pick out a lot of my flaws. I guess because society is so judgmental I find it hard to believe when someone says I'm...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F Jul 9

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    It surprises me when someone calls me attractive. And I hardly ever believe it. πŸ˜’ I can never tell when someone is being honest or just trying to make me feel better.
    joshbeaudoin joshbeaudoin 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    My boyfriend says this, that's about all haha I literally smiled for an hour the other when someone told me I was pretty.
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F Jul 18

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    Whenever anybody says that they find me attractive in my mind in just like "what the fuckkk is wrong with you?" 😳 Lmao.
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I pretty much am a lazy bed bug. Except when it comes to school. I'm all for it and like getting good grades. But I don't like to get all dressed up anymore I have no reason. So...
    Pxppunkprincess Pxppunkprincess 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I guess because society pushed on us teens that fat girls are ugly and thin is the "In" trend all that other crap that I just believed it and even though on some good days I find...
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I call people who I luv boo!!!
    adorable101 adorable101 13-15, F Jul 1

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    We are not born evil, we just simply learn to become it, because of the people that we surround our selves with, as well as the people that live among us. Everyone is good but we...
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I believe there is no such thing as good and evil. I believe there are choices, choices that differentiate from others. Some also consequences that are heavier then other, it is...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    Sadly,not many return the gesture.. Ain't life grand.
    petitelady28 petitelady28 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm grateful that i have this feeling naturally. my co wokers joke at me how optimistic i am. but for some reason i just can't help finding that happy,hopeful reasoning in people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 16

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    But then i realize my inner self comes out and am elated that they do.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I really am I thought I was the ugliest person alive
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F Jul 1

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    YAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚ It surprises me that I even have a boyfriend
    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F Jul 1

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    Seriously, like what? Are you blind? You need me to take you to the eye doctor? πŸ‘€
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    All the time :/ I don't know why.. But I think more importantly it's all about who you are then what you look like.. I mean who are we to judge who's attractive or not.. The heart...
    misssleepy misssleepy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    And I never really believe them
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    CUS I'm ugly and I've been cheated on and I'm never the only girl in a relationship Yup πŸ™
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I don't really have a reason.
    Naty14 Naty14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I dont know if they are lying to me or not. There are millions of people they could say it to. But why me? Im not perfect. Heck. I dont even wear makeup. And i could name a million...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Because I'm as ugly as ****.
    chunckymunky chunckymunky 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Rather i look for the person waiting to win the bet or finish the dare. Or ask me where they can do Lasik. Shocked?! Hell yes I'm shocked! Didn't think halogens became that...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I met a girl on this app. and I think I like her she is cute and smart and funny and she finds me cute and funny. What should I do I need help form girls
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I was abused by my mother and in care homes. Never had a reason to think I am attractive. No I'm not supermodel but many find my sense of humour attractive. I think it's more I'm...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have weird teeth and I'm fat but I get a lot of flirting and compliments. For some reason.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Excuse me?! You mean meeeh? Meeh? Hahahaha noway lol -giggles like 5 year old- Hahaha I don't know how to handle compliments :0
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not really, I'm more shocked if they don't find me attractive... Grow some self confidence- it's good for you lol
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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