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on 07:53AM at Mar 30th, 2010
Being an adult bedwetter is not socially accepted so do you keep it a secret or do your family and friends know. When I was younger every one knew I wet the bed but no one seemed to be that bothered. As grew older I couldn't have coped with the embarrasment so I keept it to my self.
on 10:56AM at Apr 4th, 2010
i was fortunate enough to have lived with an "understanding partner" [now deceased] for a number of years, who, upon discovering my "boyhood history of pants and bedwetting", encouraged me to regress. he introduced me to the use of diapers for sleeping in, and it did not take long for my bedwetting habit to "resurface".
lack of social acceptance/understanding regarding the bedwetting habit tends to encourage one to keep the matter private---what may be regarded as an involuntary and thus "acceptable" habit as a child is frowned upon and often treated with derision when the habit continues into adulthood. it would be nice to be able to share thoughts and experiences with other adults who are bedwetters themselves or who are attracted in some way to adult males who still wet the bed on a regular basis...
on 05:19PM at Apr 12th, 2010
my mum and dad and sisters know one of my sisters told one of my friends about my wetting
on 02:41AM at Apr 13th, 2010
My sister used to delight in telling her friends I still wet the bed when I was a teenager. I once found them in my room looking at my wet and stained bed and laughing. Very embarrasing. I still wet the bed that night though.
on 09:05AM at Apr 16th, 2010
Was your sister ever a bedwetter? Mine was- but she stopped around the age of 12. She was very discrete and understanding regarding me and my older brother who continued to wet our beds throughout high school.
on 02:13PM at May 16th, 2010
Since chilhood and mt being a bedwetter my family al know and some of my friends do. My Mom put me back into diapers and plastic panties when I was 8 as the goodnights just didnt hold it all. i am 21 now and still wetting most nights and still in cloth diapers and plastic panties but find that far better then waking up in a soaking bed. I know that i sleep better this way and have started to feel secure once my diapers are pinned on and my panties are covering them befor bed, It would be nice to have some friends like myself to talk with
on 07:19PM at Aug 3rd, 2010
My late brother & I were life long bedwetters every night. Family all knew about it but our friends didn't. It was difficult to turn down over nighters with our friends which was a bummer.
on 12:44PM at Nov 21st, 2010
unfotunley just about every one knows about my wetting i was changed in public many time and beaten bare by my father and it did'nt matter who was around if i was wet or he been told i had wet my self i got it right then and there
on 06:36AM at Nov 22nd, 2010
Only my wife knows I still wet the bed. Some friends may suspect, or not, but thanksfully they never have mentioned it. If they did, I really don't know if I admit it or deny it. It would be great to admit it, but still....
on 11:33AM at Nov 22nd, 2010
i keep it a securet onkly those on here know i am a dirty boy
on 07:00PM at Jan 29th, 2011
I am also a adult bed wetter at age 64 it is not fun and only my wife knows.I wet the bed as a youg man even when i went to viet nam it was hard to conceal my problem but i did get away with it. At 64 my problem is back and worse than ever as i empty my bladder almost every night. It is very embarising when i wet myself in the day time as it is usually in a store. i have started wearing pull ups in the daytime and diapers at night
on 08:11PM at Jun 22nd, 2012
every one as a kid i wet my pants a lot too I was allways called ******* patty at 15 or so I started to like my bedwetting becuse i did wear a diaper to bed I started to let every one know now i just dont car and dont hide it at all
on 09:25AM at Jun 23rd, 2012
My sister also was a bedwetter... when she was younger. At the time, I was not sure I wanted to.
Later, I began to wet the bed, after a major accident (mostly laziness) that, according to my husband, nearly destroyed an expensive mattress. I just continued to have my 'accidents' after that, and he insisted on protection, so we keep that in the bed. He is the only one that knows I wet the bed.
on 12:42PM at Jun 23rd, 2012
It is a pretty well kept secret outside of my family. My wife, brother and sister-in law, and my sister and brother-in law all know. Of course my parents as well. Outside of that, a few x-girl friends who I haven't seen in years (as I have been married for 9 years). As a kid many of my friends knew I wet the bed through elementary school. Pretty tough to hide it when there were always plastic pants for my brother, sister and me hanging in the basement wash area next to our playroom. Also, our beds were often airing out and the rubber sheets were visible. Of course in elementary school, truth be know, we had lots of company since I knew many of my friends also had bedwetting episodes, although not every night like me. Once we got into junior high we became much more discrete and everyone just assumed we had grown out of it, like they had. In fact, although my brother and my bedwetting did start to diminish from every night occurances as we got older, we both continued to wet our beds more often than not all the way through high school. My sister's bedwetting stopped entirely once she started having regular periods.
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