I Am An Androgyne

If you're not a girlie girl or a macho man, maybe you're an androgyne 167 People

    Growing Up Androgynous

    Growing up in lines like ants never was for me. "Boys on the right, girls on the left!" The Catholic preschool teacher would call out. They divide by difference and I'm the only one left. "Hayden, get into your line." the teacher prompted. I looked to the left...
    Hayden13 Hayden13
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    Androgyne, Should Not Be A Cross Gender

    Greeting All I am still finding truly Androgyny group, as described in title this group. Several group I joined with similar title in web. However Commonly, still talking about a soul is trapped inside wrong body.  Just presume, If the soul are allowed to change the...
    ryari77enja ryari77enja
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2010

    I Was In Doubt For a Long Time!...

    Hello dear reader, The last couple of years have been very difficult for me because i didn't know what was going on with myself. WHAT / WHO am I? People always (mostly) think I am gay (which i'm not) so you realy start to wonder if something is wrong. "I like 'female...
    Conzales Conzales
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2008

    Hello Everybody, I'm An Androgyne

    It's just what I feel, but it is kinda weird to write about it, to explain that experience... I explained it plenty of times... and that changed nothing. It took me years to discover that I'm not masculine and not feminine either. I don't feel comfortable in the both gender...
    hethan hethan
    Mar 21, 2010


    So, I am becoming more comfortable with the label I've chosen and am feeling more comfortable with the mind set. I am an androgynous, I am in the middle. I don't have to be one gender or the other. I can be me. It wasn't a hard decision as I became uncomfortable with most of the...
    bombi bombi
    Feb 7, 2010

    How I Feel

    Hello (: I am biologically male and I'm completly fine with that but also I enjoy many femine things i enjoy painting my toenails with colorful colors and I would like to try on high heels because I feel as thought i would enjoy them and also I have wanted to purchase leggings...
    orleans00 orleans00
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2010

    Found My Real Self In A Virtual World

    I'm biologically female. When I was growing up, my mother dressed me in pink dresses and taught me to sew and cook - I was every inch a girl. But I was always equally happy playing Transformers as I was with My Little Pony. As a teen, I was just as likely to crush on a girl as I...
    StarchildMagic StarchildMagic
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2010


    Hello Everybody, I study psychology and try to make a research about androgyns. I want the people to understand what's it all about and to respect people who are. On the ohther side I would like to help androgyns getting a long with what they are and realize that its a great...
    Flee1 Flee1
    6 Responses Mar 4, 2012

    A Little Help Here?

    I'm running out of options here.I'm physically female and have been calling myself a girl my entire life,but the idea of having to act the way society dictates females should act makes me uncomfortable.Some days it's almost painful to look at my very obviously female body...
    AGirlNotFromIpanema AGirlNotFromIpanema
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

    In Development...

    At 23, I am discovering that androgyny may best describe a trait of who I am. When I was little, I confessed to my mother I thought I was a woman. From there began 'my problem.' I grew up sensing a slight different treatment towards me. At times it...
    arethusa arethusa
    22-25, T
    9 Responses Dec 11, 2009

    I Took the Cogiati Test

    It took me a very long time, but maybe, just maybe, I know who I am for the 1st time. I Am An Androgyne. If anyone in this group has the desire to experience being both genders, but is caught in one or the other, please say hello.
    girlfancier girlfancier
    10 Responses Nov 15, 2008


    To be honest, I'm still not sure what I am. I was raised as a girl, and I guess I didn't really question it that much. I didn't really fit in with the other kids. Playing house was boring, so I ended up with the guys most of the time, until 4th grade or so. After that, I was an...
    Nyctophile Nyctophile
    1 Response Mar 14, 2010

    Reaching Out

    I think I've been aware of being an androgyne for about 5 years now, maybe a little less.  I'm a gay male and a lot of the time I don't mind being totally male.  I like fast cars and beer and baseball as much as the next guy.  Still, I don't always feel the same...
    Threetails Threetails
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2010

    It Now Makes Sense

    I have recently taken several online tests to discover that I am considered an Androgyne.  I had never heard of this before but it certainly seems to fit.  I live as, and am physically a male.  I am sexually attracted to only women.  I am in fact happily...
    snowy73 snowy73
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2010

    This Is Me Now & some definations

    After a long time of thinking I was just weird I found some Transgender forums that had other people that felt the same as me about there gender these people had many names to Id them selves that I could relate to including androgyne, gender queer, inter gender, gender fluid...
    kinkly kinkly
    1 Response Jul 6, 2008

    I think I might be androgyne?

    But I'm still not sure yet. I guess I'm here to share my experiences and to ask for advice and conformation of my feelings more than anything else. Long story short, I was assigned female at birth, but was never truly happy with that. I never liked the gender expectations of...
    LeftHandedLemon LeftHandedLemon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    Why Am I Androgynous??

    i am not a lier, so i wont say that i appreciate being an adrogyne, nor do i hate it. but as i am a female, i always wished to have a look that prove it... i have knee-lenght straight hair, this should be proof that i am female, but still, when i go in the city, i was asked a...
    Taintedsnow Taintedsnow
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2012

    Welcome To My Double Open Life

    trans1 trans1
    26-30, T
    1 Response Sep 13, 2012

    No doubt about it, my go is more masculine

    than I am. She just tried to make me watch a video of some famous car driver person racing around Sam Francisco. I could appreciate the skill, but about halfway through I was ready to go back to shopping for shoes...
    sethdog sethdog
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    Girl Fastened In a Boy's Body

    I am a girl living inside a boy's body. It is incredible how your mind controls your body and overrides your physical factors. Although I am physically a boy, I always believed and regarded myself as a girl, I always loved the girls world, and always loved men, but not in a...
    bluemoth bluemoth
    4 Responses May 19, 2009

    Staying Free

    I found out that i am an androgyne about 8 months ago after doing the cogiati and several other tests , prior to that i lived my life as a private transvestite but always knew that thats not where i fitted in, .when i found out that i am an androgyne ,wow yay ,scream,cry a...
    finalyfree finalyfree
    41-45, T
    1 Response Dec 19, 2012

    I'm An Androgyne Too.

    I only discovered the word "androgyne" fairly recently, but once I'd found it, I soon realised that  I  was one. When I was a young kid I was aware that I wasn't as "macho" as most other boys, which upset my dad and made me unhappy but I survived it, and then when at 11 I went...
    alanrunner alanrunner
    26-30, T
    1 Response Nov 16, 2011

    Oh Well

    So I am a male that looks very much like a female. Doesn't really bother me much.. It's just looks. But... How do we know what is feminine and what is masculine? Who decided what's what? My body has curves [not from fat], but apparently only girls can have curves or you are...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 25, 2011


    This is perhaps the first time I've introduced myself to people like me. Though I'm physically male I can't say that I have ever mentally felt that way, I'm happy with how I am, somewhere between male and female.Though sadly I don't feel its something I can admit to anyone I know...
    Fiere Fiere
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 4, 2013

    Finaly Free I Thought

    well really i knew from a young age that i was diferent from all the other boys my desire to wear female clothes exposed me to a lot of ridicule so figured out quite quickly that it would have to be a secret thing till i was old enough . I knew what a transvestite was but...
    finalyfree finalyfree
    41-45, T
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    I feel neither male or female,

    just somewhere in the middle. It took me so long to even come to terms with these feelings, much less try to find a name for it. I'm still questioning myself, but I think that's more out of fear than anything. I'm not ashamed of who I am, I'm just scared of having to come out...
    AdrienJoan AdrienJoan
    18-21, T
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    I No Longer Feel Stuck

    Well, I've never even talked about this before -except with my mum, once, and she was so understanding I just had to hug her. So, that being said, forgive me if the following seems incoherent (though I did edit this before submitting it). Sex-wise, I'm male -I have a penis- and...
    CrabnPickle CrabnPickle
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 16, 2011

    My Long Journey For A Good Enough Label Has Ended.

    I'm a biological male. Since 4 or 5 years old, I already wanted to wear skirts. I remember this. I have nothing against my body. Only that perhaps I'd like to shave all of it. I was always an introvert and recluse. Always tried to desperately fit in. I never understood why I...
    fabianne fabianne
    1 Response Oct 26, 2010

    Its Taken Time To Realise

    ive alwys wanted to dress like a woman  and have done so many times but having to live in he real world cant do it all the time esp at work or wih family so the happy medium of being in the middle and wearing manly womans clothes or female manly clothes suits me just fine.i've...
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    3 Responses Dec 24, 2011

    My World

    This is my commentary about Androgeny, which is best defined as those who have the appearance of being ambiguously different from their intended birth gender. Girlish looking effeminate boys or boyish looking masculine girls.  Just as in any biologic study there are...
    shantelbassett shantelbassett
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2010

    Kind Of Relieved, Almost

    I am androgynous. Psychologically, anyways. I'd like to be more androgynous physically too, maybe, but I haven't worked that part out yet--I've only just now realized after a long month or so of struggling with this idea of gender identity or whatever that I don't belong to...
    egression egression
    1 Response Mar 19, 2010

    Slipping Over The Border

    I just got back from my yearly vacation out west. It changed me. Now being Androgyne and having control over both sides of me, I keep myself in fair balance, but this time she got out.  Had spent time enjoying doing the usual things on a vacation that one would do. Last...
    paddytram paddytram
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

    Sometimes Female, Sometimes Male, Sometimes Neither!

    Spent the last 30 or so years trying to find out what or who i was, flirted with changing sex 20 years ago, but at the last moment decided it was not for me. Took Cogiati test a few weeks back and results came up that i was an Androgyne, i couldnt believe the description it gave...
    kerensa kerensa
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

    Hi There

    Hi, my name is Sean and I live as a gay man in Ireland. For many years I have felt uncomfortable with the macho male role, in fact sometimes when I look in the mirror,I feel that the person looking back is not totally me, if that makes sense. I have never cross dressed but have...
    seanfranc26 seanfranc26
    Nov 1, 2010

    And I Didn't Even Realise

    As a child I didn't like boys. I really didn't. They were stupid and inferior to me and yet I was expected to marry one. I hated it and decided never to get married. But looking back I realise that this had nothing to do with me "feeling" like a girl. It was because everyone I...
    Tsukihana Tsukihana
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2011

    Finally achieved a good enough selfie to post a

    profile pic of me as I am. Now I'm going to parade around Walmart in a purple corset and matching miniskirt with fabulous makeup and pigtails at 5:00 am in the morning. Squee!
    sethdog sethdog
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2014
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