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I Am An Androgyne

If you're not a girlie girl or a macho man, maybe you're an androgyne 157 People

    Hello Everybody, I'm An Androgyne

    It's just what I feel, but it is kinda weird to write about it, to explain that experience... I explained it plenty of times... and that changed nothing. It took me years to discover that I'm not masculine and not feminine either. I don't feel comfortable in the both gender...
    hethan hethan 26-30 Mar 21, 2010

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    I'm An Androgyne Too.

    I only discovered the word "androgyne" fairly recently, but once I'd found it, I soon realised that  I  was one. When I was a young kid I was aware that I wasn't as "macho" as most other boys, which upset my dad and made me unhappy but I survived it, and then when at 11 I went...
    alanrunner alanrunner 26-30, T 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    In Development...

    At 23, I am discovering that androgyny may best describe a trait of who I am. When I was little, I confessed to my mother I thought I was a woman. From there began 'my problem.' I grew up sensing a slight different treatment towards me. At times it...
    arethusa arethusa 22-25, T 9 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    Androgyne, Should Not Be A Cross Gender

    Greeting All I am still finding truly Androgyny group, as described in title this group. Several group I joined with similar title in web. However Commonly, still talking about a soul is trapped inside wrong body.  Just presume, If the soul are allowed to change the...
    ryari77enja ryari77enja 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    Finaly Free I Thought

    well really i knew from a young age that i was diferent from all the other boys my desire to wear female clothes exposed me to a lot of ridicule so figured out quite quickly that it would have to be a secret thing till i was old enough . I knew what a transvestite was but...
    finalyfree finalyfree 41-45, T 2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    My Long Journey For A Good Enough Label Has Ended.

    I'm a biological male. Since 4 or 5 years old, I already wanted to wear skirts. I remember this. I have nothing against my body. Only that perhaps I'd like to shave all of it. I was always an introvert and recluse. Always tried to desperately fit in. I never understood why I...
    fabianne fabianne 31-35 1 Response Oct 26, 2010

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    Unsure

    To be honest, I'm still not sure what I am. I was raised as a girl, and I guess I didn't really question it that much. I didn't really fit in with the other kids. Playing house was boring, so I ended up with the guys most of the time, until 4th grade or so. After that, I was an...
    Nyctophile Nyctophile 22-25 1 Response Mar 14, 2010

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    Androdgyne

    This is perhaps the first time I've introduced myself to people like me. Though I'm physically male I can't say that I have ever mentally felt that way, I'm happy with how I am, somewhere between male and female.Though sadly I don't feel its something I can admit to anyone I know...
    Fiere Fiere 18-21, M 3 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I'm Not A Lesbian But Everyone Thinks I Am. That Or A Mechanic.

    I'm not woman enough to want to keep my boobs. But I'm not man enough to transition. People think I'm gay, but I'm not. I'm attracted to men but I'm not woman enough to say I'm straight. Androgyny is a curse more than anything. It isn't bad being called a tomboy, but it isn't...
    wtfimik wtfimik 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    No doubt about it, my go is more masculine

    than I am. She just tried to make me watch a video of some famous car driver person racing around Sam Francisco. I could appreciate the skill, but about halfway through I was ready to go back to shopping for shoes...
    sethdog sethdog 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Kind Of Relieved, Almost

    I am androgynous. Psychologically, anyways. I'd like to be more androgynous physically too, maybe, but I haven't worked that part out yet--I've only just now realized after a long month or so of struggling with this idea of gender identity or whatever that I don't belong to...
    egression egression 18-21 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    This Is Me Now & some definations

    After a long time of thinking I was just weird I found some Transgender forums that had other people that felt the same as me about there gender these people had many names to Id them selves that I could relate to including androgyne, gender queer, inter gender, gender fluid...
    kinkly kinkly 31-35 1 Response Jul 6, 2008

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    Growing Up Androgynous

    Growing up in lines like ants never was for me. "Boys on the right, girls on the left!" The Catholic preschool teacher would call out. They divide by difference and I'm the only one left. "Hayden, get into your line." the teacher prompted. I looked to the left...
    Hayden13 Hayden13 13-15 3 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Why Am I Androgynous??

    i am not a lier, so i wont say that i appreciate being an adrogyne, nor do i hate it. but as i am a female, i always wished to have a look that prove it... i have knee-lenght straight hair, this should be proof that i am female, but still, when i go in the city, i was asked a...
    Taintedsnow Taintedsnow 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    Welcome To My Double Open Life

    YOU SEE, WHAT I HAVE COME TO REALIZE IS THIS, I AM ACTUALLY BOTH MALE AND FEMALE, AND NEITHER AT THE SAME TIME I HAVE A NATURAL BIOLOGICAL SCHEDULE WHICH FORCES ME TO BE MALE OR FEMALE DEPENDING ON THE SEASON SPRING- MALE AND FEMALE. SUMMER TO MID FALL- MALE. MID FALL TO SPRING...
    trans1 trans1 26-30, T 1 Response Sep 13, 2012

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    Reaching Out

    I think I've been aware of being an androgyne for about 5 years now, maybe a little less.  I'm a gay male and a lot of the time I don't mind being totally male.  I like fast cars and beer and baseball as much as the next guy.  Still, I don't always feel the same...
    Threetails Threetails 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2010

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    Hi There

    Hi, my name is Sean and I live as a gay man in Ireland. For many years I have felt uncomfortable with the macho male role, in fact sometimes when I look in the mirror,I feel that the person looking back is not totally me, if that makes sense. I have never cross dressed but have...
    seanfranc26 seanfranc26 46-50 Nov 1, 2010

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    Finally achieved a good enough selfie to post a

    profile pic of me as I am. Now I'm going to parade around Walmart in a purple corset and matching miniskirt with fabulous makeup and pigtails at 5:00 am in the morning. Squee!
    sethdog sethdog 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    The Long Road to Gender Freedom

    When we're children, we are supposed to fit into one of two gender boxes, a blue one for boys and a pink one for girls. Although I was born male, and don't have problems with having a male body, I never fitted very well into that blue box. Don't ask me to be a killer footballer...
    freedomluvr freedomluvr 56-60, T 8 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    I Am Simply Myself

    Allow me to paint a portrait of myself, sketchy as it may be. I have a set of male genitals. I am referred to by my male birth name. I don't feel I am transgender as I'm in no way opposed to my body; I live, by default, as a man. I also like to wear heavy make-up and nail varnish...
    binaryqueen binaryqueen 18-21 7 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    Found My Real Self In A Virtual World

    I'm biologically female. When I was growing up, my mother dressed me in pink dresses and taught me to sew and cook - I was every inch a girl. But I was always equally happy playing Transformers as I was with My Little Pony. As a teen, I was just as likely to crush on a girl as I...
    StarchildMagic StarchildMagic 31-35 4 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    Research

    Hello Everybody, I study psychology and try to make a research about androgyns. I want the people to understand what's it all about and to respect people who are. On the ohther side I would like to help androgyns getting a long with what they are and realize that its a great...
    Flee1 Flee1 22-25 6 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    Oh Well

    So I am a male that looks very much like a female. Doesn't really bother me much.. It's just looks. But... How do we know what is feminine and what is masculine? Who decided what's what? My body has curves [not from fat], but apparently only girls can have curves or you are...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    I Took the Cogiati Test

    It took me a very long time, but maybe, just maybe, I know who I am for the 1st time. I Am An Androgyne. If anyone in this group has the desire to experience being both genders, but is caught in one or the other, please say hello.
    girlfancier girlfancier 61-65 12 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Girl Fastened In a Boy's Body

    I am a girl living inside a boy's body. It is incredible how your mind controls your body and overrides your physical factors. Although I am physically a boy, I always believed and regarded myself as a girl, I always loved the girls world, and always loved men, but not in a...
    bluemoth bluemoth 18-21 4 Responses May 19, 2009

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    A Little Help Here?

    I'm running out of options here.I'm physically female and have been calling myself a girl my entire life,but the idea of having to act the way society dictates females should act makes me uncomfortable.Some days it's almost painful to look at my very obviously female body...
    AGirlNotFromIpanema AGirlNotFromIpanema 18-21 5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Its Taken Time To Realise

    ive alwys wanted to dress like a woman  and have done so many times but having to live in he real world cant do it all the time esp at work or wih family so the happy medium of being in the middle and wearing manly womans clothes or female manly clothes suits me just fine.i've...
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 3 Responses Dec 24, 2011

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    Staying Free

    I found out that i am an androgyne about 8 months ago after doing the cogiati and several other tests , prior to that i lived my life as a private transvestite but always knew that thats not where i fitted in, .when i found out that i am an androgyne ,wow yay ,scream,cry a...
    finalyfree finalyfree 41-45, T 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    Sometimes...

    Sometimes I just feel androgynous. I don't feel male or wish to appear as one: I don't feel femme and don't wish to present that way either.I suppose it is durring those times I feel I don't fit in and don't altogether identify as masculine or femanine.  I may identify with...
    BlueCedarTree BlueCedarTree 46-50 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    Discovery

    So, I am becoming more comfortable with the label I've chosen and am feeling more comfortable with the mind set. I am an androgynous, I am in the middle. I don't have to be one gender or the other. I can be me. It wasn't a hard decision as I became uncomfortable with most of the...
    bombi bombi 51-55 Feb 7, 2010

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    Slipping Over The Border

    I just got back from my yearly vacation out west. It changed me. Now being Androgyne and having control over both sides of me, I keep myself in fair balance, but this time she got out.  Had spent time enjoying doing the usual things on a vacation that one would do. Last...
    paddytram paddytram 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Was In Doubt For a Long Time!...

    Hello dear reader, The last couple of years have been very difficult for me because i didn't know what was going on with myself. WHAT / WHO am I? People always (mostly) think I am gay (which i'm not) so you realy start to wonder if something is wrong. "I like 'female...
    Conzales Conzales 26-30 3 Responses Aug 28, 2008

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    I'm A True Androgyne And Proud To Be One ...

    Hello everyone !For the one who still don't understand what an androgyne is, i wanna say that it's somebody who as a gender fix but people can't say if it's a girl or a boy by looking at this person. It's a mix between a girl and a boy.A guy that like girly thing  isn't...
    navyblue93 navyblue93 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    How I Feel

    Hello (: I am biologically male and I'm completly fine with that but also I enjoy many femine things i enjoy painting my toenails with colorful colors and I would like to try on high heels because I feel as thought i would enjoy them and also I have wanted to purchase leggings...
    orleans00 orleans00 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2010

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    Sometimes Female, Sometimes Male, Sometimes Neither!

    Spent the last 30 or so years trying to find out what or who i was, flirted with changing sex 20 years ago, but at the last moment decided it was not for me. Took Cogiati test a few weeks back and results came up that i was an Androgyne, i couldnt believe the description it gave...
    kerensa kerensa 41-45 2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    And I Didn't Even Realise

    As a child I didn't like boys. I really didn't. They were stupid and inferior to me and yet I was expected to marry one. I hated it and decided never to get married. But looking back I realise that this had nothing to do with me "feeling" like a girl. It was because everyone I...
    Tsukihana Tsukihana 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    My World

    This is my commentary about Androgeny, which is best defined as those who have the appearance of being ambiguously different from their intended birth gender. Girlish looking effeminate boys or boyish looking masculine girls.  Just as in any biologic study there are...
    shantelbassett shantelbassett 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 3, 2010

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    I No Longer Feel Stuck

    Well, I've never even talked about this before -except with my mum, once, and she was so understanding I just had to hug her. So, that being said, forgive me if the following seems incoherent (though I did edit this before submitting it). Sex-wise, I'm male -I have a penis- and...
    CrabnPickle CrabnPickle 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Men are socialised into this masculine image.

    Women are socialised into a feminine image. I firmly believe that this is wrong. Straight from birth, girls have been almost groomed into believing that females should be feminine; barbie dolls, pink clothes, 'be pretty and ladylike'-this is what we are told. Boys have been...
    TheOriginalDarkHorse TheOriginalDarkHorse 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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