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I Am An Army Girlfriend

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    It's been a week that my boyfriend left to

    basics , at first it was okay but now its hard , i still haven't received a letter from him , he called me Wednesday but that just wasnt enough. I go out with friends and do other things but i still manage to think about him and miss him so much that it's starting to hurt. I cry...
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Sometimes i just have a very bad day,

    start writing to him and throw that letter away... I start remembering that he has it way worse... Gotta stay positive!
    aalvarez49 aalvarez49 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    I would never go behind my boyfriends back

    and cheat. I hear girls say things about partying and hooking up with guys while their bf's are gone like "oh he doesn't have to know" yeah you don't deserve a military man if you're gonna purposely cheat on him and not even feel bad. Not even sorry
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2014

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    I'm going to Texas for Spring Break.

    I just had a fight with my boyfriend because he said he doesn't want me to meet some of the Army wives of his friends'. I asked him if I could because I'm living in Idaho- far removed from any support or ladies with the wisdom to help me through rough times. He thinks they'll...
    cabp24 cabp24 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Sometimes the military sucks.

    But you get out of it what you put into it. If your going to be one of those people who just complains that your soldier is gone or cant be with and just hate on the military your going to have a horrible time and it will reflect not only on you but you your boyfriend. Be...
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F Apr 10, 2014

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    Looking for some advice.

    .. I'm 19, haven't been dating him long, but know he's the one. Nobody I know really understands or has any advice to offer me, so I thought I'd try here ??
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes I am, it isn't easy

    but it'll be worth it. I'll support him 100%. The important part about this relationship is that we 110% trust each other.... So that's good :) I couldn't be more proud of him then I am.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Mar 26

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    Really missing him rn.

    I see other couples around me and just wish for a simple hug from him, anything. Just to FEEL him!
    hollycooke hollycooke 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    My boyfriend is going off to Ranger School in a

    few weeks.. He's in his second year in the military and is 19- I'm in college and am also 19... Im excited for him, but I'm sad I won't get to talk to him for the next 2 and a half months... BUT this is only temporary... <3
    cabp24 cabp24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    waking up to "good morning to the most

    beautiful woman in the world" messages will never get old..😍 Thank goodness for wifi overseas! Extremely thankful my boyfriend and I talk and Skype as much as we do.
    Rache91 Rache91 22-25, F Sep 3, 2014

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    FINALLY!!! after almost 2 months of no skype,

    we had our skype time back again just a few minutes ago ((: and i really can't take my SMILE OFF....
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    I often read and reread the letters he sent me

    while at Boot Camp just because it is something personal and intimate. I catch myself smiling and laughing once in a while because i can hear his voice as my eyes go over the words. Not saying that phone calls and texts aren't but letters make it so much more romantic, and I...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F Jul 26, 2014

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    I just received news

    that my boyfriend will be deploying in July. We've only been dating for about a month and by the time he leaves we will have spent a total of 6-8 weekends together. Does anyone else have a similar story? I've always been picky when he came to relationships but he is something...
    airbornelove airbornelove 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    12 days! In twelve days I will get to spend two

    weeks with my amazing boyfriend who is currently in basic training. He has off for Christmas and I couldn't be more excited!
    DestineeSmiles DestineeSmiles 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    My bf is stationed at fort Gordon my bf

    and I just made it official a few weeks ago after dating for a year. A few weeks ago he came to me and had a talk about how he feels like he is lost and doesn't know what to do with his life next. I didn't know what to tell besides to remind him that he is amazing. He is very...
    ALnJEAN ALnJEAN 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    omg!! finally after over a month of no skype.

    .only viber..then 2days that he tried to reach out but when he's home and online,im already at work....WE DID SKYPE during his lunchbreak!!!but i need to be up late coz its my 1am and its fine with me of course ((:
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F Apr 8

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    angieeM angieeM 16-17, F Apr 6

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    In just one week I'll be off to Georgia to see

    my baby graduate AIT I seriously can't wait to see him and get to feel his hugs ! Any other girlfriends going out to fort Gordon for graduation the 28th ??
    lexxallen lexxallen 18-21, F Jan 20

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    My boyfriend will be joining the army in a

    couple of months. I don't know how to cope with it. I am too afraid to lose him and don't wanna let him go, but at the same time, I wanna support him and be there for him. Does anyone have tips for me?
    AliciaJean AliciaJean 16-17 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Being An Army Girlfriend Is Tough, But...

    Being an Army girlfriend is tough. When I see my friends with their boyfriends, I always find myself staring at them like a creep, wondering if they know how lucky they are to be able to be with their man everyday. At work during the holidays, women come in with their soldier in...
    July2015 July2015 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Just a wake up left and then I see him!

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ <3333
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Sep 10, 2014

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    I'm only hours away from landing in El Paso,

    TX! Going to visit my soldier for Spring Break. Has anyone been to Fort Bliss?
    cabp24 cabp24 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    My boyfriend leaves this MONDAY!

    January 19th To go to training... 😔 I've prayed this day would never come.. But here it is. He didn't tell me until January 16th that he had to leave. I'm only 17 and he's 18 almost 19. I'm really scared that he will end up finding someone else but then again I trust him. If...
    Marianne98 Marianne98 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    He called me tonight!

    Best 4 minutes of my life!! So great to hear his voice. Man do I love my soldier.❤
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F Oct 26, 2014

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    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Sep 30, 2014

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    Five letters so far. I've been

    so happy. 43 more days until I see his handsome face. Going to be booking hotel rooms soon. The days go by faster than you think, stay strong and look forward to seeing your solider.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F Oct 28, 2014

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    Back in California...

    ... These 2 days went by too fast. I'm very proud of my soldier! These 3 months have been hell from waiting to get an address, to getting an address, to replying back to his letter and waiting for him to write back, to waiting for calls. It was a very stressful journey but you...
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2014

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    No good morning text today.

    .. :( Lord please help my boyfriend and his worries and our relationship. And bless me to have a good day and for everything to be alright
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Oct 6, 2014

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    Sexually deprived for your freedom.

    Your welcome America!
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    yesnyea yesnyea 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Had an amazing day! His family is

    so nice. Both our families live in Indiana. They drove me to Oklahoma to see my bf with them! The whopping 15 hour car drive was sooo worth it. He's so perfect! That reuniting hug though. He hugged me so tight(: His whole family cried, I cried, my soldier cried. He looked so...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    Ever feel like you need a message across your

    forehead saying you're taken? Just because my man can't be by my side all the time doesn't mean I'm willing to be unfaithful. The disrespect baffles me.
    airbornelove airbornelove 22-25, F Mar 28

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    people talk about going on dates with there man

    and I am here like I get Skype dates that's about it right now!
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I finally got a call from my boyfriend today.

    Hearing his voice again❤️ how I miss my soldier...... 3 more days!!
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F Aug 25, 2014

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    my boyfriend and I broke up :/ idk how I'm

    going to handle this break up ..
    kimmayyx3 kimmayyx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I fell in love with my high school sweetheart

    over a year ago, we dated for 8 months. He had always dreamed of joining the Army Infantry and I would never get in his way of fulfilling his dream. Our paths separated after 9 months of being together. Shortly after he finished basic we reconnected and are now happier than ever...
    annamarieb1995 annamarieb1995 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    As odd as it may seem to others I'm sure some

    of you may understand. I met my soldier 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend on Facebook. He is currently in Afghanistan and we have never met in person. We have expressed feeling for each other already and he says the sweetest things. He is very honest and genuine. We Skype...
    Camomoma Camomoma 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Hoping September and October FLY BY!

    My boyfriend of almost 4 years has been in Afghanistan since the end of February. Ready to have my best friend back home.
    Rache91 Rache91 22-25, F Sep 2, 2014

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    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Your superhero may wear leggings

    and a cape, my hero wears combat boots and dog tags 😍😘❤
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F Jul 28, 2014

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    I wish he was here to kill this scary spider in

    my house :( ugh lol I miss him so much
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F Sep 2, 2014

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    MoniqueD MoniqueD 22-25, F Sep 4, 2014

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    Today is the 3rd night i can not sleep ,

    my solider left 2 days ago and i cant seem to sleep or stop thinking about him , any tips ? Its hard because i go to school and i need my sleep :(
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    My Final Paper For One Of My Classes Bout Us The Army Gf/fiances And Wives. Tell Me What You Think If I Should Add Anything.

    We have no rank... Most of the time we go unnoticed. Our phones and email become a permenent 5th and 6th limb. We're scared but well never admit it to the outside world. You probably walk pass us and dont even realize it. You have probably seen us with our bloodshot eyes.. from...
    sam1024 sam1024 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    My boyfriend finally will get his phone

    tomorrow. I'm too excited☺️
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F Aug 15, 2014

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    My boyfriend left today to finish his basic

    and AIT. He has 80 days left. We should know where he is being stationed within the next couple weeks. Watching him leave today after our two weeks together for Christmas was harder than when he first left. He is in Fort Leonard Wood, MO. Now were arguing because he worried...
    AnitaLynn AnitaLynn 18-21, F Jan 2

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