I Am An Independent Person

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 361 People

    My Choice To Be Independent

    I have turned into a totally independent person. I push people away from me. I want to do everything myself and not let others into my life even though I need them. I wasnt always independent. I forced myself to be. Now that im married. life is even harder.
    sufferingmypaininsilence sufferingmypaininsilence
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 30, 2015

    From a young age, I had no choice

    but to be. I still fear loneliness and rejection. As far as I've come, that may always be a apart of me, in my make-up somehow.
    breathtakingyou breathtakingyou
    31-35, F
    Jul 9, 2014

    I hate it when girls says I need a guy.

    ..like nooo you don't need a guy you want a guy but you don't need one there's a difference js same goes to guys but I guess that's just me!
    notgranted42 notgranted42
    18-21, F
    Mar 1, 2015

    All That I've Got

    "Were not kicking you out, you just have to move out." my dad said to me one night. I came home and he told me to go into the garage. I was scared i was in trouble, but instead he was telling me how my parents were giving up and letting me go. I moved out the 11th. My...
    BellaVara BellaVara
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2010

    The independent girl!

    I have been independent all my life… I always had to pay my own way never got help financially and i got the least help in almost everything so i had to learn on my own about everything no warning no advice… I guess thats what makes me strong! I think and believe thats why...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    Ici Je Viens Tombe

    I  had to leave the house at fifteen years old i did nothing wrong but  they wanted me to leave anyway because the rooms were big enough for my uncles to stay so they said to me your clothes are out back and i have alot of clothes so i had my boyfriend Arlez(HEs...
    fallingout fallingout
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2010

    Independance

    Tears are best dried by your own hand, for if done by the hand of another, you loose your sense of pride,self-worth, and independence. You must never let the people, who have caused the pain to leak from your eyes, to see it shown.
    xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2013

    Independent

    I like to be independent. I'm not a fan of relying on other people for support but i still give my opinions and thanks towards them if i do. I try my best to be independent so that i don't have to worry about being attached to something. I am all for helping people and guiding...
    Sanctum3 Sanctum3
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 26, 2008

    I'm an independent young lady.

    I don't like to be dominated if anything I'm the dominant one. I was raised to be an independent girl, not to rely on someone not be bossed around or used. Those of you messaging me about that, just know I am not one to talk to you if you want someone to submissive because I am...
    heyitsalysia heyitsalysia
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2014

    I Am

    My dad said once  "she is the only child i have that i know if i don't hear from her she is ok" . I always find a way to come through..Raised by some very wonderful independent women. Had i ever thought of saying "no i can't" or "i am a girl and...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jun 20, 2008

    No Chains On Me

    I knew from a very young age i was independent more then any or the kids i knew cause my mother made it that way for all her kids, even when i was in school taking on new classes i never asked for help in anything i did not even when it came to personal things i was always the...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart
    18-21, T
    Dec 3, 2011

    Independence

    I have learned in my life not to expect anything from others - you are the only person you can control or rely on, therefore don't expect others to keep their promises.  It may sound cynical, but it keeps me from being dissapointed, and when someone does something, it...
    Dragonflower Dragonflower
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2007

    This Is MY Life.

    My whole life, I've grown up around unstable people. Unfortunately, I am the product of lost parents. I wasn't really raised by either of them. Fortunately, I had a stable side of the family to fall back on and got into a good high school where I was surrounded by smart people...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight
    26-30, F
    Jul 17, 2013

    Independant N Proud

    I am an only child, i have a rather unique family. I didn't have many friends when i was at school and so relied on myself. People say i am very in touch with myself. The relationships i have had have never lasted for long, probably because i end up feeling somewhat trapped. I...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2010

    Poetess: My father once told me

    when I was young, "Don't live your life relying on anybody...." I took his advice to heart. I learned how to do things on my own from working on a car, fixing stuff around the house, getting and keeping a job, cooking etc etc.. What he didn't tell me was how amazingly freeing...
    PaintedPoemCpl PaintedPoemCpl
    41-45
    Sep 3, 2014

    My Life

    I'm no loner, but I don't like relying on support from others. I don't really need sympathy. I enjoy the company of friends and family but I don't take handouts. I do things my way without interference and learn from my mistakes. In this way I'm free and independent, one of the...
    Soothsayer8 Soothsayer8
    18-21, M
    Mar 25, 2008
    raajscorts raajscorts
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015
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