I Am An Indian Lesbian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 439 People

    I am part parsi part south indian.

    I am 21 years of age and I live in New Zealand. The girl I love is Sri Lankan. Also 21 years of age. Her name is Sam.Sam has been my best friend for 8 years..We were both very straight.And now we have been together for 1 year and 2 months.So a total of 9 years and 2 months.We...
    samandzeebs samandzeebs
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Jan 25, 2014

    Love. Simple beautiful four letter words.

    Love is the ultimate gift f God creation yet so powerful that once we are into it no one nobody not even our own self can take control of it. Where have u come from. Where will u go??. Why even death people still talk about you. Why u stay eternal as the books say and the mouth...
    kattee12 kattee12
    26-30, F
    Jan 17, 2016

    I go to internet...see

    so many you tuber lesbian couples...living their lives, living their dreams...then, I come back to real world...why is it so hard to meet queer people in India...esp., like minded ppl...every forum is plagued by annoying men making stupid proposals...wish it was simpler, at...
    VashisthaSam VashisthaSam
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2016

    Around three years back i was in love with a

    girl. i was totally crazzzy about her smile. On propose day i had decided to convey my love towards her but i could not as that day only i came to know that she is in relationship with a guy. Its too hard to see your love living with someone else.......:(
    geeLvzu geeLvzu
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    I'm a lesbian Indian woman (from Tamilnadu),

    seeking a woman for friendship and relationship. Those who want friendship, can contact me
    aparnavaalu aparnavaalu
    22-25, F
    18 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Hi, hope you are all well

    and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation with any gay. Due to family and society pressure. I am looking for a decent educated understanding lesbian for MOC, Please...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy
    31-35, M
    Jan 21, 2016

    I Am A Sister To My Indian Lesbians

    When I 'came out' there were many questions about who I was, and who in the past was a lesbian. Now, thanks to the internet and sites like mine stories4hotbloodedlesbians.com lesbians can find out our history. Did you know a U.S President's wife (Eleanora Roosevelt) had a...
    paulakey paulakey
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2013

    I am not define by the dress i wear

    neither i am d - I am not define by the dress i wear neither i am defined by the cell phone in my hands. I am not define by the car i drive. I am still not define by the building my parents called Home. My worth does not lies in the bank account. My beauty does not lies in the...
    kattee12 kattee12
    26-30, F
    Aug 27, 2015

    my first post on this site.

    ..i am a lesbian...last november i joined an online dating site.. i didn't like it..also i am far from home, in a different Indian state..let alone finding a lesbian, i don't understand people way of loving each other here..they will first see if they are from same caste or not...
    brookesly19 brookesly19
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2015


    Hii all ...i thought am the only one lesbian in india:P..lov to see you all here...and happy to knw that others with same feelings s existing ......
    whiterose2756 whiterose2756
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Mar 3, 2013
    zeiro87 zeiro87
    26-30, F
    Mar 23, 2016

    In Search Of Me!

    finally i have come across this site where i can share real me and my life! story of my life..realising in mid of my teens that i am a lesbian and go out for a hunt for girls. good part that i found out about real sexual orientation of mine and bad part that i never got any1 to...
    reet05 reet05
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    I live in the states

    and I have found it very hard to meet lesbians especially from India. Having a friend to relate to, that's what I want. So maybe we can create a group for Indian lesbians in US and can also have some meetup later on.
    Raee123 Raee123
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Happy New Year to all!

    I'm new here, I'm a 23 yr old multi-racial female on a journey to finally explore these beautiful feelings I have for females. I am not yet out to family/friends and I am pretty anxious and pensive about it. One of my fears is losing my family, I am sure they would not be too...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    U wake up every mornin n d first thing is to

    thank Heavenly Father for d gift of life. Trying hard to thank Him deeper within d soul. Then get busy..get dressed up pack everythin dat s needed for a day. U leave home for a while. Waitin for a cab..adjust seat with strangers. The best thing we can share is smile, yes smile...
    kattee12 kattee12
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    I am looking for a non vegetarian lesbian

    even a bisexual girl will also be okay who must not be possessive and stubborn, someone who can live with me and enjoy life to its fullest, someone who is caring loving bold interesting innocent cute calm funny free minded friendly naughty open minded,loves movie and music...
    jd1410 jd1410
    22-25, F
    Feb 7, 2016

    straight acting 26yr old British Indian guy

    from London looking for MOC not necessarily immediately! Looking for a bisexual / lesbian girl who DOES want a family in future! UK/ US based only! Thanks Not on here often so drop me a email jk2.1988@hotmail.com
    Jk1989 Jk1989
    26-30, M
    Dec 6, 2015

    Hey everyone I'm a bisexual girl from Mumbai,

    India. I'm 16 year old. I'm here for friendship/relationship I'm a fun loving girl I haven't came out to my parents just a friend knows about it. Message me if you too are a bisexual/lesbian girl from Mumbai text me we can be friends and maybe more than friends too =) =)
    Ananya982 Ananya982
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2016

    We are a desi couple

    and I am the husband here. Have been here earlier and had some good interaction with people and friends here. Since EP is closing, I would like to connect with desi guys or couples who could freely discuss adult oriented and open minded topics. Connect with me at dpdesi80 at y...
    Desicouplefun Desicouplefun
    46-50, M
    Apr 19, 2016

    I knew i was attracted to girls

    when i was 14. I thought that i was doing something wrong and that i was not normal and just hid my feelings for 4 years. Then i thought dating a guy could probably put an end to this problem. So , i started dating a guy in my college but i felt incomplete . I did not know what...
    Vlakh Vlakh
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    We were madly in love,

    made love almost daily except for our menst days. even then we used to cuddle for hours alltogether. it was a college hostel. i loved her deeply... thn i became distant, i hurt her unknowingly, everytym i was angry on something i showed it on her. well i did not deserve her i...
    swarnalakshmi swarnalakshmi
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    I have never been in a relationship.

    Probably never will be. I am currently heartbroken over a straight girl. My friends are kind, but they still have trouble taking my heartbreak just as seriously as theirs. On most days, I just want to get out of this country.
    saysomethingbeautiful saysomethingbeautiful
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I wanted to wait till I met them in person

    but I realized I couldn't hold it in. Especially when they wanted to get my profile over to a marriage broker. It just sounded so wrong. Once the word is out of the house that I am single and available, people would start nagging me. Every "no" would have to be followed with so...
    appu47 appu47
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    Hi there! I live on the East Coast,

    USA. It is a tad difficult to find Indian lesbians. I would like to have a friend circle of fellow Indian lesbians, honestly, even gays! It could turn out to be a healthy support group for all of us. Plus, you never know, you may find your partner in there! Anyone ?
    crackpot77 crackpot77
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    India's First Ad Featuring A Lesbian Couple Is

    Here & It's Heartwarming! http://www.missmalini.com/?p=400675?utm_source=&utm_medium=&utm_campaign=
    kattee12 kattee12
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    I'm A Teenage Indian Lesbian

    I'm a teenage Indian lesbian. And I don't know any other lesbians. I know they must exist, but I've never met one and it makes me lonely. Because while all the other girls my age are off with their boyfriends or talking about how hot that guy is, I'm not like that. I wish I could...
    whywhywhy16830 whywhywhy16830
    18-21, F
    21 Responses Jan 1, 2013

    Hit Me A Msg If Any One Intersted

    hi, i am femme Indian lesbian, currently residing in uk, looking for someone to talk and wouldn't mind an online relationship, preferably feminine woman :)
    sanya27 sanya27
    26-30, F
    18 Responses Feb 12, 2013
    Saritha69 Saritha69
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2015

    Indian Gf?

      Nice to see a site like this exist! I am a lesbian always have been who lives in the UK. I am not Indian and I am not in the closet. I have always been very attracted by Indian girls despite my longest relationship being with a Irish and English women. Indian lesbian girls are...
    Ace2076 Ace2076
    6 Responses Mar 3, 2013

    I wanted to write this post from last few months

    but couldn't find the right words. I just heard that EP is going to shut down on 21st April. That is my birthday! And this is the surprise I'm getting... I just wanted to share my story with you all. I met a girl through this app about six months ago. We've been going strong...
    taurean0014 taurean0014
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2016

    New Internet Radio Channel For Indian Lesbians

    I am the co-founder of a group for Lesbian and Bisexual women in Bangalore called WHaQ!, and I am also the host for a radio show about Indian lesbian, bi and transwomen called Lavender Life on radiowalla.in. I would love to be connected to all of you, and let you know that you...
    marilavender marilavender
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    hey gals diz is sanjana.

    .i am from hyd..am looking for a sweet cute girl for frndship..no tomboys plz.. note: am not here for sex or hot chat :)
    Sanjana4118 Sanjana4118
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Apr 25, 2014

    Hi, I believe everything comes to those

    who waits, I too believe in the same so I m waiting for some one who is matured enough to understand n handle a relationship, a girl who can b my frend, my partner, the with whom I can b myself. About me, I am independent in all ways,I live my life my way,and so I am ready to...
    Youandi0013 Youandi0013
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    Hi everyone, I'm a lesbian from India.

    . I love girls. I started loving girls from my engineering days. I was in hostel, I had a room mate I love her so much.. She use to have so much fun with me.. Sply on birthdays.. I always shy to tell her..
    saritha9 saritha9
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    I don't know how I ended up opening an a/c on

    EP, I had never come across this website before, to add more, my intention was never to look for a soulmate... I simply joined to get to know ppl.. Specially les, and know abt their experiences.. In the meantime I met this wonderful female, with whom I felt so comfortable...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    So, I came out to some of my friends.

    They're all scared for what the future holds for me and kinda hope and wish I'm a bi or something( I do too) but otherwise they were all cool with it. I don't know how you feel when you're bullied for something like since I think of our generation as fairly open but the other...
    Zafara Zafara
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    I Need A Girl.............

    I realize im a lesbian recently,,,none of my frnds families are aware of this..i searched on net then i come to know that in many countries lesbian relationships are legal and common....but in India its a sin.......i want to love a girl and be loved by her...if any of you is...
    poojapia poojapia
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Oct 20, 2013
    beautifulenigma beautifulenigma
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    Hii.. Im a teen les frm NCR .

    . And a new member on EP . I'm very much attracted towards girl and I'm very curious about my this bisexual nature. any indian girl of any age feel free to contact me 😊
    Itsonlyyouandme Itsonlyyouandme
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    so good to be back...

    .love you all...
    zeiro87 zeiro87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2016

    As many of you have already heard,

    EP is shutting down towards the end of April. If there was a way to reach each and every user of this group, I would have done that.. however, this post seems to be the easiest way. I was able to create a fb secret group, as privacy seems to the most important thing on EP...
    appu47 appu47
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2016
    Idakhan Idakhan
    36-40, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    This is my story, and this is how it goes: I

    fell in love with a girl in my class, I thought she felt the same way, since her actions certainly said so. In the end I gave up on her mixed responses and cold demeanour. I tried finding other girls, I dated a boy, even. I ended up joining this group and EP. There was one...
    vivaciouslyrampant vivaciouslyrampant
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2014

    When The Time I Realize That I Am Lesbian

    start with my first love with my teacher when i studied 9th standard.that is my first love at the age i dont know what was that something make me feel.. I am really happy with she also love me....i identify it with some reaction of her on me,but due to some family presure she get...
    intakasu intakasu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2013

    Are You An Indian Lesbian?

    Are you an Indian lesbian? Want to connect with other Indian girls? Wanna share your experience?
    sri1990 sri1990
    22-25, F
    32 Responses Apr 18, 2012

    I am an honest, nice person

    who craves for an honest girl. I am waiting for someone who can feel things with me. A person who can desire to be with me forever in all good and bad times. A person who can complete me. I am happy with a person to sit for hours looking in her eyes, cuddling and feel things...
    riti2190 riti2190
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    I'm 17, about to give my board exams.

    I told some of my friends the other day. They probably think its a phase but its great to say it out loud. I love to have their support but how many of you feel like IT IS A PHASE. Its India. Still terrified of the future but someone does know the real me.
    Zafara Zafara
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    So this great site is going to close

    which is kinda sad for all of us on here, not that we were dependent on this site or something, but here we found lgbt indians or got the chance to know lesbian bisexuals girls from India, who would have thought this group will get above 400 members ? i just wanna say goodbye to...
    beautifulenigma beautifulenigma
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2016

    U R My True love! I got to know wt really is

    true love! i never thought it would be this amazing to be with u. I treasure every moment that i have spent with you! When i first met u i was like ' oh god, is she really mine?' yesh nw i say u r perfect..meant only for me! my heart beats faster then ever when u hold me, i hold...
    mayasharma mayasharma
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 12, 2014

    I tried to move on But I failed each time.

    ...!!! I have disappointed my friends and well wishers but most Of all I have disappointef myself more than anybody....Whom to blame...Me offcourse!!!
    alexithymia19 alexithymia19
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2016

    I've always known deep down

    that i was attracted to women..i only acknowledged it to myself just a few years ago.my friends in the meantime always suspected i'm gay due to the stereotype associated with girls who play sports.the jokes were as tedious then as they are now. I have had many crushes on movie...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 7, 2015

    i am basically looking

    for 18-28yrs old lesbian/asexual/bisexual/straight girl for short term moc and there are other terms too.things will be planned out properly and there will be confidentiality.i have no problem with your orientation,thinking and background.if you are interested,tell me about...
    imsearching4ud imsearching4ud
    26-30, M
    Dec 5, 2015


    It’s hard enough to be female in India, a country where a woman is raped every hour, a bride is set on fire every six hours in a dowry dispute and 80 percent of illegally aborted foetuses are female, according to government estimates. Add to that a male-dominated society...
    kidos kidos
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 21, 2012

    Ping me. I'm new on this site.

    I'm 18 and have never been in any kind of relationship yet.
    khyati02 khyati02
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2016
    Hotcurvyprincess Hotcurvyprincess
    18-21, F
    Dec 27, 2015

    hello all :), i am 27 year old woman from india,

    currently staying in USA , i want a girl friend , someone who can love me, i am very affectionate n full of life, i will love you forever. I am married to gay , we did it coz of the immense family pressure to get married, he has a boyfriend and he lives his own life a, we both...
    beingmee beingmee
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    Okay, so let me start off by saying

    that my intention is not to hurt anyone but rather to see the facts and present them as they are. Maybe it is the idealist in me, but I need to say it. I see a few MOC proposals here-- very tempting to go ahead and hide right back in closet and put on an elaborate show to fool...
    appu47 appu47
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2015

    It’s rare to meet someone with a mind

    that’s just as beautiful as their heart...Oh yes I know beauty lies in the beholders eyes...!!!
    alexithymia19 alexithymia19
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016
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