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    I Am An INFP

    When I was a child in primary school, the memories I have are of not being able to verbally express myself very well, of having very few friends and spending a great deal of my lunchtimes sitting on a rock under a tree, imagining fairies and watching the birds. This pattern...
    Hollyilex Hollyilex 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Arm'S Length

    This is my first post and as most of you INFPs will be able to relate, it is easier for me to open up to strangers, rather than divulge my inner most feelings, thoughts, or dreams with those that I love and/or love me. I love and care about those around me, I do! But I will...
    Anaidsllim1 Anaidsllim1 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    A Message 4 Infps- My Favourites

    Hi...my dear INFPs This message is just for you.Be happy and proud to be in this circle.You have got the power of vision and idealism.You are infact blessed for what you are.Be confident in yourself.Believe firmly in your principles.Keep up all your talents and nurture it.Then...
    ancy123 ancy123 22-25, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Advantages to being an INFP

    I certainly experience many of the same struggles that you all do as an INFP. Most jobs are laughably unfit for my personality; I'm not much good for anything except lying out in the grass looking at the clouds and thinking deep thoughts, some of which successfully end up on...
    apprivoisee apprivoisee 22-25 7 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Reading About the Infp Personality Changed My Outlook

    It really did. I was always so conflicted inside about myself. My parents pushed me to be on stage a lot as a kid and teenager because I am musically gifted/inclined. They, like most people, assume that if you can sing and play an instrument it must be that it's your passion and...
    PlaiduhPus PlaiduhPus 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15, 2009

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    I am more introvert than extravert (though

    somewhat in the middle), intuitive, feeling and perceiving. This world is not made for Infp's alas. It's the outgoing ones who have the easier time, I'm afraid.
    jerbeth jerbeth 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    "That strange sensation of noticing everything

    and everyone around you and knowing they haven't yet noticed it themselves. It's somehow sad when you see more than others. Its like a glass. You see everything and touch nothing in those moments" This is a very real problem for us INFP's and its largely the reason why we...
    Solivagant13 Solivagant13 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    So I took this personality test

    and discovered I am an INFP. Well now I always felt different and now I kind of feel even more isolated.
    Solivagant13 Solivagant13 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Tired Of Feeling Worthless

    I feel like the things I'm best at are monetarily worthless. Companies want to exploit my knowledge and skills to make themselves money while requiring me to "drink the Kool-Aid" (which I'm never able to do, which gets me fired, if I don't quit first). I've always felt proud of...
    MabMe MabMe 26-30 4 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    The Lonely Dreamer

    I've described myself as a solitary person. But, I find I am a very shy people person. I've never been able to get to places on time, never quite able to get assignments in when they're due, never been able to follow dead-lines at all. (And I apologize, I'm not the best at...
    Hyouneko Hyouneko 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    INFP Bubble

    I feel that being an INFP is like being an alien, no matter how hard you try you feel like a visitor from another world and spend a good deal of your time either trying to acclamate and exist in this strange and hostile environment or trying to figure out why exactly you're here...
    3strikes 3strikes 22-25, F 37 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    Feeler At Heart

    With me the introvert overrides everything so it dominated my personality. that with the never ending thinking about why are we here and who am, always made me feel odd man out or just strange. During my teenage years that led to allot of lonely days and fair amount of...
    ribye ribye 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    I Proud To Be An Infp

    am very recently found myself to be an INFP. Until then i was surprising why i am not fitting into the crowd.Sometimes i even felt that i have some personality disorder and thats why am not like everyone else.i love MBTI because it helped me to realise what i am in the true sense...
    ancy123 ancy123 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Sometimes I Feel Like I'm From Another Planet...

    I never felt like I fit in...even in my own family...I always felt like a misfit, an outsider. When I was younger, eventually, I learned how to "play the game", just to be popular, have friends and a sense of belonging. Deep down inside though, I knew I wasn't being true to...
    autumnbutterfly autumnbutterfly 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    My Dream

    I once had a dream which I think describes me and other infp's and why we don't always (or ever) fit in. In my dream I was with a bunch of people, one of them was my best friend from childhood. Everyone but me was doing some sort of crazy dance and they wanted me to do it too...
    annabelle334 annabelle334 31-35 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Seeking Others' Opinions

    Hey ya'll. I'm an INFP and I totally get the analysis of the our supposed "personality" (aka I was right there with everyone as the feeling of recognition and enlightenment washed over us upon reading the description). What I don't like, though is the lack of advice to overcome...
    mimimozealia mimimozealia 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    INFP and Nature

    -will be reposted-
    InfpGirl711 InfpGirl711 16-17 5 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Part 2: A Rant About Tears

    Now I know I have been living my life in avoidance and it all started when I gained a consciousness. I find avoidance ineffective, but I am too scared to go to a therapist. What if there is no solution? Besides that, where do I start when I am telling a lifetime of everything I...
    averageweasel averageweasel 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    It's Weird

    to see your self laid out there in words... creative, smart, idealist, loner, attracted to sad things, disorganized, avoidant, can be overwhelmed by unpleasant feelings, prone to quitting, prone to feelings of loneliness, ambivalent of the rules, solitary, daydreams about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    Any INFP ever been accused of being self

    centered and had no clue where it came from
    Leebugg Leebugg 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    INFPs exist for a reason.

       We all face many of the same problems, loneliness, sadness, wondering why we exist, but at the same time, we have hope, we are the dreamers of society. I have always loved dreaming, dreaming of perfect worlds without war, dreaming of a world in which I belonged, dreaming of...
    zachary12365 zachary12365 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    I read something about INFP's

    which said we are the rarest personality type, and that we are the most likely to commit suicide... Somehow the last part seemed to make sense; all my life, even as a child, periodically I'd think "meh, I'm tired of life and I don't think I belong." Not even in a horribly...
    ASmallVictory ASmallVictory 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    My First Story

        I dance in between the stereotypes... sing at the birds and smile at people... sit in the window with my guitar and make up my own melodies...and if you ever find somebody walking aimlessly in the park at midnight it would be me- because sometimes i wander in the cold...
    backpackfairy backpackfairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    "An INFP is a butterfly

    that can’t wake up from it's dream of being a caterpillar dreaming of becoming the butterfly."
    Solivagant13 Solivagant13 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 3

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    I Feel A Lot

    I feel a lot. I would say that I have a strong sense of empathy. I can feel people's emotions so much that it sometimes troubles me. It feels like I know who they are and I understand them and I get jealous because I can see them so well yet I feel like nobody sees me. I...
    dorffer dorffer 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    No Stereotype

    i am an INFP. so freaking typical of the traits of an INFP. however i don't think the traits are unique to us. i have met other types who are more sensitive than me. MBTI is a guide. one shouldn't stereotype based on it.
    rio765 rio765 22-25 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Flare: Who Heals The Healers?

    As an introvert, I once sought knowledge of the world. As an intuitive person, I saw what the workings of ignorance did to the best of us. As feelings wash over me like the (in)constant waves, that, As perceiving would have it, I make myself forget as soon as I am dry.  ...
    jsghansen jsghansen 18-21, M 8 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Leebugg Leebugg 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I Long To Be Connected And Engaged, Yet Feel So Isolated Due to Lack Of Support, Appreciation, And Disapproval

    I feel isolated. I have goals, aspirations, values and dreams that other people do not seem to understand. I feel like an outcast whose hopes are disapproved of due to having a lack of responsibility. I feel like people do not think I am worthy or deserving of those things I...
    MercyTherapy MercyTherapy 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Depletion Of Energy

    Sometimes I find it physically and mentally exhausting to be me.  It seems there are too many things going on in my head and so much that I want to accomplish that by mid-evening...I find my mind shutting down before it is necessarily time.  I adore my wife and children...
    evolving2010 evolving2010 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    Best Portrait Of An Infp I Have Found

    The Idealist As an INFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in primarily via your intuition...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I would like to have discussions with other

    INFPs about their personalities and how they see things.
    reelaroundthefountain reelaroundthefountain 22-25, F 9 Responses Feb 4

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    Wonderland?

    I'm not really sure where I have stumbled now. Is this a world full of other INFPs? If so, it's good to find you, however we all got here. It's not always easy to express myself, at least in larger forums like the facebook infp group, where I know many people are not infps and...
    nyenwyn nyenwyn 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    If you want to know how my mind works, read this.

    1) ah, blogthings. but they seem right on this time. see below for link. ***Your Personality is Very Rare (INFP)*** Your personality type is dreamy, romantic, elegant, and expressive. Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 6% of all women and 4% of...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2007

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    Why Can't The World Have More Infp's???

    I am an INFP in college, and definitely feel like an outsider as many other people on this website have said. When it comes to my confidence level, I feel very confident in who I am. I love me, I love the fact that I follow my heart instead of apathetically following logic and...
    infpgirl22 infpgirl22 18-21 4 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Hi just found out I'm a infp,

    is that good bad or ugly? Anyone have any info??
    Sklein1 Sklein1 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Only in my adult years did I report

    as INFP. Previously it was enfp. I definitely feel introverted but I'm not sure the INFP profile always fits me. I read thy INFPs wear rose coloured glasses. Instead, I feel like I see the pain of the world too easily. I overthink things and I'm always grass is greener, thinking...
    fc12 fc12 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Infp Fairy Story

    Before I knew I was an INFP, I had no doubt I was different from most people. I lived much of the time in my imagination for most of my childhood. By the time I was 7, I had an entire fantasy cloud fairy kingdom, which I had to access by a long golden staircase that conveniently...
    heartoflaw heartoflaw 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Proud Infp

    I love being an INFP. I think we're very deep, caring, intense, creative, imaginative and passionate. We love pure and idealistic beauty, we love good kind people, we love animals. And we hate social injustice and dishonesty and inequality. We defend the underdog and fight the...
    andantegmx andantegmx 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I found out that I was an INFP

    when I was going to school my freshman year of highschool to be exact. I didn't think nothing of it because at the time I was going through a lot of things, but it was interesting when I took the test again for fun and it came up again and again. I then decided to look at it...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    "All that is gold does not glitter; not all

    those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost." -- J. R. R. Tolkien INFP personalities are usually perceived as calm, reserved or even shy. However, such an exterior can be deceptive – even though INFPs can be...
    hippygod1 hippygod1 18-21, M Dec 16, 2013

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    I Am New Here...

    I am INFP, and I have decided its time I reach out to my rare, fellow aliens. I have gone through life trying to be consistent with feelings, emotions, not showing my true self (because who I really am is displeasing to our society), and pleasing my parents. I have gone through...
    Prettyeys Prettyeys 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    People Tend To Hate Me At First Glance

    No one ever likes me at first glance. they think I'm 'Weird' and 'Annoying' and 'Nosey' and 'Creepy' and 'Negative'. what do they know? they don't know me. just because I'm creative(!) and quirky(!) and different(!) should not mean they should shun me until someone thoughtful...
    LucyintheSkyyy LucyintheSkyyy 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    Lack Of expression

    The major problem with me is the lack to commune my feelings and thoughts. My disability to show my love and caress. This shell that i have built around me, that keeps me in more than keeping everyone else outside, creates hinderence in building trust. I don't push people away, I...
    Mehraab Mehraab 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I just took the test,

    holy sh*t! stumbling into this well into my 30's and really knowing myself is full of constant aha moments. More than anything it leaves me wishing I was close with other INFP's, when I encounter people who share these traits I immediately become fond of them. I can see why...
    missmoss missmoss 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    It's my personality type.

    We are rare, us INFPs. Any others out there? Be my friend? :)
    marskie05 marskie05 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    New INFP

    I had taken a Quiz and scored as INFP. I'm very shy, often misunderstood, lonely and dependent. At times I feel I'm lost and I need to find my way back to reality. No matter how hard I try and make friends, it seems harder to keep them. People tell me they understand what I'm...
    lilcherry lilcherry 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    INFP

    It describes me pretty well, I think. I was amazed when I first began reading about INFP. I don't think it's perfect or describes everyone who fits INFP perfectly, but I think it fits me pretty well. I've taken the test several times, and every time the result is the same.
    lookwhaticando lookwhaticando 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I have been dating an INFP for 4 months. She says i am the love of her life, soulmate. I agree but two weeks ago she started behaving erratically and stressed. She has a very young...
    bluesky2014 bluesky2014 41-45, M Apr 7

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    I'm a Dreamy Idealist. (MBTI type INFP) introverted, theoretical, emotional, spontaneous, idealistic, dreamy, effusive, pleasant, reserved, friendly, passionate, loyal...
    jqsjournal jqsjournal 26-30, F Mar 29

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    Just discover this amazing website, do anyone want to be friend with me? I am an INFP and Libra
    starlinbear starlinbear 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    INFP Introvert(78%) iNtuitive(12%) Feeling(38%) Perceiving(78%) You have strong preference of Introversion over Extraversion (78%) You have slight preference of Intuition over...
    AlluringRose AlluringRose 16-17 Mar 29

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    I'm an INFP. I've looked up multiple sites and I've gotten results from 1-5% of the world population. Probably explains how I'm nothing like most people I've met. The I is for...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I got: Your Personality Is Very Rare (INFP)- Your personality type is dreamy, romantic, elegant, and expressive. Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 6...
    Tofadeintothenight Tofadeintothenight 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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