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I Am An Only Child And I Dont Have A Mom Or Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4 People

    Life Sucks

    mother was a drug addict, father was a drug addict boyfriend who ran for the hills when she got pregnant with me. i got adopted by my grandmother who had a stroke at 33, so childhood was rough. i constantly was sent to stay between family members, not because i was a bad kid, but...
    xbreathexmusicx xbreathexmusicx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    My Suckass Life

    My mother died when i was 7 in her sleep & my dad didn't want me .
    teetee16 teetee16 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2012

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    I suppose it's ok since I've never known any different. As my parents age, it'd be nice to have a person to share that childhood connection....
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    My dad just started telling me about his College Life and how he used to have really coservative girlfriends. But because they were more into ambition, and my dad supposedly wanted...
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    WTF my family is full of fake and the last family member the last person I honestly cared about and love passed away today :'( what am I going to do now I'm seriously alone now...
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    As I always try to say they stopped at perfection. Always gets some good laughs from my parents when I mention that. I admit though having a sister would of been pretty nice at...
    laurenstone97 laurenstone97 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel really guilty saying this, but I hate my mum. She had me when she was really young and I find her to be immature and a bit of a burden
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    melonladyy melonladyy 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    Had it for the longest time immature boys don't turn me on. I like attention and being taken care of by an older man.
    musicloverxx musicloverxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    reezaheartdogs reezaheartdogs 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Jessiesgirl98 Jessiesgirl98 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    illlivehappily illlivehappily 13-15, F Jul 22

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    nobodyhastoknow nobodyhastoknow 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    My dad is a dead beat. He always has been and I think he always will. When I was younger I only saw my dad about once or twice a year. Now its less than that. I havent seen him in...
    yoloforsho yoloforsho 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    mad1051 mad1051 16-17, F a week ago

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    inwarddispositions inwarddispositions 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    gaha26 gaha26 18-21, F Aug 3

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    MbVG MbVG 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Most people say the youngest child has it the easiest. there is that nasty little rumour about how the youngest child of a family is constantly pampered and coddled. But if you...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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